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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I like your profile and your pics are fun, a great start. As for playing with others: communication, communication, communication. First between the two of you: What are your expectations and what are you both hoping for? Are they the same things?Further, I recommend playing the "what if" game.Mr Velvet: What if the other man gives your wife an orgasm you haven't see her have before?Mrs Velvet: What if your husband kissed the other woman with a little too much passion?The Mr. is straight, would he be comfortable "crossing swords" with another man? As for communicating with other couples: Make clear what your wants and limits are (including how you feel about safe sex), and never "take one for the team." Only play if everyone is truly happy with each other. You have "Meet first, play later", which is also my policy. Less expectations that way. If you end up playing with others, have a "safe word" between the two of you, in case you're not happy with how things are going and need to stop or take a break. Last but not least: always remember this is about fun. Enjoy yourselves! p.s. May I make one comment about your profile? You write "She is a larger girl (size 20), but very sexually open". Why "but"? It sounds like you're apologising for who you are, Mrs. I don't see why you would need to x

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It should be FUN :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hey Meander, Your adviceI just read your advice re: person apologising for the size of his Mrs - good advice Meander. There's just no place for shame in the bedroom and in general. Voluptuous woman really are sexy as all heck. How do you open up fully if you're feeling like you have to hide yourself!? I find it very disconcerting when woman try to hide themselves. I personally want to see them being open and honest and being proud to show there wares (us men are rather visual creatures though). I liked your cool headed and reasoned approach to your answer as well. People should know that it will cause them trouble if they aren't mentally equipped participate in a lovely evening and enjoy it for what it was/is - a very fuckin' exciting time. I'm no expert on the matter, but the experiences I have had were just beautifully exciting and a lot of fun 'n' giggles. I'd love to do it with my partner again. We are of sound mind(s) and both up for it. I do want to do it with the right sort of person though. Still figuring out this website. Hope to speak to you sometime. PB. xo

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Just copy and paste as that's spot on. Communication is everything.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  ....Meander has hit the nail pretty well on the head. I'd add though to try and manage your expectations. Noting it's never a good idea to 'take one for the team' (been there, done that in our early days), be prepared to accept that it's not always easy to find 4 people who are all equally attracted, so patience is key. Also, have a think about whether you just want to meet for sex, and if so, whether you're okay seeing the same person/couple more than once. We know swingers who won't. If you'd like friendship AND sex, your selection choices will be different again. Either way, it's a conversation you should have. Just my thoughts, Inadditionto (Mrs) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Wow, thank you so much Meander.And thank you for the compliment.

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  madotara69

  11 years ago

  If so, then the "what if" is such a valuable bit of advice. Truth is with a threesome that orgasm is going to be something you have never experienced before as it is something different, intense and extremely passionate if all goes well. So if you are in love then some things may hurt each other if they have not been discussed before. As for threesomes it's our cup of tea and making love is something we are willing to share with others, however that love is all in or nothing. Others may prefer to take turns and watch on, so it is the what if for the types of playing you seek, each is as important as each other we feel, though your relationship is the most important. Personally we like one tangled mess of passion, that way we all orgasm together as it is so very, very different and no worries for any feelings with being left out with something so magnificent. Advice is for taking care with who you may decide to play with, express to them your desires, ask them theirs and get a feel for the common ground in the middle somewhere, it will not go anything like you expect, ha ha. Best if you are all on the same page when it gets all messy. Mado Tara xx

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