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  On_Safari

  12 years ago

  I know it's work-based BUT I'm a big fan of don't shit where you eat. Wouldn't you rather maintain certain degrees of seperation? Just my opinion....for free even!! ;-)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I live and work in the same area - a Doctor's surgery. We see a lot of people. Often times they recognize u and not visa versa. I have to be very careful where I play!!! It would cause a heap of issues where I work'- Posted from rhpmobile

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  sweetgem

  12 years ago

  Yes you will have to make the first move, but just a friendly approach first to get to know them better and gradually find out their thoughts and interest in intimacy. I think it's safer to discover their desire and fantasy before you actually reveal any of your interest and intention in that department. There is an old Chinese saying which was used during war times which goes "you will win all the way if you know your enemies well"...........well, same concept apply I suppose :-) Good luck guys :-)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  It is not a good thing to mix work and pleasure/play, too many hassles.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Keep play and public lives separate. Don't risk personal friendships for the sake of play- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  The argument "it'll make things hard at work" or "people in my area will look down upon us." Stuff and maybe I'm an insensitive prick with no compassion. However, can someone please educate me as to the how and why this happens given that those who see us ON such websites or swingers clubs, are essentially engaging in the same activities- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I wouldn't.. Just sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen! Though I guess it's worked for some people..- Posted from rhpmobile

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  wingman2014

  12 years ago

  I have a friend who is a school teacher .she had face pics on a site and as bad luck would have it she was recognised by a low life male parent.He would try every move he could think of to get into her panties, even intimidation and threats of posting notices around the school outing her. He was paid a "friendly" visit by a few of us and the situation eased. But she still had to transfer to another school just to be sure . Just be aware- Posted from rhpmobile

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  erotictouch4u

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'sirlurkalot'I've never understood the argument "it'll make things hard at work" or "people in my area will look down upon us." Stuff and maybe I'm an insensitive prick with no compassion. However, can someone please educate me as to the how and why this happens given that those who see us ON such websites or swingers clubs, are essentially engaging in the same activities I know someone at work on this site. We have never discussed it and the first time she saw me at work after finding me on here she was very shy to talk or look at me. Now she is at ease talking to me because I have not approached her and she knows her secret is safe.   As we often have to work on projects together things could be uncomfortable if we did hook-up as there would always be the thinking of our last, or next, encounter getting in the way of work interaction.   Yes, it would be nice, but best if you work in totally different departments and not together much even if at the same workplace.   ET xox

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Given that scenario of harassment my thinking is the good ole AVO or old school term of "restraining order" comes to mind. As I say perhaps my thoughts are that we have options available to our disposal to see to it that those types of situations are "controlled" if I may use that term. Perhaps maybe it's just me; I don't care who recognises me, as quite often I would be recognised by the general public for kicking them out of a nightclub for being drunk, and I'm just used to it....I dunno, just seems that so many people are scared to behold who they really are??? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Who are we to judge - if the relationship is kind and loving, and two people are happy? Can we deny anyone of that?I don't do it myself, but if others were to meet this way and have a happy relationship, I support that as long as they are professional at work and don't bring their issues into work and the same goes with friendship - as long as that friendship is not abused - it does not worry me.There is a 50/50 change of turning healthy or unhealthy and depends on the people as well.In saying that OP I would think things through very carefully first, before making any rash decisions.FOXY

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  in a century not too far away,people met each other through work ,mutual friends,at pubs and clubs etc.But that was a different century,the world has changed,privacy is now a luxury,gossip has a whole new medium,people Facebook,Twitter,Instagram.....if you don't want to risk your reputations ,don't discuss your sexual proclivities with anyone other than people you absolutely trust...even then there is no guarantee. Yes on sites like this you will meet like minded people but sex is never safe,in fact there is no such thing as safe sex.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Has changed the way we meet partners- those days have gone of truly meeting people face-to-face via social meets, work friends and families. A true epic love story would take months (exchange of letters etc) now its just mainly done over the net as well as that people are just to eager to jump in the sack and have sex....sad in a way in my eyes.....Foxy

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Given that scenario of harassment my thinking is the good ole AVO or old school term of "restraining order" comes to mind. As I say perhaps my thoughts are that we have options available to our disposal to see to it that those types of situations are "controlled" if I may use that term. Perhaps maybe it's just me; I don't care who recognises me, as quite often I would be recognised by the general public for kicking them out of a nightclub for being drunk, and I'm just used to it....I dunno, just seems that so many people are scared to behold who they really are??? - Posted from rhpmobile But even just the process of getting a 'restraining' type order would necessitate going into great detail about how you know the person etc. and requires disclosure of a lot of info. Not to mention that it's often not as simple as people think to get one of those orders...unless there has been actual physical violence - or threats of - they often can't be granted, and even when they are they are usually pretty useless and only allow for charges if the person actually breaches the order (obviously this varies between states and I'm going on the Qld situation). The fact is that some people live in areas and work in jobs where there can be very negative consequences should the 'wrong' people find out sensitive personal information. Take the example of a female school teacher who is into gang bangs, and who teaches at a school in a smaller town. Somehow that information becomes known to one wowser parent who doesn't like the idea of precious little Snowflaque being taught by someone who is into 'that sort of thing', and suddenly word spreads like wildfire to other parents, and eventually there would probably be calls for the school to sack her. Knowing what people are like these days, no doubt at least one of the parents would try and get the local media involved as well to further pressure the school, and suddenly the whole town knows about this woman's personal life. I've seen this many times in the woeful local rag here. Even if sense prevails and she keeps her job, the damage has still been done to her reputation and possibly her future job prospects. So while it's great that you don't need to be concerned about who recognises you, the fact is that some people do legitimately need to be careful and it's nothing to do with them not accepting who they are. It's because they could lose their job, their standing in a community, or a range of other consequences.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'gypsyblue292' I live and work in the same area - a Doctor's surgery. We see a lot of people. Often times they recognize u and not visa versa. I have to be very careful where I play!!! It would cause a heap of issues where I work'- Posted from rhpmobile Agree absolutely GypsyBlue. As discreetly as you may do it, Suburbs, Workplaces, School Playgrounds, have eyes, ears, noses."If more than two people know or share a a secret, then it's not a secret anymore."CMT

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hmmm....the process for the restraining order is somewhat different here in Mexico, however that's beside the point. The issues you've raised given that scenario is definitely food for thought....- Posted from rhpmobile

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