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Point scoring (or ... what we admire in others).
November 03 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
I look for equals... :) FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am looking for: "Your personality is more important than a number or what you look like, ideally you would be intelligent, independent, funny and generally and all round good person." - This is my turn on.I am a firm believer that whilst I may rank higher than someone in one field of expertise, they will out weigh me in another... no one human being is truly better than any one else as we all have our strengths and weaknesses and in the greater scheme of things we are all equals. (just my opinion)SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
before I get into your pants.There absolutely, positively *has* to be a mental connection before it goes any further.So, intellect, a good - make that great - sense of humour (bonus points if you laugh at *my* jokes), self-respect, and that undefinable quality that just makes our two minds go "click!"Oh, and no ring on the finger Cheers!JAB
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RHP User
11 years ago
To hold a real conversation, to be able to laugh with us and at us, as well as themselves. To enjoy things big and small and not need to show off with either possessions or credit ratings.Just feeling comfortable in their own style/ persona will keep us curious and in touch.. S& S
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RHP User
11 years ago
As I was discussing this very similar point with a friend not too long ago. While we were both in agreeable that she should be female, and with a heart beat, it's not the only thing I want to enjoy. What I wish to enjoy is someone that can be not only themselves around me and bring issues to the fore, but someone that can relax, fart, and throw popcorn at me to annoy the absolute bejesus out of me as well. Essentially, someone that is just them, someone that accepts my warts, and I can accept theirs. Someone, that is truly my equal, nothing more and certainly nothing less.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Those that get on with life, as apposed, to those that feel there owed a life.
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
Beautiful topic...... I love to talk, laugh, be silly, adventurous, be spontaneous & of course to have fun.... I look for a beautiful mind, with intelligence and the ability to talk about anything, not just sex and how they have been with so many people and they have done everything and more - that bores me.. Give me someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously - but are passionate about their life and their abilities whether this is work sport family. I am not into hard work people, give me simple, easy to talk too people, and who are of course honest. A connection with someone is so important - with a beautiful smile and who can make me laugh and keep me smiling all day xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
excited about life. Silly, left field and doesn't sweat the small stuff. Someone who grabs my hand in excitement and says ... 'Let's try this!' Someone who shows a little bit of fear in their eyes when I grab their hand and say 'Let's try this!'...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love people who are passionate and excited about life. Who do whatever it is they do with conviction. I like people who think outside the box and thinkers in general. Left of centre. People with compassion score huge points as do those who have generous souls (not financially but who give generously of themselves.) I can't stand mean spiritedness or hard heartedness. Confidence scores big points but not without passion and generosity. Mmm, muscles too! Nice muscles score points here, I'm very shallow at heart😄
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RHP User
11 years ago
Someone that can stand their ground in front of me, and not feel intimadated by a hard conversation. Knowing that it's not personal, as the make up sex would be amazing afterwards. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I too enjoy people with a generous spirit, and who are giving of themselves. I appreciate intellect and humour and a sense of adventure. I also like people who are soulful and who know how to touch the depth of their own being regardless of what pain lives within. I delight in free spirited people. And passionate people! And compassionate people who can show compassion yet still maintain excellent boundaries. And the things that makes me want to hang out with them more and more is when they "see" me and accept me for who I am.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I enjoy sensitive people who are friendly, natural and open with me, but not transparent. An inquisitive and conscientious mind is very nice to get close to and heightens the interaction between us. Healthy is good too. Lively. Soulful. Integrity. A shapely robust ass is where I only really give out physical points .
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RHP User
11 years ago
It makes me wonder how often we settle for so much less than what excites us or makes us smile ...
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madotara69
11 years ago
One who doesn't stand for something, will fall for anything. Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Scuse' the preamble; I've been aware and understood for a long time that I'm a very difficult person to get along with. Since my teens at least, I've spent a lifetime trying to understand my part in things. . I think so often to share the stories of that lifetime here but it is a lifetime so bizarre as to be unbelievable lol. From the childhood influences of which so many were soul destroying, it's amazing I have any self-esteem at all, to many, many moments throughout my life where people have managed to appal and astound me in the way they were towards myself and the world around them with their selfishness and disregard of their influence in life. . Whether I have come across tales or experienced them, n between there are many people who in their many ways have lifted my spirits with their moments of kindness and wonder. . Then there are those worthwhile people who stand out for their understanding and caring for the very damaged mixed-up child, girl, woman I was and am. It is in particular those few special people I would describe here for, the faith they have, and do instil in me... in myself and mankind. I thank those people then and now for encouraging the best in me while accepting me the way I am. xoXox
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Openly_Curious
11 years ago
The qualities that my friends all seem to have in common are that they're honest, self-aware, non-judgemental, loyal and are able to have meaningful and thought-provoking conversations about big and small matters whether personal in nature or on a broader spectrum. My four closest friends all make me laugh, and are incredibly direct, intelligent, highly competent, thoughtful, generous people. Generally my friends vary quite a bit in terms of their sense of humour, and how driven/laid-back, fitness-oriented, liberal/conservative, alternative/mainstream, silly/serious, etc that they are. I really like hearing their different perspectives, as they are all people that I trust, respect and enjoy. Tess
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RHP User
11 years ago
I forgot people who haven't or don't understand me or accept the way I am. . Bahahaha, that has probably been the hardest thing to deal with. People who think they know who I am. Label me with psychiatric terms and descriptions of all sorts because of their inability to understand me. What a turn off. . Then there's the people who throughout my lifetime took off when I got to be too much hard work. I've lost count of the family, 'familys', and friends I've loved and lost. It has been an emotional weekend for me. :-) xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
In Sun_kissed's wonderful post.I'm completely enchanted by people who can construct a compelling point, who debate using intellect, who persuade with logic and rational argument, who actually know how to string an argument together with all its component parts. And if I'm perfectly honest, I love them more when they know when to stop thinking and just have a laugh or show some kindness and love.First, there's an enthralling beauty and delight in being drawn by someone who can put together a tight conceptual structure, with dovetailed joints and perfect symmetry. A delight to the power of ten when one is conspiring with such a person to create a perfect structure.And second, the blinding fall when the talk stops, you pause, lookt at each other and exchange the first kiss, when syllogisms aren't worth a hill of beans.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The quote from sun-kissed had stayed in italics like I typed it. Never mind.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's a matter of putting things into prospective. I'm sure most people are different in the real world to the person they portray here. After many years playing in a team environment, I learnt we're only ever a part of a bigger picture. No one wins the game by themself . After any big game ' we got the pats on the back win or lose. These days, I'm very much the free spirit and although I know the importance of being part of something bigger, having confidence as a individual is equally important. I don't tolerate fools readily as I believe some will drown you with negatives if you allow them. Here on RHP , there's those who are positive no matter what. The negative ? Well , when I turn the computer off they go with it... I have no room in my life for the negatives...
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RHP User
11 years ago
*hugs*. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
*hugs* to your brave self too! You are someone I'd like to get to know better... :-) XXX
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would like to meet someone like me....but different.x
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm just a truck driver ma'am :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I'm just a woman, wife/sex goddess, mother, human... It's the everyday moments that defines us as individuals in my opinion. Thank you, I needed that hug! . Oh yes, and a big thank you to RHP for deleting those couple of extra incorrectly formatted posts for me. hehe
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I'm just a woman, wife/sex goddess, mother, human... It's the everyday moments that defines us as individuals in my opinion. Thank you, I needed that hug! . Sorry about the formatting above... again :-S
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RHP User
11 years ago
...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I could fun have point scoring myself. There are so many things that turn me on and off there too. :-D
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RHP User
11 years ago
You look at a profile and you think hmm not bad, or someone writes to you and you think the same. Then you start a chat. Its the words who capture me....its the cheekiness who captures me. I believe I am quick witted so the other needs to be too. I am attracted to someone who can give me back what I dish out. No crying what life dished you on your plate, positive attitude, and a sense of spirit, we all had bad things happen to us. So when I am finished with talking or chatting to the person, I feel exhilarated, giggle and say YES YES YES.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'I would like to meet someone like me....but different. x Isn't that somewhat of a contrarian view ? T.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sun_Kissed'It makes me wonder how often we settle for so much less than what excites us or makes us smile ... wouldn't it, if we could actually find these kinds of people we desire without too much difficulty. But therein lies the problem, there are so many people around us and just by looking at them we never know who they are, or what they're like. We sometimes settle 'for less' because we just can't find what we really wish for amongst the small sample of people we run into in our daily lives, and instead settle for someone 'close enough'. Finding 'the right one' could be a never-ending journey.... Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Beautifully written.....I tried to write my own, but honey I think you nailed it!Mrs jaz_nurse xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
and your point is?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sun_Kissed' It makes me wonder how often we settle for so much less than what excites us or makes us smile .I know when I was younger I settled for less but for now, I would rather be lonely than compromise on what I am looking for in a partner. I am happy to leave friends behind if we no longer have common ground.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'and your point is? LOL miss Freya. T.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'WildSong' Quoting 'Sun_Kissed' It makes me wonder how often we settle for so much less than what excites us or makes us smile . I know when I was younger I settled for less but for now, I would rather be lonely than compromise on what I am looking for in a partner. I am happy to leave friends behind if we no longer have common ground.
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