M41
Profile Improvement
January 02 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your profile is not to bad. If you want some critical advice I would say work at your picture. See if you have an image of you having fun, you know, a photo taken after a good joke. As for the truth that is admirable , but don't put your self down. At RHP, being male you are but a small fish in a big school, in an even larger ocean. There is safety in numbers, but if you want to be preyed upon you have the offer something that does not look un-tasty and stands out from the school. From my experience women like confident men.I don't know whether a long profile description is a good thing or bad. But it depends, if you are into conversation then make it long. If not, short and to the point. If I where you I would rewrite and remove all the paragraphed sentences where you start with an "I" Its poor writing style. You have to make it flow. The "I" is already assumed, you are not taking about someone else are you. Instead of..."I want this and that.I have a desire to try something new blah, blah.I like to eat here and there.I am this."Try."I am looking for this and that, and hope to for fill my desire to try something new like blah,blah. Enjoy eating here and there. To describe my self I am this."It flows better and looks better. Be as polite as you can be but not sycophantic. I my view never be selfeffacing. No need to put details that don't add to your odds of getting a bite. Provide enough to spark an interest for them to learn more.But mate to get anywhere on a dating site you have to be active. So posting on the forums is a good start. If you have a paid membership, use the messages and don't be upset if you get no reply. Your profile is bait, then its up to you to reel them in if you find an interest. Others will also help, most here are nice and enjoy the site, and I am sure when this thread is done you will have a great profile. But work on that profile image. You look sad.
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RHP User
12 years ago
twice,and I find it confusing.Perhaps it is because I don't know enough about female supremacy and cuckolding in the BDSM sense. Are you looking for a long term relationship?That was an impressiopn I got,but it was a little unclear. I don't thnk that your pics do you any justice,unsmiling looking in the mirror sideways selfies ,are rarely a good look.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do believe confidence and the ability to poke fun at yourself are catchy elements of a persona that the female form does enjoy. Don't be so serious, lighten up, smile and as Blindman67 mentioned, try something unnatural to stand out from the crowd Maybe you have an interest in pink PJ's, post a main picture of you showing your tush off in them lol...pink is a catchy colour btw
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RHP User
12 years ago
excuse me while I google cuckolding ..... ..... ......
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RHP User
12 years ago
thanks very much for the insight Blindman and Freya i will definately have a look at the profile and see what i can do better. The pictures do need a little bit of work, they were the only recent ones available but i can certainly try and source something from a friend.
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RHP User
12 years ago
intellectual sex fetish ... tell us more about it please ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
You will get advice from all walks of life on here about profiles...there are those that want to see fun, cheeky and playful....there are those that want to see direct blunt, intelligence. Then there are those that won't really care.....so try this.....word it from YOU. Be YOU. As a wise man just recently said to me "you can't attract everyone...but you sure as hell can repel ANYONE!" So think about who you want to repel, and go from there.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You said that word...QUEEN!!QUOTE: I like to treat the women i am with like a queenRULE #1 - ARGGGGGGGGGGGH women want independence not a status...RULE #2 - SELFIE Pics... ....ewwwwwwwwwwww! it's a turn off ...As agreed with others and especially Blindman67
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey James, I reckon you may as well say it like it is and hope you met someone into the same thing. And I definitely agree with the comments about your photo. I personally prefer a happy or smiling photo, but that's just me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's your profile, it's about you, so do it your way. No point writing it via a thesaurus and then using completely different language in your messages. You'll just come across as someone trying to be something they're not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just be your self and someone out there will come along... be happy dude GT
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RHP User
12 years ago
Tip: Use your laptop webcam, position laptop at a good distance, plug in your wireless mouse and have your pointer poised over the take photo button, then take a pose and with wireless mouse just out of the frame click away... works a treat.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm quite sure he meant the term Queen in the cuckolding sense......- Posted from rhpmobile
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Nathan41
12 years ago
What do you guys think about my profile? Does it need improving?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Blindman makes some excellent points. And so does Saskia. Most of my profile pics are selfies taken with my phone, ncluding my current one. Get creative! Most importantly: smile and be you. Good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks very much for the photo tips, i will try and smile a bit more.I just have to hide all of my crooked teeth somehow. Maybe photo shop is the way to go.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72'Tip: Use your laptop webcam, position laptop at a good distance, plug in your wireless mouse and have your pointer poised over the take photo button, then take a pose and with wireless mouse just out of the frame click away... works a treat. Ive done that so many times. OP, your allieration. Avoid using I to much. And the photos. please dont put one of you holding a fish in one hand and a beer in the other if you change them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
is making it look like it's not... make love to the camera baby.
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