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Posting....there are only a few regular posters,compared to the RHP membership
April 23 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought the FB reference is about people who talk about mundane every day stuff, rather than sex, love and rock n roll type of topics? I am sure topics such as the books topic, or topics about religion, or politics are seen by some as not for RHP. As for over sharing, as long as you don't revel so much that someone can stalk you, then its okay. However being too open on the forum gives people certain impressions which leads to assumptions that they make about you, even though this is a small aspect of who everyone is. So it can work to your disadvantage.
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RHP User
11 years ago
no regrets, but yes, if anyone new were to read all my past-life posts, they would pretty much know everything about me. Some anonymity can be good. I can't help myself though, I'm an open book.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But that's just ME.....plus their are various categories for different topics etc, just go in the ones that interest you, yes? no? Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
And have found a lot of useful information in the forums and entertainment lol Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To share stories about myself. Personally don't feel any regrets for sharing as I feel honoured for the chance to do so. I like the forums and seeing, learning and contributing to the melting pot of ideas, opinions and beliefs. I believe in talking and would see the world as a better place if we all talked...and more importantly listened.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Snap ! I was just thinking about this the other day . I think this Site offers an outlet for people to talk , openly and anonymously , about stuff they might not be able to talk about in other Circles . This Site appeals to another side of our Personality . & so we share ...! It's one of the reasons I use this Site . Do we share too much ? Personally , I can't see a problem , because it is anonymous . Do I share too much ? No . Everybody can make assumptions about who I am but those who wish to know Me are the only people , here , that I'm interested in . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If it's helpful or relevant, I'm happy to share any and all of my experience. Ofcourse that does expose the rest of you to the danger of being bored to death, ...quite literally (I have this mental image of the Japanese Officer committing harakiri in the plane from 'Flying High').
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi, I am Jodie, and I am an oversharer....and if people don't like it, stiff shit
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RHP User
11 years ago
that anyone on these forums could ever 'over share'. As long as its about themselves, its their choice to share or not. End of the day, no one really cares anyway (yes that was sarcasm in case Im taken literally).
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madotara69
11 years ago
We are here too fuck people. Oh well said it now. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' Personally , I can't see a problem , because it is anonymous . Like me, you have face pics up. People could easily recognise either of us in public. Not to mention the fact a lot of posters tend to overshare outside of the forums. I think that's where the real problem lies sometimes.We are one big petri dish.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm enjoying this thread, as I sit here eating my chow mein while preparing my groin to apply my tinea cream. The scratching I'm doing is horrendous. My thighs resemble minced meat, and the aroma of week old socks.... Ooo I just found some belly button fluff in my food gotta go ;) Sorry, what was the question?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are right Mes,many people who are posters know each other in real life,and when things go wrong often allude to people who can be identified by the cognoscenti xx Q
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' You are right Mes,many people who are posters know each other in real life,and when things go wrong often allude to people who can be identified by the cognoscenti xx Q I like the one with the blue wheels
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RHP User
11 years ago
I say a lot about some things but still people would know almost nothing about me. There's a great deal more in my life than I would ever refer to on here, simply because I'm very private. I often avoid particular phrases or examples, even specific words, because I know people who know me would recognise the words and stories as mine. the line between answering an OP with references to our experiences,and over sharing? I'd probably better enjoy the forums if people talked even more from their own experiences or perspectives, rather than talking about someone else's situation and what that someone should do. We really only have our own experiences to share. Can you share too much though? Only if you regret what you've shared, I think. I don't always want to read what some people waffle on with, as I'm sure some people don't want to read my tomes, but as long as the author is happy I reckon it's all good.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe reinventing herself would suffice. Re Facebook, even the teens are dropping it. Years ago it was Second Life, I'm busy enough with my first one. Over sharing, a lot are over it,tbh. There is a big world out there. Maybe time to get back into the groove. Ferry's In Crowd wasn't before it's time. Like an endless cycle
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
I think you know when you cross the line in over sharing when you feel you are exposing something you or another person wouldn't like people to know. If I have any doubt I don't post :) Xxviolet
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I've always said that I'm an open book and yes I have shared a small part of my life story and experiences on the forums. I think I've only shared what's relevant to the topic I'm posting in and like I said it's only small part of this story I call my life......💋 I actually really love hearing people's stories/experiences and think it's wonderful that some people are willing to share them....
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Nuff said. 😄
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madotara69
11 years ago
That would have to be the shortest post you have ever shared with us. And have you been pinching pics of the net. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have never had a problem being quite open about all things sex, after all most of the posts are to do with sex and that's why we reply. I think sometimes the Facebook comparison maybe refers to some people who collect an enormous amount of friends (most of whom they have never met) then you have the people who only 'friend' those they have met and or played with. Do some people 'stereotype' themselves? Possibly, I know whenever an 'anal' or 'bi boys' thread comes up, everyone awaits Meekas reply, some people even posting 'over to you Meeks..' It's quite funny... I suppose you do only go on what goes on in here if you haven't met the regulars and seen a fully rounded side of their personality. Anyway to answer your question, it's all subjective really isn't it? My boundaries will be different to others in respect to what I share, most would probably draw the line at information that could leave them open to being stalked in real life. I do think that people on RHP though would be quite liberated in discussing sex as compared to your everyday person who is not on here and not into actively realising their kinks. I love talking about sex and can sometimes shock people with my comments at parties etc, in my eyes people should just lighten up a little, it's just sex ffs, we all do it. So at the risk of being thought of as a 'slut' who is out to steal everyone's man, I have learnt to refrain from bringing up sexual topics... I simply have an avid curiosity about sex. Love it.
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. Never assume. Life is far to short to assume.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I tend to say what's on my mind and find some posters cant handle that. Not that I'm callous and insensitive to others feelings, Im not ' those who know me would vouch for that. But its my opinion ( and thats all it is ) . Living in denial is not me. I read certain posts and it stands out like dogs balls.. Facebook . . I closed my facebook account because in my mind it exposes more of you and your family than it should. Too many people can delve into your private life which I prefer not to share with just anyone.. Besides, I am aware it was used as a vehicle for for some to vilifie.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I personally love reading the posts, I take a lot away from them. So I like the fact people share on here. I do share things about myself and my experiences within the posts. I may be considered an over sharer, I don't mind, I'm me, take it or leave it. I'm not trying to be somebody else, this is not my alter ego outlet. Hence my pic is me and I don't struggle with it being viewed. Facebook, lol I don't have one of those collection of friends most do. I am not one of those fb ladies that tells everyone I'm not home and who I'm with or what I'm eating or if I am sad...... just not me. I work with a lot of my fb buddies, so I am aware of my posts on there. I have re worded my profile on here once or twice, generally after people message me with a different perspective of my profiles wording from how it was ment to be perceived. Answer to question: there is not really a line I think, it's more of a fuzzy grey area :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well said.. you summed it up beautifully.. Jay
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madotara69
11 years ago
This place needs some love, got to spread the word The thing that comes with love is, nothing else matters. Mado Tara xx
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Of course not!!!!! Lol God forbid!!!! That's my new second midlife crisis body....ask Luvinit she'll back me up. 😏 and Mister Green of course you don't share too much.....if people knew the truth about you and your (cough) genuine personality......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Leave FB for dead............
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Of course not!!!!! Lol God forbid!!!! That's my new second midlife crisis body....ask Luvinit she'll back me up. 😏 and Mister Green of course you don't share too much.....if people knew the truth about you and your (cough) genuine personality...... You look hot Indi
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ruby_blossum
11 years ago
Yes, I have posted this in the past.....and I think it is still relevant to many topics still being posted. RHP is an adult site, if I want to play word games, list the lyrics of my favorite songs, what their kids are up to, talk about books or anything that isnt related to sex and an adult lifestyle..... I would find another forum that caters to the specific topic or other mundane subject, hence my Facebook comment. Yes, I realise this is an open forum and we all have the right to freedom of speech (Hi Mods ) yes, we have the freedom to post topics that wouldnt fit on an A4 sheet of paper...but c'mon the forums have become the snorums !
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madotara69
11 years ago
Facebook, no nothing, just these forums and a few messages, occasional phone calls too friends on site. We keep out of everyone else's business as it's not our thing. I think music and lyrics can be very sexy though ruby blossum, and have said this aint FB as well. But that was because Using the term MILF was frowned upon. I tried posting a topic about fucking each other and it never made the news, so it has me beat sometimes to why the Phone APP has fucked up the topics of sex, but it has. Guess there must be something to the security for who can read this stuff. This stuff has come up in the past, would be good if those up there addressed some of these questions, silence is as good as calling it true.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think my dick twitched....can you check?? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The variety of characters more rounded and satisfying lol. . Love my facebook... and the line is blurring. . On the slant of fb, just over two years ago, there was a 'like' button in the forums... When clicked, the thread address would be shared to fb along with any of the RHP profile pics from RHP profiles who had posted on that thread (to be chosen from as a thumbnail), even after we put our profile pics away. That button didn't last long. WHEW! . But look around, there are facebook 'like' buttons on lots of different pages on this site. . Part of why the partay has become... vanilla . And that just so makes me laugh at the irony... To think RHP began with two different sides to the site. One to cater to the more vanilla side of dating (called Yes Dating) and the raunchier side where one could expect naughtier pics and such, this isde lol. Yes Dating no longer exists and it so seems the site is now swinging back that way with catering to it's longer serving dirty minded clientelle being neglected in the new drive to be pc and fit in with fb. Taking into account I suppose, the many posters in the forums with their objections to revealing pics. IMO, we are our own worst enemy. Just sayin', n' sharin' a bit o' history wit' y'all. bring on the dicks :-P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes being able to air a problem to anonymous people does help. It's simple, if something doesn't interest you, don't read it. Do I over share? If it's relevant to a topic, yes. I refer to the grief thread. Getting a cyber hug is better than getting no hug at all. After posting on the vent thread I got a great message from a wonderful man and it made me feel better. Thank you, you know who you are. This might be an "Adult" dating site but I enjoy reading what people have to say on all topics as it gives me more insight into them as people. After all, we are still people, even if we are hornier, kinkier and more open minded than some. Please keep on sharing L4Q(wearing my cranky pants today)
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I definitely f'ked it up one time. *shudder* No more drink-posting for me. Yes, there's the (fragile) anonymity that allows folk to say stuff on here that they generally wouldn't anywhere else. Also the fact that the one unifying interest in this site is sex, and preferably more and better of it. A common interest, no matter what it is, can unite people. I wouldn't talk like this to most of my friends and definitely not my family, so FB is out. It's really RHP forum (or similar places), or nowhere. Nowhere's all well and good sometimes, but I don't learn more about myself and the world around me by keeping things safely just the way they are. While I do worry sometimes about someone printing out a big ream of everything I've ever posted and leaving it on my parent's doorstep out of spite (indexed by key words in the back), until something like that happens, the good people and conversations I've shared have been worth it so far. Occasionally, something I've said has been helpful to someone else, and that's helped make it 'worth it' also.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The only thing nicer tha L4Q wearing cranky pants would be L4Q wearing... Her lovely smile... 💋💋 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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ruby_blossum
11 years ago
sir_stir.
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RHP User
11 years ago
on the forums. I don't know why but I've pulled back a bit. I'm just a bit worried about the small town thingy. You know, weird looks in the frozen section at Woolies ... and then their wife turns up ... I also feel a bit weird if I write something in the forums and then the person in question reads it. Don't wanna get busted exaggerating ... I haven't had a date in zonks either so I'm not sure I have anything interesting to say.
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RHP User
11 years ago
it's all relative, not everyone thinks outside the box unfortunately
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RHP User
11 years ago
Break Indies new body in for her She flew through Perth... but never told me she was going to be there.. damn it!!! Is that me OVERsharing or Indy UNDERcaring?
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inspirit
11 years ago
..and you didn't share
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Coming back from Fuckit (Phuket)!! Honestly had I had more time and a place to crash and NOT been recovering from a body adjustment I would love love LOVE to have spent time with you all!!! ☺️ Jeez ya know how to make me feel special Cavey and Inspirit...Cavey you can ride my arse, pull my hair, make me squirt but don't come in my hair or I'll rip you a new arsehole me ole mate!!! ~ Indy blushing from the LUUUURVE!! Haha
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inspirit
11 years ago
She gets all the pretty ones...
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I've been in awe of that woman since I joined nearly 2yrs ago!!! Her and Meeka....whom I've also had the pleasure of spending quality time with. Oh my gosh there are so many incredibly special people here among the forum regulars and meeting them at a meet and greet is definitely the way to go. JayJay's meet and greet in Sydney next weekend is a brilliant time to make new friendships and chat with some of the forum regulars and find out they aren't so scary or debaucherous.....lol maybe!! xx
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inspirit
11 years ago
WA is dullsville
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rupamohan
11 years ago
RHP is a diverse community. your purpose for being here , your need of privacy and how you evaluate privacy determines how much you should share. My recommendation is the share info in stages. For example if you next step is only to secure a greet meet think about what others need to know about you for such a meet... Sharing info should be on need basis...simple.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I was thinking the exact opposite.......I've read quite a few very delicious profiles from WA, they really do make my mouth water, make me go weak at the knees and get my blood boiling.....if only 😍😍😍
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inspirit
11 years ago
Sure there are some great specimens - but in the big picture there isn't even a DECENT sex club over. Life over here is ordinary. It is a very very conservative state.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Well get all your arses over to this side of the country and we will party, I can watch Indy rip cavey a new arsehole, I can watch cavey ride indy's arse, puller her hair and make her squirt and if I give you a list of profiles maybe you could bring them over for me too.......😈 Sounds like fun......💋
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Those two words can mean two different things when said with a different inflection in your voice, which is impossible to convey in the written language. Do I think I over share...not personal details but I'm sure I bore people. In general I like to read all the posts and peruse most topics but don't always have anything to contribute. I do have a stalker or two that have been around for a while and pop up every now and then, they constantly change their names and pics but one message gives them away generally....*sigh*...I wish they would get a life. I have also found my pics on a profile that wasn't mine so just beware of that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' Snap ! I was just thinking about this the other day . I think this Site offers an outlet for people to talk , openly and anonymously , about stuff they might not be able to talk about in other Circles . This Site appeals to another side of our Personality . & so we share ...! It's one of the reasons I use this Site . Do we share too much ? Personally , I can't see a problem , because it is anonymous . Do I share too much ? No . Everybody can make assumptions about who I am but those who wish to know Me are the only people , here , that I'm interested in . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile I disagree with your statement...and so things are shared a little too much sometimes..hey? Especially when it come to invasion of other peoples privacy and home. That's not cool! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Funny th@ Not in reality.....
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