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Polite decline, and then ...
June 14 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are also some messages that simply don't make sense. I got one last month that went: 'Hey. What did you do for Christmas?'
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RHP User
13 years ago
Matrix style."guess what u don't have a face so I was planing to fuck anything that had a vagina ."I hope this guy doesn't live near any farms or veterinary clinics.What's weird is that this isn't even a standardised post-rejection rant. In a psychotically sweet way he tailored his response and put more effort into his unhinged diatribe than most put in their original message.Who says men don't read profiles? Ps. That was a private message I sent u, lil_bit. I can't believe u would share it on the forum like that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some people do not handle rejection well,and their mind is empty...no traffic goin'through that vacant lot...x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Us girls are pretty switched on..... I'd prefer to be cyber assaulted any day than having the misfortune of having to deal with this creep if one was to physically knock him back.It's a public service!!
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wannabyummymummy
13 years ago
by the sounds of it you were lucky!!You obviously made the right choice in the first place, do what i do have a giggle, delete and move on!!NEXT! WBYM
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gosh, I think this is my favourite part : " U know where u t coz u I rooting website". Just rolls off the tongue doesn't it!!Funny isn't it.... So many of the guys on here complain about the ladies not responding yea or nay. Bottom line is - if it's a yea, you'll know it's a yea!!! We really will let you know in no uncertain terms.If you don't hear back - it's not a yea.If it's a nay, some ladies will respond and have to put up with a barrage of the above, so I guess some decide to negate the abuse and just not respond and block!Me? I give them a mouthful back that would make a sailor blush and then block....There's been many a response I've sent back to guys explaining to them they its guys like them that fuck it up for all the genuine guys.Seriously - it seems the the brotherhood need to get their heads together and let everyone know that they're being their own worst enemies!
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RHP User
13 years ago
unfortunately some animals occasionally parade in human skin.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
'There's been many a response I've sent back to guys explaining to them they its guys like them that fuck it up for all the genuine guys.' from Apollo 13 exactly Nat;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
These tossers (and no I wont stereotype -male and female) when they are so pathetically disgusting... should be named and shamed... And good for you Apollo Thirteen for giving as good as you get.. I used to be polite like Lil bit..but Im so over it now...my thanks but no thanks response is courteous but some people really cant handle rejection...god..how do they survive in the real world....????????????????????????? so now Ive taken a leaf out of Apollo's book...give as good as I get and block...I didnt want to go down this path cause basically its not instinctually who I am...but sheesh, Im sorry, when did my rite to say thanks but no thanks get taken away...???
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's just incredibly screwed up, some people are their own worst enemy. I guess some of us men will continue to suffer for the mistakes and shortcomings of a small minority for the rest of our single lives. Chivalry, good manners and common decency are truly on the endangered list.
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RHP User
13 years ago
... you are O.K lil_bit_angelic KK x
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's embarrassing being male when you read that drivel.There are some sad, lonely, bitter, and damaged people out there, add poor education and alcohol maybe, and that is the result.It's very easy to hold them up to scorn and rant and rave, its also easy to pity them and move on.I'm sure if you wouldn't have to dig too far to find a response from a female that spat bile and poison in response to a respectable contact letter.But really whats the point ?
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blkcapricornday
13 years ago
That's pretty hideous :( Its unfortunate that ladies have to endure that sort of contact, but are you really surprised? After all, this place is open to any paying/non paying member of the public, a bit like a train... If you could expect that sort of low life on the frankston line, no reason it cant happen here, lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi to Ms Angelic and the other ladies who've responded to this post.First and foremost, you are all right. Guys like this particular scum bag do more harm then good for the genuine guys on this site such as me. I have taken time to go online in the chat rooms and my oh my I feel disgusted at some of the talk some guys come out with and I won't bother calling them men as I don't believe they measure up to that status. It's also fair to say that there are also some girls on here every bit as crass as some of the guys. That is the beauty of a site such as this. There is someone for everyone and everyone has their own reasons for coming on here and I think it caters for most peoples individual tastes and we all have the chance to choose who we wish to chat with or get to know further. However, I've felt compelled to write and respond to this post by Ms Angelic, as you may remember I'd sent a message professing on how you had posted such a fantastic profile. For me it was recognition to a gorgeous lady who is no doubt one of very high standards and morals and has high expectations of whom she would like to meet. As you should. Yes it was a "oh how I wish" message from me but I also knew I was not necessarily the type of man you would find an attraction with. But to read such an honest and open profile warmed my heart and made me realise that this site isn't just full of deviates and there are other genuine people out there like me that want something more than just a cheap & nasty encounter.Ladies, I received a response from this lovely lady in the form of a "thanks but no thanks. I'm not wanting to take things any further". As I was purely complementing this beautiful woman. I again responded with a flirt of "I just wanted to say that I loved your profile". I never expected anything more but again Ms Angelic replied to me thanking me for such a kind and sincere message. To me I was over the moon, as there is no doubt this lady would be bombarded with all sorts of messages and for her to take the time out to reply to me, twice was very much appreciated and respected.So where am I going with this you may ask? Well it's a plea to the low life's out there who can't be anything but derogatory, mean and nasty pricks. Get over yourselves and man up and take the rejection on the chin and walk away. As I was once told by a very wise man, my grandfather. If you don't have anything nice or meaningful to say, bite your tongue and don't bother in wasting your breath by saying anything at all. All you do is show how weak and inept you are at being a decent person.Keep your heads up ladies. We aren't all bad.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow. That guy is obviously giving the male sex a bad name. It's messages like that that make you want to say something else to them, but you realise that they're not worth it. And so you go on living the rest of your life, and he stays lonely for the rest of his.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Interesting it is all females posting on this thread ? (so far anyway)From the male side of things on this site, I have also had 'weird' mail and winks from both couples and females. I believe we are all adults, playing an adult game and this should not mean that manners and respect go out the window. We are here for FUN.I always respond to a wink or message, might be yes might be no, but always polite. I always write what I believe to be polite mails to people. Never use the abbreviated 'text' talk. Most of the time I cant be bothered reading one's sent to me as I really cant understand half of them and are probably not people i want to meet anyway.Why do people (all levels of membership) not respond. Common courtesy folks it goes a long way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I did have some fun trying to interpret it :) Here's what I think he's saying. "you don't have a face but that's OK because I just wanted a vagina. You're ugly and I'm hot so you're lucky I even contacted you. You're a bitch who's never going to get laid because your pussy's rotten. You're an idiot for being on a sex site looking for love . Happy New Year." Funny, funny, funny :)
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Lifes_great
13 years ago
I just think 'If you can't play nice....then don't play at all'! I thought you were very polite with your response and yet he handled the rejection like a 2 yr old.....then sentences even resembled a 2yr olds vocabulary. It is apalling that he resorted to being nasty....totally unjustified. Best left to play alone. Happy hunting Lil_Bit! P.S...He was right though...you don't have a face
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am finding its happening more and more, you try and be polite and get nothing but abuse. Grow up guys, not every girl is going to be interested, and likewise for us, not every guy is going to be interested. Its disrespectful and not required. Douchebags!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Shouldn't judge to harsh on the guy, like saying should be named and shamed. He probably has some built up issues or a lot of rejection. He seemed to be hurt and sent a defensive attack, a pretty messed up one. I just know last time I asked a girl out her and her friends laughed at me and I was publicly humiliated and I felt like saying stuff like that to her but I'm not like that, I just walked away and hid for a few years. The guy probably is a tosser or really hurt. I don't know if you have but I wouldn't take any thing his say personal you seem pretty hot for a chick with no face haha... :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have only had one so far and pretty mild. I send a 'Hi thanks for your interest, you are not what I am looking for all the best in your search :)' He responded with a 'whatever, I don't care... wasn't interested anyway'Well der why message me then ya dickhead. Some just can't handle rejection wth humility...1:1000 most are very civil about it or do not reply back- I love the nice replies 'thanks for replying, if your situation changes feel free to contact me....etc etc....almost makes me change my mind lol!I reckon secret a women's business shaming thread post a copy of the message + profile name.Cass xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes it's true - this man has no dick.
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QLDtwo4fun
13 years ago
His response, or what i could understand of it, tells you so much about him, literate, polite, considerate......maybe not. It would be funny, but I can't help thinking 'what a sad case'.
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RHP User
13 years ago
All I did was ask the guy to please either fill in the "ask me" parts of his profile, or send a pic so I could see if I felt the same way... He sent back that he couldn't because of "contractual obligations" it got me wondering whose collar he was wearing, but.hey... LOL... Then when I remained insistent, and declined on that basis and out apparent lack of rapport and real communication, more.to the point...he came back at me saying I was missing out on caviar, limousines, price jet flights,.orchids, and chocolates. And then went off about not beong attracted to me and the.message just degenerated way down the gutter and to the treatment facility from there.. Yep...another nut case....however I have been pleasantly surprised when a guy I turned down was such a gentleman and asked if he could simply be a friend and in touch,... Over a few months we got to know each other and I was pleasantly surprised... Helped hin rewrite his profile and took some more flattering phone pics of him from the right angles and jn the right light (face shots....before you get confused) and hey presto...guess whose a busy and happy boy now...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow, that's fairly disturbing. Obviously has a steel grip on the English language. Denial is a like a warm shower for some people haha.
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
You should be congratulating yourself on having great instincts in the first place, they are working well. He could have had someone else write his Profile or could have plagiarized other peoples profiles, either way you saved yourself. Well done.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Clearly a case of rejection rage, I'm sure you didn't even dignify that with a response. Thanks for the interpretation, otherwise I wouldn't have known what the neanderthal was trying to say... rotten pussy??? I had an incident on live chat on another site where this guy was trying to chat me up and get me to send him some pics, he had no pics on his profile whatsoever, so I politely told him that I don't just send my pics to anyone, and that if we got to know each other a little better via chats/emails and I could see some of his pics, then perhaps we could take it further. He then got really nasty and told me to go get fucked... then said "with a face like that, I wish you lots of luck!!!!" (this coming from someone who doesn't want to put ant pics up) keeping in mind this was on live chat, so I politely said " excuse me? clearly this is not going to work, so I wish you all the best too buddy." He then said " there! blocked bitch!!" and made these little emoticons jumping up and down and flipping me the bird... Pffft, you are blocking me???? Suffice to say the idiot tried to chat to me again on a number of occasions... There really are some morons out there. Lil bit, hope you have not taken anything he said to heart, some people just don't take rejection well. It makes not responding to those you are not interested in seem like a much more logical choice... sadly.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I hope this guy enjoys playing with himself as its the closest thing to sex he should ever be allowed to get. While we are here predominantly for some mutual fun and wickedness some politeness, courtesy and jois de vie to handle rejection, smile and move on should be what separates us from the animals. Don't care how wild, wicked or just plain dirty you can be , some respect doesn't go astray.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get them weekly , used to be so shocking to me , still is a little ! As you said some seem so nice on their profile, it might just be physically they are not for me , when I decline or message back - bam , barrage of abuse. I hate seeing the ugly side of life !
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
I rarely get such a harse response at all...I usually get a "thanks for your reply, good luck in your search too" But earlier this year I rejected a guy on a wink (another site) and got the message back from him that he wishes that I get breast cancer and that I die a slow death and then in his next line he said that he hopes to see me laying on the street after being bashed and as I am laying there dying that he would sit back with a beer and just laugh at me! That was just from a wink reply..imagine meeting this guy in person and saying no to his face...eekkk! . I agree with Krissy though...the ones that do abuse you then tend to go all cowardly and then block you so you can't reply back! I don't even bother..I just hit the report button and let Admin take over! I'm not going to waste my energy on having sex with them...why would I waste my energy in replying to them? Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey, think on the bright side, the harsher the response the more attracted they are to you. I have had women send me abusive message saying that she want to see me and let her Scottish friend who does Muay-Thai beat me up. - See not only men are abusive ;) Nontheless, it's unpleasant to be abused, especially when you are here to meet people and have good time. Ps. Can all the ladies post all the abusive messages that they've got? I find them pretty funny how people come up with abuses.
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RHP User
13 years ago
its like to Moron who sends you a message but he has you blocked so you cant reply and inform him of how much a pathetic Tosser you and everyone else thinks he is.... Gutless Blow up doll rooting dead shits
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RHP User
13 years ago
lol it is cyberspace isnt it..all kinds on here ..lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
in my previous incarnation on here I had a few like that especially as I was approaching when I wanted to leave (or found that I was communicating with so many that I took a break). I had the most nasty response to those who couldnt handle polite rejection well which was something along the lines of: 'I thought you had to be able to read to use the internet but obviously I was wrong so here it is again : Fuck Off and Leave Me Alone!!!" (ok so I was no longer playing nice and to be fair thats what my profile also said - nothing else) Though one guy he and I ended up trading insults via messages - he was so creative I couldnt bear to block him....so much fun lol. If youre in the mood just ginore them, block them if they continue, bite back if you feel like messing with them. I know not everyone is like that but gee those ones who are can be fun to vent any pent up aggression on. Kisses Focus
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Chillymofo
13 years ago
"guess what u don't have a face so I was planing to fuck anything that had a vagina"Just thinking out there - my dog has a vagina, but i wouldnt let this tool anywhere near her! Looks like he is going to have to aim REEEEAL LOW, if he wants any kind of action!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I take a msg back that is a knock back as a good thing .....because you must have been good enough to reply to even if you are not what the person is looking for!!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get those kind of messages fairly frequently. Always in response to a polite decline. Not sure what it is about me, but there you go :) I wasn't troubled by it in the slightest - as couplesint and others have suggested, we're bound to find all types here. I was just intrigued to see what my forum friends thought of the message, how common it was, whether everyone would be a bit blasé and 'whatever' about it, or whether there was sufficient interest in manners and courtesy generally that people would be a bit outraged. I was surprised, pleasantly, by the mostly shared view that it was a pretty appalling message. Thanks peeps, and yes, I agree!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I couldn't take another public outing!But seriously I have been guilty of ranting once. Also one time I met up with a beautiful and amazingly gifted woman only as friends from here. After talking for a few hours I changed my mind and wanted to fuck her. When she declined, I told her she was inflexible and pig headed and goodnight. Turns out she didn't want to stay friends, which sucked because she was truly lovely, if a little crazy.Everyone makes mistakes. Its when you don't learn anything from them that you really have a problem.RA
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luvsilver
13 years ago
He was probably laughing to himself thinking how witty he is. I think give him a break.... It must be very hard for him to type with his non prefered hand as his other was clearly way too busy cranking himself. Mr luvsilver
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RHP User
13 years ago
Take heed Guys .. this is EXACTLY the reason why women wont reply to your msgs .... Dont take it personally .. really!! .. Geez 'We dont worry if we dont get a reply .. :-) just move on Happy searching :-) xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have you thought maybe it was past Charlie Sheen, writing to the future? He does have tiger blood you know.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G'Let me guess Lil After that message he had you blocked so you couldnt retort. Ive had a couple of messages like that after giving rejection and just find them pathetic that thy can dish it out but are just too cowardly to recieve same in kind.I have found this so often to be the case, I try to be as nice and polite as possible if someone is not suitable (most often because they have not read my profile to find out what I actually seek or decide to push ahead anyway) and wish them lots of luck and fun on the site, and easily half at least are rude in response and then block so you can't reply to the insults.And everytime I just think how fortunate it was not to have gotten any closer or wasted any more time on that one!
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abcplus1
13 years ago
delete and move on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Coming from a women with no confidence at all i only tell them no because they are just way out of my league im not stupid i know when im going to be made an idiot out of so its better for me not to do it then the abuse starts get yourself on rsvp u dont like sex see these are the kind of wankers that make me the way i am .The mental abuse on this site is appauling and needs to be stopped im sorry to say some of us have class and respect about us and some dont !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find that the men that are not sexually mature are the ones that don't handle the knock backs ... and there the one's that you don't want to sleep with any way .... give me an open minded man at any age than an immature stupid man in any age .. we are all adults on here and we should all be comfy with who and what we are ... hate being judge .. my response to those men is ... thank you and I send them a kiss
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usm79
13 years ago
This dude sounds like such a fantastic bloke. Do tell his name so we can all enjoy avoiding this maga muppet in the future.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You can hold your head high knowing that you at least acknowledge what effort, if any, was put into the approach. What is upsetting, is that he has responded with such profane narcissistic rage, because he was rejected. I personally don't do limbo very well, so I like to make sure I reply either way. Unfortunately I haven't had the op's experience, but damn I could have fun with it!!! :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
These moronic tossers pop up from time to time. My guess is that either his first language isn't English or he is not well educated. Don't take it personally. He is immature and lashing out is the only way he has learnt to handle rejection.If I decided to answer that message my reply would be - "Actually I am not looking for prince charming. I just prefer my men to have a higher IQ than a dildo."
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cbdlivin
13 years ago
Well it does show the upbringing of some people when they revert to abuse, and unfortunately there are enough around on these sites to cause no end of problems....hopefully you can ignore them and move on.Anyhow I had a lovely response from the original poster. It might not have been the response I wanted but I appreciated the reply for what it was....and really taking things seriously is just wrong people need to relax and just take a rejection without dramas.B
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RHP User
13 years ago
After pointing out that we don't play alone, a guy wrote back to us and said I was lucky we didn't meet him because he would have killed me if I'd tried to suck his cock. Charming.Disturbing seeing as he lists him self as "open minded" and "experimental" and we're open about wanting MM play.We're only new to this site and it really made us wonder about paying for membership.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have found that when you politely reject someone, for whatever reason, and they come back and dump a world of shit on you, the best thing to do is simply ignore them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
hey lil bit angelic and other such victims... I'm sorry that you had to endure such poor performance of grammar, tone, I think language and rudeness because you did a good thing and replied to a message 'thanks, but no thanks' Was his original message as poor with grammar as his reply to you're no thanks? Is it only me or do others find poor grammar lazy and poor form? yes there was a deliberate mistake aboveDon't let some of the male species get you down for their obvious lack of matter upstairs (probably also downstairs) A thank you too for replying even with thanks but no thanks, I would have appreciated a reply even if it was a thanks but no thanks. I always thought a no reply could have been because my messages end up lost in the many hundreds of messages the woman or couples may have received in their inboxNow.. I'm thinking no reply is simply not interested. Oh I don't know what to think now, just wish I could read minds :PDon't let rude people with poor grammar stop you being you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I agree guys like that truley screw it up for us normal guys in here , Secondary to that I think you were probably very lucky you didn't meet this guy / nut case, name and shame him and I would also go further and let rhp know so they can bloke him possibly for ever Regards T
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RHP User
13 years ago
nothing more than a man with a brain the size of a pea...and yes, I agree with other males here that we are often judged by the few who behave like him...I just wonder if he'd speak of his mother or sisters in the same way...nothing more than a drop kick...posted by the male..:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's guys like this that give us all the bad name. I believe most ladies would not tar us all with the one stick though. Had there been no response from you he could possibly have felt upset, this reaction still crazy though. I believe all messages should at least receive a response. I credit you with the decency to respond a 'thanks but no thanks' . From experience I do sometimes find this site can be frustrating, when according to profile you tick all the boxes, send a polite message (no sign of , hey babe let's fuck) and yet receive no response. Thanks to all those who do respond even with a no thanks. Matt
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sad pathetic cases and sounds like cowardly morons with low self esteem and fragile ego's who only have the courage to fire off their frustrations at someone from the safety of the computer. Surely a bit of respect, courtesy, decency and manners still go a fair way in this world (online and real world) but it seems to behave that way is the increasing norm rather than the exception these days...who would want to meet anyone with that sort of attitude to life???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very interesting, and largely consistent, responses. His first message was very well written and very pleasant. His second message obviously wasn't :) I prefer not to name and shame - I think there are some behaviours that warrant that for safety, but I'm not sure his message fits that category - but if any women are particularly concerned please message me directly. Able69, no reply generally means not interested :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get these messages sometimes, and my most recent one was a reply saying "go away little boy" from a couple whos age range was clearly "18-99" I find this ironic due to the childish nature of such responses. So yes this is a growing trend that I dont agree with
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldn't root, screw, fuck, lick, hold hands with, speak to or smile at a woman with those kind of literary skills. I can't imagine any woman would want to meet a guy who's that illiterate either.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Personally I like to just message people and tell them to go get fucked right off yhe bat incase they were thinking of declining... Always a step ahead of the game.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe this guy was just fed up either never getting a reply, or being abused and belittled. Still no excuse but some of the women here are not that polite. Not that I can say I have ever received an abusive message, I just get blocked for having the audacity of viewing a profile, or sending a message complimenting a profile or a post in the forums. Yes the guy was totally out of line, and I do know some women here do receive abusive messages from those that can't handle rejection. I bet those that do send the nasty messages never have a photo up and probably have an incomplete profile. But guys like this do have a use, they make the rest of us look just that little bit better lol As for the name and shame, all for it, as long as us men can do the same for the women who don't reply and who insta block, after all fair is fair!
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RHP User
13 years ago
i read it three times and i was still confused. the one thing i would bet on was that it was sent with a phone LOL..I hope his post made you giggle. as that's about what it's worth LOLbut i can't agree with SH65.. we're fine brother as women (or people) on RHP never generalize.. Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' I did have some fun trying to interpret it :) Here's what I think he's saying. "you don't have a face but that's OK because I just wanted a vagina. You're ugly and I'm hot so you're lucky I even contacted you. You're a bitch who's never going to get laid because your pussy's rotten. You're an idiot for being on a sex site looking for love . Happy New Year." Funny, funny, funny :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I hope it won't stop you from sending polite thanks but no thanks messages in the future lil_bit. They are better than non-responses. It's just a pity about the abusive retort this time around.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Amen brother
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RHP User
13 years ago
hmmm would be good to be able to like other members quotes ... :-) appreciate what they have to say .. just saying
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtyroughsex'That's just incredibly screwed up, some people are their own worst enemy. I guess some of us men will continue to suffer for the mistakes and shortcomings of a small minority for the rest of our single lives. Chivalry, good manners and common decency are truly on the endangered list. Absolutely agree. As usual it's the minority screwing it up for the majority.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its very much like the people who have nothing constructive to add to the threads, but just hang shit on other peoples comments.
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RHP User
13 years ago
God damn WHAT A LOSER!!!Some people have such an EGO that when they get a "no thanks" they just go off the hook!!We all like different things, so, you could be fkn Brad Pitt or whatever, but if you don't do it for someone you just don't.... GET THE FK OVER IT!!!Rooting website??? Is mainly a place where you come and get to know some pretty special people, possibly make good friends and IF YOU"RE LUCKY you might get to have a bit of fun with the very special ones!!!We are human being first of all... not pieces of meat on the market!!!!Some people just have no respect and shouldn't be on here!!!So far my experiences have been AWESOME, taking everything as it comes with no expectations....Met fantastic people, and luckily i got a few VERY good surprises!! ;)Mutual RESPECT is paramount!!Unfortunately the world is full of idiots and some of them always come in the way!Nice spelling btw.... I shouldn't talk, as mine is not the best either, but I have an excuse, I'm italian and English isn't my first language!!!!! hahaPlay nice everyone!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
The way I see it is , one should never ask a question if you only expect one answer .
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RHP User
12 years ago
What an interesting debate. Karma. Here4funnn puts it best. Respect!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some people are shocking the name and shame sounds the go I used to get dishartend at not recieving a reply even a quick one Thanks but no thanks! And used to think some people were realy rude But after reading alot of the fourms i understand why alot of people dont bother with sending a reply unless there intrested in the person Far out its not hard is it no means no you cant be every ones cup of tea Bring back public flogging
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'able69' What an interesting debate. Karma. Here4funnn puts it best. Respect! Thanks mate, glad you agree!.....at least someone does!!! haha
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RHP User
12 years ago
Rejection obviously is a tough one for that due bwhahaha , sad for Him on soo many levels ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sounds like you dodged the psycho-bullet there lil_bit_angelic
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RHP User
12 years ago
i used to get messages like these so now, if im not keen on the guy i just dont reply. it feels rude but saves the negative experiences.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Come on guys just cos this is a sex site why do manners go hav lernt over time if u are a gentleman 2 the ladies its often a turn on 4 them as they then feel sexy an a woman that feels that well she is spectacular behind closed doors were anything is possible .Enjoy all
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi, hope you are OK lil_bit_angelic, such a horrible man!!...with horrible words.I had myself experienced very, Mysogonistic man online. Mysogonistic man, means man who hate woman. This happened to me, last year, in a popular australian Non-adult site. After that, and online, and after I decline someone, I dont read further messages from them. I got to look after myself. No one deserve to be treated in such a way, man or woman. There's abusive people online and they should be reported as soon as possible. There is no excuse for cruel abusive behaviour online. Not all man are Mysogonistic, but still a challenge sometimes, specially online when one can tell so little by a photo and a few words. Just report them I say...Good luck in anycase.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some people can't take rejection... but there is no excuse for the abuse. You already put yourself out there meeting ppl online, that just confirms that there are still dh out there..I'm sure he's done it before, hopefully he learns from his mistakes. keep doing your thing girl.... ;)
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