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Photos of Mr and Mrs on couple profiles

January 29 2017

Hey all, Something that is a bit troublesome being a couple seeking other couples is the lack of photos of both genders on a couples profile. I mean the first bite is with the eye right? So often the case is that there's only photos of the female half of the couple, it's not really enough to decide if you want to go further and potentially leads to the awkwardness of initially saying yes then backing out. It's kind of hard enough because four people's individual preferences and tastes need to be covered so it's hard to give a yes when you don't even know if there's a mutual attraction between all parties because you haven't seen all the people potentially involved. Why don't people include photos of both of them at least in their PG so potential playmates can give a more informed yes or no, really feel it would lead to less awkwardness and people backing out. And on that note, verification, why don't people do this? Thanks for reading

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

In our private galleries. Verification is easy. It should be made compulsory. - Posted from rhpmobile

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suncstcpl1

8 years ago

We use to have just a photo of my beautiful wife as a profile pic and had pics of both of us in a open gallery. But recently we had the same thought as yourself and decided to put up a profile pic that showed us both off, so people know what to expect when the see us straight up.

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AnnieWhichway

8 years ago

Advertise with your best. Usually means the one not shown is below par. Body wise or face wise or heavens forbid.....Both. Well his wife loves him at least........We hope. It shits me too OP.

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RHP User

8 years ago

A guy asked a very similar question to this recently and it was along the same lines, even to the point of making the pics seductive. We like to see both people in a couples profile as the dynamics are so much more difficult. I was not keen on my pic being on our public profile not because I didn't want it there and I am not unattractive but thought it wasn't that good. But recently have gone against that view and put it up, end result has been more interest, more from the fact that others can see what is on offer. Ours are mostly recent within the last 3 months, hopefully soon we have a few more with better bodies hahhaha

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RHP User

8 years ago

Well, there's more of the female in our galleries, but mainly because I (the male half) take more pics of my beautiful girl and enjoy showing her off. But we put some of me in too :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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Mischeviouslad

8 years ago

"Bait" It's sad when a profile hides 50%. But then, if that's how they operate.... then it gives you a few clues as to how RHEY likely operate. - Posted from rhpmobile

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Mischeviouslad

8 years ago

"THEY" operate - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

We had both covered and then wifey got all shy, to be honest sign of her being less interested - Posted from rhpmobile

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social_suicide

8 years ago

Quite often you will find that the "couple" who have a million photos of the female in the public gallery and none of the male are "single" males. You will hear excuses that the male half is shy or finds it an invasion of his privacy to have photos of him in the public gallery ( even if its just body shots ). Its amazing how many times the "Mr" has a wildly good body but no photos of the whole "Mr" in the private gallery. We ignore all profiles where the "Mr" only features in one or two private gallery photos and there are no photos of his head attached to his body ( screams fake) and never respond to "couples" who don't have a single photo of the male in the public gallery. We cant be bothered with the grind of asking over and over again......" do you have any photos of the Mr without sunglasses, hats, scarves etc" Being the male half I know its important to be open about my looks because all 4 need to have an attraction so I'm happy to be out there. Replying to couples that have very few photos of the Mr isn't an issue as no reply is needed.

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johnisfun3

8 years ago

Agree with some of the comments above. In my case I realised since I am the one holding the camera there are hardly any nice ones of me. My camera is not very kind when taking selfies.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Our public photos are mostly of Mrs D but I am in the private galleries - face, body, appendage etc. as well as shots together. We had a body shot of us together in the public gallery but deleted it as it was getting old, probably should take another one. Having said that, having a profile that works for how you like to play is more important than conforming to what others want to see. Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

couldn't have said it better myself, nailed it, all of those things, singles or couples, are quite often a factor in me not replying, ghosting. I simply can't be bothered when the signs are there they're faking it to make it The classics like sunglasses or chopped off head shots, following amazing body vision, but none of the body and face together, absolute classic lol then usually closely followed by the sunglasses or even better, one picture, right at the end, always the last picture which reveals a big double chin or hairy gut haha which isn't supposed to be noticed I notice more than they realise

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RHP User

8 years ago

sorry, the most important one is no pictures of the couple together, or none that look genuine. If I was part of a couple, and advertising us as a couple, I'd (we would) have heaps of the two of us together, obviously some separate, but the package deal includes both people. Sorry to any people who have commented here about the reasons they have one partner only displayed in public, my response to that is sure fire sign the other partner isn't very attractive. Everyone can have body shots, no face required in public

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RHP User

8 years ago

of course agree plenty of couples profiles are single men, so the blank partner is either not very attractive or doesn't exist. If I ever read in a profile "just ask for pictures, happy to show....." that would be a no reply, I just can't be bothered, plenty of fish in the ocean who aren't 'shy'

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RHP User

8 years ago

I personally don't feel I have a great body to show. My wife is gorgeous and I love her very much, but she is the better looking half of us. But I do have a hell of a personality. Not easy to take a picture of personality. Q: Why don't we have more pics of me? A: Embarrassment I guess. Yes ladies, men get just as self conscious about their image too. We want to look our best to attract. I haven't got the short term answer, but have a look at our profile in a couple of months. I plan on tearing this body of mine a new one, and getting myself fit. Then the photos might flow.

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RHP User

8 years ago

For us, our public pics are of me (mrs) as we are after couples or single men mostly as mr is up for joining in with mrs only and not playing with other ladies. We have mentioned that in our bio, but also figured if we kept his pics private it would help to not mislead any other couples or ladies that might be looking for more? Of course we have pics of mr and us together in our PG :)

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RHP User

8 years ago

I'm a straight woman who likes to play with couples. I need to feel attracted to both of them as I like couple play for for the lovely intimacy without the complication and for the unique experiences that FMF/FFM provide. I've met about a hundred couples. I've learned that 9/10 times when there are only photos of her and they don't share photos of the guy before you meet, the guy is not attractive. I don't mean vs conventionally good looking as I don't go for that - I mean they aren't usually anywhere near as attractive as she is. If she's a 7 he's a 3. She's usually well presented and looks after herself. He doesn't seem to make an effort. They must think she's the bait and that people are so keen to play with the wife they don't care what husband looks like. Attractive is subjective. I have played with lots of not conventionally good-looking couples - I've found they are usually more fun and uninhibited than the beautiful ones. I do take issue with being misled. It's annoying and wastes everyone's time. I also suspect a few of them have been cheating married guys posing as a couple with their play partners. Sometimes they are single guys using stolen photos. A few have told me its for privacy - not sure why that means they can't post or share non-face shots. I don't proceed to meeting anymore unless they share photos of both of them. A lot less time wasted.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Hi guys and girls, I feel really passionate about this. I really hope I ( Mrs D) don't come across the wrong way, maybe I don't understand how this all works???? We are a couple, looking for other couples. Not Mr D looking for other ladies. I am part of this couple and I need to see both partners in a couple for things to keep moving along. Connection is really importantant for us. Pics are required before connection gets a chance. (Not just dick pics) We are not super models and do not expect anyone to be. We do look after ourselves, exercise regularly, eat clean, live active positive lives, adventure sports (sounding great... Eh? Wait for it .... and drink, party and f..., oops can't say that. Lol) Back to the serious question, and ladies (in couples and ladies looking for couples) who have profiles where the public gallery only has pictures of you....is it important to you what both members of a couple look like? Sorry but this really bothers me. I'm not after " notches on the bedhead" as they say.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Due to our employment, we've not put face pics on our public profile. There are some in our private galleries, but they're only accessed once we're both comfortable with the couple that we're engaging with.

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