RHP

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September 18 2018

Yes this topic has probably been covered, but I just can’t understand why you wouldn’t have a photo on your profile? Doesn’t have to be your face or bare chest. Just something to catch our eyes or give an indication of what you’re about. A scenic photo or even a meme if approved. I have deliberately mentioned in my profile that if you have no photo I won’t respond. My date finder has received over 25 interested men. Almost half have no photos, which makes it easy I guess ❌ So what do you think of profiles with no photos? If you have no photos, why? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    😆 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    And when it's some guy, who's a guest member, ..and they send you a flirt..!! Dont get me started lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • mango69er

    mango69er

    6 years ago

    Lot of reasons why. Some cause they are cheating on a partner. Some for other reasons. Was thinking of taking our photos off on another site. As spotted someone i know at work on there. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Newbies, lurkers or stalkers. Only the first one can be forgiven.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    @ Nightingale- lol I know right 🤣 but with catfishes it is still kind of a blind date lol @ Copulator2 - too late, I started lol but yes exactly! Nothing filled in on their profile, no validation or friends, or interests. Then they post whinging about no activity or interest 🙄 @ mango69er - good point, but it’s easy to have a photo without face showing. I only show mine in PA if I’m interested to meet. A nice suit photo or sexy back or something! @ XH - true that! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I find it quite annoying. If I have bothered to post a photo — Show something or even allow me to see your Pg first. But maybe he thinks he can catch my eye with his personality... but attraction is key and sadly we judge with our eyes first then personality. I have had some one message me we got along so well ... until he finally decided to show me the photos and unfortunately I wasn’t attracted to him at all. So I had to tell him , I’m sorry ... but I wish I had of known sooner. Otherwise I wouldn’t have wasted your time. Some things can’t be helped I guess. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    "..or give an indication of what you’re about. A scenic photo or even a meme if approved."This is the tack I take here. I think all mine show me smiling too...because I'll look like a murderer, otherwise. And no-one wants that.Except my current, which reflected melancholy winter, taken about 2 months ago. Only once have I seen a profile of someone I recognise from work. Which is a little surprising considering how small Perth is. But I never said hello, and neither did they. Nor has anyone from work ever mentioned they've seen me here, and I've never hidden my face in 5 years. I guess they don't care if they have.But, I'm not about to change my main pic to one of my dick either.It's not my best feature, anyway.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    6 years ago

    No pic No words No effort = No interest If someone isn’t even prepared to put a little bit of effort in to ultimately benefit themselves.... then they’re hardly going to put any effort towards anyone else - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    @ I_Crave_You - nooo 🤦🏻‍♀️ Ive had that happen too. Yep, get it out of the way early. Such a shame when that happens and then I feel bad @ Koolgrey - good on you! One of the very rare few. You’ve obviously got nothing to hide, you’re comfortable with yourself and confident. @ Mischievouslad - nailed it! That’s a very good point. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It's interesting. I am fairly new on here and kind of feel a bit like an animal that's been in a cage being released into the wild. I'm taking a few cautious steps and gradually becoming more and more active. I considered not having a picture, as was said above I was worried a colleague might see, but you are absolutely right, no profile picture just screams no effort, so went with the half-way house option of blacking out my face. I can consider faces for private messages. As for others, I totally want to see some kind of picture, or at the very least a 'restricted' picture to know someone is serious. If you have no picture and no profile, what's the point of even being here, except to perv on others? I do enjoy going to nude beaches and you see people (and for people, read men) who are there just for a perv. Generic baseball cap, darksunglasses, wandering aimlessly up down. It's the real life equivalent of no profile picture. No effort and just makes the place seedy for people who genuinely want to enjoy it.

  • steveandhisgirl

    steveandhisgirl

    6 years ago

    I treat them as a fake - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Is only better when partnered with a profile that hasn’t been filled out and is full of “ask me’s” - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I've been on for two weeks and only had private photos. I already had well over 100 messages with no pic up. Last night I added a pic, and it's now like being a noob again - Posted from rhpmobile

  • More_to_Me

    More_to_Me

    6 years ago

    I know others will say that’s the way it is, but I have clear photos and thought out profile and as a guy doesn’t make much of a difference. I think people should go to some effort but you can see why they don’t, it’s going to be hard slog no matter what unless you have a 6 pack. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • usrightnow_Again

    usrightnow_Again

    6 years ago

    For those actively looking, no, makes no sense not to have one at least. We eventually had the full 50 in each of our three galleries, (that's 50in Public, and 50 in each of the Private ones). We regularly rotated them, once having a different main profile pic every day for a month. There were photos of both of us, dressed, undressed, and some fun ones. We had a lot of them stolen (one of the reasons we left 2017) and subsequently watermarked them all, just prior to leaving, worth thinking about. That's one reason we don't have any now, the other is that we aren't currently looking. And yes, we too are sceptical when profiles have no pics, Ask Me for most questions, and the old anyone 18-99. If privacy is the excuse, no one will recognise one arse from another, and without one when looking, you probably are one. Mr. urn. .

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    6 years ago

    Photos are a must but just boobs, butts, pussies or dicks mean nothing. Sure those can be fun to see but facial pics are a must before we will meet anyone. A really annoying thing is when people make the initial contact via message or flirt but don't share a facial photo. If you make first contact you should supply face pics.