M49
Profile
August 29 2017
Comments
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RHP User
7 years ago
"Brokeback Mountain" And you say you just want NSA. Plus, with the "instant wives club" comment you come across as if you dislike women and will only tolerate them for sex and nothing more, in other words, socialising and friendships with women are out of the question for you. That's how it all appears to me.
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Don't expect people to come to you, or that every female profile in here is genuine 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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nibblemebi
7 years ago
Your number being listed is only going to be seen by paid members, who are predominantly men and couples... neither of which are your target audience so that's somewhat redundant IMO. And those men are going to try their luck on the offchance you're bi. As far as your profile reads.. It's just a little too "what can you do for me?" which can be offputting. You're competing against all of the other men on here looking to tick things off their fanstasy list, so being a guest will limit you no matter how hot you may be. I think you could also reword the Instant Wives Club.. I get the sentiment..but it seems a bit bitter to me personally. All the best in your search Nibbles xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Good quality photos are important too. Makes us feel wanted and special. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
By about 5 guys a day even though there's no indication on my profile that I'm gay or bi. I guess they're just checking me out so I take it as a compliment
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
With Meander. Your profile pics are strange and the wording in your profile is off putting almost like you have a level of disdain for females. So not surprising the fellas are texting you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
with the comments above regarding your profile, it's not very appealing. As for the guys messaging you, that's just par for the course on sites like this. Not much you can do about that. Take your number off the profile if the SMS messages are bothering you.
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RHP User
7 years ago
What sort of pics are acceptable? I'm not the sort of guy that does dick pics, I don't take pics of myself with dead fish, I don't have a hotted up commodore or a boat. I like animals and nature and rhp doesn't allow 99% of my pictures. I even had to blur out parts of my profile pic to get it passed. I'm just a simple down to earth country bloke (real american cowboy type, accent and all) trying to get by in the big smoke. It's me in the calendar, as I live and breathe, I'm not some dolled up pretty boy model pretending to be a cowboy, I'm the real deal pretending to be a model. I'd have thought having the real man would've been better than the fantasy. My "instant wives club" comment is based entirely on my typical dating site experience. After the first few conversations and often even before meeting, it seems the women are ready to move in, wanting to "fix" my broken heart and I'm in no way ready or wanting a mother to lick my wounds. when it comes to the emotional side, to say I'm reserved is probably an understatement. I'm not looking for a wife, nor a girlfriend, just a good time to distract me from bad memories. I guess, I'm wanting some company, the occassional fun date, laughter, flirting and if it goes well some bedroom/kitchen/outdoors/wherever antics. Broadening my sexual experience along the way. So how do I explain that in a desirable profile without scaring all you ladies away? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'nibblemebi' Your number being listed is only going to be seen by paid members, who are predominantly men and couples... neither of which are your target audience so that's somewhat redundant IMO. Another good point.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
I'm a happy go lucky cowboy complete with accent....whilst I'm happy to date and get to know you, understand I'm newly separated so anything too serious I'm just not ready for.... I enjoy....*insert what you detailed a bit in your defensive reply* .... And do yourself a favour change those pics....are you a calendar or a guy that wants to meet women?? Your pics should be more than a side on mug shot at the local lockup....try taking some pics with you doing stuff that you would include your potential lover in....that way you're not topless, or showing off your trophy fish..... Lastly....take that chip off your shoulder when people give you advice....
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've uploaded more pics, but question your double standards. A man must show his full face clearly or you're not interested, while you're pics are mostly obscure and your one full pic is blurry. Why is it good for to keep some anonymity but a guy can't? - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
The second last paragraph of your post "I guess I'm wanting...." perfectly describes the type of experiences you seek. I'd suggest putting that on your profile. And maybe add a sentence explaining that really is you on the calendar, and give some context to it. Good luck on the site 👌
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RHP User
7 years ago
Listen mate it's just like the pub, sitting at the bar waiting for them is going to be a long wait, get off your bum and work the room.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MrApril'guess, I'm wanting some company, the occassional fun date, laughter, flirting and if it goes well some bedroom/kitchen/outdoors/wherever antics. Broadening my sexual experience along the way. So how do I explain that in a desirable profile without scaring all you ladies away? ....You've been given some handy hints here but if we advise you any further, it would be "our" words and description you'd be using in your profile and not your own.Not trying to sound rude here but figure it out for yourself like the rest of us have done.
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RHP User
7 years ago
When I had paid (6 months membership) I'd often make the first move, share face pics etc... With only 2 replies in that 6 months. So I didn't renew. Fair enough, I'm not the bloke the ladies are looking for, I get we all have our tastes. It's a little disheartening being ignored or rejected but I'm a big boy, I can deal with that. But where in my profile do I ask for random guys to send me pics of their dicks to my phone.(which I'd be embarrassed to call my own) telling me they saw my profile on rhp and asking if I'm bi. One bloke even offered me a grand if I'd take him out!! I'm confused entirely, hence my post. What am I doing wrong to attract the opposite crowd to what I'm looking for? - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Defensive much? Just relax and try to not take this all too seriously. It's meant to be fun afterall. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You're getting warm 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
How you REALLY look 😃
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RHP User
7 years ago
is gold 😁
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ok. This is why I wouldn't contact you. Smoker (stinky and cum from a smoker tastes yuck) Calloused hands (what woman would want hard scratchy hands touching their pussy?) You ACTUALLY state that you are recently separated. Who cares!? This is not a dating site. No one cares if you just got out of a poly relationship and had 15 wives. You current relationship status is the only thing that's relevant. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
😀 just going through some old pictures on my phone, found one of you I'd requested (numerous times from memory, kept getting calendar pictures) holding a piece of paper with a word written on it, for verification. What I eventually got was a dark picture with the face half cropped off, a skinny dude, the muscled model type with the perfect looks/body/face with the squared jaw, wherw was he? That's not you mate so how about using real pictures. You've been told and you choose to continue with these same pictures. Like Meander said, take a selfie, simple I also see this as an ad, fine if the ad was real
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MrApril' I'm confused entirely, hence my post. What am I doing wrong to attract the opposite crowd to what I'm looking for? - Posted from rhpmobile You've already had quite a few responses explaining possible reasons for both, but to reiterate what I said previously about the men contacting you thing, that will happen on here regardless of what you do or don't have or do or don't say in your profile. It happens to just about every single guy on here. If it is bothering you that much then I would remove your phone number at least; as someone pointed out single women are the least likely to message you on that number so you're not gaining much at all in terms of your target audience by having it up. As Meander pointed out, women constantly receive messages from men (and couples) who have clearly not bothered to read our profiles or preferences and are just trying their luck. That is what those guys are doing with you. As for the not receiving responses from women thing...in addition to the issues already mentioned regarding your profile, again you're not alone there. Most single men struggle on here. You have to remember there is a significantly skewed ratio of men to women and as a result the women can be pretty picky. I will say that based on your profile and the responses you've given here, you're not putting out the best impression regarding your interpersonal skills. Now, I realise that you said yourself that you have a reserved personality, and I know that not everyone is great at the whole human interaction thing (I suck at it a lot of the time myself). However, if you think that your interpersonal skills aren't going to matter at all on here and you'll be able to just find a woman to shag you with hardly a conversation being had beforehand, you're definitely on the wrong track. Most women on here will still want to establish some sort of mental connection before jumping into bed with you, and no that doesn't automatically mean that they're looking for a ring on the finger and a lifelong commitment. I have a feeling that your recent separation and obvious aversion to women looking for any sort of commitment is probably affecting your ability to be objective about what women on here may or may not be looking for, and like many men you came here with the (largely misguided) idea that RHP would be a great place to find instant sex. I see it all the time in men's profiles on here, and like you most of them end up wondering why they aren't having any luck. In a way I can understand it, due to the way RHP and similar sites are marketed, but the reality is usually quite different. Most single women on here may not be looking for serious relationships, but with most of them you will still actually have to talk to them first and be able to see them as more than just a pussy on legs. If you really don't want to go through much in the way of conversation etc. then one suggestion I have is that you expand to looking for couples where the women also play alone / women in open relationships. Some of those women are more willing to do very casual sex with single guys, although again that's not the case for all. Good luck.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ok, this is what I get from this Pay to be a member, women want to be chased. That's not my experience on other sites or in life. My experience is that women like to be in control of who they talk to and when My photos are fake, put up some real ones. Maybe I'll start a reverse catfish policy, I'll use pics of someone else, land a date and end up looking better than my pics.... Are there any apps to make me short, fat and bald? Lol Women want the immediate option for a relationship. I'm screwed on this alone. I'm of the belief that partnerships are built over time. Through trial and hardwork not because of lust and talking to someone online a few times. Cowboys must be gay because a movie told the world so. Sorry to disappoint guys, but not all cowboys are gay, just the same as not all gays are Cowboys. While I have no issues with your sexual preference, it's definitely not for me. You can stop sending me pics of your tackle. The several pms/sms I've received are a mixed bag of "just be yourself" "if that's really you in the pics, DAMN!" "A woman that's been burnt like you have will understand you aren't looking for love, and will feel a lot more secure in you knowing that you won't try to rob her independence" And Dick pics Dick pics More dick pics (seems like complaining about dick pics is an invitation to be sent more) Abuse for being defensive Abuse for complaining about dick pics (apparently I should be flattered that a guy sent me a pic of his hard willy that is shorter than his hand is wide) Reasons why I'm not their type (I appreciate this, and completely understand we all have our own tastes) - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
The women here are trying to help you.... They're probably also women that you'd like to get to know on an intimate level.... So instead of getting defensive and petulant, open your mind, and try something they've suggested... Cos the way I see it, you're not succeeding now, so what have you got to lose?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The comments from here are few compared to the texts and messages. I've changed my profile based on advice from here. Got rid of the calendar, got rid of the relationship comment, got rid of the calloused hands, got rid of the nsa.... Reworded the entire thing and put up new pics. I also removed my number from my profile. I've looked at other men's profiles and tried to just blend in and not stand out or draw attention to myself. Do I think blending in will work? Not really. I honestly don't think a 40yo bloke who doesn't live in the gym has a chance when the site is full of 10/10 20-30yo studs Have a look, tell me what you think. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm fine with not having a chance. I joined rhp that in the off chance I might be able to broaden my sexual experiences and live out a fantasy or two... No one ever really fills the bucket list so I realise it's just a dream that'll never come to fruition. I do hope removing my number stops the dick pics though, and failing that, I'll simply delete my profile. This site is for mostly for swingers and bi girls for the most part anyway it seems. - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Perhaps become bisexual maybe? Seems you already have male punters. Some folks on here through feedback believe that posting a mobile makes them look a bit desperate. Perhaps give the mobile when there is more detailed chat. Mystery can be a good thing. And it is true the is a very very sexual site. Good luck all my sexual peeps! Be creative. And do it or die trying to do it!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting you "and put up new pics" New pics? Which ones are new? A selfie mate, take a selfie, stand facing front on to a mirror and take a picture, without sunglasses, good light, what I call a real and current picture. Lose the white water rafting picture, sorry but even if it is you, it's not current, how old is that picture and is it even you. Regardless, looking at it, it doesn't white water wash me. You also said the calendar pictures were gone? No they're not, they've just been chopped down. You can choose to continue the way you are or take the very good advice you've been given. We don't like surprises. Painting yourself as a super model is fine if you are one, if not or if it was in your past, lose that and be current, advertise your current self. You might be surprised at how things will change for you once you make that move. Up to you though, your profile and your choices
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think your post on the 'fear of commitment' thread actually explains a lot here. Your current mindset and emotional state are obviously not in a good way (which is obviously understandable given what you've gone through), and you came to RHP hoping that some casual, 'absolutely no strings attached' sex might help you while you're trying to get your life together and get over your ex. Again, I have seen this scenario so many times in men's profiles and comments on here (I have also been that person but will stick to the male perspective here). 99.9% of the time it doesn't help you, it will only make your mindset worse. You've found that it's not nearly as easy as you thought to find very casual sex on here and that is making you even more negative, frustrated and trashing your self esteem even more. That is very obvious in your comments and I would hazard a guess that it comes across in real life as well. Along with your obvious, almost pathological fear of a woman who shows any sign of wanting anything more than a fuck and run. I'll be blunt, in your current mental state (which is coming across clearly in your comments) I would not even consider meeting you, and I suspect that goes for most women as well once they realise that you are still in the process of dealing with some significant emotional turmoil. Even if you found that elusive 'fuck and run', it almost certainly won't help you in the long run, it's just a band aid and eventually may even make you feel worse. Again, I've seen it many times and have been there myself. If I were you I would consider taking a break from RHP entirely until you have managed to process some of your trauma and are in a healthier emotional state. Not saying you have to be the model of perfect mental health - a lot of us here are a bit broken for various reasons and I'm one of them - but you should be in a much better place than you are now. At the moment being on here with all its associated frustrations is just going to make your situation even worse. Do what you will with this advice, whatever you do I wish you the best.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Welcome to the forums! Its pretty cut throat on here. Your new pics are great, we all have some emotional baggage to deal with, yes, most women like more than a root and leave scenario but .........dont take all of the comments to heart. Meeting people is the best way to get started, waiting for something to happen in the inbox can be frustrating, and if you are a social person, which Im guessing you are, why not look up the Events pages. There are private parties, Meet and Greets, club parties.....for me, it was the best way to actually meet people. Club 103 is good because there is a social area meaning no pressure to do anything you dont want to. I feel sorry for single guys on here, the expectations of RHP and the reality are an eye opener for some people. Im not talking about the guys expecting sex every night of the week, I mean guys who want to actually meet like minded people. And its hard for us women too, we get let down by guys who say they are single when they are not, and as for the no shows.....This is online dating, its a bit of fun and shouldnt be causing any angst. Get out and meet people, Perth has a great RHP community and hopefully you get to meet some of them soon.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Telling someone they have a fragile mental state when you know absolutely nothing about them is uncalled for. There have been many posts on here that point to someone who is upset or having issues but we ALL go through this now and again.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PerthSocialites' Telling someone they have a fragile mental state when you know absolutely nothing about them is uncalled for. From the OP's comment on the 'fear of commitment thread':''I hurt, a shadow of the man I once was, suffering severe trust and abandonment issues." That plus the comments on this thread do indeed indicate a fragile mental / emotional state. I didn't just pull that inference out of my arse.Socialising may indeed be very helpful for the OP and I would support that as a potentially helpful in his road to regaining self esteem and trust in others, but I still maintain that looking for NSA sex and hoping that will fill some sort of void is not going to be helpful for him. Nor for the women he is obviously going to be very mistrustful of given his current state of mind.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I went to one event I was invited to, prepaid as a single man even though I thought the pricing structure was extremely biased (more than quadruple a couples entry and women got in free) I figured I bite the bullet and get out there and meet some people. When I got to the venue, there was a small line, so I waited. I watched lady after lady walk past and straight in, I watched couples walk past and straight in, while us single blokes stood in line. A few blokes in front of me progressed in the cue... Cool I'm next... A lady comes out, talked to the bouncer saying they were at capacity. Me and the half a dozen guys behind me were turned away, no refund, no real apology ... Bouncer said "luck of the draw mate" and sent me on my way. I'm not sure how often it happens like this, but at the risk of a two and a half hour return drive, paying $40 for secure parking I won't need and an entry I won't gain, it's not something I'm keen to do again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
When my guy buggered off, out of the blue, I had severe trust and abandonment issues. Its unavoidable if you have been in a long relationship and suddenly it all comes tumbling down. I know that in those first few months I acted out of character until I finally came to terms with the situation. But I certainly didnt feel as if I needed to get help from a professional and i never doubted my mental state. Its part of life, relationships break up and it shatters one or both people emotionally. It doesnt always mean you have mental problems.
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RHP User
7 years ago
And what mental state is that exactly? The knowledge and understanding of my own life? The knowledge and understanding of what I have to offer a partner? The knowledge and understanding of what I need as a person in order to overcome a pretty horrible situation? Thank you for your assumptions, but they aren't correct - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Club 103 is different....you email them and register and your name goes on the admission list. You will get in. The clubs are def biased towards single guys, but its the way it is. Try a meet and greet, free and its like going out for a drink with a group of friends. Good luck, just be optimistic!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Actually a meet and greet might actually be a good idea. Hopefully "touch" is there and I can make her eat her words! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PerthSocialites'It doesnt always mean you have mental problems. I was not inferring that he has mental problems in the sense of a mental illness or mental health condition, of course I wouldn't make any sort of assumptions about something like that. However, it's pretty clear to me that his state of mind in a general sense is not the best at the moment - he has admitted this himself. For most people, a traumatic break up will affect their emotional and mental state significantly, obviously in most cases it's not a permanent thing but again the OP has himself said that he is still quite affected by the break up. It's nothing to be ashamed of, and again I maintain that he needs a bit more time to process his thoughts and emotions before trying to use RHP to find casual sex (in the online sense). We both know how much single men can struggle on here and how disheartening it can be for them, all of his comments reflect that frustration in a very palpable way, and I just don't believe that added stress is very helpful him at this point in time. As I said, I agree that attending some social events would be a positive thing for him to do and that may be a better way to build some connections in the shorter term.
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RHP User
7 years ago
The trauma of a break up has taken its toll on my self esteem as any break up does. I was once one of the most confident men you'd ever meet. However, my break up hasn't had the effect I think you perceive. If anything it's made me realise that I'm not perfect. It's brought me down to earth in a sense. I have a firm grasp on what I'm looking for and what I have to offer in return. You assume all I want is a root and boot, you couldnt be further from the truth, just because I've closed the relationship door doesn't mean that I've forgotten everything in between. Nsa, what does that mean to you? To me it means I don't want expectations or obligations. I don't want either person to be used as a puppet at each other's whim. This is a site for adults, naturally I assumed an adult would understand that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You seem to have a personal aversion to my photos. None of my photos showcase me as a Chippendale model as you suggest, I think your imagination is getting the best of you - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
But can say that vegas does actually look like the new pics on his profile. Met him a couple of times. Wording needs some tweaking but the pics are real. - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
7 years ago
It's not gay if you're just practicing for chicks. Hugs G
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gazpacho
7 years ago
Oh. It's a rope. You must be straight.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi Vegas, Just throwing in a male perspective. I think your photos are fine. I think they tell a bit of a story of who you are. I look at your photos and read the description. They go together pretty well. As I can see the relevance in the images with the words. Not sure what the profile was like before so cant comment. I always find it hard to write great descriptions on sites like this, but it seems like you are being pretty honest and upfront. That is what I have tried to do on mine. By being honest and upfront, there can not be any issues down the line. Either you will find someone who is interested in who you are or you wont. Thats just life. Keep you chin up mate. Good luck out there. CuriousCat - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweet_cherry69
7 years ago
Personally I like your white water rafting photo and the cowboy hat - 2nd to last photo is appealing to me. I'd meet you for a beer / coffee and see if there's any chemistry & attraction there. Hit me up cowboy 😄💋🍒😘 Cheers Rach
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RHP User
7 years ago
Nice work, mate. You asked a question, you got some answers/opinions and you've taken them on board. Your new profile is much improved imho. And I'm enjoying your comments on various forum topics too. One last bit of advice, keep an eye on PerthSocialites... they organise a lot of fun, social events where you can get to meet a great bunch of people. Good luck, and hope you have heaps of fun :)
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Seachange
7 years ago
I haven't seen your old profile so my comments are on your current ones. Your pics arr great. Hot pics. Hubba hubba. Your write up is honest and it shows an articulate and self aware man with manners and intelligence. I think you'd be able to meet people here easily. Lots of good attributes. I like it. 👍 Ad Elke said, go to the Perth socialites events. I've been to a few and I'm from Melbourne. They're relaxed social meets and lots of fun. A good way to expand your network of friends and even lovers. Wish you the best and keep at it. 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your current pics are super hot! Any self respecting gay or bi dude is going to want to check them out! That is no reflection on you, just how it is online. Just to let you know, I think you will be in lots of guys wank bank so they will come and revisit your profile. As Pommy says, take it as a compliment.
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RHP User
7 years ago
In the end you're an adult and nobody can make you do or not do anything. I notice that the comment in which you made some rather insulting remarks about a female poster has been deleted. Now, I can understand your frustration, as a woman I also have my reasons for sometimes becoming very frustrated with the online dating / hooking up game and with certain people on here. When I find myself starting to personally attack people and letting them get to me that much, I know I need to take a step back and take a breather. As you have found, the online search for sexual connections on here is often very frustrating and disheartening (that applies to everyone, single women and couples as well as single men). If you think you can find a way to deal with that without letting it send your mindset into a negative spiral, then by all means keep going with it. You've taken some of the suggestions made to you on board and that's a good thing, but the underlying currents of defensiveness, anger, and the lack of belief in yourself are still there. Plus the assumption you have made that all women want the option of a relationship - that's certainly not true. There are women who are looking for the same sort of thing that you are, but you have to be prepared to be open to a level of emotional intimacy without automatically thinking that it means the woman wants to drag you to the altar. I've had a lot of experience with trust and abandonment issues myself, my situation is different to yours and even more long standing but I can empathise with the complex feelings of both wanting some sort of emotional connection and intimacy with another person, but also simultaneously being shit scared of getting close to someone in any way. I'm better than I used to be but it still affects me and I'm still trying to work out how to move forward and deal with it. My issues have also sometimes resulted in me being pretty shitty to the people I've been intimate with - it's easy to become self absorbed when you're dealing with your own problems but try to keep in mind how your actions and feelings may also be affecting others. Once again, good luck.
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Seachange
7 years ago
Stay positive. There will be lots of negativity around and lots of assumptions on who you are based on very little they know of you. Lots of armchair psychologists. Lol. Don't take the negative comments to heart. Hell nowadays I just laugh at or ignore them as many are not constructive. Some comments can come from people with a negative or depressive frame of mind. Dont make their issues yours. Just read previous posts. good for you single men do get a less favourable ride in here but you seem strong and resilient. Keep at it. Definitely recommend going to Perth meet and greets. and try the interstate ones too if you have the time and resources. You never know who you'll meet. I have lots of fun in them and made lifelong friends.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I do hope you feel better now lily. I have to say though, it has been awhile since you've had one of your childish, passive aggressive digs at me, you must have been going into withdrawals
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RHP User
7 years ago
LD yes, your comments are always from the heart, real and honest. Op you should take those words in. I also agree the pictures are great. The question I asked though re when they were taken, still hasn't been answered?
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Seachange
7 years ago
Lol. Withdrawals? Lol. Not at all. I do have a real life outside Rhp after all. 😉
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precious142
7 years ago
When you need new pics taken, get in touch!!! The Perth DOWs are experienced in taking some fabulous male profile shots..... And we have a ball doing so!!! P
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RHP User
7 years ago
at least ONE of your photos makes you out as a Bi pin-up... Troy Dann style (Cock sucking Cowboy)Don't get me wrong I actually LIKE Troy.. Bullsbrook and horses eh..... I reckon IF we swapped facebook URL's, I would not be surprised to find we have mutual friends. Can't help with your Profile mate... BUT...I go out every now and again.. to a pub... NOT to get laid.. but have a good time.I stay positive and have a fucking good time.. I have "My Pal Alcohol" as a wingman and MORE often then not, I get invites and offers..a LOT more then I get on RHP..Having said that... I do enjoy my time on RHP.. and the friends and associations I have developed over the years..Hang in there fella... and Ignore the negatives on here... (I am closer to Calvary then Cavalry... but have Calgary on my bucket-list) Good luck.. and who knows.. we may meet one day.. ( I will NOT be hitting on you.. so don't stress)
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RHP User
7 years ago
You sound like my kind of bloke lol. Pubs and alcohol. Horses and women... And the stampede is on every Cowboys bucket list lol Troy is a clown.... an idiot, but he's bloody good at it hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
...if your lack of achievement here is upsetting and disturbing you, then my advice is to pull back, to withdraw your efforts, and just chill a bit and have a think. Pay for a membership, fine-tune that profile, have a chat on the forums, try not to get baited into debates and do things in your own time. People will find you, eventually. Absolutely nothing from here is worth getting upset about. Which is a general life lesson, I suppose. And don't put all your eggs in this basket. Cheers .
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Seachange
7 years ago
Vegas, you don't need to prove anything to anybody here. Just be yourself. Chill a bit. You've done as much as you could in your profile. It's really good atm. If people are still wanting more than what you can afford to offer, they are not for you. work with those who appreciate you and your efforts and those who are of the same ilk as yourself. Surround yourself with good people who will help you and lift you up rather than withbthose who will drag you down. There are too many of the latter in here. Stay focused and most of all, HAVE FUN. That's what we are all here for. 😊 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well no chance of you being accused of inconsistencies, the way you repeat yourself 😂😂 maybe I should try that 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sorry, it's bloody hard when I'm called a liar. Can't stand dishonesty - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
7 years ago
I too loathe dishonesty which many here will tell you I'm honest as the day is long. Come over here and sit on my lap, I'll absentmindedly stroke your inner thigh while you tell me all about it. Here's a tip though sweetpea, I never search men's profiles, EVER. Hence you only being viewed maybe 2-3 times/mth and I'll assume many ladies out there are the same. I also wouldn't list your phone number a) for the reason you mentioned and b) because there's a lot of weirdos and unsavoury types out there. Safety First Always even if you're a big, strapping, well-constructed, gorgeous looking man like yourself. The biggest problem is that the WA ladies have such a plethora of choice but FIFO isn't appealing to many either (not sure if that's you either btw because I haven't read your profile (which I will do) or the rest of the topic). I suggest you move to QLD 👍🏽😘xx PS Yes I'm cheeky.
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On_Safari
7 years ago
You've described the perfect date. Can we play darts too? I'm a country girl and your profile reflects most of my male friends back home, also honest hardworking men. Don't change it. Your pics are terrific! 10/10 from me. Hang in there, someone will answer your call. ~ Indy
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Seachange
7 years ago
Love your work. 😘👍
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On_Safari
7 years ago
But he is quite breathtaking...,,
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wantstochat
7 years ago
I'm a keen darts player 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
Meet Indy
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you ever make it to WA The pub it is - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Vegas if I ever get to WA...you, Cavey and I are going to a pub ANY PUB and running amok 😂 I'm sure us two old cunts will teach you a thing or 10 but that would definitely be an interesting 3-some!! What you think Cavey, we could start the day with horses, stockmans lunch and a swim somewhere followed by a trip into town to scare the locals? (Laughing and grinning at the thought)
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RHP User
7 years ago
You don't know these small country towns... Nothing could scare the locals!! Hahaha. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Count me in too... worth making a trip to Perth for :) Maybe we can persuade Kool to join us as well
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Haha gotta get the PieFace Roadshow happening, now there's a holiday to remember!!! Drive to Sydney pick up you lot, then continue on to collect the Melbourne Mob and head to WA for one of Lady Tuscan's cupcake parties and a Sundowner with the Socialites!! before going and destroying the peace and serenity at Caveys.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
With some of the comments he's made l wouldn't let you, you have much better taste.
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