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RHP User

M64

Profile Magic ????

November 24 2010

Profile Magic Does It Really Exist Lots of people seem to ask questions about their profiles. Is it good? Why Don’t I get replies? How can I improve my profile… I have scaled my membership back to a standard membership at the moment because I am not really looking for anything. So this is not a self serving post to generate activity on my profile. I just enjoy the people here they are all good fun. So I have had 341 flirts sent to me and I have sent 144. I really only send flirts to just say I liked someone’s profile or, to be just flirt. The serious contact will never come from a flirt. Most women get a lot of flirts every day, and in fairness to then, it is just too hard to read every profile and respond. My plan on this site was always as follows. Be Interesting or at least different from the other profiles. Make an effort to appear intelligent and lucid. Type your profile in word so at the minimum you get a spelling check. Try to format you profile. Very long paragraphs are hard to read. Punctuation is also useful as well. BE HONEST you don’t have a good enough memory to remember lies so the truth is always best. Don’t be afraid to say you are married…I do in fact I insist people know. Say what you like and what you don’t like it improves the responses. So my profile is detailed perhaps a little too much but I get twice the number of flirts than I send so I guess to some degree I am on the right track. Photos, you really do need to have a photo, I use well A cock and bum photo mix…Cock photos should be tasteful…classy. Just seeing a stiffie is not that exciting in a photo. I would suggest Face pics where you can then Chest/Bum pics are good and we have to do it the Cock shot…just cos us guys like to think women will drool over it. Now First Contact When you message someone at the very least read their profiles. I have seen profiles that say unless you mention a certain word in a message you won’t get a response. (It proves you have read the profile) I read all the information on a profile. It save you asking redundant questions like…Do you like anal sex, when that is not listed in the interests box. Babe Chickie Hun are not names this is not the thing to call someone on first contact. Be respectful!(unless the profile say you should not) I generally try to find something with in the profile to talk about even if it just how close to home that person is. I also think it is bad form to ask how many roots they are getting. Don’t ask for the following on first contact…Cam, MSN, Photos or Phone number. I always sign off the message by putting my real name at the bottom of the message. If you went to a bar you would try to chat someone up before you tried to get into their pants. It is no different here you just have to make an effort. So my message response rate is 85% which is OK I think. More than anything just be yourself in your profiles and your messages you will get a lot further that way. If any one want to ask me any questions feel free... I am more than happy to have RHP confirm that the flirt rate and response rates I quoted are true. I give them express permission to confirm them.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    LoveCurvie - how long have you been on RHP? I have 1,878 flirts & 999 emails so far. Wonder who will be email 1000 ? xxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Just got my 1000 th email from a 23 year old. I am old enough to be his mother! LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nice to see you around again... well some of you seems yer cock shot's restricted... tasteful (:-P hehe) or not lol ;-) Nice post... been missing a dose of ye olde WA style magic in the forums. I agree with you that a good profile can indeed have people contacting you... & sometimes not... as we prefer atm LOL!!! So many things in our control, honesty in our profiles being only the beginning...Hugs... Mrs P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nice to see you around again... well some of you seems yer cock shot's restricted... tasteful (:-P hehe) or not lol ;-) Nice post... been missing a dose of ye olde WA style magic in the forums. I agree with you that a good profile can indeed have people contacting you... & sometimes not... as we prefer atm LOL!!! So many things in our control, honesty in our profiles being only the beginning...Hugs... Mrs P

  • jensta

    jensta

    14 years ago

    Exactly! Well Done! xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Just got my 1000 th email from a 23 year old. I am old enough to be his mother! LOLOnly Just really :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' LoveCurvie - how long have you been on RHP? I have 1,878 flirts & 999 emails so far. Wonder who will be email 1000 ? xxx MeekaI have been on here for a couple of years off and on I have 1,200 messages but I can be quite chatty some times...the point with the flirts was not really how many I get but that I get more than I send...I think that will be rare for guys.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'jensta'Exactly! Well Done! xxx I wonder if any ine will pay attention ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well I have just been posting in the forums viewing a few profiles...So I have been back about 48 hours...Just got this message :) "wud luv to fuck with u and enjoy ur beautiful big cock" Yes it was from a women :) Sometimes you dont even have to try LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hey LoveCurvie - not sure if those response rates work. My is 168% for emails and 4776% for flirts - not sure what that means???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Hey LoveCurvie - not sure if those response rates work. My is 168% for emails and 4776% for flirts - not sure what that means??? it is a ratio of messages sent to message received.so if you have 100% it means you've sent X number of messages and received the same number (whether replies or initiated by you). If you;re over 100% it means you get more than you give, and if you're under, it means you give more than you receive :p(AFAIK it doesn't work on message sent and received pairings, just a simple count of sent : received)SO, it seems the cock shot isn't quite so offensive... maybe time for an experiment... :p