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June 27 2009

So I am the female half of a couple.... I am wondering what is it with couple profiles that only seem to largely have only a pic or three of the female half, yeah I understand that you can ask for pics but I would think that if you are posting yourselves as a couple to at least provide pics of each person!! Hmmm so what are your thoughts about this....? Arn

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  • jandv

    jandv

    15 years ago

    We recently did this. We first signed up with one pic then added another two after a while. (we were new though) LOL. I always wondered what is the point of guys who dont even put any pics on the their profile? Whay chance do they really have??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In our experience people really only seem to care about what the female half of the couple looks like.... and we got sick of the "more female please"requests... so there's a couple of mr and the rest are of me and in our private gallery we keep all the rest :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    How to save time when so many want to waste it. We have tried to cut down on the messages by putting full pics on our profile but we are still asked for PG even thou it's clear in our pics that we only have 1 set of pert rounded breasts, 1 penis, and 2 cute butts. You start to get the feeling that most couples are hiding the males. Why is this, because they think they have to compete with the young muscular and clean shaven guys, have some confidence and put yourself out there, some of us like bald, shaven and tattoos don't worry us either. It's about the personnel connection, isn't it? If you tell porkpies on your profile and you genuinely want to meet couples they will see the true when you meet and feel betrayed. Why not be upfront in your profile and meet other couples that are genuinely looking for you as a match. We have been lucky and met some really lovely genuine couples that portray themselves in a true light. Happy swinging. berwickcpl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes we totally agree with what you're saying. It's like advertising something but only showing half the product.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We are only seeking straight guys atm and not actively, so I figure it is probably fairly irrelevant to them what MrP looks like anyway lol. But aside from when we first joined and had both our face pics up those first few weeks (till the day MrP's boss mentioned he had been looking at adult sites with the possible intention of starting one himself), we have only ever had pics of me (partial face or body usually) even when we were seeking couples. We are more confident showing the partner, (the woman in our case) whose face, (in profile, in my pic) is less likely to be randomly recognised because they come across far fewer people on a daily basis. This has helped to maintain our privacy at least the one time we received a message from a fella MrP knew through work... If we did put up a pic of MrP in our public gallery, it would only be a partial body shot anyway where we would be limited by the facts that we wouldn't include a cock pic, cos we have gathered from reading the forums that cock pics are not popular (hard or soft apparently lol). And we wouldn't display his torso cos of identifying features which leaves his rear... I can't see the point... We have provided pics of each of us, apart and together, in our private gallery only for those we CHOOSE to share with! A total of seven atm, most of who can be found on our friends list... You could consider us 'private' company who are advertising from the common knowledge that 'sex sells' :-P MrsP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey thanks to everyone that has put their comments forward on this subject.... I think somtimes we put ourselves into a box and not see the greater picture or other peoples perspective. Arn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Absolutely agree that i is not quite right for a couple to post a profile that would only show the female part of the couple. Has it ever occur to these couples posting only female pics that some females are very straight and enjoy visual stimulation of male bodies? We would not consider any play time unless we would have seen pictures of both partners we may lusting after. Physical attraction is important to many of us...some may call it shallow...we can live with this. For us it is all about fun, having a great sense of humour and being visually turned on! S & S

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We have changed our pics a few times to bring them up to date...............need to develop better photo skills to get a range of shots. We are interested in face shots more so than anything else, but in saying that have a few well chosen body shots on our profile. We dont actually have any couple shots that we could put on our profile. Pics of women mainly seem to attract single guys anyway.

  • twobifour

    twobifour

    15 years ago

    THE REASON THERE SO MANY LADY SHOTS IN PROFILES IS THAT YOU ALL TAKING YOUR OWN PHOTOS; YOU ALWAYS HAVE CAMERA POINTED AT YOURSELVES. ----- NO JUST KIDDING TAKE THE HINT YOU ARE PRETIER THAN THE BUGGA TAKING THE SHOTS . WHY SPOIL A NICE PROFILE GALLERY.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just a reminder guys, guests can not see all the Pics, so if you are going to be real about this picture thing put up a PG pic as your main photo..... I can understand the proffessional's need not to, but........ you can always use the excuse that your only looking for friends...lol. You can put all the juicy stuff and body shots in a private gallery and let any one you are interested in see them later. OK, we are guilty as charged too..in the private gallery, most photos are of her...why... I guess the male likes tyo play photoghrapher more than the female in our case...lol.

  • HotOzCouple_cc

    HotOzCouple_cc

    15 years ago

    we think that the photos you have are directly reflective of the attention you seek, whether you've done it consciously or not. If you have pics wearing gas masks, paint on latex (yum!) suspended from a ceiling with a precariously placed avocado and a cat o' nine tails, there's a good chance you're not after a couple that goes to book club meetings and gets dressed up for sit-down meals. (Well, you never know - it's always the ones you don't expect!) We've been on here long enough to know exactly what we're after, and what does and doesn't turn us on. And in that, we've been as honest as we can be with both our profile and pics. You can clearly see our faces, you can clearly see our bodies, and in our PG, you can clearly see a lot lot more! Reflective of this, we're after a couple that are completely honest with themselves and what they want. Or girl, or guy. We're not perfect, we know that, but we have more to offer than perfection. This is us, take it as you see it. As Gaz says, don't pass judgment and push your morals onto me (us) and we won't on you. If we see a manipulated pic, or a "myspace" pose, or a shoulders back/chest out/gut in pic of a guy, there's a good chance we'll be laughing and giving you the flick. And yes guys, it is THAT obvious... Be true to yourself before you try and bring someone else into your life. Sinep 09 says it well, it's almost always Mr taking the photos too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We wish we could post more on RHP. Also regardless of what anyone says, a cleaver nerd can download them and send them around, it has happened to us both on here and another site that is why we do not post face pics here. T and A

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm not sure if you're just talking about being able to post more profile pics on your public gallery. But cos I'm also not sure it's common knowledge anyway, I thought I would add that we can add up to 50 pics in each of our 2 Private Galleries since the upgrade :-) Hugs MrsP