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October 23 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think it's a great idea and have done it.
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prettyinpurple45
10 years ago
is always good.. no one knows me well enough to warrant a change of name for me here lol
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
New pics with a new profile could be a good idea as well. Keep everything fresh and current. Good luck!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hope it works out for you brad! Fresh starts can be awesome!
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Re-Branding...... a phase-shift in marketing. Plenty do it. Some even do it straight after a topic they started or became involved in..... turns sour on them, and they feel compelled to shake off the shitty PR cloud they created. But if its just the same product in a new box, it doesnt last long before people recognize the content. So it works best after some time away.... to give people time to forget who you were, and only recognize who you are now. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've come and gone and returned twice. I think my profile's still pretty similar. Every cloud of horniness has a silver lining :), (and potential drizzle).
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was being emailed by a guy who had changed his profile name and I didn't know until I saw his pics. In my opinion, I think that is annoying when you have already said no and someone comes back as someone else. I am really unimaginative when it comes to choosing usernames, lol. I do think if your circumstances have changed or your outlook on what you want, that should be changed and your pics should be updated. I really should change my own, but I don't know what I want atm and I like the way my profile reads now so I don't want to lose it, maybe I could cut and paste it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everytime I change my pic I'll get flirts and messages from the same guys. Some just really don't pay attention. OP, if you just change your details instead of starting a whole new account, always check your profile history before contacting someone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Re-Branding...... a phase-shift in marketing. Plenty do it. Some even do it straight after a topic they started or became involved in..... turns sour on them, and they feel compelled to shake off the shitty PR cloud they created. But if its just the same product in a new box, it doesnt last long before people recognize the content. Yes, some people do it over and over, and DG is right, they are always recognizable pretty quickly (good or bad). Re-branding is a good idea if you do it to create a new and improved image, but only if you have changed the content as well, or you'll get the same results in the end. OP, you sound as though you realise what has not worked for you in the past, and when you know better you do better, right?
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RHP User
10 years ago
You could call that daily rebranding :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can stop with the blatant digs now.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Was it???
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RHP User
10 years ago
is a great idea,but unless the product changes....and who could forget that disgusting cheesy Vegemite....Vegemite remains just Vegemite.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Re-Branding...... a phase-shift in marketing. Plenty do it. Some even do it straight after a topic they started or became involved in..... turns sour on them, and they feel compelled to shake off the shitty PR cloud they created. But if its just the same product in a new box, it doesnt last long before people recognize the content. So it works best after some time away.... to give people time to forget who you were, and only recognize who you are now. DG Again give it a rest DG. You create your own shit storm, it just happens that it sprays everyone else, I don't blame them for changing profiles. Just take your digs to private message if you want to keep shoveling it at others. No wonder people give up on the forums. Yes you king of the cyber dung heap, hows the view from there?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have three names on here, Tuscan Red, then LadyTuscan and now this.my proifle is always the same, I just update pictures frequently. I liked Lady Tuscan as a name but then I felt that I had become a bit of a caricature of who I am. I am just an ordinary woman, no cyber goddess and I hope to present myself that way. But a change is good if your profile is not working or you might have inadvertantly got of on the wrong foot, especially for guys who come in with dick in hand and not realising to take it a little bit slow and easy. That there are a range of people here with a whole range of reasons and needs that they come seeking here. You profile looks nice, good picture
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Not so sure about that.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
never change,pics taken sometime last century, wording the same zzzzz..others deliver a subliminal message ,like any clever ad person knows..statues,large fluffy toys,...whips,chains,handcuffs,more obvious of course,but convey their own message.read into it all as you will.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I also believe in how you conduct your self on here. How you treat women. An image can be tarnished especially if a person puts themselves up to be the pussy whisperer. Then spends time putting women down. I know women get sex no matter how rude they are. But I think men that show a total disrespect for women and been here year in year out. Would not be a me to muster a root in a wood yard. Guys who play nice and have that positive attitude are winners and there are some guys in here like fun lover and sir. That lead by example. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are you saying it's subtle ? I think it's as subtle as a train wreck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Good grief ladies...... Looks like the paranoia bug is catching! @ Inthekiss...... I was actually referring to two guys who are forum regulars when I made my comment. Its not always all about you, you know. Jeeeeeeeeeeeez.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought that was a pretty fair comment about people changing their profiles after a forum thread goes sour. I've seen it happen from time to time over the years. I also agree that a change of name but no change of attitude is pointless. I change my profile fairly often to reflect my changing mood and interests. Like Meander, I'm for it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
DG, I agree. Not sure I remember any women doing that off the top of my head but I do remember a few men who started topics that went badly and made them look angry, bitter or as if they were women haters so they suddenly disappeared and came back as a new profile. Sometimes if you are having a bad day or something you can definitley say things you regret, or as Brad says when you are typing with one hand you may not come off as the suave gentleman if you know what I mean. I have always wondered if I could start a new profile and see if I could hide who I was........ don't worry I wouldn't do it but I think it would be an interesting social experiment. Although I don't believe I could pull it off though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'leVieux' is a great idea,but unless the product changes....and who could forget that disgusting cheesy Vegemite....Vegemite remains just Vegemite. I stopped using Vegemite after that fiasco...remember they had labels with _ _ _ _ _ _ a fill in the gaps part?I'm told some people took textas with them when they went shopping Anyway enough of the digression while I do understand a fresh start with a new name can be good for the person concerned it does get a bit confusing I even got two completely different women confused as result of all the name changing. Each to their own I guess
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BradSydney
10 years ago
Meander, I suppose there is some of that, I am sure I did all the stupid stuff at some point, and I would assume that there are people with whom I might actually connect that I have probably put off in the process. I want different things than I did when I joined, even than I did six months ago. I have just moved to a new place, got myself on track and am open to the possibility of a relationship where I wasn't previously. It isn't rebranding, it is a different life path and definitely a different cohort of person than the pure sex ladies and couples I have met from here. Slightly off topic, can you block people from posting to a topic? The neverending drivel from the usual suspect is tiresome, pointless, witless and a waste of good electrons
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BradSydney
10 years ago
Thanks for your comments. Actually I always liked the name LadyTuscan it kinda made me think of running off to Italy and sipping wine away from the world's stresses
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander'Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Re-Branding...... a phase-shift in marketing. Plenty do it. Some even do it straight after a topic they started or became involved in..... turns sour on them, and they feel compelled to shake off the shitty PR cloud they created. But if its just the same product in a new box, it doesnt last long before people recognize the content. Yes, some people do it over and over, and DG is right, they are always recognizable pretty quickly (good or bad). Re-branding is a good idea if you do it to create a new and improved image, but only if you have changed the content as well, or you'll get the same results in the end. OP, you sound as though you realise what has not worked for you in the past, and when you know better you do better, right? Some people fail to realise that the very projection portrayed which prompted the initial re-branding ... is the very projection that consistently lets them down as a result of not having taken this on board.
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RHP User
10 years ago
For the most part I see people updating their profile and/or changing their username as a reflection of new directions and trial & error in terms of what does and doesn't work for them. When I recognise someone with a completely new account ... straight up ... the credibility and/or integrity factor is virtually non existent to me. Although having said that, there are exceptions to that line of thought.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'KiwiBred' For the most part I see people updating their profile and/or changing their username as a reflection of new directions and trial & error in terms of what does and doesn't work for them. Some change their name because they are just fickle and open a whole new account because their hundreds of posts potentially make them a stalker's dream... Me included. inthekiss, your dung heap remark made me think of the phrase: "A turd with a pretty bow on it is still a turd." You have to clean up the inside along with the outside for it to be of use. p.s. can you change your name to Tuscan somethingorother? I loved calling you Tuscan!
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RHP User
10 years ago
TuscanRed... LadyTuscan... ItsInTheKiss... A good ol boiler by any other name... 😄😄😄😄😋😋😋😋 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' DG, I agree. Not sure I remember any women doing that off the top of my head but I do remember a few men who started topics that went badly and made them look angry, bitter or as if they were women haters so they suddenly disappeared and came back as a new profile. Sometimes if you are having a bad day or something you can definitley say things you regret, or as Brad says when you are typing with one hand you may not come off as the suave gentleman if you know what I mean. I have always wondered if I could start a new profile and see if I could hide who I was........ don't worry I wouldn't do it but I think it would be an interesting social experiment. Although I don't believe I could pull it off though. would always shine through. I think that is what give people away, the way they think and write. you can always put up pictures and write a different profile, but the minute you open your mouth on the forums, then the who rhp weekly will spot you every time. It took them five seconds to know it was me after my six month break in one post. Meeka, your exactly who you say you are. You would be spotted in a heart beat. I think people change their profile now and again, mostly the name as they feel like a change or that other profile did not work for them as they expected, etc. Depends what you do on RHP if your just up for NO forums then yes you can get away with a name change and re brand.I should change my name to foot in mouth. Well Lady Footinmouth People change, they may have the wrong idea when they first come here then adapt to the situation. Like the OP did,they evolve. I know I have changed my requirements quiet a bit from when I first came on here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
however have change the writing over the past years I am on here. I believe in my way of thinking it was a good, because I changed. My outlook changed and my wanting changed, I am more forth full in stating what I am after, not so shy anymore to express it, and it brings my love for oral more to the point. I also change and ad photos so men who look at my profile know what I look like no hiding ME. I think it is a natural process to change things on your profile the longer you use it. Some changed from single to couple and vice verca....Men who are not bi or gay found not to show to much bottom. :) and on and on t goes. Or as by reading the forum, to have the penis shot in the next section. However everything is relative to the persons profile.....some are so cute it doesn't matter the penis shows first. lol To attract the people who are your kind you have to change your writing as you go.....that's in my mind a good thing. At the beginning on here its all trail and error.....then your eyes pop out of your head what is around....and you have, have to get out on paper what you want....otherwise how can others know what it is you like. I am happy funny fluffy not very kinky and round. LITONYA......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' TuscanRed... LadyTuscan... ItsInTheKiss... A good ol boiler by any other name... 😄😄😄😄😋😋😋😋 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... and you can put some stuffing in the old chook any time you like Because your worth it
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hope you never change!
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RHP User
10 years ago
thank mou for this.....I don't think I will. Same with you.....strong mental women are the Goddesses.
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RHP User
10 years ago
None off us thought you were referring to inthekiss, actually. Quoting 'BradinSyd' Slightly off topic, can you block people from posting to a topic? Oh but the forums would be so boring!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'BradinSyd' It isn't rebranding, it is a different life path and definitely a different cohort of person than the pure sex ladies and couples I have met from here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A perfume called Tuscan Leather
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who said kiwis can't fly and have the mentality of sheep :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
"About me: we are a professional slim married couple in our late thirties. We are initially looking for a discreet photo exchange with the possibility of a meet with the right people." Oh really now?
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inspirit
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hermes tote..safely tucked away as far as I can recall.. just unpacking now.. Hmmm...ah yes ,there she is. Hesione,poor dear,she just got sick of being tied to that bloody rock.... Auntie Edna..she likes to pop by from time to time...always has excrutiiatingly awful advice to dispense..... Eskimo Nell dropped in briefly from the Klondike with her friend DeadEye Pete.... Freya,three different versions of her I think.....the same with'Qefenta an Ancient Egyptian word for cunt..and now le Vieux...it is French for old one...but ironically I am Buttoning:-) I enjoy changing my name,my profile...at different times I like being in my cave..and then I like to venture out...different name,different needs...but it's always clear that I am still the same jar of Vegemite....an acquired taste for sure..some will always prefer a different spread...Nuttella for instance,.or marmalade...now there's a thought... Lady Marmalade.perhaps next time...n'est pas? I
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi! BradinSyd.I checked out your profile and it certainly is more subtle which is a good thing. You explain what you seek ,what you offer in an Intelligent way .You've added a Face Pic so we can look into your eyes so you're set to go. Good Luck! it was a smart move to change things including your ID. Like a few Women on here. I don't change My ID I love being Madam Dragonfly. but I do update My Profile and soon as I can get some more Pics on My Computer again I'll change them up too.Cheers Lu:)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi! Hun:) Thanks for sharing your excellent Posts. I always love reading them, because they're very witty and Intelligent . "A rose by any other name still smells as sweet". So be named"Tuscan Red, Lady Tuscan or inthekiss" it's still wonderful to know you're still active on the Forums. Enjoy Lu:)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'KiwiBred' For the most part I see people updating their profile and/or changing their username as a reflection of new directions and trial & error in terms of what does and doesn't work for them. Some change their name because they are just fickle and open a whole new account because their hundreds of posts potentially make them a stalker's dream... Me included. ... among other reasons, I said "for the most part" and went on to say "there are exceptions". Irrespective of why, case in point re: ending up with the same result by creating new & improved images on the surface without changing the content & overall persona. As an example: Being a stalkers dream in the forums is not likely to change if there is no change reflected in the posting style and/or content, in which case, the end result of creating anther account at some point is inevitable.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wasn't arguing, just adding.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'KiwiBred' Irrespective of why, case in point re: ending up with the same result by creating new & improved images on the surface without changing the content & overall persona. As an example: Being a stalkers dream in the forums is not likely to change if there is no change reflected in the posting style and/or content, in which case, the end result of creating anther account at some point is inevitable. I expect, miss Kiwi... that personality and agenda via motivation will eventually see someones behaviour return to type, and usually regardless of how hard someone tries to present a change.If someone was a goose before, and they try to change the book cover and a few pages, but the storyline and intention for the story is the same..... personality will return as its unlikely theyve recognized why they failed before, and genuinely changed anything. Its mere window dressing. NOTE:. this comment is not intended to reflect upon anyone in RHP. "Any resemblance to people living or dead is mere coincidence...... especially you.... Jenny Beckman..... bitch"
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I first signed up here, my profile had way too much personal info, but I had many approaches............anyway for better privacy I changed it Since then I have had varied responses..............some have said yes it is better, others have said that they felt the original profile showed that I was a 'real person' what do others think about this? Just interested
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