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Pity Sex
May 16 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Unfortunately,yes xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
We can be silly sometimes...... Unfortunately pity sex is usually followed by phone calls, questions, begging.......... Yep, doesn't usually end up well.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
A long time ago and never again, just like pity meets. It only sets that person up for further disappointment. ~ 👎 Indy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have and felt like shit afterwards. I hope nobody has had pity sex with me! haha
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
Ohh pity sex isn't so bad. depends on how grateful the person your taking pity on is to certain degree ...you know it is what it is.... probably don't worry about it if your only going to have a half hearted go at it though, otherwise you will both walk away very un satisfied . Tam
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RHP User
11 years ago
Shit, how the hell am I supposed to get and to give some good oral and have good snog, if ladies stop giving 'Pity Sex'... ???? Don;'t stuff it for all us 'Pity Worthy' folk..... Pleeeeaaaaaaase
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1' We can be silly sometimes...... Unfortunately pity sex is usually followed by phone calls, questions, begging.......... Yep, doesn't usually end up well. Awww mamma.... I promise no phone calls or begging... (I just do the begging beforehand)
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
You get excited to meet a RHP date, but then once in person realise 'not an ideal fit'. But she still wants it bad.. Be a good boy, give her a good shag, and then let her down gently.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes, and you are thinking I would not even let my best mate go here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
SEx heals the soul. Well temporarily, a physical shag can get one's issues out of their system.But seriously it can be quite therapeutic.
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RHP User
11 years ago
hahahaha nitetime...i her if they want it, and you don't really want them... they give you head or hand jobs ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't believe what I'm reading.
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RHP User
11 years ago
would you want a pity shag? I would rather be told no thanks than have someone screw me because they felt sorry for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' would you want a pity shag? I would rather be told no thanks than have someone screw me because they felt sorry for me. Ditto.
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Twisted_Mister
11 years ago
As full on, five alarm toe-curling sex, or the slow building, really intense sex. And I think both parties know it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
11 years ago
I hope no one has pity fucked me. Like ralf I would rather be told it's a no. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Dragonfyre2010' SEx heals the soul. Well temporarily, a physical shag can get one's issues out of their system.But seriously it can be quite therapeutic. Fyrie one I too hate the term pity sex...just as pity sex turns me off too.Physically sex, safe sex that is, is good for us so if it's "just sex" then at least it's better than nothing. I finally lost interest in the sympathy fucks when Mrs D would have a few drinks before coming to my bed to perform her spousal "duty". After a few drinks to get "in the mood" she would give me a damn good servicing...sadly I knew it wasn't the real Mrs D fucking me...the night she fell out of bed pissed was really a sad turning point. I had to tell her alcohol was becoming a turn off
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RHP User
11 years ago
There should be more of it.Now, would all the more sympathetic and charitable girls please put your hands up.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
can make one feel like total crap after wards. At the time it's all great and all, but it's the days that follow....then there's the conversation and feeling afterwards I don't like, it's out side my comfort zone. Talk about a little awkward if not into that person and it was just a shag cause you felt empathy for them or it was just a root out of compassion or obligation. It would make me feel empty and a little ashamed to be honest and devalued too. I've done it to my husband when married....years later, I still feel shameful and a little embarrassed for what I did to him. Personally now-a-days, I'd rather be said NO as well and deal with the rejection feelings myself, than go through all that crap - AGAIN! And to know how the other person feels as well afterwards, does not make me feel good. I reckon at one stage or other "most" people have had a pity shag given/or they have given to someone, married, single or what ever. Some will admit others will not. Foxy
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Seachange
11 years ago
But I have given in to it once (just recently) and just felt bad about it as totally unsatisfying and I did it out of self-interest as well. I suppose I drank more than I should and I normally dont drink that much. I just wanted him to please me and get it over and done with and get some sleep. I just dont like that empty feeling that I have used him. So never again. Not good for my soul. I like the idea of both parties mutually benefiting from a meet or liaison. Pity sex is not a good starting point. I usually go to bed with someone I am connected with intellectually, mentally and physically. And emotional connection of course. Otherwise a big NO for me. A bit of a pull of the heartstrings (using seductive words and gestures) is not bad as it leaves a good quiver in my whole body and and warm fuzzy feeling in my heart. That is for me called connection. A romatic fool I am. Even if for the short time. Lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have thought...Geez. pity I had that sex:-) :-) :-) xxQ
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
I get it all the time... :) people feel sorry for me... I do the "puss in boots" (you know from shrek) eyes and I'm in!! Or mostly anyway. If the person knows me they tend to just tell me to stop it and go and harass someone else!!! Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'RunAwayJoinCircz' Hey pity Sex is my bread and butter, don't knock it heheh! But seriously compassion-sex can be really good, it's nice to express compassion in a physical way, and there's something genuinely hot about crying during sex :P Does that help? Shit ,pity sex is the only kind of sex an old girl like me ever gets. Don't knock it till you try it. They tend to just look at a spot on the wall or the ceiling while I mount up and go for it. they will say thing like are you there yet? How long will you be? they say things in the heat of the moment, like I really like you and you a nice woman. And for god sake can you hurry up please? they make sure that no body ever sees them enter your house or leave and they avert their eyes if they see you in public. I prefer to call it a charity root, you give to the needy LadyT starting her own charity, roots and shoots for the elderly
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RHP User
11 years ago
Every man on the planet knows when a woman is giving them pity sex, and its not often they stop and look down and say, your not into this are you? the cock does not understand the meaning of pity when its needy and once it gets ball deep into a woman it don't care anymore. and guys I am not saying every man is like that, but how many married people give it up for a bit of peace? And some bloody sleep I know I do
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