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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  And it's a common occurrence on RHP. One just has to accept it, and move on, as everyone has their own tastes & preferences when it comes to what they find attractive. Then there are the photo collectors who had no intention of meeting in any event. All they want is access to ones PG, after which they vanish back into the woodwork. Sadly manners, respect & etiquette is lacking in many, nowadays. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  225Special

  8 years ago

  We have had it happen to us, I think it has probably happened to everyone on here. Sometimes it will be the pic collectors, the single males posing as couples wanting fodder for their wank bank, or genuine people that just don't feel any click at our photos. Don't take it personally, because for every one that does that, there will be a lot more that will possibly become friends and more.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Don't let it bother you, happens all the time. Next.

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  Katkat

  8 years ago

  Lots of peeping toms just delete their access to your gallery. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  I'm a visual type person. I have my pics up so they can get their own visual attraction in the yes or no category. If they don't have their pics up, as in your case OP, they must be opened after some initial messages. Obviously there is the initial anticipation of a possible interlude, their description saying average, attractive or very attractive and the human trait of imagination has a preformed vision of what they may be playing with soon. Then the moment arrives of the open album........ Oh my lord. How did that face arrive on that hot bod? Call me shallow. Call me what you like. But if l don't find the person attractive there is no desperation in me that will take it further. But l do have sensitivity and l won't tell them l think their head is a bit light on in the looker stakes. So l pull up stumps and move on to greener pastures. Then a while later they message again. Their album is closed. And you wonder what they looked like again.... . Maybe my horny level has risen sufficiently....... Nah. Can they survive another ghosting. Best not go there. It's all a bit weird in here sometimes. Maybe I'm number 1 ticket holder? No. Just visual and l know what l like. Shallow..... Maybe. Do l care? No.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Yes, has happened to me, and has happened for me. What's worse is if you meet and they go... nah, this face ain't working out for me. (That might have happened to me once before, as well - ouch) I'm all about the face (if we're talking purely physical) so much that it trumps every other physical feature. But you and others have mentioned other reasons that could be involved as well, apart from just a physical 'thanks, but no thanks'. I hope you're feeling ok. x

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Absolutely and they aren't always an 'oil painting' themselves and I like to think I'm not that shallow (unless they lied about their profile). Always willing to meet up to see if a connection in order to take it further. Plenty of fish in the sea!

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  What Annie said 👍

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  regularly. If they disappear, so does access.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Yes, I have people who disappear and people who never even respond after providing access to PG. I don't do it, I always respond but I do a review after several months and remove access to my PG for people who hasn't replied for a while (usually a month).

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Yes, there've been times when I've been given access to face pics and gone 'hell, no!' But I've never been able to outright ghost the person in question. Like Meander said, I try to get the face pic swap out of the way as quickly as possible. It's just too awkward when you've exchanged a bunch of messages already and then find that the face doesn't match the online persona, or vice versa. Also, as others have said, I think there are plenty of guys on here who are just picture collectors and nothing more. If there's not enough skin showing in your private photos, they move on very quickly. And conversely, if there's plenty of skin on show, they've got what they want and they move on equally quickly. Bottom line, I highly doubt that they're ghosting you because they're put off by your face pic xx

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  lil_bit_rusty

  8 years ago

  When I've previously been active on here it used to happen all the time... They'd say they loved my public pics and request to see more... so I'd show them more... of the same. I'm not a cock shot person, never have been, nev... probably never will be (there was that one time in band camp years ago... but I'm sure that can't still be floating around he internets ). If they don't respond... they were probably just after a dick pic (or turned off by what they saw)... either way I didn't hear from them again. *Shrugs* I'm happy with my pics and the personality/humour I try to showcase. The one's that do respond have turned out to be the genuinely interested ones (few and far between they may be). Cheers Rusty

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