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Profile Photos - What do you like to see?
August 20 2020
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playfulminx
4 years ago
1. I rarely click on profiles with 'action shots' 😅I'll click on hot torso shots or G-rated shots of a guy looking casual/cool. 2. I don't post anything explicit. Just suggestive lol 3. I think the more flesh, the more views 🤣 I might experiment and post a pic of me in a morphsuit.
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black_star53
4 years ago
Personally I do not need to see shots of couples having sex... I know how it works. I prefer to see g rated photos from a variety of locations/angles, or sexy lingerie/tasteful nudes where it's not full on close up shots of dick and vagina. Face photos are a must for me before meeting but understand people usually like to keep discreet and have those in a private folder. Face photos with hats and sunnies are quite annoying as you can't see anything. I noticed when I changed my profile pic there's a bit of traction in views and messages and after a while it trails off.. I used to have lots of lingerie/bikini shots public but then figured it was nice to have something further to send after chatting so put then in a private folder, and then a 3rd folder with a few.more.revealing shots. (Never full nudes tho - leave something to the imagination)
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MsSuperFoxy
4 years ago
Hello Miss Little. I prefer sexy/seductive, nice smiling pics, head-and-shoulders, or head-to-waist or full body. For me this works as it leaves the imagination ooen. I believe the types of pics one presents as a profile pic is their selling point, kinda like fishing and using the right bait. so I guess it depends on what those looking for will be attracted too, to make contact. Personally close up cocks (no condom) entering a vagina and close ups of hairy butt holes, are a turn off. Xx
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Rlee552
4 years ago
I will click on most profiles with a photo. The photos I enjoy and that pique the interest are the genuine ones that show a little of who the person is. As a guest though I don’t get to see any R rated pics so I have self selected my viewing to MA+ and below.
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sweetnyorkshire
4 years ago
some nice g-rated photos, maybe some lingerie and torsos and also be willing to show some clear face photos in your private gallery works for us. its hugely frustrating to get a two word message and then click on the photos and just get 4 pictures of an arse.
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black_star53
4 years ago
As a guest, I can't see nudes if they are in the public gallery but can definitely see them when shared from a private gallery (on mobile) ... I even state in my profile please don't send unsolicited dick pics... And still get minimum 5 a day that don't read that.... Hard to not come across as an angry bitch to the rest of the people reading tho!
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Anthony1978
4 years ago
One does like to look at the menu before they eat. 😉
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Daisy_chain
4 years ago
Hi Little... Profile pictures which catch my eye are clear and focused on the gentleman. I love to see a handsome face with an awesome smile but if I can see a torso which gives me an idea of his physique, that is an added bonus. A pic of him out and about in the great outdoors is nice and if he has his shirt off showing off his manly chest and abs... or his back... well who wouldn't want to look at that? In reality, I am attracted to pictures that reflect what he will look like when I meet him in person for the first time. I have a soft spot for a man with a cheeky smile, so I really want to see his teeth in all their sparkliness but I will concede that face photos might be best kept in a private gallery. What do I not want to see?? I prefer pictures with no sunglasses, no hats, no hi-vis, no fish, no drunk antics, no mates or girlfriends with blanked faces, and that I don't need binoculars to see. His cock... regardless of how magnificent it is, it is in no way a selling point. .. and god forbid there are pictures of his cock and a vagina!... no...No... NO A messy background, an unmade sweat stained bed, a mouldy bathroom with a scruffy toothbrush or a chaotic bedroom are an instant turn off. And worst of all is a profile with no pictures. It is not tricky to utilise the technology we all have in our hand every day. Figure out how to use the lighting in your space, consider the background, use the flash on your phone camera... and the timer, and crop the picture. Dress in clothes you look good in... and no... bed sheets don't really count... unless they are in the sexy private gallery. Many ladies (including myself) are able to take super sexy pics and put them up onto RedHotPie... all by our own little selves. It isn't hard to do. With the stiff competition amongst the men, surely a little extra time spent on the quality of profile pictures ultimately pays off with more interest from the ladies. All they need to do then is write a messsage with more words than "Hi, how are you?"
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LifestyleExplore
4 years ago
Complete noobs here so who knows if this cha gets but right now G rated is preferable. We're much more likely to pay attention to a profile with a nice smile than one that is filled with dick sex and cum. There seems to be different type of people though. The ones looking for fwb and the ones looking to shag. So it probably depends on what you are looking to attract yourself.
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ukexpat1981
4 years ago
Good topic. I find it hard to know whether mine are too much or indifferent. I like to show something of me on my profile pics, with faces hidden in one file and nudes in another although I think only o be if 9 has my cock in the pic Any feedback be appreciated.
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wtffml
4 years ago
Fuzzy photos, cropped pictures of you standing with your partner your cheating on, hi-vis work wear, straight up dick pics and no profile pics of you and your mates unless it's their profile too. All these things are so off putting. Just put in some effort to not look like a complete slob please
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RHP User
4 years ago
I've been wondering the same thing. I think it comes down to what you are comfortable with.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Girls just love dick pics and poor punctuation, it's blatantly obvious
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The_Antichrist
4 years ago
I click on profiles usually as a result of their contributions in the forum... Perhaps I’m weird, but it’s not usually the photo that motivates me to checking out their profile at all......
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RHP User
4 years ago
I think that’s the best thing about being a guest. I can’t see the explicit ones. I don’t want to meet anyone who offers genitals first...
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ozmelbcpl4cpl2
4 years ago
We like contact only from verified profiles
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RHP User
4 years ago
It’s about meeting people. You get one chance to make a good impression, put your best foot forward, and carefully consider if that really is your best ‘foot’ forward.
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Powercouplevic
4 years ago
Sexy but tasteful looking profile pics always get our attention
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2inBrisbane
4 years ago
Great question and the feedback so far has been both enlightening and fun. We have tried to provide a range of photos in our public gallery which gives an idea of who you will meet in person. When we look at profiles, we def look for profiles that give us an idea of who we are going to meet... It’s very hard to pick out someone your trying to meet if you’ve only seen photos of their privates. The other thing that will have a big impact in our interest is photos of both members of a couples profile, if all the photo are of just one member we make the assumption that the other person doesn’t really want to be involved and so that’s a pretty quick negative response from us.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Classic bnw, lingerie, no nudity. Definitely no dick shots. We found a talented and sexy like minded photographer that does tfp in Illawarra and Sydney samples on our page x
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WoodSmoke
4 years ago
BOTH parties of the couple. So many couples have 20 hot shots of the lady and 1x dick-pic or some blurry token pic.
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fudpucker01
4 years ago
From my perspective as a male looking, the comments are enlightening, I’ve got 2 waist up casual photos, and a torso shot, ( Might just edit), and I have to admit I don’t look overly friendly in either face shots,?so great info there, thank you, as for what catches my eye? Definitely a face shot, and then what you decide To show is what makes you comfortable and I like that, kinda lets you know how your progressing
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Love_to_travel
4 years ago
Something that catches the eye, prefer a bit of class, don’t need to see nudes but do prefer a profile that does have a pic but also don’t like seeing all your clothing all over the floor in the background. But hey we are all different all have different things that turn us on and off.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Love this topic yes Im more likely to click on a profile that is b and c G rated & Sexy. We dont have face pics in our profile due to work commitments but we do have 2 separate private albums one with face pics and the other a sexier version...Im not into dick pics those pics gross me out we like sexy seductive eyes, a good smile and fit.
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Cowboyinthecity
4 years ago
My main thing I think spoils a great profile pic is a messy background. Am I being too picky? They may be a 10 but if its in a dirty bathroom or bedroom I keep scrolling lol. Im not a clean nazi by the way
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RHP User
4 years ago
Verified Only , and something playful in the profile description. I want to know that its goin to be fun !
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RHP User
4 years ago
Profiles I won’t click on are ones with No Photos Available. Waste of time for me.
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brazenstrumpet
4 years ago
I don’t understand why there are so many profiles with NO PHOTOS... and they expect a reply when they message and still do t send a photo!!
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RHP User
4 years ago
Personally I like to only show a little, if there is interest I get messaged. From there depending on the conversation we might swap face pics and I always ask for a smile showing their teeth. Sort of odd, but it’s my thing. Love a gorgeous smile on a guy, not a huge fan of facial hair coz it hides their face a bit. I’ve found the younger lads appear to want to look older and have facial hair. My preference is a clean shaven guy always. I’d prefer a dick pic after we’ve had a conversation. I created a profile then took it down, created a new one and blocked the really full on pushy guys. WOW I understand this is a site to meet and hook up but a little common courtesy and respect goes a long way. Torso shots are great too. But that’s just my personal opinion. If we get along great we normally swap Kik accounts and chat thru there 🤷🏻♀️😊
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scandu4fun
4 years ago
High guys, we had some Rated photos, but took them down, too many collectors, not enough genuine, now they're pg all the way, and if we all want to proceed everything is revealed. Less interest but more genuine and that saves time. We've been told a few times that we should put up different face shots as they don't do us justice, but we prefer people to be wowed when we meet and not disappointed. Like you, we don't seek or want the other, we're not here to perv, we enjoy the fun in real life, not on a screen or over text.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Hahaha well, there’ll be a lot of us reading the comments and editing our profiles and pics. I know I will be 😂😉
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RHP User
4 years ago
Im look at profiles with a clear head shot, a full body shot too. My profile has a snapchat chat pic, a few lingerie shots and a unfiltered shot. I absolutely hate dick pics as a profile pic, as well as action shots and pics of just the female - usually tits or ass - i scroll straight past them.
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PrincessnDaddy
4 years ago
We never click on profiles with no or blurred photos
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RHP User
4 years ago
100% agree with you Little Giant. Personally sex shots don’t do it for me. I need to see who I’m talking to and see if there is any attraction. So g rated and sexy lingerie etc is my preference. And profiles without pics at all I tend to not reply to. Sex shots just attract those chasing pics and unfortunately there seem to be a lot of people like that on here.
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Elizabethhenry
4 years ago
Face pics get our attention straight up.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Yet good pics dont get repllys
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RHP User
4 years ago
Nothing gets mesages
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BlkDmd
4 years ago
Dunno what works. When I profile scan, I prefer to just see an unedited pic of a lady smile. Like. Full face/head. Nothing covering her face. As for sexy and sexy pics. TBH, I don’t care too much fir them as it’s not a reflection of a person. Like; I’m sure if I were to meet a lady who has sexy pictures and that’s all I talk about, I’m sure I’ll be going home alone 😆 That’s just me though. I personally like to meet someone to make any decision of next steps
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michale2020
4 years ago
Hi I’m new here...how this it’s work? Thanks
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RHP User
4 years ago
Can I get someone that loves to swap some hot pics
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Knottybutnice
4 years ago
I ( male ) am looking at a type of person(s) to invite into our circle and our bedroom . I try to sense a giver , in terms of their energy rather than a taker as they tend to approach sex with a frenzy rather than a sensuality . I hate those gimmicky face coverings in your pics but then I rarely use emojis . Generational thing perhaps . I’d rather see a photo cropped . We always look at couples to measure how connected you are to each other , not just pretty or porn but love based .
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RHP User
4 years ago
I post what I feel represent my personality most, I have always been a poser started from early age as a child fashion model, I try to capture my personality because after all it’s my most alluring feature. I don’t really have the time to look through profiles I look if someone has looked at me or started a conversation, personality is my attraction point so a conversation, I have meet people without seeing pictures and has made no difference to my overall likes or dislike of a person. I am here to get to know people not pictures.
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Shadows
4 years ago
We are only interested if we get a full face body couple photo g rated. Not interested in penis /vagina shots , total turn off and tells you about the personality , no photo means scroll straight past and don’t waste your time
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SexySmart50
4 years ago
G- rated please. I look at eyes and smile first. 😊
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RHP User
4 years ago
We prefer face shots and tasteful lingerie shots at first, after all we need the attraction to be the initial spark. I think the more X rated images should be in a private gallery and only shown with permission and only after the interest is there from both ends. Also we’ve noticed a lot of galleries only show mainly women, it’s good to see couple shots and pics of the male too 😁
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CuningLnguist181
4 years ago
I’m still trying to work out what’s the best approach given I’d like to keep some Initial anonymity due to work etc (and the three degrees of separation in this city/big country town). Plus I don’t have a six pack or guns for arms. Always tougher for a single older male to get any attention no matter what they put in their profile.
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RHP User
4 years ago
No mater what pic.....never gget a mesage
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ozrocks
4 years ago
Hi, how you going? Those who don't like dick pics obviously have not looked at my dick pics. That may change your opinion.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I like to see bodies, outfits and imagination..
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sayyessasha
4 years ago
If the profile pic is a dick I block straight away.
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Utopia_Girl
4 years ago
I personally like a cock pic .. at least you know what youll be playing with, no cock pic has bitten me yet 🤷♀️ I will judge on apoeatance, brush your hait and shave at least. A messy back ground tells me a lot about who you are Advertise what you are selling If youre not fussy - ok 🤷♀️ I am 😊 I’m also honest, caring and up-front, dont mistake my kindness as being naieve or gullible Youre a long time dead - enjoy life 🎉🎊
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RHP User
4 years ago
Dont know about you but I love everything about cocks. Seeing them sucking them fucking them. I think its good too see what a man has going on in the cock department. 🍆🍆🍆😈😈😈
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RHP User
4 years ago
I hear the ladies love close up D-pics give that a go.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I mainly use the app ( doesn't show restricted photos) only if or when a PROFILE tickles my fancy will I open it to show restricted photos and send a stupid msg 🤦♂️😂
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RHP User
4 years ago
I like pictures that have an artistic edge to them or a bit of class!Shows personality as well as figure
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Naughty1
4 years ago
Love to see how are you looking before meeting
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HavingFunxx
4 years ago
Take a photo of your forklift licence and you’re good to go mate
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RHP User
4 years ago
You'll never please everyone so best advice is to put up what you would like to see as like attracts like. I have had a couple of ladies not like my pics but I also found my girlfriend on here because she was looking for a certain cock look and face both of which are on my profile. Some like g rated some like r rated, the only real truth is face pics either in public or at the very least in private album and open asap.
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IggyandKate
4 years ago
I find genitalia shots off-putting. Attraction for me is in a mix of personality and looks. So words and pics that give a sense of style or personality are the best. Not porn shots. It’s hard finding the right pics for your profile that: preserve your privacy / are sexy (that’s why we’re here after all) but not so pornographic you attract the wrong people / and are truthful but not warts and all, lol
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bianca_dd
4 years ago
the photos, as well as the profile, should depict exactly what you are looking for or hoping to find. No point having one otherwise. The one thing that is a total turn off in any photo, male, female or couples, is the room where the pics are taken looking like a pigsty. A big red line through that profile name from me.
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Monian
4 years ago
It takes all sorts... for me words matter far more than any pictures. I look at profiles with or without pics, but the "perfect model" pics, if accompanied by a lot of "ask me", or stock answers, is not as attractive as a well written profile with no pics. I get a much better sense of whether I would like to chat or spend time with someone by their use of language about themselves, who they are, and what they seek than the pics (and no, I don't mean I'm a spelling or grammar nazi). Call me odd, but I deeply feel that attraction is about a meeting of minds and compatibility rather than looks or physique...and for me that applies to all encounters, whether one-offs or ongoing.
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DonnaBrett
4 years ago
No facial pics or least partial facial pics then we won't bother making first contact. If someone contacts us without facial pics and then don't show their faces in the first message exchange we move on.
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NvigOR8_U
4 years ago
It’s completely personal to the couple I’d say. For us it’s what conveys us and our real personalities. Wholesome fun friendly people who just happen to enjoy the kink and spicy side to our playtime which you can see if you get approved into the inner sanctum 😂😂😂👌🏼
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Subswitch13
4 years ago
I'm kot a fan of naked sexual shot I find them to be a turn off. I hate reviving introduction message when guys go into detail what they want to do to me...i find those ones to be slutty. Although I know it's a sex sight but if they read my profile they wouldnt speak that way to me. I want to get to know a person a little before it pursues in naughty dirty talk
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boobsandbusted
4 years ago
I have trialled a couple of things and when we start getting quite a few idiot messages with the profile pic of Mrs b and can’t be bothered with them ,I like to changer to a pic of me and bam stupid messages stop straight away ,sexist bastards ,lol,but yes the hotter or sexier the pic the more interest is generated to a audience we are not interested in
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RHP User
4 years ago
I’ve always wondered does the contributor know their picture has been “fuzzed out”? So many “restricted” pics are really g rated, some are lower legs and feet? Does RHP advise that the picture uploaded has been restricted? I tried using tease pics in my profile just to be a bit creative, nothing “restricted” about them however always wonder if I’ve been censored as well?? Does anyone know they have restricted pics only to think “you’re effing kidding me!!”
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RHP User
4 years ago
Interesting comments. I’ve always shown my face in my profile shots. Sometimes I wonder if it’s wise but I’m not cheating and haven’t got anything to be ashamed of. I won’t meet anyone without seeing a face pic. For me it’s about smiles and eyes and that connection. Great body is awesome but if you have a sour, mean or ugly look on your head I couldn’t care less about the body. I’d rather a nice face than perfect body. It’s the person that makes someone sexy not that body. I’m not offended by dick pics but I’m instantly turned off when not asked even if this is a sex site. It’s not about a guys cock for me anyway it’s about the person who owns it.
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MelbCplupforfun
4 years ago
we prefer meet/greet parties and reading content on profiles and building rapport from there.. no expectations to see face/body pics
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RHP User
4 years ago
I don’t like “ restricted” pics as profile pics I think that the body show show off my be covered .. as to faces I don’t have mine on profile but I do believe at some point that needs to be shared ...
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Tarzanlovesjane
4 years ago
a) An equal representation of male/female photos. So many profiles only display photos of the female...do they not get that women are not going to meet up with them if they cannot see what the guy looks like? b) Dick pics, clit pics and cum shots are also a huge turnoff, a bit of mystery goes a long way to drawn ones interest in........... c) It also surprises me just how many profiles display their faces in their main profile gallery as well on RHP.
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