Premature ejaculation

August 13 2014

We had some same room fun with a couple not long ago. And the partner of the girl Didn't last that long at all.. Anyway she had told me in private when it was me and her "I don't know what to do anymore I love sex but he doesn't last that long" I didn't know what to say... Can anyone answer my question and tell me is there any long term fix for this so I can pass it on.. Thanks

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    there are a lot of options for guys who prematurely ejaculate, I personally think cock rings are the way to go. Cockrings worn around the penis are designed to keep the blood from flowing back out of the penis keeping it hard, good for guys who can get it up but can't keep it up, if they are worn around the balls as well either as one cockring or a 2 piece cockring it can make them last longer as well. There are a lot of variations to cockrings such as material they are made from, vibrating or not, double penetrators, clitoral stimulating, anal stimulating, butt plugs with rings and then you can get into extenders and sleeves also. Some guys also go for delay sprays or herbal tablets or viagra or it's alternatives.

  • CaptMoonlite

    CaptMoonlite

    10 years ago

    I sometimes go through the test averages of the Australian cricket team in my mind.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' there are a lot of options for guys who prematurely ejaculate, I personally think cock rings are the way to go. Cockrings worn around the penis are designed to keep the blood from flowing back out of the penis keeping it hard, good for guys who can get it up but can't keep it up, if they are worn around the balls as well either as one cockring or a 2 piece cockring it can make them last longer as well. There are a lot of variations to cockrings such as material they are made from, vibrating or not, double penetrators, clitoral stimulating, anal stimulating, butt plugs with rings and then you can get into extenders and sleeves also. Some guys also go for delay sprays or herbal tablets or viagra or it's alternatives. DAMN I've gotta get some of that shit Ralf..............THANKS you! LMFAO

  • OPNmarriagecpl

    OPNmarriagecpl

    10 years ago

    There are many treatments for premature ejaculation ranging from pharmaceutical (not Viagra as it's aimed at ED) to cognitive therapy to teach the man a way to mentally divert his thinking. AMI is an institute that caters for males with these issues. There could also be more going on his life that are affecting his performance. Stress and depression or weight issues for instance play havoc on a mans sexual ability. There's never an easy answe or solution to these problems. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' there are a lot of options for guys who prematurely ejaculate, I personally think cock rings are the way to go. Cockrings worn around the penis are designed to keep the blood from flowing back out of the penis keeping it hard, good for guys who can get it up but can't keep it up, if they are worn around the balls as well either as one cockring or a 2 piece cockring it can make them last longer as well. There are a lot of variations to cockrings such as material they are made from, vibrating or not, double penetrators, clitoral stimulating, anal stimulating, butt plugs with rings and then you can get into extenders and sleeves also. Some guys also go for delay sprays or herbal tablets or viagra or it's alternatives. How do they taste?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    maybe he gets over excited,we all get excited but slowing the mind down and changing positions inbetween close calls and slowly it becomes brain training and before you know it you can actually control when,where :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    can help some men train themselves to last longer. Instead of tensing muscles and holding breath to cum, relax muscles and breathe deep. Practice :) Also, masturbate but stop before cumming. Rinse and repeat. There will be many other suggestions. I wish the couple all the best x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' There are many treatments for premature ejaculation ranging from pharmaceutical (not Viagra as it's aimed at ED) to cognitive therapy to teach the man a way to mentally divert his thinking. AMI is an institute that caters for males with these issues. There could also be more going on his life that are affecting his performance. Stress and depression or weight issues for instance play havoc on a mans sexual ability. There's never an easy answe or solution to these problems. - Posted from rhpmobile Like Viagra and Cialis DO help a lot of people with premature ejaculation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Getting him off a half hour before the visitors arrive ? Is the second time around any slower ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    This lady's partner hasn't told her partner what she told you OP ??? I'd also add; that it's not your place to do their research...... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Way2go70

    Way2go70

    10 years ago

    A while ago I was going thru some shit and I was prescribed Lexapro for mild depression. Worked for the depression ok, but was FANTASTIC for lasting longer. And I mean, you just can't get there. Even by yourself!!! The feelings were all good, got hard no problems, experienced orgasm like feelings but just no ejaculation. And I could do that for easily for an hr or more!!! Sadly, after a couple of months, and a very happy lady, the effects started to wear off. I have later learnt that the same active ingredient in most anti depressants is what they put in those strips and nasal spray but at smaller doses. It is a proven side effect of treating depression and anxiety. Not the most orthodox way of fixing the issue but I wasn't complaining lol :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There are many causes of PME. However, as many have mentioned he is probably not relaxed enough. Both physically and mentally. For starters, if he isnt exercising that is a good place to start. Worst case scenario it will make him a healthier person. Start pumping the cardio. Even try yoga to strech/relax the entire body! Secondly, you need to build a strong yet relaxed pelvic floor. Many have heard of kegels. But kegels alone will likely worsen the PME. So the answer is Reverse kegels. Search google and make sure you are activating the correct muscles. Follow a decent regime for a few weeks and he should see a drastic inprovement. Reverse kegels alone can virtually eliminate PME very quickly but it isnt a long time solution and can lead to weak erections. Get fit and build a blanced pelvic floor. Hope that helps!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Just give the old feller a whack with a cold teaspoon every now and then. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    .. Where we CAME from... the male had shit on his mind.. he NEEDED to get his lot of taddies off..and get OUT OF THER FAST... there were sabre toothed tigers, and man-eating all kinds of shit back then... Poor old "Caveman" found soemthing he could "Unload" into.. club her on the head, do his load in 10 seconds flat and get the fck out of there... Ok.. SO.. SOME of us "Cavemen" have evolved a little.. but.. there is this Non-Evolving component on ALL biological beings, both Animal And Plant... it is called "Cellular Memory" ever DNA and RNA molocule.. every single minisicule PART of us.. (Our Genes) has this.. some fellas are more tuned to it then others..and they only last 10 seconds... Ladies.. HONESTLY... try this.. ""Next time you meet a fella who blows in 10 seconds.... Ask him... "Soooo. Do you often dream of Sabre toothed tigers and shit like that?"..... "" I will ALMOST Promise you, on 85% of the blokes you question.. they will say... "Fck yeah.. I do.. they scare the shit out of me.... Why do you ask me about them??" The poor fckrs DON'T even know WHY it is all happening!!!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Cavey, it was not until the cavemen started cooking meat, that the inventive thought process began, first the club, then the wheel then the teaspoon. Quite possibly the three most significant inventions in all of humanities best interests. Silver teaspoons that is, not the cheap plastic knock off's.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A "friend" has this problem eh? ;-). I love women who give advice on this! Classic! Do this/that and you'll be fine, the same as guys writing about how pregnancy is gonna feel!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... Hello Tara

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Cavey, we just finnished my birthday root, if we read your post five minutes ago, I might have been forced to go the extra minute.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That was funny mate