MsJonesy

MsJonesy

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Pics and videos

February 12 2015

I've often wondered how many folk like to take pics or videos of their escapades with others.... and how they obtain permission to do so. I was reading a profile the other day which said....We never post anything online … if we ever did it, faces and distinguishing features would be obscured. I don't find that reassuring - you can't say never then clarify that with a if we do we will edit you out. It is either one or the other, and whatever is agreed prior or during the meet must be honored. I have only allowed a very select few to take pics when playing (never videos) and they must use my camera or phone so I get to choose the shots (and edit them to remove identifying features) and who gets them as I am the one who would forward them via text/app/email etc . Yes I have a very cautious approach to my personal security and release of my pics and information; am I the only one? When I think of the scenario I have quoted above, I don't think I am being too cautious. So, do you like having pics or videos taken whilst playing? How do you control the release of the images? Do you care if they are placed on the www for all and sundry to see?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think there's more than a few photos and maybe videos of me around. Only with couples though. I've found it very common for the male of the couple to step away just to take pics/videos of me (or more) with his partner/wife. I've never been completely sure why. Maybe that's a new topic. Anyway, it doesn't quite turn me on (though a well placed mirror can be nice). And you never know just whose hands or porn folder it will end up in. If the wrong people knew, I'd no longer be prime minist.....err nobody .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I struggle with having any pic taken..I have a friend who obsessively posts on Facebook..recently a work colleague who is a FB friend of hers,asked me if I had enjoyed my friends party...yep unbeknownst to me,she had posted a pic on FB...grrr...so It's a definite no.no,no from me xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have, when a female friend allowed me to take some "finale" photos so I could have something to return to a couple I am planning to meet, who have been sending me such photos. Theirs are unedited (face included) while I took only body photos of what we all refer to as "artwork".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just enjoy the moment. It's like people at a tourist attraction more focussed on taking pictures or video than actually soaking in the atmosphere. Just use your 6 senses and reminisce later with your memories.

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    10 years ago

    For our own private collection only. Ahh memories... good times, good times... hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'CucknShells' to take photos and videos when I see someone. I like to share them with my partner. He really enjoys it and it is a way I share the experience with him. I also like to share photos/ videos with special friends. I do like to have control as in I only use my camera. Like KissK I edit them first before sharing.Any nudes I have I never include my face. In the end of the day once I send them I have no control over them. Their phone could get stolen or computer hacked. So I only send photos/ videos that if they did happen to go viral I would accept that. I would hope that no one would recognise me. I always ask my friends if they are happy having photos/ videos taken. I also ask them to look at them and any they don't like I delete. They are aware that my husband likes to view them. I also tell them that I won't share them with anyone else other than my partner. Which I don't. Shells.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    but I take the video and I edit it. Only for my eyes :) Not all are willing and thats fine. But I always ask first. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    that I have been very cautious about this I have heaps of pics and vids. Here and on fet. I find most guys will ask to use my camera to take them which is kinda sweet and shows they get it. But I have had men take pics and vids on their phones to and they have always shared them with me and asked permission prior to posting. Similarly I always ask permission before posting any pics that include a male. I am fully identifiable in most of my pics and vids, I think I am a cyber exhibitionist 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I use my own camera and phone, mostly just my phone now as its a lot easier and I can keep up to date with my pictures on here. No horrible surprise for some poor bugga if I do decide to meet. but i am not meeting , its just fun for me to take some pictures and of course a little flash time on the web cam. but i am sure that people after a while would be bored shitless by my picture and I am so not letting a guy hold the camera over my old bum as his cock is going in and out. of my pussy( not my bum its out of bounds) I would think he would have to pluck out his eyes rather than re live the horror. thats why I do not want my 20 min of fame, and cannot marry a prince as they would dig into my wicked life and go owwwwwww myyyyyyyyyyyyy goddddddddddddddd. She is not the soccer mum I thought she was.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Love naughty photo shoots but only suggestive posing, have never done any playing. Have only done it twice, but its a huge turn on.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    who knows what is floating around out there of me. I never really think to take them to be honest but I am often asked so I take pics of myself to send and they are often the ones taking them during. I never seem to get them sent to me afterward even though they say they will!

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    10 years ago

    Only with couples we really trust. I can't imagine allowing a couple or individual we didn't know to take pics of us. We like to have some control. I am not naive enough to believe that our profile pics...even the locked ones...are completely private, but at least in them it is just us. To have pics with another couple is even more risky. That said, we do have some and have taken some pics with others. They have been people we have known for a while and trust to keep them private. Still no guarantee I know. They are really sexy pictures though, so maybe that is worth the risk? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • WhispersAndMoans

    WhispersAndMoans

    10 years ago

    It can be a great addition to a play date or even a reason to meet some sexy people. We've have some great times socially with couples we have met through a shared interest in naughty photography. We're pretty sensitive about what we do and who has photos of us and show the same sensitivity towards those who may be at the other end of the camera. It's all fun and there is a risk with everything we do on this site. In the end everyone has a different way of dealing with it and concern about what level of exposure it brings. You just have to make a decision on where you sit and make it clear before the action starts. Anyone good at taking video? We haven't really explored that yet.....

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    From a gangbang that was organised by one of my beautiful female playmates. When you're in that moment being overwhelmed by sensation, you can sort of 'miss' things. Hubby was present at the GB and his account made it even more exciting. I'm glad I have some photos for myself. I love them, very sexy and I think I look good ;) I have given permission to one couple to take photos, I trust them to do the right thing, they haven't let me down. Mary xx

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    10 years ago

    We never allow anyone to take photos of us whilst playing. It's just too risky, even if one trusts them at that point in time, one never knows what may happen months or years down the line. All our photos were taken by us, using our phone or camera. That way we remain in control at all times. We would never take a photo, or publish a photo of someone else, without their prior permission. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love taking pics and having them taken, in the right light of course, we are our biggest critics so I always edit n proof what's published or shared if any, Treeman likes to keep pics in the vault and has a huge collection, we have shared with our playmate, but only those taken in utmost taste... Pun intended :-P Would never abuse someone's trust and publish without permission or knowledge, and would most definitely allow them to proof first, expecting the same courtesy in return :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't let photos of me be taken in general. I have had a couple of pics in which I can be identified be taken over the years. Never had a video taken. I have worked in jobs over the years where it would not be view favourably and quite frankly it is also my choice not to. Good luck to those that do, I just choose not to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love taking photos of erotica, mostly it is for my art, sometimes it is on request, and sometimes its part of the play. I am clear about how the images will be used and always ask what limits there are on the images and I never break that agreement, ever. Not everyone is comfortable in front of the lens so I never pressure anyone. This is for fun, nothing more. If you allow someone to take picture you must trust them. If you do not want them to publish or distribute the images and you do not know and trust them then say no. Do not allow them to leave the camera out, as cameras can be set to record and take photos without displaying any indication that they are on. Even DSLR cameras that have a mechanical shutter should not be trusted as that shutter can be opened and remain open and thus take photos without making any sound. Also be aware that many cameras now have a wifi built in and can transfer images via the mobile or local area network as soon as the photo is taken. You may ask to check photos or allow them to take photos as long as you can grab the photos off the memory card and then delete them, this is not safe as the photos could already be uploaded to their cloud storage , home computer, or anywhere. If you have any doubt about trust say no and make them put the lens cap on and then put the camera away. Never allow them to leave the camera or phone out so that it can take photos. Be aware that many phones (used to take photos) and some cameras have GPS built in. The location data is automatically stored with the images as meta data. Most sites remove this information when you upload the image but sites like RHP will not clean the image if the image is below a default image size (around 600 pixels height or width). If you have added your name and address to your phone or camera's registry that data is also saved with each image. About 2 years ago I found around 12 members (members that requested me to look and members I knew personally) that had GPS data stored with their RHP public photos. I informed all these people of that fact and told them how to remove that data. So please be aware that you photos can have the GPS coordinates of where you live and/or your full name and address available for anyone to read. Also if you have set your phone/camera/computer to upload to social media sites remember to deactivate that when taking explicit photos, also when uploading to your computer remember that is you have it set to upload to the cloud or social media sites turn it off. I was with a person and we took a pile of photos. Then transferred them to their Mac, half an hour later the photos were automatically uploaded to face book, not something you would want family and friends to see and a major panic session for my friend.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'LifeUnscripted' Only with couples we really trust. I can't imagine allowing a couple or individual we didn't know to take pics of us. We like to have some control. I am not naive enough to believe that our profile pics...even the locked ones...are completely private, but at least in them it is just us. To have pics with another couple is even more risky. That said, we do have some and have taken some pics with others. They have been people we have known for a while and trust to keep them private. Still no guarantee I know. They are really sexy pictures though, so maybe that is worth the risk? - Posted from rhpmobile they are not private and people take a shot of the computer with their iphone once you open your pg. I have known a couple where someone did that and sent pictures to the woman's mother at her place of work. They printed them off. I get worried about that a lot, but what can we do, this whole life style has its risks. when I did photo shoots of couples I just told them to get a chip for my camera, i would shoot away then hand them the chip, or i would put it right on their computer. Same for singles etc, I would take pictures of men wanking , couples fucking you name it. But I never ever kept a single image at all. I am glad of that because someone broke into my studio and stole my lap top. lets just all hope that in this great sexual adventure, the chickens do not come home to roost

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Jumping on Fetlife to have a look now......😈

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    10 years ago

    i have been asked but would not consent to such as I feel it is an invasion of my privacy. what i do with someone in the privacy of my own home or hotel is my own business and him. I am quite retiscent to have any sexual pics of myself out there that could compromise my corporate career and standing in the community, specially with my kids. just prefer to be discreet . Self preservation. I feel that a lot of people have been complacent with their views on cyber security. But that is their choice and mine is to be more guarded as I am in the industry. I just want to enjoy the moment with whomever I am. As somebody mentioned earlier, I prefer to be in the moment than be the tourist and miss out. That's just my opinion. To each their own.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    I asked a tech savie guy to try to find me once or anything about me on the Internet. Interestingly he said he found very little. Just my facebook. He had my full name and my email address. And I often test my pics and search for them as I have had them used in the past without my permission by my not so friendly stalker to create fake profiles.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    a simple way to remove the exif data is to first save the image as a bitmap (*.bmp) and then resave it a a .jpg, this removes all the unwanted data from the image. Then resize or crop or whatever and upload :).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Congrats on making K&P, MissB. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    Really simpleneeds? Gees I better go and have a look then. a big thanks to you helping make it possible 😊

  • WhispersAndMoans

    WhispersAndMoans

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' Really simpleneeds? Gees I better go and have a look then. a big thanks to you helping make it possible 😊 A simple way to do it in bulk is to use Fastsone photo resizer - do all of them at once if you want and it is a free download.