KinkyHugh

KinkyHugh

M33

Preference ?

March 23 2021

Where do you stand on this? Is it racist if you have a racial preference? Is it fetishism or attraction if you purposely date members of a certain race outside of your own? Is it homophobic if you want your partners to be straight? Also, is it transphobic if you are only interested in cis partners?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    You can't choose what you want but you can choose what you do, or say. Your preferences are determined by what you want and don't want. What you do, how you react, and what you say can be show your motives and prejudices.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    We all have our personal preferences whatever they maybe. Men on here no will chase anything on here that has a hole.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    Personally no, to all of the above. Its simply just preferences on what I find visually appealing. I'm naturally not going to be attracted to something/someone that's not pleasing to my eye.

  • jessica__rabbit

    jessica__rabbit

    4 years ago

    No. A phobia is a fear or strong aversion to something. Having a preference for one thing does not mean you hate anything different, if I find dark skin attractive on other people that doesn't mean I have an extreme dislike or fear of caucasian people. You're confusing definitions here.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    No ' l dont find it racism if you find a particular race attractive.. ive had the pleasure of dating girls of several nationalities . In fact ' in my opinion ' it opens your eyes to not being racist . Once you get past the obvious differences ' ( color , looks , body shape ) we really are all the same . There is a particular race that attracts me because of thier personality traits and we have great interaction. But that doesnt mean i'd go looking for a full time relationship.. They say varieity is the spice of life.. l can vouch for that..

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    People like what they like and choose what they like and are attracted too. Fuck the labeling off. There's no need for it. It only causes animosity within the community. There's enough crap out there. We don't need to add further to it. Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    If I want to date/choose someone from another culture, its because I can and don't see them any differently. I see them for who they are as a person. I'm curious about alot of things including getting to know them for who they are. That's not racist. Infact it's being matured, open, balanced, and level headed. Ms Foxy

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    We all have preferences, on our end we have a preference for bi guys, as well as non smokers, although it’s not a hard and fast rule. The issue really raises its heads on here when people hide racism and bigotry behind preferences in profiles. Some things are better of left out of dating profiles or it risks looking a bit icky 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    4 years ago

    Not at all.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    4 years ago

    LOL. Non attraction to certain races very often comes with other prejudices against them. That’s not true for sex/gender. Unless you’re a lesbian. Just kidding.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    4 years ago

    You like what you like. Don't be concerned about being judged by others for your list of preferences because they certainly have their iwn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I don’t see my preferences to be racial or cultural in any way. I just know what kind of man turns me on, mentally and physically. It has very little to do with looks, colour or race and everything to do with their attitude towards life.

  • 2EssesExploring

    2EssesExploring

    4 years ago

    I have always loved immersing myself in other cultures. I have found it the best way to challenge my thoughts about my own culture and beliefs. I am now in a life partnership with someone from such a different background and I love the challenges and benefits it provides. I’m also amazed at how “2 peas in a pod” we are. Neither of us met anyone from our own cultures who just got us like we do each other. Now of course since I love her dearly and think she’s hot stiff I am naturally attracted to others of similar background but in our search for playmates I love meeting people from different backgrounds as I find it so interesting engaging with people with different perspectives. Of course I, like anyone else, am attracted to some and not others but I can truly say that race never comes into it.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    4 years ago

    Personality, aura and presence overcomes and negates many preferences and prejudices. Allow yourself to treat others as fellow humans and open yourself to life changing experiences with different races, gender bending and sexual diversion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I generally am not attracted sexually to people of other races, that doesn’t make me racist. It simply means I’m attracted to what I find visually appealing. How I choose to treat people of other cultures/ backgrounds/ religions/sexual persuasion etc outside of the bedroom is what determines if I’m a racist homophobic intolerant fucktard or not