M57

Profile advice/ review please

December 29 2012

I have been active on this and other sites for a number of years now, both as a paid and unpaid member($ is tight) with little response. I would love if some of you ladies could look over my profile and offer some advice. My situation is that I am in an open marriage ( well it works for her ) I know all too well that I am up against a lot of competition, but I cannot help but feel that I am too old, too honest, too nice and too unappealing. Or is it simply that even though I do put a lot if thought into my profile, maybe it comes across poorly. Please help as it gets a tad frustrating seeing my lovely wife spending time with her boys and not getting similar opportunities. Thanks

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RHP User

12 years ago

A smiling profile pic wins me over hands down...Sorry but shots taken in the bathroom, holding up a mobile phone in front of mirror is well.... a turn off.Seek your wife to take some tasteful Pictures perhaps??Confidence in writing style as well grabs peoples attention..that's always a plus. :)Hope this helps.Good LuckPS- I myself as a single woman am not attracted to men that are in "open-relationships" - it's a no go zone for me morally. For Females seeking the SAME (Open-relationship) that may appeal to them so therefore limiting your audience..Perhaps that may be issue?????

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RHP User

12 years ago

I have one suggestion luve, put a picture up of yourself smiling or at least looking happy. You seem utterly miserable in your profile picture. :(

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RHP User

12 years ago

get some new pics OP.Being a guest does not help your chances and WA has a surfeit of men on here...or so it seems....The rest of your profile is honest and reasonably well written.

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RHP User

12 years ago

You contacted me...I knocked you back simply on the whole.... Relationship: Ask Me -question this screams - partnered in some shape or form and for the majority of ladies on here its simply a no go...it is especially for me And sadly you will struggle...your competing with all the the FIFO boys who are cashed and can give a gal a good time in and out of bed....you cant do that................your committed....why would single girl work around your commitments when they can hook up with a single lad..especially if things go well and it MAY lead to more...in many guises ? And here in Perth more guys than gals..for us ladies in the West it really is a smorgasbord.....yep we are doing the picking and choosing..it is what it is... plus you live SOR (as do I - Im not that far from you) ....people hate commuting...reality is its a 45 min drive from Perth CBD more if your NOR - to where you live...its annoying but fact.. Im with Meeka - you also need a smiley pic...so much more attractive Good Luck..

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RHP User

12 years ago

I will change my pic I have tried so many but do agree fully that this is not the one to use

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RHP User

12 years ago

Much better pic....clean and fresh....However if that's your wife cut off..Hummmm Maybe put your OTHER pics into gallery....keeps something curious for the ladies. :-)- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

You're too nice and you're profile reads like you're begging. I know that's not the case, but strengthen it up a little.

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RHP User

12 years ago

nicer pic OP,and I still like your profile

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RHP User

12 years ago

Thanks Freya This has been my default pic for sometime now. I guess I try others to try something new. Thanks also for your comments regarding my profile. What I write is " me" and I like " me" I only hope that there is someone else looking for a part time but genuine " friendship" that also likes me

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