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Profile construction
December 09 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
the ridiculously long essay, but that's kind of a given. Rarely have I seen women on here complain about the length of guys... erm... profiles! N_D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dot points seem impersonal, nobody reads an essay. I feel like my profile is unbalanced. It's seemingly 100% sexual, but as with all of us- I'm more than my kinks and perversions.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Findingmemo' Dot points seem impersonal, nobody reads an essay. I love essays, lists and dot points. Almost as much as I love spelling and grammar.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like what you have so far, and I don't think it's just sexual at all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not a single "people say I'm attractive but you can be the judge of that" template. Memo - Great start, keep expanding on it. You haven't used a single template from profile builder, kudos for that alone. But I still want to know more about you. We love an essay, if you can make the time for that, you would probably take more time in guilty pleasures.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Who cares what you say you are?? Write it in a way that SHOWS it!!! If I may brag.....check mine out :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've seen so many women's profiles that say "I'm fun, intelligent, bubbly" Then you see the photos.... Dressed like a sloth, not a smile, and very depressed looking..., How does that help me to believe you're fun and bubbly?? Pictures are worth a thousand words.....try to be aware of what you're saying :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Hi findingmemo, Me personally I am not one for essays at all, dot points would be good. But what you have is certainly not an essay I like it as it is. Good luck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Misskay- it's the something more that I'm needing a bit of a helping hand with. Obviously on a site like rhp you don't want to get too in depth about your personal life, but by avoiding all that stuff I almost feel like I'm glossing over the very things that would make me far more relatable to members here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tell them your strong points while leaving some mystery about you. You need something to talk about when you meet them. Remember, Sydney advertises well and gets you to go there but you soon realise there's better places be.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't see any problems with what you've written and your spelling and grammar is fine . All you need now is the Pics , to make you stand out from the rest . Although Selfies are unavoidable , be aware of what's in the background (eg: a messy bathroom ) . And don't use a Cock Pic in your Public Gallery . Check out some of the Forumite's Profiles for more ideas . Good Luck & Happy Hunting ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dear Findy, Here are my thoughts on building a profile: 1. I agree with Funlover71... your profile is a bit of a marketing tool 2. A Photo or photos will help 3. I think the sexy stuff will take care of its self, so my thoughts are to concentrate more on who you are and what you might find appealing in a partner etc. 4. Enlist the help of some female friends ... or least have a few of the women you might find interesting review your draft profile for you and provide some feedback..... 5. I tend to find that too much text might intimidate some people or just leave them a bit 6. Some details about your interests might help ..... that way someone might be interested in getting in touch if you have a common interest in one of your hobbies, or in the type of music or films you like.... etc OK that's all for now! R, Aqua
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I'm with mesmerised, & misskay, I like a good essay...if it's all template, I don't even bother... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A little more about what your interests are in your profile would be good, otherwise what you have reads well. I don't mind reading an essay but it needs to be interesting and non-repetitive. Photos are good and the advice you have been given Aqua is sound. Have find finding yourself and exploring your sexuality.
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RHP User
11 years ago
just do whatever, RHP is ok, like anything it's what you make it. Not sure if your a social type or not, I prefer to get out n about. And everyone struggles with something or other, don't stress it
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think the profile says enough, it's enough for me to respond to with some kind of question to find out something more about you, which is important in a profile as it gives a starting point for conversation. With regard to the pics:- if you're taking pics in the bedroom, make the damn bed and pick up any clothes laying around- if you're taking (god awful) bathroom pics, make sure the toilet is not in view and the towels in the background are neat- if you want to portray yourself as someone with interests outside the bedroom as well, take photos doing that activity. - have at least one clear face pic in your PG.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
A little humour because women love a guy who can laugh at himself, a smidgeon of innuendo because that's where charm and charisma make an apprarance, a bit of consideration for what you ideally seek in another and what of yourself in return you are prepared to offer and try being honest. People appreciate that above all else. Some of the Men here have brilliant profiles. PM me if you'd like a suggestions of a few to look at for inspiration because personally, I'm getting slightly moist; thinking about a few of those profiles as we speak!! (Fanning self, down girl!!) ~ Indagine On The Hunt x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' ~ Indagine On The Hunt x Look out Brisbane.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A man will only get my attention with a profile if I can see a piece of personality shining through, and the more, the better! Oh also, desperation is REALLY unattractive, so the profiles that state they are looking for ANYONE, put me off big time. I think you could get a bit more personality in there, for sure, but glad to see you know what you're looking for.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Talking about you and me funlover... hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Last days...😎
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RHP User
11 years ago
I dont even know how the hell it works try to upload a photo for ages it doesnt working. Geting fed up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To edit my own profile a bit after this post. Takes her own medicine, she will.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Because you and Fun are worth it!!! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Hi there, Thanks for stopping by... I must admit, this site is doing my head in. So many women claiming to be something they're just clearly not. I'm not after a woman that's going to "fake it, until she's made it" or a woman that claims she's fun, easy going and bubbly only to see her photos have her dressed like a sloth, and can't manage a genuine smile.... But..... If you're not one of those, we should chat. We should chat long and hard like a cheesy porno. :)" Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've been told by some mine's too long (profile, profile....never ever heard that about mini Wunfa). Others have said it was the reason they got in touch....some say it's a certain photo or a "feel" or "vibe" they get when they read a profile. I figure your profile is not going to appeal to everyone, so go with what you are looking for and what you are looking for as openly and honestly as you can and see how the RHP roller coaster rolls. I kind of think it is like meeting people in a pub or club....you see them and something about them appeals (or doesn't) and then if you want to, you engage in a conversation and see where it goes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gotta love the smiley, happy carefree little birdies that look like they were weaned on a pickle... 😄 But having said that, I've been chatting with one stern faced librarian type lately... And as god is my witness... Hp is going to put a smile on her face that will never wash off... Holds hand over heart... hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Sorry sold out...😎
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you think your profile is too long, check out rockercouple80..Still one of the best profiles EVER.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' If you think your profile is too long, check out rockercouple80..Still one of the best profiles EVER. Just read it Mesmerised.......that is unique and unlike most others...long it may be...I think they may have nailed it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Any profile containing the line: "I'm looking for no-strings attached fun with people who seek the same." is an immediate no for me.I'd say 90% of the flirts I receive are from profiles containing that sentence..That reminds me: Flirts are not my thing either. Pay up and send a message, people.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Gotta love the smiley, happy carefree little birdies that look like they were weaned on a pickle... 😄 But having said that, I've been chatting with one stern faced librarian type lately... And as god is my witness... Hp is going to put a smile on her face that will never wash off... Holds hand over heart... hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Sorry sold out...😎 Ahem!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I didn't expect you out yourself madam lash... 😄😄😍😍 I strongly believe that you possess a smile that will level 1/2 of Sydney once unleashed... Look out world !! 🚀🚀🚀 hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Sorry sold out...😎
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RHP User
11 years ago
So many people are afraid of selling themselves... I think you need to get over that. Be real about who you are and what you are looking for. I'm OK for those who don't like a long chat, I skip them because it's my preference to know someone first... I just think it makes the sex better with someone who's not afraid of intimacy. But if you're someone who's just after a quick no strings fling, say so. that way you'll attract only those who play on that level. If you want something deeper than that, say so. Be real... say what you want... so many people can't get specific about what they want or need and it is confusing for those who search for their match.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am often not one to piss in my own pocket !!! However my pockets are not water proof lined for nothing;-)) So if you would like to read a profile of adventure , drama , comedy , action , and love take a look Bigocean72 . - Posted from rhpmobile
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