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Players
April 26 2014
Comments
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RHP User
11 years ago
Received a phone call from a friend last week asking for my help, she wanted me to help a friend of hers (male) get even with a classic player. Turns out her friend (well will call him Sucker for brevity) was on a vanilla site and contacted a rather gorgeous lady a couple of years younger than him, she is in her early 30's. After initial contact was made and a couple of emails exchanged, the first date was organised! But the woman set a criteria for the first date. She insisted that the date be at a decent restaurant, no introductory coffee date first, it was dinner or nothing else. So Sucker, booked a table and sure enough the woman turned up for the date. From what Sucker related to my friend, the date went well, the woman seemed very good at small talk etc, Sucker had very high hopes by the time desert came around. Then the woman dropped the bombshell! She told him that there was no 'spark' and in fact she wasn't attracted to him from the start. Her little scheme is to get free dinners, she averages about 4 a week, all with different men, and openly bragged that she has saved heaps on food. She knows she is a (vanilla) unicorn, someone who will reply to anyone who contacts her. She gets a free dinner, knowing full well nothing will happen (poor Sucker never even got a kiss goodnight). And unfortunately she has a steady stream of unknowing targets to pick from. My friends little plan is to get as many of her male friends to contact this woman and organise a date, then stand her up. Alas I couldn't participate simply because the woman contacted me last year and I rejected her, I actually thought she was a pro or at least a scammer (why else would a very attractive 30 something be interested in me when I live 3 hours away - I am not that stupid). That, boys and girls is a player, and apparently quite a successful one! Mooka
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, just had to laugh a little, the way you wrote that, clearly you have a sense of humour, andan awesome personality. A Player: Someone who is not genuine or honest in their intentions, in so far as they have led you to believe. Synonyms: Cad, Arsehat. Status: Not endangered. Range: Adapted to all types of environment, particular abundant where there are bright flashy baubles, mind altering substances and areas where their prey is in abundance. M.O: Will say and do whatever it takes to achieve the goal, and do it convincingly. Can't often be recognised until it morphs into its more usual form which will be given away by its actions after the event. Better luck next time Pandora, I'm guessing you wont be the last to fall victim to this type of predator. Cheers N
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is someone who charms the pants off you...then leaves :-) xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Players only love you when they're playing. Then leave, as Q said.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Players to my mind are people who are dishonest and treat their partners as 'conquests' when the partner clearly wants something more than just being that; they're romantic and charming when they want in your pants, but one they have you they inevitably focus on the next conquest. I've seen an acquaintance do this with a couple of ladies I know (both of whom seem to have absolutely no idea what's going on even though everybody else can see it plain as day) and to be honest I'm on the verge of slapping him upside the head and telling him to appreciate what he's got.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
A person who is good at manipulating others, and seducing people by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex.......
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RHP User
11 years ago
for your responses. That is what I wanted to know as it does get confusing.Some people brag about being a player ie seeing a lot of people. But for me it is being dishonest I think that makes a true player. Not being clear about their intentions or status for that matter. Using lies to meet their own needs. I must say that though the only thing he didn't lie about was his sexual prowess. So it was not a complete loss. I think he was also playing Elvis Presley's song - You're the devil in disguise. Be it a he not a she. Got to love those classics. Box
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'feloniousfossil1' Sorry, just had to laugh a little, the way you wrote that, clearly you have a sense of humour, andan awesome personality. A Player: Someone who is not genuine or honest in their intentions, in so far as they have led you to believe. Synonyms: Cad, Arsehat. Status: Not endangered. Range: Adapted to all types of environment, particular abundant where there are bright flashy baubles, mind altering substances and areas where their prey is in abundance. M.O: Will say and do whatever it takes to achieve the goal, and do it convincingly. Can't often be recognised until it morphs into its more usual form which will be given away by its actions after the event. Better luck next time Pandora, I'm guessing you wont be the last to fall victim to this type of predator. Cheers N I brought a smile to your face. Sometimes you have to laugh to stop yourself from crying. I can smile about it now and see the funny side.I just accept it for what it was and I have no desire to seek revenge at all.I don't see the point of that. Box
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RHP User
11 years ago
An example ... Received a phone call from a friend last week asking for my help, she wanted me to help a friend of hers (male) get even with a classic player. Turns out her friend (well will call him Sucker for brevity) was on a vanilla site and contacted a rather gorgeous lady a couple of years younger than him, she is in her early 30's. After initial contact was made and a couple of emails exchanged, the first date was organised! But the woman set a criteria for the first date. She insisted that the date be at a decent restaurant, no introductory coffee date first, it was dinner or nothing else. So Sucker, booked a table and sure enough the woman turned up for the date. From what Sucker related to my friend, the date went well, the woman seemed very good at small talk etc, Sucker had very high hopes by the time desert came around. Then the woman dropped the bombshell! She told him that there was no 'spark' and in fact she wasn't attracted to him from the start. Her little scheme is to get free dinners, she averages about 4 a week, all with different men, and openly bragged that she has saved heaps on food. She knows she is a (vanilla) unicorn, someone who will reply to anyone who contacts her. She gets a free dinner, knowing full well nothing will happen (poor Sucker never even got a kiss goodnight). And unfortunately she has a steady stream of unknowing targets to pick from. My friends little plan is to get as many of her male friends to contact this woman and organise a date, then stand her up. Alas I couldn't participate simply because the woman contacted me last year and I rejected her, I actually thought she was a pro or at least a scammer (why else would a very attractive 30 something be interested in me when I live 3 hours away - I am not that stupid). That, boys and girls is a player, and apparently quite a successful one! Mooka Here is an example of not a player but an outright parasite. Because she has a vagina and no doubt good looks she suckered a hapless soul to "dine on his dime" as the Americans would say then afterwards throw the guy under a bus. Again as I have said in another post there is a cohort of entitled women in a race to the bottom. Possibly unless the said woman and similar change their ways (probably not) then Schadenfreude will no doubt visit her when her shelf life fades faster than the speed of light and she wakes up with a WTF moment in her meager 1 room dwelling alone with her cats, wine and a cupboard full of dildos. Before the latte' and chardonnay sipping women start to cane me, men can be horrible to, however it is often women (and men) who are saying that women should/are held to a higher standard. Back to my mineral water whilst I watch with studied amusement the gender war rage on from the sideline. Who is John Galt?
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are quite a few terms now. (thanks to Jersey Shore) haha. Player: is someone who uses someone else's feelings to get what they want. e.g. a guy might know a girl likes her - so he will use that to his advantage in order to get laid. Creeper: Someone who relentlessly comes onto every attractive girl he sees. e.g. that creepy guy on the dance floor - whom you see trying to dance with every girl on the df.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Players are fundamentally insecure, and require external validation through the manipulation of others. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
'am I not surprised that John Galt is a character from a 1950s novel.?.. :-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Met a girl once who was actually quite proud to be dating a married "player" as she described him...even went on an overseas trip with him. Mind you,the same woman would let guys chat her up just to get asked out on a date,I'm assuming to get her ego stroked, she had a boyfriend at the time and would knock them back once she got asked.She also did speed dating,said she was interested in all the male participants just so she could see how many were interested in her! I think the married guy and her deserved each other,mind you,even he dumped her....and she was quite attractive...... And a player in my books...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hadn't looked at it that way before. I think you are right even though they may come across as confident and self assured. Even dominant. Plus they need a bloody good memory or a good filing system at least. mmmmm Thinking there may be a market for a"players" app just to keep a track of things. Box
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madotara69
11 years ago
met a player once, he ended up playing with himself, guess that makes him a playful wanker. Prize grabbers comes to mind, wanting a mans wife all too himself, all he had too do was share. Oh and not try and run the show Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'John_Galt' An example ... Received a phone call from a friend last week asking for my help, she wanted me to help a friend of hers (male) get even with a classic player. Turns out her friend (well will call him Sucker for brevity) was on a vanilla site and contacted a rather gorgeous lady a couple of years younger than him, she is in her early 30's. After initial contact was made and a couple of emails exchanged, the first date was organised! But the woman set a criteria for the first date. She insisted that the date be at a decent restaurant, no introductory coffee date first, it was dinner or nothing else. So Sucker, booked a table and sure enough the woman turned up for the date. From what Sucker related to my friend, the date went well, the woman seemed very good at small talk etc, Sucker had very high hopes by the time desert came around. Then the woman dropped the bombshell! She told him that there was no 'spark' and in fact she wasn't attracted to him from the start. Her little scheme is to get free dinners, she averages about 4 a week, all with different men, and openly bragged that she has saved heaps on food. She knows she is a (vanilla) unicorn, someone who will reply to anyone who contacts her. She gets a free dinner, knowing full well nothing will happen (poor Sucker never even got a kiss goodnight). And unfortunately she has a steady stream of unknowing targets to pick from. My friends little plan is to get as many of her male friends to contact this woman and organise a date, then stand her up. Alas I couldn't participate simply because the woman contacted me last year and I rejected her, I actually thought she was a pro or at least a scammer (why else would a very attractive 30 something be interested in me when I live 3 hours away - I am not that stupid). That, boys and girls is a player, and apparently quite a successful one! Mooka Here is an example of not a player but an outright parasite. Because she has a vagina and no doubt good looks she suckered a hapless soul to "dine on his dime" as the Americans would say then afterwards throw the guy under a bus. Again as I have said in another post there is a cohort of entitled women in a race to the bottom. Possibly unless the said woman and similar change their ways (probably not) then Schadenfreude will no doubt visit her when her shelf life fades faster than the speed of light and she wakes up with a WTF moment in her meager 1 room dwelling alone with her cats, wine and a cupboard full of dildos. Before the latte' and chardonnay sipping women start to cane me, men can be horrible to, however it is often women (and men) who are saying that women should/are held to a higher standard. Back to my mineral water whilst I watch with studied amusement the gender war rage on from the sideline. Who is John Galt? I took a sack full of cats to the cat haventipped my cheap wine down the sink and am crying in my socks and fluffy slippers as for dildos, well don't like plastic fantastic cause they cant take out the bloody bin my room is so small I have to step outside to change my mind as to the topic, players are people that use the vulnerable in us all to amuse themselves or to gain something they are really not entitled to if they were honest. There are predators and then there is prey, there is a violin and then there is the fiddler do not let your head be deceived by your hearts need, but then don't let the arseholes ruin your view of every one.
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Missb4u
11 years ago
is someone that will say and do just about anything to get what they want from you...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Every person on here is a player !! Every person is playing there own game for there own reasons for there own outcome !!!! If you wanna play its your job to work out whos who whats what !! And wether you want to win lose or cruse !!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry i know!! fark mi liffe - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was that the same woman you met in the coffee shop....the speed dating Queen?:-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
What's with all the aggression!? A player is a fine example of humankind's singleminded determination to achieve a desired outcome. Einstein was a numbers player. Henry Ford was a factory player. Blame yourselves for being such easy prey. You want to dreamily laugh and talk and be moved and feel "SPARK!TM" and see something interesting and emotional and easy and fun in someone else! And you get that. Then you crack it that the guy you got it from gives it to many more women than just you. You want to feel special? You are! You and many like you. Don't cry about it, you got what you wanted. Really, you could consider yourselves players too, using your vaginas (and penises) as carrots to sexually blackmail good looking, charming and witty men into making you feel like you matter. Feel sorry for these poor bastards, they are products of their environment, neglected, peer pressured and alone. We're warriors without wars, in an egalitarian society where women can now acceptably behave as men. We strive for glory, and prowess, some method or action with which we can feel some sense of achievement in an increasingly meaningless existence. Yes, we still conquer you. Now we can do it in volume. Feministic Liberation in its infancy is leaving chicks with a confusing mix of information, the idealistic concept of being an individual of equal rights and standing clashing with an innate, deeply physiological and psychological feminine essence, placing women in sexual limbo, whereas men are exactly where they've been the whole time. You cannot blame a guy for learning how to best appeal to the collective feminine psyche in a state of flux in order to assuage sexual desire, personal justification and validation, and the deeply disturbing sense of utter isolation. A whole generation of men raised by single women. Who would have thought efficiently mirroring women and identifying what they want would be an undesirable side effect? From all the comments above, I would say I think the reason people are angry or frustrated or disappointed at being played is because they expected so much more from someone who could charm the pants off them quickly and passionately (an underlying dynamic at play in this is women's desire to be seduced properly by someone who can see them clearly, differently, and this evokes an overwhelmingly passionate response). Its YOUR expectations which are not met. You didn't get YOUR way, and they did. Grow up. Suck it up. Don't create an attachment where there is none or shouldn't be one. Enjoy yourselves! Don't read so damned much into it. You choose everything in your lives to a very large extent, especially, ESPECIALLY, how you think about X. Just fucking chill! And kiddies, please bear in mind, a player fucks a lot, and part of giving a woman what she wants, apart from what goes in her ears, is knowing how to use the bits she puts in other holes. If you manage to be lucky enough to pick up a player, enjoy it! He worked hard to figure out where all your parts and pieces are and what they do when. Don't be be so damned clingy! There's enough of us to share!!! Lastly, don't listen to me. I'm not a doctor. RA
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RHP User
11 years ago
The one and only...She asked what I did for a living and dropped a name I didn't know...went on to tell me about her trip to Vegas with this dude...said she lost contact with him...she moved on to speed dating after that..it was an interesting 40 minute conversation for this little fellow!
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
You have posted a couple times now about this woman (here and in another forum). What did she really do that upset you?? And why do you speak in such a negative tone about her...it was just a 40min conversation. I sense there is more to it than what you are saying.. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
You sure got your monies worth....all that for four bucks.....RA....great to see you back....lovely erudite justification for the callous blow and go:-) :-) xxQ
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' You have posted a couple times now about this woman (here and in another forum). What did she really do that upset you?? And why do you speak in such a negative tone about her...it was just a 40min conversation. I sense there is more to it than what you are saying.. Foxy Ive got youuuuuuu.... underrrrr my skin.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Met a really nice guy ( or so i thought ) txting back an fourth Met up and he decided to be fuck buddies or an open relationship as he put it I thought yeah ok y not we got along fine i think Txting every day thought it was going all good telling me he wanrted me and everything else Then a few weeks later after not hearing frm him for three days tells me he's seeing someone I had the feeling that he only wanted me to get what he really wanted which after telling me everything well wat i thought was going well and he didnt want a relationship to that point anyway Turned out to me he lied just to get someone else. What you all think could i have some feed back on this if you dont mind I think i got played big time xx Thanx xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bigocean72... Some of us play our game by being upfront and honest in our intentions and desires... But you can play it your way... Pandora, I'm sorry that you got hurt xo Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am sorry to read that. It not nice to care for someone and then to feel like you have been used. There are plenty of truly nice guys out there. I wish you all the best. Box.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '2twins2please' Met a really nice guy ( or so i thought ) txting back an fourth Met up and he decided to be fuck buddies or an open relationship as he put it I thought yeah ok y not we got along fine i think Txting every day thought it was going all good telling me he wanrted me and everything else Then a few weeks later after not hearing frm him for three days tells me he's seeing someone I had the feeling that he only wanted me to get what he really wanted which after telling me everything well wat i thought was going well and he didnt want a relationship to that point anyway Turned out to me he lied just to get someone else. What you all think could i have some feed back on this if you dont mind I think i got played big time xx Thanx xxx Maybe if you used some punctuation? I may be drunk but I know how to place a full stop. I wouldn't want a ltr with someone who can't use a full stop. Seriously I am so drunk right now and I still can make sense with words. He obviously played you hardcore simply because you can't use your face or your vagina properly. So drunk right now. RA
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I'm sorry that happened to you...sucks sometimes! I have been in the same scenario.. How I see it... He didn't give you a choice in the matter - by telling you what he wanted and what he decided; to be fuck buddies or an open relationship, was saying it was all about HIM. And of course going along with what THEY want at that time, is really lowing our standards. That's what I did...because I was not in a healthy good place at that time to even understand what was going on. I have learnt tho from that same situation, is to listen to what they are really saying..he said he wanted just to be fuck buddies or open relationship...it does not mean a committed relationship, he was free to meet others. Sadly, in your case he met someone else, which he could do. Sorry again it happened to you. This is why I say meeting players and those who play can be a good thing as it teaches us very valuable lessons in the whole dating game. Sometimes we have to make bad choices to make the right ones in the future for when this happens again. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Hey, think you are on the wrong forum here. The spelling Nazi Forum is a few forums over... that way ---------------> or is it <--------------- that way?? Foxy
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madotara69
11 years ago
RA has passed out. Again
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RHP User
11 years ago
Assumptions will get you no where you should know that by now to assume ! Is to make an ass of u and me !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'RandomAgent' What's with all the aggression!? A player is a fine example of humankind's singleminded determination to achieve a desired outcome. Einstein was a numbers player. Henry Ford was a factory player. Blame yourselves for being such easy prey. You want to dreamily laugh and talk and be moved and feel "SPARK!TM" and see something interesting and emotional and easy and fun in someone else! And you get that. Then you crack it that the guy you got it from gives it to many more women than just you. You want to feel special? You are! You and many like you. Don't cry about it, you got what you wanted. Really, you could consider yourselves players too, using your vaginas (and penises) as carrots to sexually blackmail good looking, charming and witty men into making you feel like you matter. Feel sorry for these poor bastards, they are products of their environment, neglected, peer pressured and alone. We're warriors without wars, in an egalitarian society where women can now acceptably behave as men. We strive for glory, and prowess, some method or action with which we can feel some sense of achievement in an increasingly meaningless existence. Yes, we still conquer you. Now we can do it in volume. Feministic Liberation in its infancy is leaving chicks with a confusing mix of information, the idealistic concept of being an individual of equal rights and standing clashing with an innate, deeply physiological and psychological feminine essence, placing women in sexual limbo, whereas men are exactly where they've been the whole time. You cannot blame a guy for learning how to best appeal to the collective feminine psyche in a state of flux in order to assuage sexual desire, personal justification and validation, and the deeply disturbing sense of utter isolation. A whole generation of men raised by single women. Who would have thought efficiently mirroring women and identifying what they want would be an undesirable side effect? From all the comments above, I would say I think the reason people are angry or frustrated or disappointed at being played is because they expected so much more from someone who could charm the pants off them quickly and passionately (an underlying dynamic at play in this is women's desire to be seduced properly by someone who can see them clearly, differently, and this evokes an overwhelmingly passionate response). Its YOUR expectations which are not met. You didn't get YOUR way, and they did. Grow up. Suck it up. Don't create an attachment where there is none or shouldn't be one. Enjoy yourselves! Don't read so damned much into it. You choose everything in your lives to a very large extent, especially, ESPECIALLY, how you think about X. Just fucking chill! And kiddies, please bear in mind, a player fucks a lot, and part of giving a woman what she wants, apart from what goes in her ears, is knowing how to use the bits she puts in other holes. If you manage to be lucky enough to pick up a player, enjoy it! He worked hard to figure out where all your parts and pieces are and what they do when. Don't be be so damned clingy! There's enough of us to share!!! Lastly, don't listen to me. I'm not a doctor. RA i think i have just learnt something quite valuable....thank you
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Hey, think you are on the wrong forum here. The spelling Nazi Forum is a few forums over... that way ---------------> or is it <--------------- that way?? Foxy Its grammar, not spelling. Punk. Chew. Ay. Shun. RA
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RHP User
11 years ago
Has a point. But the smart players are not on rhp. They don't need to be here at all. Charismatic people attract like moths to a flame. Only the lonely get played. Do not let your heart or emotions be used like a golf ball. I agree with RA. but then he list his balls, when he posted drunk to swipe at a woman that was clearly hurt by being played. It can hurt and people even give over money to these con men/women. It's more than just getting into people's pants. Player want more, they want apiece of a person. They take a bit. To fill in a hollow spot in themselves. Watch a player get played. They cry like a baby. When it's there turn to fell the sting.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with most of what you have said. However I think there are many men and women on here that are true players. They can reinvent themselves over and over again. Spinning a web of lies about their lives to evoke sympathy from people in the hope of getting what they want. I don't think you have to be lonely to be played. Just trusting and expect people to treat you with the same respect and dignity that you treat them. Look at the end of the day, for me, we both got what we wanted and no real harm was done. It was what it was. It was just a wake up call. Just because a man tells you he is single and that he has had a hard life and yes he does practice safe sex doesn't mean that he is in fact telling you the truth. Box.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Want a beer, we can go over what you got up too last night.
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precious142
11 years ago
Let a fool kiss you BUT don't let a kiss fool you
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Lady T I helped put someone who took a piece of me in prison. Someday I'd like to put him in a box....without the pruuuurty ribbon.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think a player is just a glorified liar!!! If someone feels they need to lie to get something they want then there either A: not comfortable in their own skin or B: just don't have any courtesy for another human beings feelings! That's my observation of a player anyway. Sorry if that offends anyone..... Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Let the games begin!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Kaboom indeed xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
One thing that has always intrigued me about players (either the male or female variety) is how do they succeed so damn often. And since I know a few I asked. They (both male and female) basically said the same thing: they know what they want, they know the words to say to get what they want and they know the actions to perform to get what they want. For example, everyone likes to receive a compliment or two, especially if you are the type not to get too many. A player knows how and when to give said compliments. Another thing that intrigues me is why do so many smart and intelligent people allow themselves to be played? Everyone here has stated they know what a player is, and how they operate - so why do players evidently succeed so damn well? Could it be that we, as mere mortals, don't see the obvious signs of a player because we are that caught up in the moment we DON'T want to see those signs, we become blind to the obvious? For the player it is all about the conquest, once that has been achieved all enjoyment evaporates until they can pick their next target. Mooka
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RHP User
11 years ago
I once was the potential victim of a player some years ago in NZ. She invited me to a party at her place (I had had previous intimate experiences with her). I turned up only to find that she had hedged her bets with three of us in the same boat. She seemed to be playing one against the other (bitch). Long story short I fucked her climbed out of bed told her she was the worst fuck I'd ever had and left. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think they succeed because we compare people to ourselves. We think that basically people are honest and ethical.We give them the benefit of the doubt until we are proved otherwise. For me it has been hard to get my head around it.I have never met anyone like that before. I must live a sheltered life I think or have been very lucky. However I am not going to change the way I am because of it.I still want to trust people. I don't want to judge other people from one bad experience. Box.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanx for ya feed back on my post guys Helped a bit thanx again
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ah player does not take ah persons feelings into account .
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
You know the old saying " If it's sounds to good to be true it probably isn't ?" Me personally, I wouldn't worry to much about getting played for a dinner or similar, assuming I got some stimulating conversation in return ? After all, it's been stated on here in the forums, and in profiles a thousand times " if you expect sex or anything, in return for a dinner, or outing, or a meet....get a hooker. I think what it all comes down to is expectations ! more often or not they are different ? so maybe some people should lower theirs, or even set some guidelines before the meet ? My idea of a Player would be someone who plays you on a emotional level, Tricking you into falling in love with them, because they can, or people that prey on the weak or venerable ! I like to play with nice people, not game players, and make the appropriate allowances for that. XX Tam
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you knew someone was a player would you expose them? Would you give potential conquests the heads up? Or would you leave it and move on? As they say there are three sides to every story. Box.
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
Well Pandora I would probably only expose someone as a player, if they were trying to extort money, or trying to wreck a relationship, or some other sinister plan ! And yes there are three sides to every story and sometimes " Sweet dreams are made of these" Love and peace Tam
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think we need to get the perspective of where you find the players. RHP well if your on here , you are putting yourself out there to be played. Players know your seeking something. Your seeking a connection with another person, if that means more than a fuck or a one night stand then your vulnerable. Someone like me would be no fun to play , its get your pants off get in my bed and go. They do not have to play the game, and people like to play the game. Its a challenge for a man to get that woman in bed, and to then suck in her heart her emotions and sometimes her bank balance. The fun is in the hunt. As one guy said he got played and his revenge was the revenge fuck, where he thought he was getting pay back from the woman. I wish I had a dollar for every woman that said to me, he used me, he did not come back to my bed he played me.its a crock of shit. You open your legs, your a grown up person , you let a men inside of you cause you want to feel good, and more important you want to feel special. Nothing wrong with that, but all you need is to get a pair of reality glasses on and then fuck em. Men are the most at risk, god knows how may bullshit sob stories they get told so they either give up some cash( and yes laddies and gents some of the women of this site have taken money of guys. for things like airfare to go to a meet and greet. shoes, hotel rooms, dinners, clothes, those sexy little bits of lace. Men's hip pocket take a hammering on RHP and a woman's self worth can take a hit as well. If you do not want to be played then you have to set some very strict rules for your self first, then others. Being naïve and sweet is silly this is not a place to be like that, you have to wise up. The internet is full of people wanting something from you, players scam you Its also amazing how most players happen to be rather good looking...ugly fuckers cant even get laid let alone play someone. Unless your a woman of course ......then you get away with bloody murder on RHP any guys hit a working girl yet? the one that's says, I hope your generous Mooka is right, players are smart and know what to do, but then they play the people with blinkers on. As for trust its pretty bloody obvious that most the men on here are married and having a bit on the side. Any smart woman can figure out the married ones in a heart beat. People just choose not to see what they do not want to see. and for the safe sex stuff, what a person says means jack shit, its what they do, as in put that sucker on that counts. LadyT to sharp for her own good
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RHP User
11 years ago
we mistake the man or woman who has charmed us and does not want a return visit,for a player....that just ain't necessarily so.....I think it's an important distinction to make..a player is obviously playing a game and it's all about winning...they could care less for your feelings,and will lie to get what they want xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' we mistake the man or woman who has charmed us and does not want a return visit,for a player....that just ain't necessarily so.....I think it's an important distinction to make..a player is obviously playing a game and it's all about winning...they could care less for your feelings,and will lie to get what they want xx Q but the people that up and go and do not return are often called a player. In truth men have as much right to say no to a second visit as women do. But they are thought of as bastards , but its their own fault for the bullshit that comes out of their mouth. Be honest guys do not crap on about how you want to see a woman again, when you clearly do not or you want to just put her on the back burner in case your dead drunk on a Friday night, you cant get a shag and you think ohh yea that one might let me stick me willy in her at three in the morning. so yes you have a point lovely woman, and I am looking at hotels as we speak but bloody Jetstar again has changed my flight, no shit four flights with them four change of flight details as each time the flight I booked got cancelled....shit I need to go to the vent post. LadyT skulking off
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' Another thing that intrigues me is why do so many smart and intelligent people allow themselves to be played? Smart chicks have more levers to pull Flyingkiwi, being petty is worse than being a playa. RA
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'flyingkiwi44' I once was the potential victim of a player some years ago in NZ. She invited me to a party at her place (I had had previous intimate experiences with her). I turned up only to find that she had hedged her bets with three of us in the same boat. She seemed to be playing one against the other (bitch). Long story short I fucked her climbed out of bed told her she was the worst fuck I'd ever had and left. - Posted from rhpmobile Foxy
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