Private Party Invites.

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  For example my fwb and i wont attend if there are no bi women. And if there were bi men and bi women then we would be there with bells on. So why go if there is nothing suitable for you. Would have thought pretty simples. And no different to any function. Its not all about you OP. Dont get jealous because someone else has better parties than you......

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I gotta say....it's not all about pleasing you as a host either.... Some people don't wish to attend by themselves unless they know someone.... It could also be that they wish to avoid an awkward experience that may have presented itself last time.... But isn't that why you have the main list of invited and then a back up to substitute those who wish not to attend or doesn't show up?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  To me. Don't understand why you have a problem with it. I would like to know just so that my interest might be peeked. Not competitive at all. I don't buy something unless it is to my liking. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Your party is tonight and you only have one guest,a married man with a huge cock who has unprotected sex...that maybe a bit off putting for some xxFreya

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  Seachange

  9 years ago

  we could always depend on you to see the more obscure side of the problem... well spotted. Lol I would run away too if I saw that one attendee only...

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  Seachange

  9 years ago

  I always ask who else is coming, and the others above posted very good valid reasons. It is about our enjoyment. Like if I saw the guest list and I am the only single female with 5 couples... yeer right.. No thanks. As a guest member, I do not see the list of people registered for any event so I depend on the host to provide me the list of attendees and then I could do due diligence on them to see if they will suit my needs and I them. For example, It would be awkward for me, a cute delicate Asian gal, to show up in a sea of KKK-loving Arian S&M practitioners when all I want to do is hit the hors d'ourve table and watch the proceeding? So awkward...

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Just lol xxFreya

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  You expect people to come if the other attendees aren't appealing or at least fall somewhere within our preferences? I speak for all men and women here, we're not paid hookers, we're here for our enjoyment. Shocking i know but some of us don't just rock up to parties and fuck anything - Posted from rhpmobile

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  horneycouplewa

  9 years ago

  And by that I mean I personally would never ask who is coming as I look at the register to see it, sometimes yes it depends on whether they show up or not lol. We only attend private parties if we feel we may have a connection with either the hosts and/or their guests, otherwise we meet people at a party that we have chatted too. In doing this...have not attended a bad or disappointing party yet. Ohh and we don't put our name down on the list unless we intend to go.

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  horneycouplewa

  9 years ago

  I get you point as I'm not a single female..fair enough. However you are only a "guest" you are way to beautiful and nice to miss out on so much xx

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  Mischeviouslad

  9 years ago

  Im probably safe from any invitation, OP..... ...but after that.... Id turn one down. Try the Venting topic

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Some people merely concern themselves with the number poles versus holes when going to parties, but that doesn't go for everyone. Lily, PMSL! I'm sure you could take 'em though, take that any way you want.

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  You specify straight males only for your parties...... Gawd, no wonder so many guys BS about their orientation. Grow a little OP. Bi guys know how to read the situation/room. Just an example of the crap we have thrown at us for being natural in our appreciation of all things sexual.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Some ppl like to organise parties to suit their own agenda. Dont ya know?

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  Its one way to get a root i suppose. I guess that's where the OPs frustration come into it. People ask "who else is coming?" "Well, there's me......."

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  are you suggesting that only bi-men are capable of being able to read a room and have an appreciation for all things sexual?? I'm assuming you aren't. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  Put your reading glasses on. There is the expectation that if a bi guy is around, a straight guy might cop it up the rear end. Merely saying that most bi guys would be able to read the room and be respectable to guys and girls alike. In fact I'd state more so than a lot of hetero guys who act like they have an entitlement. The other part is referring that bi guys have a more natural approach to sexuality rather than the homophobic crap that gets bandied around by hetero guys and their macho attitude to others. How's that grab ya? Xxx

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Would be nice if the person advertising actually replied to people that showed interest. Never heard of a face to face interview process before a party?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Unless it's a spur of the moment "club" night, we tend to register as soon as we have decided. In addition, we usually update our profile with a notification and create a date request (with the disclaimer that it is simply a place holder for the party / event). This way, it appears in the news feed of our friends etc

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