Preconceptions of women's desire

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  gazpacho

  11 years ago

  I think it is simply part of our culturally acquired behaviour. Go back 300 years in this country and you will find a completely different kind of sexual lifestyle altogether. I do not think women are scripted by evolution to be more chaste than men. That said, women have more to lose... (that's a term of convenience, not reality).. the chance of pregnancy for instance... and the long term commitment that raises. Consequences. Women consider the consequences... well, perhaps a bit more than men might when we are talking completely random acts of sexual gratification. As for whether or not the women on RHP are easy, surely most guys on here will tell you that is far from the truth, if all the unattended messages are anything to guide the stats by. :p Hugs Gazpacho

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  Lovinit28andKC72

  11 years ago

  A woman is wired differently to a man, ( I say most, not all) and yes socitly looks at us as different too. The world is full of people ready to judge and criticise, not just women, but men also, not just in bedroom either, its in career, in family, and in everyday thinking and living. It had taken me years to be open about my needs, my wants, my kinks, my dirty desires. Years of knowing that I had this wonderfully naughty/dirty/sexy woman inside me and feeling like I wasn't able to let her be free. Now I've decided that it's time to let her out and be a free sprit, let her needs be meet, let her experenience everything life has to offer......💋 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Most women and men are governed by society , morals ,and cultural values , age , social groups , religion , family , so many things can make a decision rite or wrong , what matters is that decision and how it effects ourselves and people we care about. Example when a man gets married why the fuck does he have a best man ???? The Best man is getting married thats my opinion and im stick'n with it . And who the fuck said Redhotpie chics are easy???? Obviously nobody thats been looking dont believe anything you hear and only half what you see !!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  women are vulnerable in that they end up with a child. Men are in control of the world, always have been except in some very rare times where the culture was female driven. we are property, over here in the west we live with blinkers on . Just let war break out and see how strong a woman is when soldiers come to town. Prime example is Bosnia etc. yes we are in a cage from day one. think of a school yard when you are first discovering your sexuality.yep boys will want to touch all your bits, but then bag you to matesgirls will call you a slut and whore even before you ever have sex, because its the image that's tarnished. men marry the nice girl, its called cunt collateral hold off till you get the gold ring. women are easy on RHP but then the same women would be easy offline, its just that there is so much opportunity here to play with the unattainable offline. Its the great opportunity women have on here to explore things, unlike offline where they would be burnt at the stake. I love the candour of women from RHP its a friendship that allows me to express my sexuality. When we all get together to chat we are all on the same page. You cannot be that with other women, or with friends as you would be in deep shit if you did. culturally its in a mans interest not to encourage sexuality. If you look around and see more and more women in the burka, it has to tell you something. we are going backwards. pretty soon having your clitoris cut off will be on medicare

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  MsJonesy

  11 years ago

  When I said 'easy' I didn't explain myself properly. I was referring more to the phenomenon that some men regard women on RHP as an easy way to get sex. Because we are here on the site and openly discuss sex and our desires/wants etc that any bloke will have a chance with any of us. As we know, it's not like that at all.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Have a deep delve into taoism, the sexual side of it. Where men and women were equal etc. Interesting read, 2500 year plus spiritual belief. And here's a quirky fact: "slut" actually first appeared in written text in 1402 and meant an untidy or slovenly woman, which apparently also referred to a kitchen maid who cheerily went about scrubbing pots and stoking fires. The meaning changed in the 15th century to how we perceive it nowdays :P

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Younger females are a lot more sexually adventurous. I mix in a wide range of circles. Women are being empowered more and more these days and with equal demands to pay and respect of position and employment status comes confidence. Old fashioned men and misogynists need to learn that this world is not solely their domain. Women have the ultimate control and cannot be held down. Submission is a mere form of allowing you to be controlled. And this can be taken away.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hmmm - I could waffle for hours on this topic, but I'll resist and say only that there is still a double standard, founded in a societally imposed belief system, often with roots in religion. I see it often but I also see that this IS changing with the generations (though with very young girls, I believe they are learning the 'wrong' things about sex and sexuality). Okay, I'm going to stop now.... (*puts down phone and steps away from the device) Kisses, Mrs - Posted from rhpmobile

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  thedevilsfantasy

  11 years ago

  I've always had my own beliefs and never been one to care about what society thinks of me and although I believe in god, I don't believe in religion and neither do I believe in marriage... So I couldn't give a damn what the church says I should or shouldn't do.. I've never been a follower and have always done my own thing and I don't judge others for how they choose to live their lives... It seems to be an expectation by society, that by a certain age you should be married, have kids and settled down... That was never going to be me and I think I rebelled against it because it was expected.. It's took me until 43 yrs of age to decide that I actually want to stay in one place now and put down roots.. I don't know that I've ever been in love or even believe in it, maybe I've never met the right person and maybe I never will, that's fine by, I don't need to be in a relationship, I live quite happily on my own, I've always been a loner and I rarely get lonely.. People often say to me 'but you have to find somebody to grow old with or you'll be lonely.. Why? Because society say so... Now lust, that's definitely something I believe in, I'm always in lust... I have a very healthy sex drive, I can't live with out sex and I don't believe I have to be in a relationship to get it, after all, it's an animal instinct we all have and we shouldn't have to suppress it because society and religion says its wrong... So if that makes me a slut then I say, yeah, bring it on.. I gave my soul to the devil years ago, I was never going to heaven anyway, sounds like an awfully boring place to me.. 😈

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  thedevilsfantasy

  11 years ago

  When I was 19 yrs old, I wanted to know what it would be like to be a stripper, so I spent two yrs as a stripper and topless waitress at a club in Perth and even though I never had sex for about 18 months while there, apparently I was still a slut because society says its wrong to get around without your clothes on for entertainment... Oh I love being a slut!! lol

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  300 years ago is 56 years before captin cook discovered the land... So I'm sure the indigonous landscape was very different!! In today's day in age it appears middle age women who have embraced sexuality and sexual discovery is totally accepted and lusted upon..... Women doing the same thing in her 20's is frowned upon by the older genrations... And men her own age would say "good for sex but would never have her as a girlfriend - she's a slut" It's ashame.... I love to have a partner who desires multiple cocks!!! It's hot!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  I recall this topic pops up every now and again. My view is that women are actually more sexual than men.... but evolution and society act together to suppress that for their own self protection. Evolution dictates the caution due to risk of pregnancy and supporting offspring for extended periods, and society pressures a woman to avoid being judged for outwardly expressing her enjoyment for sex... Plus risks from STDs. Carl Jung the psychologist referred to this as a woman's 'shadow'. However within the environment where she feels comfort, trust, welcome and acceptance, she can willingly express her sexuality. Every persons threshold is different, but the principle is the same DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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