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January 29 2016

Hello Forumites There seems to be an ongoing fascination with dogging topics in this site. Im very open/broadminded, and happy to apply the each to their own" tag to pretty much every activity thats legal, and a number of activities which aren't.... ..but I'm putting my hand to state that I don't see what the lure or fascination of this actually is.I'll go one step further and offer the reasons why I don't 'get it'... in the hope that others will share their reasons why they like this and seek to pursue it. Call it education. To me, the idea of going to the premeditated effort of heading to a particular spot, to wait, in speculation that something might happen.... seems a bit odd. And even if someone does turn up and engages in public sex where onlookers can observe, and you step from the shadows to watch.....then what? Do you just entertain yourself, or are you there hoping to become involved. I would have thought going to a couples club would be a more fulfilling version of the same thing... but maybe Im wrong there. So... opening up the forum floor to read what it is about this pursuit that you find appealing. Go. DG

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RHP User

9 years ago

Looking for popcorn right now! While I wait in the bushes that is! LG

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RHP User

9 years ago

Can't see myself hiding in bushes or participating in a group wank , but then again , if that's their kink and the're not hurting anyone , do whatever makes you happy.

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RHP User

9 years ago

you could've just sent Chev a message lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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AnnieWhichway

9 years ago

Many years ago, witnessed guys dogging on their beat. In other words, gay and bi guys going to a park and trawling for action. They get a bite, off to the bushes. More often than not, followed by other guys and quite often an orgy of guy on guy action. At times quite spectacular if into male on male. Which a lot of women in here are. And those guys of course. Just as good as the porn movie version So it is a genuine "sport". Good for both participants and voyeurs. Maybe you and Stirry should call by......

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RHP User

9 years ago

Don't understand voyeurism,anonymous sex,risky behaviour,then you can't possibly understand why people are interested in dogging xxFreya

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RHP User

9 years ago

Firstly, dogging doesn't necessarily mean you have an audience, it can just be meeting the person, very quickly engage, and just as quickly being taken over the branch of a tree or bonnet of a car lol Freya is right though, you need to understand how people, me included, with fast and random sex. I don't however like dogging in it's truest form, meaning this - dogging in my mind, and I don't care how it is defined, from my experience, is mostly about pleasure for men. Very few women would be satisfied with A. no oral for you (usually the case) B. 3 minutes of sucking off a guy and having him bang you, seeya later, thank you very much. Being watched however is a big kink and I love it, so can understand why dogging with prearranged location and people there to watch, would be popular. It's not a lot different to having sex at the nude beach, it's hot having people watch. I do meet guys for immediate sex, absolutely, but different to dogging, usually semi-secluded so people might see but not advertised, not really a fan of random and potentially creepy people watching me have sex. Only once did I engage in a dogging encounter, the guy I had been with before and it was in a very public location. But because it had to be fast, I dropped to my knees (which I quite enjoy lol), did a job on him, he face fucked me, then he took me over the branch of a tree. And yup, we got caught oops that however was the last such encounter, I came away feeling ripped off, all about his pleasure, so although I continued with meet for sex encounters, outdoors most of the time, there was enough privacy for there to be something in it for me. So proper dogging is not for me, but not judging people who like it 😁👍

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RHP User

9 years ago

Sorry, forgot to say that I would prefer sex outdoors than in a bedroom. The rush is amazing, adds to the encounter (also the warmth in summer, love that), for me at least. Swingers clubs are very different for me. I need to have some control or knowledge of who I might be mixing with, the age thing and all that. I'm gaggin to go to swingers events, when they start cougar/cub events, i'll be there 👍

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DynamicCouple36

9 years ago

We have talked to others about it, and what it involves and have decided that its not something that we would engage in. It's bad enough, fending off single males, in a controlled environment of a swingers club, just imagine what it could be like in a deserted parking lot? In a dark deserted parking lot/beach/public park (or any other dogging spot) one has very little control as to what happens and in this regard anything can go wrong. Imagine that a group of drunk or drugged up, highly horny & frustrated males arrives, forces open the car door or worse? Would one have the power to stop this? Then who knows where they have been - clean hands - not washed ... just too many what ifs. Not worth the risk for us. No thanks

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