Play Meets Only

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  DynamicCouple36

  6 years ago

  And that is they don’t want to socialise, nor chit chat , nor message. They just want to jump straight in and have sex. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  You got it, its about meeting up for sex and sex only. Nothing wrong with that if that's your thing and for some, it is No definitely not on my profile, not my thing, but I'm kinda off meeting people at the mo after a ordinary experience

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  FeistyFatty

  6 years ago

  And absolutely nothing wrong with it or the people that enjoy these encounters. I have enjoyed many, "knock on my door and fuck" meets and so has my hubby. Amazing how many of these kind of meets go on to become regular fuck buddies. Whilst I am now enjoying a long term lover, I have gone off the play meet only encounters.... but I certainly dont think I'll stay away forever ..... Gotta love a Ninja Fuck😈👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I invited a guy over for a meet, it was just a chat and we had a good convo. I offered him tea or coffee plus some scones I’d just made, I found it pretty amusing and I was half covered in flour. After the meet he decided he just couldn’t go through with the things he had previously discussed now that we’d sat down. He ended up joining my husband and I, a few weeks later, for a three way. He became totally awkward after he blew. The bit that wasn’t sex was just not his forté. Moral of the story is, sometimes it’s easier to have sex than to converse and not everyone will want a backstory to the face. Not my style but I didn’t find it offensive or that off-putting, just quirky. L_D x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  They could be time poor and want to focus on the sexualities, interpret according to your cynicism. Of course they may well want to fuck you and fuck you off.

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  horneycouplewa

  6 years ago

  I take it as not wanting to do the coffee or dinner meet first and then arrange another meeting if all goes well. Many of us are time poor and find this very time consuming and sometimes a waste of time. We are certainly not put off by it as we have it sussed out beforehand regardless nobody can force you to do anything you don't want. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  It's not that there's no dinner/drinks and/or conversation neccesarily, it's just that you don't want the socialising aspects of the encounter to be the entire encounter. I have conventional friendships I can do that with, and I barely have time for those either. I don't consider play meets only to be the same as casual/spontaneous encounters at all, but they do have the purpose defined. It's a good thing, as I'd be really disappointed if I spent a lot of time with someone who wasn't after the same thing. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  There was a time that hook ups, FB, play meets, NSA, FWB, dating, relationships all had a clear definition. Maybe it’s just me being behind the times or naive, but it seems they all mean the same things these days. We live in a easy come easy go society, where it’s just easier and way too many options to take the time to explore deeper. Dating and relationships have become negative, because people are afraid of positive feelings and it’s much easier to just fuck n run. No investment required be it time or money or emotions. So to answer your question, a play meet is just like a NSA fuck buddy . - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Mmmm play meets bore me .. fuck n run 🏃🏻 bore me , I prefer the art of conversation and getting to know someone first ... call me old fashioned but I'm ok 🙂 with it at this time in my life ..

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  DonnaBrett

  6 years ago

  If that's what someone wants that's fine but personally we can't guarantee someone they will get sex sight unseen. If we meet someone and they're nothing like their photos or are just plain weirdos LOL then sex won't be on and because we don't want to waste anyone's time (we hate people doing that to us) then it's best we avoid those situations. That being said though...we are more than willing to play on a first meeting if the stars align personality wise. We see no point putting off until tomorrow what everyone present wants today!

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  mensbits

  6 years ago

  Lots of good opinions I like lionsdoll's thinking and the edges between the definitions are blurred. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  horneycouplewa

  6 years ago

  Perhaps people who have this on their profiles could answer. Even they may have different opinions. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  When i say "not for us" i mean that even tho we have yet to take part in any kind of sexual activity with any other couples or single lady, we would not want the encounters to be "Fuck Sessions" only, no knock on the door, hit the sack, blow everywhere, get dressed, out the door stuff, we would rather meet first and get to know the other persons, see if compatible, then work it out from there, if all goes well we would like it to be a mutual regular get together. Going to a local swingers group social night (meet & greet) on Sept 21st at one of the small boutique wine bars in town to meet with as many people as we can just to get a feel for things before we attend one of their house parties.

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  thevarmints

  6 years ago

  We interpret 'play meets only' as just that / we enjoy meeting for drinks & dinner etc but our motivation is play / like other members have said, we barely have time to enjoy our vertical friends so we are not seeking 'social' occasions / we have struck some couples that seem to be more interested in 🙄the talking about sex than the doing ...it makes sense to us that we specify 'play meets' eg not looking for dinner dates & BBQs OR therapy sessions for those that wish to just talk about the lifestyle 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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