M40
Profile Blocking
July 11 2018
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
how many times you looked at a profile, how you messsged them , how many times you messaged them and what you wrote in your message, before being blocked. People have right to have their own personal tastes , likes & dislikes. They also have the right to block anyone they feel like blocking . There does not have to be an explanation why they block. For example you might have sent an unsolicited message without first reading through their profile and as such you were not what they were looking for , as a result of which they have decided to block you . It’s sometimes easier to simply block someone, rather than then face a barrage of questions ( and abuse ) as to why one is not interested in them . There are no guarantees on this site . No one owes you anything . Not even an explanation or a response to your message. You don’t have any rights . You don’t deserve anything in return. It’s a disposable society on here. Best to have zero expectations nor entitlements - Posted from rhpmobile
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curious_72
6 years ago
Your profile is way over the top.maybe tone it down, just a tad.. or actually a fricken lot.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Than Dynamic. Sometimes you simply have to roll with the punches my dude. As someone who also is blocked simply for sending a message or or looking at their profile too much it slowly eventuates into nothing more than water off a ducks back. You’re on an adult hookup site so rest easy knowing there’s a few individuals who’ll want to get a piece of you Dil. All the best for you - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Its shows ur inside how rude ur . lucky I didn't met u guys in real . saying no its not a hard thing anyway . why u took so much of ur time to reply this comment ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Love that this ended up in off-topics, is this where you posted it Dil? Men have a whole PILE of expectations placed on them here. And even if they do the right thing, match all the criteria to expect a reply in return, the right thing is often not done in return. It's double standards all the way... And people wonder what is wrong with the world. Sorry, I have no help to offer besides an unpopular opinion. You look like you have had a plenty good time though, so don't let people who don't know any better because of society's teachings bother you and keep on keeping on. Peachy
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
The response by the OP paints a picture on its own - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I thought it was a pretty snappy reply, lol, not bad for someone new to the forum. I hope he keeps it up, because he has 9 Validations, lol, so he must have something going on! Peachy, Dil is not a dill!
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HarleyQandMrO
6 years ago
When the profile of a couple or woman specifically says they have no interest in single men, it's not unreasonable for a single man to find himself blocked if he flirts, messages or repeatedly looks at the profile. Read the profile carefully. If you don't fit the criteria, move on. Trying your luck anyway suggests you have no regard for the boundaries of others, and are not likely to stop when told "No". - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Is the ultimate response. The Blocker has made their intentions clear. And the Blockee is usually aware as to why they have been blocked. You know the answer No one owes anybody anything, and if you go through life expecting any different, you will be disappointed
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honkytonk
6 years ago
i was compelled to block myself once
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nightingale8
6 years ago
😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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megz85g
6 years ago
I blocked because you sent me 2 flirts and 5 messages without getting any response, figured it was an easy way to make it stop - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Aimed indiscriminately, I'm saying people block for many reasons, including for the sake of it. Some block simply if a person looks at their profile, don't take it personally. Also, it's not always clear if a person has been blocked, they might be hiding their profile, as I am at the moment. Too funny, and here come the posts that haven't even read the OP. Scoring likes, and they say it's men that can't read. My advice that I have given in private before is not to worry about it, they could have hidden their profile for reasons unknown to you... but whatever, it really is their problem and you don't need to make it yours. Sexism, I can't wait for the day a raft of people tell a woman not to expect anything in return in Hot Topics. Peachy, I'll leave y'all to it.
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RHP User
6 years ago
That pun’s a chip of the old block 😂👌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
You have never messaged us nor sent us a wink , and as such we have never blocked you. You seem to have given the impression to some, by means of your reply to our reply, that we have blocked you. Perhaps your grasp of the English language is the problem ? You asked people’s opinions on the matter, and we gave your our opinion. We are entitled to an opinion are we not ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm out, how can anyone really expect anyone to care about them when they don't care about anyone. Is that the definition of selfish? For the sake of history, I never had the problems I hear so much about in the forum but I did make a habit of treating men like humans. Peachy
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
If l get text speak messages such as your responses, l don't bother. If you can't be bothered taking a few extra seconds to complete a basic English word. There are many others that have a disdain for text speak. Might have been handy back in the early days with the multi push lettering in the nineties, but smartphones have eliminated the need.
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
It paints the same picture as an entitled fucker .... Not saying he is one...bit the pictures are a similarity that’s hard to ignore ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
6 years ago
Dude. According to your profile, youre 33. You should have dropped that stupid text speak back there in your 20s But apart from that..... this is all going pretty well, don’t ya think! 🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile
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FUCKONFIRSTDATE
6 years ago
Send us a message and I will have you blocked before I read past Man. We are so fed up getting messages from "men" that obviously only looked at our pictures, or should I say hers. One idiot messaged today, directly addressing her like a piece of meat, that owed him. We have absolutely no interest in single men, but for some reason they ignore what we want, like we will suddenly change our mind when they send us a one line often crude message. They do not understand, messaging anyone who is not looking for single men shows no respect.
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aaenjoy
6 years ago
Ausphil, we think that is an excellent response, we block single men outright for a number of reasons, one is that we have not interest in them whatsoever but they can't seem to help themselves with random messages on RHP or mobile. Next is that we have seen how they tend to swarm and hassle people at parties, both private and commercial, finally, which you hit the nail on the head perfectly is that they see Asian ladies as a piec of meat and say the most horrible things about how they feel they can 'fuck' them. It seems the Internet and a catchy name on a adult, site makes them invisible to real life, so they become what they really are in life, pigs!, disgust and filthy. When we first got on, AMM and RHP we got some disgusting messages, so now, every man is blocked. No question. Message or look at profile and blocked. As it is all men on the chat are already all blocked.
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nightingale8
6 years ago
I try my best. Have some humour and be kind, or you may end up with blocked pies. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bazingal
6 years ago
"See it as a lesson learned and save your messages for people actually looking for you in the future. That way everybody wins, right?" Perhaps you could consider if you were to get multiple messages from men every day (you haven't selected you are searching for them). You take the time to reply thanking them for their message and but explain you are not interested as stated in your profile which they have clearly ignored and then you get abused or questioned why. Over time this is becomes tedious and quite frankly many don't want the drama. They are not being rude by ignoring unsolicited messages and blocking the sender as they do not want to converse with them. Do you reply to spam emails or junk mail companies?
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WINEnCHEESE
6 years ago
Going by your validations, and despite the text and gratuitous language, you seem to have done quite well for yourself. Hats off to you... But in response to your flirt a couple of weeks ago.... no we wouldn’t respond if you messaged us! Although we do wish you well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FredAndGinger2
6 years ago
We post lots of sexy pics so we don't mind guys and gals coming for a perve or even sending a message of gratitude, but we will block persistent pests that keep messaging after we ask them to stop. It really does not happen very often and we enjoy helping to make RHP a fun and sexy place to share Fred - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Phoenix
6 years ago
Just cop it on the chin and move on mate. I’ve sent well structured messages sans text speak and been blocked. No need to whine about it as most have said, you’ll never be everyone’s cup mod tea. I’ve also blocked guys and girls who seem to just have a propensity for multiple views. That just gets creepy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'The_Antichrist'Yeah peachy... It paints the same picture as an entitled fucker .... Not saying he is one...bit the pictures are a similarity that’s hard to ignore ... You know I can't see the red hot pics, right?... Peachy
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Eiliethiya
6 years ago
indiscriminately...anyone who sends rude/crude messages - no matter what kind of site you treat this as, everyone deserves a little respect.anyone friend requesting me without a single message or having met me - this is mentioned on my profile, so obviously you haven't bothered to read anything I've said.anyone sending a flirt telling me "you're exactly what I'm looking for, please message me I'm keen" - send me a message yourself, tight arse ;-)and married or attached men (those I haven't met and am friends with that is) messaging me or flirting...again, not what I'm looking for, so you haven't read my profile. A few years on RHP now and I don't have the same naïveté I started with!
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RHP User
6 years ago
You “deserve” a reply? Lol. Couples and women get heaps of messages a day and a lot more so from people who don’t bother reading profiles and send a message anyway. That, coupled with the fact that people act very shitty when you reject them and subsequently either send insults or demand explanations - it’s often much easier to ignore and/or block. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Looks like you have been around the block a few times.😋
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noeleena
6 years ago
Hi, Well my time in the chat room did not last long two days, and that's over,it comes up with log in well I have so that's not the issue, then I have to authenticate myself ,,,,oh.... now that could be an issue what do I do or how do you do that, seems like whats going on as I did not need to do that 3 days ago and now I do. So the gremlins are at work or the rats have made mince meat of what ever I had to be able to sign in thought it was too good to be true, back to sq one ….YET,,,,,again. any help would be nice unless something else goes haywire, danke. ...noeleena...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'noeleena' Hi, Well my time in the chat room did not last long two days, and that's over,it comes up with log in well I have so that's not the issue, then I have to authenticate myself ,,,,oh.... now that could be an issue what do I do or how do you do that, seems like whats going on as I did not need to do that 3 days ago and now I do. So the gremlins are at work or the rats have made mince meat of what ever I had to be able to sign in thought it was too good to be true, back to sq one ….YET,,,,,again. any help would be nice unless something else goes haywire, danke. ...noeleena... I guess the thing is, they expect people taking advantage of being able to have woman profile is that they actually be female... And they have been kind enough to allow you to continue in your current format despite your limitations (which you are clear about in your profile), or should I say extra appendages... yay, Peachy
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RHP User
6 years ago
You're too invested, expect nothing.On the bright side, you may have just dodged a bullet.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well i think that my profile is decent enough, very respectful, all the messages or most of them were very respectful and i still having a lot of people blocking me up. And i dont know you guys but sometimes i feel like frustated as my unsuccessful experiences using this platform, is it my pics? My profile? Could someone give me a light please? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Not sure what your not getting hunter30, you have to understand you're playing in the shallow end of the pool, broadly speaking, although there are in my opinion some real gems here. women I would be proud to have as closer friends, particularly one from Sydney and one from WA who are both forum regulars and very different women at that. But I digress, have you ever come across the Husband store in New York joke? if not, make google your friend! it is indeed instructive. Don't take your lack of cut through seriously, simply move on, after all, it is what it is. Good luck dude!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' If we are to believe the stats on the home page right now, single men far outnumber women and couples: 3741 Men seeking Women Online Now2311 Men seeking Couples Online Now 620 Women seeking Men Online Now639 Couples seeking Men Online Now That means that latter can be choosy. In my personal experience on regular dating sites the numbers are very different though, and there any advice I gave would be different too. Good luck x
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RHP User
6 years ago
Now why do I find blocking laughable, People look up your profile and block because you do not fit the mould. They use photos as a form of marketing treating themselves as a piece of meat that can be agreed with or disagreed, which is quite ruthless. Take with one pinch of salt. If the viewee can not see past the profile and is profile is genuine their bad luck. Beauty and ugliness are the two sides of the same coin! Ohh the irony of it! What ever happened to appreciating ones intelligence, woops sorry wrong web site!
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Quoting 'hunter30' Well i think that my profile is decent enough, very respectful, all the messages or most of them were very respectful and i still having a lot of people blocking me up. And i dont know you guys but sometimes i feel like frustated as my unsuccessful experiences using this platform, is it my pics? My profile? Could someone give me a light please? - Posted from rhpmobile Care to enlighten us about the not very respectful ones.....?
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Ready2Play
6 years ago
Totally agree. Suggestions maybe a polite no thanks - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hey AnnieWhichWay Ive made the mistake of be lead by peoples profile and because of that ive sent to 4 or 5 people some straight forward messages like naughty ones 😬 which checking the records of my own messages i came across them again and i thought what i dick head, and to those that ive could see i sent another message apologizing my conduc, thats pretty much it - Posted from rhpmobile
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one2joinus
6 years ago
Very simple answer to your question Dil. Our profile clearly states “Guys do not wink or msg us, we will find you! We will block you straight away if you do!“ You read this and decided that you will ignore our request and make contact. Hence why we blocked you. Not sure there’s much more to it. That’s our two cents.....happy hunting 😊xox - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Blocked huh.. Least of your worries.I get inundated.Ignored.Time wasted.Unsolicited dick pics and wanking videos sent to my private devicesWhinged at Strung along.Implied that I am fat or not the 'type' that apparently gangbangers want to fuck. I get stood up. not just by guys I am just meeting but even left wondering where a guy Ive been seeing for months is late at night and worry he is dead on a freeway. Then others infer It must be my fault for picking douchebags. Its always the womans fault though isnt it. Ghosted.Called crazy for standing up for myself. Harassed for pics.Told i am too much work Told i am responsible for mens behaviour.Annoyed by couples with no manners most often the male just acting like I am a whore on call.No response after seeing my private pics. Pestered for nudes.Overall judged and even on another site called a slut when I was surrounded by men wanking on camera? Told I have the problemCalled a lesbian And the best one called a cunt BLOCKED PS stacks of nice guys still around though and I just pick through until I find them
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RHP User
6 years ago
Manners are priceless. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Its a touchy subject. My view is that it is not hard to have manners and be polite. I also think that because the ratio of single men seeking single women is so lopsided that women think if they ignore the messsge it tells the guy they are not interested. I do understand also that what people want behind a keyboard here and what they want in reality can be 2 different things. Honesty in profiles will go a long way to helping the issue. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Dil, we personally block those that blatantly don't read our profile. The biggest problem for us is single men constantly sending flirts and messages when our profile states that we are not interested. If you can't take the time to read a profile and ascertain what these people are looking for, then why would people take the time to respond by telling you what's already plastered all over their profile. Blocking is easier because they have no interest in prolonging any interaction. I think you need to thicken your skin up a bit and just accept that your not going to be everybody's cup of tea 😊 Regards J&A xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
For me there’s a few reasons why I wouldn’t respond. Your profile is brief and contains a lot of non sensical jargon. Other than mentioning squirting as a quality you appreciate in women, you don’t really say much about what you’re looking for in a partner. And your photos show you having sex without protection- big block factor for me. You mustn’t be going to bad with message responses though if you have validations though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
"most of them were very respectful" lol. It wouldn't matter how many times you apologised. Those 4 or 5 people more than likely know another 4 or 5 people. Because l sure as shit know that my friends and l share info when we receive messages like that.
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custardapples
6 years ago
Maybe a silly question, but after being blocked what do you see when you try to click on the profile of the person / couple who blocked you? Anything?Just wondering.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I wouldn't even know or care if someone blocked us...unless it was a ghosting thing and we'd played a few times and that person didn't have the balls to end things properly. Move along I say...it's not a dating site, although it would be a nicer world if everyone was kind and polite etc...it just sometimes doesn't exist here and a thick skin is often required. - Posted from rhpmobile
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funfindersxx
6 years ago
We will block without giving it a thought only when we receive a response "Sorry you are not what we are looking for", Why would they want to waste their time ever looking at our pictures / photos again?We are doing them a favour with their time management. Every 12 months or so we unblock everyone, we realise as the years go past our views and expectations change so what we thought we would never do 12 months ago we will now do.
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RHP User
6 years ago
If they just dont have a profile anymore? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm new to this site...How do you know if you have been blocked please? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
If they block you ...they dont want you Its simple fella .... Btw ..i wouldnt respond if you contacted other than to say no thanks Or i may block you if I feel like it Just a thought ..tidy up yr profile perhaps ? Its crude ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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OkeyDoke45
6 years ago
Quoting 'hunter30' Could someone give me a light please? - Posted from rhpmobile There's no smoking in here sorry...
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RHP User
6 years ago
I used to take the time to personally and very politely advise why I did not want to continue communication. 80% responded with degrading fat shaming abuse and projected personal abuse back. 15% saw it as I wanted to continue chatting and they jut kept sending messages . I get a lot of winks and emails daily 99% from people Cleary not suitable despite filling out my profile .... and from men how think it not worth their investing money and continually send winks despite them being only guests ... if your a cheap area to even pay the small amount it costs to be a member but expect a full paying female member to respond to you... good luck !!! so I now find it easier to block than trying to be nice and taking the time to respond As per usual it’s the 99% idiots ruin it for the 1% decent So o don’t apologise and don’t feel anything blocking instantly ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
What ever happened to manners . When you send a message it's not to hard to say thanks but no thanks. Simple common courtesy . .. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Most people are not here to make friends. Just to find someone to live out a fantasy with. I don't understand why one would take offence at being blocked...why would you want to keep looking at a profile that has no interest in you anyway? Move on and enjoy what's around the corner.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Good on you Peachysxynlknolt. It's refreshing to know there are some respectful people on here. You are a rare gem in a paddock full of stones. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
The ratio of “single” men to anything else on here is way out of whack! Send one message and if there’s no reply then assume it’s a thanks but no thanks, your message fell between the cracks with hundreds of others or any other of whatever reasons. No expectations on here as a single guy makes life so much easier. Yes, I agree, it takes two 2nds to say thanks but no thanks( which I thank them for) but I also understand with that may come abuse or questions or extra unwanted messages. Take what you get and don’t get hung up on being rejected so harshly. It’s meant to be fun! - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Phoenix
6 years ago
Can you change your profile name to “ Snap dragon” I hope OP takes your well written take down before the fire breathing dragon really takes hold. There’s really no educating some people. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I will admit it is annoying when you get blocked for only ever being pilite and respectful and this is even from people who ask you to chat to them since there fenale guests and your the member only to be blocked when you go to reply. Just wastes my 1 of 5 a day.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Polite* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I m just confused because of ppl blocking profiles . When send a propper message with respect i think we Deserve a message back with Respect at least saying "No thank u " not just Blocking up . Any Ideas ?????.Yep, this worked for me beautifully for all the years I have been on here. I ignored the spam, the same as I advise you to do because we can't control other people's behaviour but we can control our own. And I have this ridiculous idea that if we offer respect in exchange for respect, there will be a balance of sorts. Peachy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Reading your profile gave me a headache... Use your entry key more, space out your sentences & FFS use your words!!! Short hand text talk straight away I block! To me shows laziness. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Funny how some posts are far more explicit than any profile could be. If it ain't meant to be, it ain't meant to be... Peachy, happy to say sayonara mother f**cker!...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hey Hunter...I thought I would answer you.Honestly I think you are doing ok.Ultimately, this is a nasty numbers game. What is so unfortunate that there are so many negatives for a woman to be on a site like this.Please keep this in mind and try not to take things too personally.Positive points. Your profile is transparent, you are real, not arrogant and no doodle pics!! LOLMaybe you could improve..Correct the few typos in there and maybe dot point a few things to make it shorter and easier to read...When you do chat be nice dont send anything r rated unsolicited. Be upfront, not pushy. However, dont let ladies waste your time.Another idea is have a look at other areas where there may be a higher population. IE Sydney... Would you be in a position to do a little traveling? A holiday. Sus it out.. you may need to think outside the box.Good luck
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hey mate; based on your profile; i see you have everything going on in the right way mate. Don't dig your own grave. Its very important buddy; we all respect eachothers diversities. Diversity is not just the origin that we all come from; but its much more comprehensive term:- Diversity of opinions; likes; dislikes; predilections and understanding everyone has the right to do what they want. Keep having fun mate. - Posted from rhpmobile
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meandyou121
6 years ago
This post was very amusing ya Dil..
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RHP User
6 years ago
Not all us women are rude I personally reply to them ALL with a yes or no so dont assume we are all that bad :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Not all us women are rude I personally reply to them ALL with a yes or no so dont assume we are all that bad :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
If you are replying to the OP, he has not suggested all women are bad at all but has questioned why some leap for the block button instead of showing the simple manners of saying no. That's why I copied and pasted the OP in my post last night. Good on you for replying, how have your experiences been because I mostly found replying was rewarding with a lot of the replies I'd get thanking me. Peachy
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sweetnsensual
6 years ago
If you reply with a no thanks then begin the questions What’s wrong with me? Are you stuck up? I really can’t be bothered to deal with that😂
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RHP User
6 years ago
This thread is actually based on the idea of blocking instead of answering 'respectful' messages. I'm thinking in this particular scenario, there would be no need to worry about return messages after a reply if that reply was given before the blocking complained about here. Hm, Peachy, like to think outside the square, on the topic
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RHP User
6 years ago
"disposable society"...i like that term 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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foxylady06
6 years ago
I do block people too but its mostly people who dont know how to be respectful to others but what p ***es me off is when someone looks at your profile and when you go to have a look at their profile they have made it that I cant see who it is why cant they have the balls to either block me or make it so I can see theirs - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
If you're getting blocked you are prob being a pest and they are not looking for you. Don't let it get to you mate no one owes you anything. Just move on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ive got to the stage of having to be quite blunt in my profile and when non locals inbox me. My profile stipulates clearly im ONLY After local and im Not after just a fuck.. YET I STILL Have guys hrs or states away inboxing and / or after quick fucks/ hook ups. How much clearer can one be?? Hence now u just block. Im just over it. So maybe these women are fed up also with guys not reading profiles? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
However, after our response to your first message which politely Informed you that we would get back at you if we are interested, you messaged us again, as well as regularly checking our profile who knows how many times. Maybe you are really a nice person and/or a great play partner. But your persistence is not cool and reading by some other comments it seems you need to take a step back and consider whether you need to tune down or apply some restraint to your intensity. Both me and my partner are very intense people, but we don’t let our nature make other people uncomfortable. We let our intensity out when we are by ourselves, or in right company, whips and chains etc. Whatever floats your boat. But mutual consent and respect are of paramount importance and while you may get fair bit of action going on in bedrooms, you’ll need to turn inwards for an answer. Also, drop that text talk, makes you sound like a high school boy and maturity means a lot when it comes to having charisma to influence others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Flirtatious_BBW' Ive got to the stage of having to be quite blunt in my profile and when non locals inbox me. My profile stipulates clearly im ONLY After local and im Not after just a fuck.. YET I STILL Have guys hrs or states away inboxing and / or after quick fucks/ hook ups. How much clearer can one be?? Hence now u just block. Im just over it. So maybe these women are fed up also with guys not reading profiles? - Posted from rhpmobile Respectful posts would mean they would match what you are looking for etc, in my mind at least? And what I take the thread as being based on... We have one 'claim' to have had contact with the OP? I go back to one of my other posts where I support the idea of blocking after replying knowing you've done your best. It's s shame we don't hear more success stories because most of what I read here comes across as really negative, not an attractor, that's for sure. Excuse the poetic license. The site is designed to attract men, but women are here have a different set of expectations. No great surprise there are regular clashes. Like there is in any relationship, lolol... I've got better places to put my angst though, and better things to make of the site... I dunno about these women but it's a shame to think it is their past encounters with non-respectful people that they allow to become their experience. Peachy, with no intent to demean anyone's opinion... but loves to problem solve, don't take it personally.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I would of thought respect would start by actually taking 30 seconds to read a bio within a profile (the writing part not the pics part) This would save the ironic disrespectful response we give. In the bio (again, the written section) we couldn’t be any clearer. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
On top of all we mentioned above, We just found 20 something friend requests -yours included- when we clearly stated that we do not accept friend requests from people we don’t know. Single men are already the largest group here, it doesn’t help that they are also the ones who don’t read profiles. There is a good reason many couples stick with those they already know and stay away from new hunts, you guys just dont get it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
That's how many I currently have blocked. Like my favourites list, it changes regularly, All for the betterment of my experience that I don't want to receive shitty messages either, though I don't get them from men trying to contact me I'm happy to say. My time on this site matters as much as anyone else's, Peachy
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RHP User
6 years ago
You need to understand the rates that women and couples get sent messages and flirts. Most, especially those with a bit more skin showing or look a bit tastier in their photos, would need a break from work to sit down and say sorry to everyone they weren’t interested in. Take the hint if they don’t reply, deal with it if they block you. Persevere if you’re brave and keep sending messages and flirts. It could work....did for me on the weekend😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetnsensual
6 years ago
I have no problem with being blocked by people we haven't met for whatever reason but do find it hurtful when people block or ghost after meeting and much obvious pleasure was had by all concerned. I'm a big believer in loyalty and good manners and so think a short message to explain why would be polite. I know this isn't how the online world works and it's very much every man or woman for themselves but i try to see the best in everyone even though I know it's naiive in this context. This comment relates to all online dating sites not only rhp. My five cents worth 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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taurusgal72
6 years ago
My profile clearly says what im looking for and clearly says no single guys or men in general. A proper couple (not fuck buddies for the fun of it) and women. So why do men still comment. Learn to read. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Service_man
6 years ago
Perhaps you are getting blocked because your profile sounds desperate. "I Love oral...I love oral ...I love oral " and immature. The women on here deserve to be treated with respect when first making contact and its best to read profiles first as most couples state what they want and there are are hundreds of single guys competing for the attention of a few eligible women.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We had to block our first couple today actually. We’ve responded to their flirts twice saying ‘no thank you’ but then have been bombarded with even more from them. And today was the last straw. Another flirt, another polite rebuff and then 2 more flirts from them an hour later. Consent is consent and no means no. If they are this pushy over RHP one can only assume they are worse in person. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think everyone is to caught up in what others think of them. I try to be objective and ...comfortable within my self and Express that. It's when I'm lacking validation that I go shut down. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetnsensual
6 years ago
I know you are looking for a woman or a couple but I thought i would try my luck I can lick pussy better than any woman and can go all-night BLOCK - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Translated -: I'll give you a minute of oral then I'm going to try and fuck you, blow in minutes, jump off, wipe my dick on your curtains, dress and disappear out the door before you can utter a word....... Although l will grab my half full stubby off the coffee table on the way out. He will hesitate as he opens the door to exit. A moments guilt? Hell no. Checking he hasn't left his car keys behind.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We're leaving at the crack of dawn when he realises he's left his keys in the woman's home and then had to knock to get them! That did not go down well, Peachy 🤣
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