Politeness

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I think the majority of people try to be polite and don’t actively go looking to contribute comments that will cause chaos and adverse responses. Having said that there definitely have been some forum topics that transgress quite quickly if people disagree with your opinion - it’s the way that it’s easy to sit behind a keyboard and judge and comment whilst not knowing a single real life thing about the person writing what you disagree with nor the history behind their view point... so shit fights def can happen lol People are people and are prone to defend others if connections have been made. They are prone to defend their own opinions and beliefs because those opinions and beliefs are important to them. However they can also be prone to being open minded and seeing value in a different opiong or lifestyle... Some threads sadly can come across as just a load of bs and can invoke suitable responses.. again people can be hot headed emotional logical complex sexual individuals!! Which makes rhp a world where one is always kept on their toes!!

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  There are the topics where the OP wants everyone to agree with them, no matter the length that needs to be taken We can be a fiesty lot when required. But we are human and have our opinions and a passion for some beliefs.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Passion and opinion make us unique! Fancy everything being sane and quiet in here - the moderators would soon be out of a job. The only thing wirh passion is when the opinion doesn’t translate correctly due to the level of passion and belief the poster has...

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Take a brave step when they join, looking to explore their sexuality further. But we are all different. And politely telling someone that they are not what you are looking for is fair and honest, not judgemental.

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  BlueDMB

  6 years ago

  I completely agree with you on that. A polite response is not judgemental at all. It is when the response resorts to insults or derogatory comments that it can come across as unnecessarily judgemental.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  You were not here a few years ago. Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Thank you 👍😊 Ms Foxy

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  BlueDMB

  6 years ago

  Lol Ms Foxy! 👍😂

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  The_Antichrist

  6 years ago

  Everybody judges to some degree....whether we admit it or not we all judge others... You may feel as though other people may judge more harshly than you, but that’s your own judgement in itself.... I think that the topics on here are always discussed quite well...where issues arise in my view, is people’s own internal voice. When you or anybody else reads a newspaper article, a book, or even these forums, you read it with our own voice, our own tone, and at times(depending on our mood and mindset) our own negative reel...which then triggers our ego...and hence a defensive response...granted sometimes but very rarely, someone just becomes a cunt...lol and they’re dealt with by the mods...which in the time I’ve been here I’ve only seen 2 people excluded permanently from these forums because of it... But then there are are few snowflakes as well...I can’t really make comment without mentioning that component, who will cry for the sake of crying, like they broke a fingernail or some shit....

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Politely saying no to someone is respectful. Ignoring them or putting them down is not ok and says more about you than them.

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