Private party or Club party

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  LifeUnscripted

  10 years ago

  Honestly like both of those things. A house party is much harder to set up, and get the right couples to come to, but they can be incredibly fun and satisfying with the right crowd. A club is just much easier, turn up and instant party, but at the same time it is less intimate and less controlled. Both have positives and negatives - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Hi We have played at both , but do prefer a classy private event !!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I think the difference is the same as whether you prefer a bbq at home to dinner at a restaurant. They are both different yet in ways similar. I love a Club as I can met new people and even if play doesn't happen have a nice drink and some conversation. There is also, for me, the added attraction of being surrounded by a larger group of like minded people even if you don't know them.A private party as implied can be more intimate and for as long as you want. Sure you can invite people you do not know and that is great but generally there won't be the same numbers as a Club. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer to this. It depends on your mood, what you are after and the people you want to attend or mingle with.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Ive been to both.House party and clubs.I use to love the club at the gold coast utiopa.Clubs are more casual. More people on a theme night.I suppose it depends on the night people that are there they also have music and dancing at swingers clubs.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  With people you know and have a sexual attraction too...... and of course share similar kinks.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  We have bedn to both, but all depends on the mood, the people and situation, We are in for hot sexy nights with lots of passion but the athmosphere needs to be there for everyone

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  Paradisepair

  10 years ago

  I've really enjoyed a few overseas which kind of cross the border between the two. All the variety to see who you might click with along with the availability of intimacy. I definitely let me hair down more at intimate gatherings. Club sex just doesn't really do it for us in the same way...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  A lot of our private party friends at the clubs, we arrange parties at the clubs and also private ones...... Must say I do like going to the club with these friends.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Every moment, every outing, every party, every visit to a club is different. Sometimes good, sometimes not so good. on occasion fantastic. You can never know in advance so the only option is to try every thing, not just once but a few times. That is the only way to be reasonable sure something is not for you.

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  JohnAnn2227

  10 years ago

  We started with going to clubs and met some great people who we are now best friends with. We like the no pressure that clubs provide. Also there are a lot more people to meet. We have regular house parties with a group of 6-8 couples that we have made friends with through swinging. These parties are a blast! Sometimes someone will bring a new couple with them who they have been playing with and think will fit in well with everyone. There advantages for both types of party. Home parties are great in summer when it is a pool party. Spend the afternoon sunbaking naked around the pool and have a few cocktails and then the fun begins as the night progresses. Very relaxed and we control the timeline.

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  ChateauVino

  10 years ago

  As club owners. We'd have to say BOTH. We love hot and sexy private hosted parties as much as the next couple, but the good ones are few and far between, sadly.We really like setting the club up so that each time someone comes along, there is something different for them. We advertise widely for a diverse group of people. That way your chances of meeting a 'good couple' are multiplied. You don't want the same crowd week in week out at a club, it tends to get stale. Luckily, being a travel destination, we get to see a wide range of swinging couples, and during big holiday breaks, we often say that you won't find a sexier atmosphere with people keen to play, than the club (I guess holiday makers like to get right into it whilst they are away ?) Most of the private parties we get to attend, are with couples we have met through clubs.

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