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Porn and boundaries
April 04 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like to see a guy try that at a swingers club/group scene. He would probably get his arse kicked. But sometimes when a girl is in a slutty mood some dirt talk is good but I agree the scenes in porn are often disturbing and the girl doesn't look as if she is enjoying.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In Porn scenarios , I think we're meant to assume the Woman wants that sort of treatment . I saw an Anal GangBang movie and the guys were verbally abusing the Woman , slapping her face & spitting on her . Definately NOT the way I want to be with a Woman ! Porn has pushed it's boundaries in some areas to extreme levels that I'm not comfortable with . Some of it isn't even Porn any more . I'm not into Degradation but some people are . Although if someone asks me nicely , I may do many things I wouldn't normally do ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And its gone? no idea why but I agree , Is it really supply and demand? It may be the kind of people making the porn, I don’t think they are often willing participants from what I have seen of late Porn is often run by criminals , especially the Russian porn and some women are traficed women Even women in our own brothels they are not all the student looking for the extra buck though they will say they are, when the are just girls paying off a debt that never ends I don’t know what is going on these days, but the sensual is gone right out of it compared to what it was before. I mean every girl has to have her arse fucked by a cock that looks like its hurting then rammed from arse to mouth Then cum sprayed over them by wanking guys, just look at the girls eyes they scream thank fuck that is over. I like porn and I love watching sex but I would rather go to a swingers and watch and hear people that are getting into it. I do not mind a guy talking dirty to me, so long as he is reading the body language and its the mood we are both in at the time. Maybe its us as well, we tend to advertise our sexual selves and that gets guys confused as to what we are, some think rhp women are free hookers. I am not free, I demand at least a cup of tea..cheap bastards some do not even want to pay for that!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ever see any of those "porn bloopers" videos? Gawd almighty, some of those girls look unhappy. Uuugh...I find violence, particularly sexual violence, very unsettling. And I don't mean some fun ass paddling, I mean that degradation identified in the OP. I like all kinds of different portrayals of sex (my fancy way of saying, I like porn)... the beautifully produced stuff, the voyeuristic real people stuff (my particular preference), the badly made amateurish but loveable stuff, even the hard, physical stuff... but there is a line - and its wide and clear - where it is abuse or a representation of abuse. Almost a snuff film.Is it demanded? Maybe it is... not by anyone I know... but maybe there is a market. Angry men who feel hated by women, and hate women in return, perhaps? I don't know, I'm speculating (and those dudes with massive chips on their shoulders are in my mind), and probably unfairly.My own personal mission now, OP, is to find you an example of commercial porn with a group scene that has some joy and sensuality. I'll leave no reel unwatched ;-)Oddly, I don't object to (and am strangely fascinated by) those ones where the women beat the crap out of the blokes... I wonder why?
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RHP User
12 years ago
From a male point of view. The difference between is that all of us (both men and women) like dirty talk to a point before it turns into a degrading experience . With porn talk ,the directors of some of these movies believe that is how their relationships work so they express it on the blue screen. In reality if you don't like the talk do the walk until you can find a balance. Me personally , I like a woman who can express herself to me by words and not just the motions Thanx for listening - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well said tuscanred. I actually feel pretty bad at times watching any sort of porn as the majority of those women are just desperate for money and aren't enjoying it at all - regardless of whether it's "nice" or "not nice sex". Meeka100 - gee I'm going to have to check out these clubs you speak of although I wouldn't be confident enough to take part...perhaps just watch (is that allowed?) Dirty talk is awesome but boy oh boy are their limits! Messolonghi (and the girls) - awesome "nice" porn created by x-art (via youporn). It's hot as and the women and men are models. Seriously awesome threesome movies. I don't need to see "romantic" type porn but isn't good sex about making all people involved to feel awesome/desired/sexy?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been with my wife for 18 years and over that time I would like to think I know her quite well. There is a time and place and I know her moods whether she wants to be loved or she wants to be treated and spoken to like a dirty slut.We love playing in a group dynamic with multiple men and couples. Upon arrival we always make it clear that if we hear certain words from anyone fucking or watching Heidi we will get up and walk out the door. This has been done on a few occasions and we will always live by this rule with the only exception is if we have played with the same person a number of time and we have developed some trust.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'House_of_Boudoir' We love playing in a group dynamic with multiple men and couples. Upon arrival we always make it clear that if we hear certain words from anyone fucking or watching Heidi we will get up and walk out the door. Awesome!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Gotta say, I don't understand why they say it in porn either. I would never, even when playing rough, say anything like that. I imagine most girls would be out like a shot if I tried. Its degrading.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Penny, you can most certainly just watch. After all, watching *is* participation. Even just the sound is enough to enrapture the sensuality! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
* enrapture the sensualist... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes you can watch. In fact tomorrow is the best night to go in the month. LOTS to see and hear. In fact may get a bit feral with all the naked bodies every where. :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Interesting you should say that Messo. I have sat in that back room and watched a whole room of bodies in various sexual play and for a long time.... Without even a pussy twinge. I have come to realise that unless I have a lover their to "perform" for and with, I often find the swinging thing boring. Oops but I do love take new people along. :D
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
I am a very sensual being..... and I need that in any interaction with a woman, or, I feel like something important is missing.So for me..... even role play that seeks to degrade someone.... just doesnt fit with my nature.Sure, theres a time and place for the vigorous, for verbalisations, for down and dirty raw sexuality..... but never derogatory, degrading or demeaning for me.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Generally, I don't like this sort of behaviour either, but a few years ago now my best friend Louise started seeing this guy Marty. He was younger than her and very good looking with a beautiful big cock. She showed me heaps of pics after they broke up. He used to call her names slut/whore etc while fucking her, the more he degraded her the harder he fucked her. He used to get off mistreating her. I must admit after seeing the pics of his cock and hearing the many stories, I would have loved him to treat me as his personal slut for a night.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Appreciate all the replies! Great feedback. Meeka100 - may get in touch and tag along one night. Can't tonight unfortunately but definitely in the future 😉- Posted from rhpmobile
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Goldenage
12 years ago
I went to a gang bang a couple of years ago and one of the guys was very rough to the only lady we had there, calling her names, even going as far as grabbing her around the throat..........didn't do a lot for me that's for sure and I even went as far as to tell him to back off.She wasn't impressed by him and eventually called it quits with all of us.Ruined what started as good fun, all because of him.............may work for some but not for me i'm afraid
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RHP User
12 years ago
Itsmee - I'm glad you stepped in. I'm impressed
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RHP User
12 years ago
went and checkout out x-art on youporn and now I just keep watching those videos instead of preparing for a uni quiz like I should be. And now I'm horny as. Fantastic.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' went and checkout out x-art on youporn and now I just keep watching those videos instead of preparing for a uni quiz like I should be. And now I'm horny as. Fantastic. X-art is Passion HD reworded on tube8.com - Thanks Miss Dragon, ruined my study too as I have a quiz due by this evening. (can hear you giggling like Mutley) darn you too Caprice!
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Miss luck.... it is hypnotically alluring.... isnt it.(although, the one scene with the couple on the beach, covered in sand...... my rational brain kept struggling with lol)DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Luckdragon - isn't it just devine!! I'm so into I actually pay $20 / month so I can watch the entire movies. Have you seen the dude with the medium length beachy/blonde hair? God damn!! (Oh check out the beach sex - hot!!!)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'penny333' Luckdragon - isn't it just devine!! I'm so into I actually pay $20 / month so I can watch the entire movies. Have you seen the dude with the medium length beachy/blonde hair? God damn!! (Oh check out the beach sex - hot!!!) They got me hot, that's for sure Of course it helps that the actors are all models and (in physical terms anyway) immensely fuckable!!But... (there's always a but isn't there), there is something I've been curious about for a long time when it comes to porn. Granted I haven't watched a huge amount of it, but have seen my fair share of different 'types'. And what I always wonder is, why do the women hardly ever look to be wet??? I mean, in the type of porn you're talking about in your OP penny333, I can understand that the women are probably far from actually being turned on, and just want it over ASAP. But that x-art stuff is pretty damn sexy and I was thinking that maybe we'd actually see some wetness....but nope, not a drip...can't even see any on the guys' cocks as they come out. Now, I'm not sure if it's because a) the girls are not turned on at all, b) I'm an anomaly and most girls don't get extremely wet like I do when I'm turned on, c) there's some porn technique I'm not aware of that they use to erase / not show it, or d) I'm just weird, but I know that in the couple of porn videos I've seen in which the girl has been visibly wet, that has been a big turn-on for me, and I wonder why we don't see it very often.Sorry OP, slight digression there, but watching the x-art videos got me to thinking about that again!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have things to do.. Must not look at x-art. Must not look at x-art. Must not look at x-art. Must not look at x-art...As a bloke I get fucking tired of poor treatment of women. Because the generalizations always end up taring us all. I fucking hate that. Why this sort of porn would turn people on scares me.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' But that x-art stuff is pretty damn sexy and I was thinking that maybe we'd actually see some wetness....but nope, not a drip... Something Ive also been curious about from time to time.Certainly different to my own experiences.... significantly so in certain cases, and as youve raised it, the experiences of others.Sure, there are examples ive seen where women in porn are wet, squirt etc....but its quite under-played in the more sensual style porn clipsDG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' But that x-art stuff is pretty damn sexy and I was thinking that maybe we'd actually see some wetness....but nope, not a drip... Something Ive also been curious about from time to time. Certainly different to my own experiences.... significantly so in certain cases, and as youve raised it, the experiences of others. Sure, there are examples ive seen where women in porn are wet, squirt etc....but its quite under-played in the more sensual style porn clips DG the other night, the older style the women were wet you could see it you could also see the goose bumps on inner thigh just before they cum notice that one guys, little goose bumps and same thing happens when a woman is about to give birth sometimes the two girl thing the vibrator was covered in her juice, I will ask my friend what the name of that vidio was the new stuff the women are as dry as a nun
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