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Porn and sexual behaviour.
February 27 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd love to explore more of the history of sex... It'd be fascinating because I reckon every generation thinks they invented anal sex, found the G-spot (or insert other sex-act here) and assume the previous generation just knew how to have sex missionary style. It's probably a protective kinda brain quirk - no-one wants to picture their parents pulling hair and squirting all over the place... so maybe we're just more comfortable assuming older people just do missionary. . I toured the sex museum in Berlin - and it was like going through an op-shop of sex. Old sex toys, condoms (washed I presume) and very old pornographic carvings from all over the world. Assuming the stuff is genuine and not just a rort to suck money out of horny tourists, it's fair to say that kinky sex and pornography was around long before VHS.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Watching for pleasure, fun and know various trends around... Gives whole lot ideas and creativity... I had huge library of sexual context also contained documentary and experts analysis... Which helps alot... There is web which specialize in such content infact such workshops and seminars ripps huge amount of money. If look through history many civilization had lust and desire for sex. Starting from pompei till now.. After all learn and apply tactics off course u don`t may be something or nothing depends... So sex up ur life!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah. Doc Jeano is spot on. I personally I blame the fact that I am raised Catholic. Now no matter what type of sex it is, it is always going to be dirty.I've never been a committed watcher of porno flix. Setting aside dirty literature for a minute, porno has only really been completely accessible since the internet hit town... so the world wide web commenced in 1993 right? And VHS is a 1980's invention.... but I was doing some pretty crazy stuff before then. Wasn't my idea mind you, some of those bitches were really out there.... tricking us blokes into sticking it in the wrong hole, fisting, hair pulling and what not. I was lucky to escape with any hair at all.Maybe "The last tango in Paris".... in which Charles Bronson raided the fridge, applied butter to a ladies sphinkter and did her in the bum.... all suggestive of course... not quite as graphic as today's films, but the deed was done just the same. I dont think Charles Bronson invented the idea either. How long has butter been around? I can't believe it's not butter.HugsStalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
If my sex was based around what i watch there would be a lot of Tackles , Place kicks and the odd scrum not to mention drives through the covers and the ability to bowl a maiden over.
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doubledip40
13 years ago
hey there crackup.... there are two things that effect the brain development, oneois biolgical the other is environemental/experiential. Yer im sure porn is something that adds to what a person may want to find exciting or at least experiment with. I certainly have seen things over th eyears I thought id like to try, some i loved and some i tried and said...nup....:) but hey porn doth play a part...not much wrong with that. The trick is like anything that you do it cant be the only, or be all and end all of that activity... a healthy ballanc ein all stuff hey??? chat soon D. :)
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CrackUp
13 years ago
Makes you wonder what went on in Caligula's boudoir .... ??? Oh to be a fly on the wall through the annals of history. U are right Dr Girard - each generation likes to congratulate itself on 'discovering sex'.. lol, heaven forbid, our parents ever did anything like that...and as for porn, did you ever see the exhibits of Pompeii, the illustrations which pertained to the menu of one of their many brothels.. fascinating stuff, .. I think porn, in whatever media it is shown in... . has a long and lofty, history. How it affects the cultural 'norms' of each period of history.. is the interesting part.
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RHP User
13 years ago
my imagination is better than any porn flick and probably a tade more realistic. Oh and the girls get to have a orgasm, ok so not all the time. May watch if bored but then I get bored watching... Maybe if my cock was the size of my forearm, then again my forearm isn't that big!
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and just for the record, the Swedish chef did do the deed with Nigella when she rocked up as a guest. | Would almost make having a hand up your ass worth it. | | I said almost...don't even think about it.
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CrackUp
13 years ago
I think, maybe you don't need to be an actual 'watcher' of porn on tv.. vhs, dvd, internet... etc, porn is in our reading material, photography, artwork, and more (subtly so in our advertising, written literature, movie industry - as Stalky pointed out with Last Tango in Paris, - The Perfumed Garden is another which springs to mind).. so to be 'influenced' by it.. really just means existing in a society where exposure to it is almost 'unavoidable'. Even when we think, we are not.. we actually are, if not directly, indirectly, by the actions of others.. this is my hypothesis anyway.... and I guess my question, was.. do we think we are affected, how 'aware' of it are we - in the part it plays in formulating our values, acceptance and I guess, overall, sexual culture and how does it work, in establishing 'norms' for various generations across the ages.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My personal belief is that sex and all its weird and naughty permutations and combinations all come down to the passion of that moment...The first time someone was being fucked doggie style and the fucker said...."fuck....i love your pussy" it was never recorded on a digital medium or analouge medium...it just came from the dude expressing himself how he was feeling at them time....ass spanking and fisting and all that lovely stuff must of been going on for millions of years before any of us came around but still some people do not like it or get turned off by it...i reckon its just the type of person you are....I myself have found over the years that its a crazy sexual world and i just want to be a part of it....i am not the kinkiest guy around and cuddles and kisses work for me fine at the moment....cock sucking giving and recieving, aggressive passionate sex with lots of vocals and just a communicative lover seems to be the go these days which is great because people are being desensitized by all the crazy shit out there and just saying what they feel.....bring it on....over and over again....but lets rest for a couple minutes too dammit....:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
the question:do we think we are affected, how 'aware' of it are we - in the part it plays in formulating our values, acceptance and I guess, overall, sexual culture and how does it work, in establishing 'norms' for various generations across the ages. I think it does affect us, as u pointed out, we are exposed to various levels of sex on a constant basis, the current generation more so than the 1 before and the 1 before that... homosexuality for example is widely accepted in the general media (tv shows have more gay characters than they would have say 10 yrs ago) graphic nudity and sex scenes are more common too, movies, mags, video games... therefore if we compare what we watched or were exposed to as gen x's to a gen y now a clear difference would b established..obviously what we do with that exposure is then up to us as individuals..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'balach' Watching for pleasure, fun and know various trends around... Gives whole lot ideas and creativity... I had huge library of sexual context also contained documentary and experts analysis... Which helps alot... There is web which specialize in such content infact such workshops and seminars ripps huge amount of money. If look through history many civilization had lust and desire for sex. Starting from pompei till now.. After all learn and apply tactics off course u don`t may be something or nothing depends... So sex up ur life! As a buxom 23year old I went to Pompeii. I ditched my tour group of middloe aged American tourists and was wandering around by myself, and this lovely (I'm guessing he was a grad student either working or volunteering at the site) offers to show me around. I was a bit naive at 23, and not used to anyone hitting on me ever, so I thought he was just being friendly. I got to see so much! It was awesome! So when he held my hand and called me his "special friend" in very broken English, I was happy to reciprocate, slut for arcaheology I'll happily admit.He took my hand and unlocked the gate to the brothel ruin. The most amazing mosaics on the walls, he pointed them out and explained what the customers would do when they went in, they'd point and ask for that act. I was starting to twig at this stage that something was up (as I said, slow) and he took my hand and took me down to the bath area and started kissing me. Yep, something was definitely up. Just at that moment the tour bus started honking. I was late for the bus to Sorrento. I kissed him and left with promises to come back the next day. I never did.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just find porn in the film media to be extemely boring and so unerotic,I think of myself as a visual person but the films I have seen just don't do it for me.....perhaps I haven''t found the right ones yet,Nobody seems to be enjoying themselves and everything they do is so mechanical....and yes this includes amateur sites too. So am I alone in this or do other women feel the same way or haven't I found the right porn genre yet.? On the other hand,the writings of Anais Nin,Linda Jaivin and a few other female writers really do it for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As PBG said of Pompeii, the Romans had an entirely healthy view on sex and was displayed in their homes, on murals and in the streets.When the Victorians arrived, it was deemed as scandalous and shocking to society to be locked away behind closed doors.Sex is natural and your experiences should be an expression of who you are and who you are with
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QLDtwo4fun
13 years ago
We are a swinging couple who rarely look at porn. Some of the things depicted in hardcore porn we enjoy, some we don't. Has porn influenced us, we think not, but maybe erotic literature has without us knowing. Try reading 'Lady Chatterley's lover', referring to anal sex 'Burning out the shames, the deepest, oldest shames, in the most secret places. It cost her an effort to let him have his way and his will of her.......she really thought she was dying: yet a poignant, marvellous death.........She would have thought a woman would have died of shame. Instead of which, the shame died.' Nothing is new in sex it's all been done before, maybe with the exception of the electric vibrator.
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fewmanu
13 years ago
I dare say a lot of the things I'd like to try come from watching porn, but the things I actually do in bed are things that come naturally, and are enjoyable. The videos I tend to watch are short clips thats usually enough for me to get happy lol, only ever an extra bit of stimulation weather it visual or sound, alot of the amature stuff seems somewhat put on but definatly amature. Modern religions have a lot to answer for when it comes to how hidden sex as an activity has become, which is a shame because everyone enjoys it whether they admit it or not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
When a woman looked over and saw the early morning boner. She realised the only way man was going to get the wheel, was if she sucked it and gave Man a brain fart! Noting new under the sun or blankets, Cept the law changes all the time to make it legal or illegal. And thats based on religion. Before man invented a god, all bets were off.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would like to suggest that human history, in all places on Earth, beginning with the Paleolithic Era happened way before Pmpeii was even built. There may not be much literature about how humans dealt with the role of sex before the Greek and Roman antiquity but Pompeii is not the beginning of civilisation and for sure not the beginning of sexual exploration. As for the purpose of this discussion the values expressed in pornography clash with the real life concept. Pornography is not a function of emotional attachment, of kindness, of caring, and especially not of continuance of the relationship that humans are capable of. And let's face it some of the "gymnastics" are rather dangerous.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess the difference these days with porn, or any expression of one's sexuality, is that it is much more open and accepted in a way due to the phenomenon of instant gratification that the internet has allowed us in recent times.We can freely express and indulge in all our deviancies to a certain extent in public without too much fear of prosecution.But this is only an assumption on my part after having read a biography on the Marquis De Sade who didn't really seem all that twisted by today's standards. If he were alive today I'm sure he wouldn't have to worry too much about being carted off to prison? He would be just another horny old man in here sending flirts and crazy messages??!! hehe
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RHP User
13 years ago
Influence my behaviour. When I go shopping I say, nope they are porn shoes These ones are sex and the city shoes Porn shoes crack me up, they are soooooooooooo ba ohh yeah baby give me some Roger Vivier, Maolo Blsnhmik, Louis vuitton, Chanel, Ferragamo, talk to me dirty baby put those in porn and I am moist
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Influence my behaviour. When I go shopping I say, nope they are porn shoes These ones are sex and the city shoes Porn shoes crack me up, they are soooooooooooo ba ohh yeah baby give me some Roger Vivier, Maolo Blsnhmik, Louis vuitton, Chanel, Ferragamo, talk to me dirty baby put those in porn and I am moist Bahaha - tuscanred, I'm obviously not the only one who realises that in those, the girls keep their shoes on for as long as possible, if not throughout the whole act? If I were the guy/guys/other girls, I'd be terrified of getting speared on the end of one of those heinous stilettos... I don't think porn these days particularly influences what men do these days, rather it builds on an expectation of what is considered 'hot', ie lots of screaming, gasping, spanking. I know quite a few guys who like their girls to talk dirty very loudly, but I personally can't talk dirty even under my breath with a straight face (I have burst out laughing on more than one occasion), so I end up amping it up for show, porn star-style, satirising it... and I have to say, it works a treat...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Influence my behaviour. When I go shopping I say, nope they are porn shoes These ones are sex and the city shoes Porn shoes crack me up, they are soooooooooooo ba ohh yeah baby give me some Roger Vivier, Maolo Blsnhmik, Louis vuitton, Chanel, Ferragamo, talk to me dirty baby put those in porn and I am moist the term "porn" is slowly introducing itself as a commonly used adjective.from tuscanred's porn shoes etc...as a designer, i have started giving my clients two options, the safe "vanilla" aesthetic or the "porn" variety.and by porn, i dont mean dildos rendered into facades. hahaanyone need a house/extension/refurb porned out? call me, call me now. haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't know... but I think FB thinks I am a lesbian from all the lesbian dating ads I get. Funny, I wonder why they don't assume I am a gay man???Meeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
i definately get a few ideas from porn but i think its more a validation of a fantasy i have in my head .I think it acts more as an instructional video than a place to find something newI find that its shaped what i consider sexy in a woman more than what i want in bed.I find that as i watch more porn i now lean towards associating sex with make up,bleached hair,fake tits etc and less the traditional looki will self confess i like the idea of dating a princess but fucking a slut and i think that is a product of porn
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Mr_MrsJones
13 years ago
I just did an assignment on the effects of modern media on the sexal activities of adolescents. I have read peer reviewed journal articles that show that pornography viewning habits have a strong effect on the likelihood of the adolescent to engage in sex. Is it because the porn made them so horny they couldn't help themselves? Or were they so horny they got some porn and found it only made things worse? Unfortunately we don't know. What the reasearchers also found was that adolescents who viewed a lot of porn were more likely to have unhealthy attitudes about the role of females. Older adolecents were more likely to coerce younger girls to have sex with them and other males were more likely to be violent or dominant. Does watching porn influence us? I would say yes. And often not in a good way. Mrs Jones
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