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Pro tips for new players

August 01 2018

We're a married couple just shy of 30, looking to introduce a third player (female) into the bedroom. This isn't our first time looking, but so far we have not had a lot of "luck". This is our second time on RHP, following many recommendations. We've also used other sites and classifieds. Prior to upgrading our membership we seemed to get a lot of interest, both in views and flirts. Even a couple of messages. We decided to go all in with updating our profile, pics and upgrading to premium. Since upgrading however it seems like any interest has dried up. We rarely get a response to messages or flirts now, let alone anyone proactively contacting us. The majority of views are people outside of what we are looking for (usually blokes, ages 50 and up) I guess we're feeling a bit despondent about the whole thing and wondering if maybe we are missing something... Obviously our profile doesn't have face pictures (privacy reasons) and that can be a put off for some, but we have tried to put some stuff up there to give an indication, and being as clear as possible with what we are looking for in our description. Can anyone give us some pointers?

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Bazingal

6 years ago

rather than messaging and meeting one on one. Get out and about to some events to meet others in person. I think it's the best way to see if you all are attracted to each other and want to play. Good luck.

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Looking4cake

6 years ago

Quoting 'Bazingal' rather than messaging and meeting one on one. Get out and about to some events to meet others in person. Thanks for the suggestion :) We've been to a couple of events in the past for RHP and found them mostly to be other couples looking for the same as us. Admittedly it's been a little while. How many of these events have single women at them?

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FeistyFatty

6 years ago

You're chasing Unicorns. Same as the majority of couple's and men. The end of the line is down there a ways😋 Good luck guys x - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

We read a lot of comments in the forums about how hard it is to meet single girls but have foind it the opposite and that we have meet lots of single girls but struggle to meet couples. My tip is to let the girls do the communication and it seems to work. We are also not pushy and genuine.The meet and greets are great to meet other people and happy to give some adviceM

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HotNightsGC

6 years ago

Your profile is great, so no problem there. But unfortunately you’re looking for what almost every other couple out there is looking for. It comes down to numbers if you’re looking for single Bi women. Our advice (which has worked for us) would be to make more friends in the scene. Got to meet and greet events, get to know people at clubs etc. It’s amazing how many people you’ll meet through other people in the scene. Good luck to you both xx Ms HNP. - Posted from rhpmobile

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Looking4cake

6 years ago

Quoting 'Redmustang' We read a lot of comments in the forums about how hard it is to meet single girls but have foind it the opposite and that we have meet lots of single girls but struggle to meet couples. My tip is to let the girls do the communication and it seems to work. We are also not pushy and genuine. For the most part, Mrs is usually the one who messages. We do mix up and neither seems to have more luck than the other. For the majority of messages we send, we get nothing back. When we do get a response, it rarely progresses past our second message (response to their response). People who have sent us enthusiastic sounding flirts, then don't reply when we do get in contact You've said that you find it easy to meet single girls... But can you elaborate into the "how" you meet them?

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sweetnsensual

6 years ago

We also find it funny that couples cant meet single girls.Like Red we have met a lot of beautiful unicorns which we have as friends lovers and dinner guests.M<y birthday was spoiled by three beautiful girls.

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3someparties

6 years ago

As others have stated on here getting out to clubs and events is certainly going to help you find your elusive unicorn a lot quicker. But in saying this nothing is ever guaranteed. Don’t go with the sole mission of finding a single lady and exclude everyone else. Be social. Make friends. Word of mouth and social circles are a much better avenue than just messaging random girls who probably recieve upwards of 100 messages a day from couples and single guys all promising the exact same thing. There are plenty of options in Perth, whether it be a trip to Infusions or Club@103, or attending private events (Private Parties, Partyorg, WyldParties, the newcomer White Raven and ourselves all offer a variety of experiences, and I know at least a handful of so-called unicorns who regularly attend these events). Long story short, if you don’t get out from behind the screen chances are you won’t be seen. Good luck and maybe we’ll see you at one of our events one day.

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The_Antichrist

6 years ago

That the Perth market isn’t as lively as the eastern states... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

Just treat them like people. Be aware that it’s a big thing for them to consider meeting you where technically they are out numbered. Get to know them, show an interest in them personally, develop a rapport with them. Don’t be overtly sexual unless you can read that it’s welcome and they respond as such. Basically treat them like you would want mrslooking4cake treated. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

More often than not on here it's the guy running the RHP profile, so some ladies might be wary. As with other advisors get to the events and clubs so people get to know YOU and meet you both to see how you interact. Then you have to break into the cliques on here and once you're a known quantity your opportunities will increase. Patience is the operative word. You've just started and have plenty of time. Don't get too disheartened. Alternatively move east lol, seems all the unicorns are there. - Posted from rhpmobile

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