M38 F32
Profile description...too much or???
January 06 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Great advert kids! You certainly get an A for marketing. Look you're young and your gorgeous and you want to attract what you are right? Sure fire way of meeting the people you want to meet is to host a party. Pop it in the events section under "Young and Pretty" and bobs your crossdressing uncle......poof!...squillions of pretties to party with. The cool thing is that you can invite who you want to invite out of those who register their interest and this way have people "up to your standard" attend your party. All parties have a certain age group, certain weight range and looks generally. Nothing wrong with your profile by the way, you're young, your hot and you know it. Hell i knew it when i was your age. (gawd, i can't believe I'm saying that) Play safe and have fun kids xx Goodgrl
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Goodgrl, Thanks for the reassurance, its just an honest profile. We have just found we are being messaged alot less etc...although the ones that have been messaging us are of quality. That sounds like a good idea (hosting a private party & all) & posting it in events. We may just take that road. Also do you think its silly to have a male as the main profile photo (as 99% have a photo of there girl)??? regards, s&s x
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rc_80
13 years ago
I think it needs more cowbell...
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RHP User
13 years ago
The fact is that when playing with couples it's often the woman who drive who we actually play with. So advertising by putting the man of the couple up there and also having plenty of public pics of the lady of the couple is a great idea. All your pics are excellent. No need to change anything. Have fun! xx
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DonnaBrett
13 years ago
It looks & sounds totally fine..but sadly a high percentage of people will NOT read your profile..they'll look at the pics & think..yeah..they're the ones and just msg or flirt anyway..thus wasting your time. It's the nature of the beast..well the lazy beasts anyway!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz'The fact is that when playing with couples it's often the woman who drive who we actually play with. So advertising by putting the man of the couple up there and also having plenty of public pics of the lady of the couple is a great idea. All your pics are excellent. No need to change anything. Have fun! xx Thats good to hear, we are open to all opinions so keep them coming. thx s&s x
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have found that either way i lose. So my profile is just me being honest and if the fusspots that they are cant handle it and block me then that is their loss...
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RHP User
13 years ago
job well done..... perhaps too well..... many wont read what you wrote (i did) and many wont even care you wrote anything at all....just stick to your digs on what you want...... and take everything with a grain of salt. we think you are well on the way to having a fun time.....
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rupamohan
13 years ago
1) Profiles at adult sites should be treated like traffic signs - to the point and clear 2) The main pic of a girl ( not just showing genitals) is worth 1000s words. 3) Profile need to only tell what PPL as a minimum need to know before meet to greet. Most PPL don't want to know all about you in one go. 4) There is a false perception that if you say more you are closing options for negotiation. 5) There is a false perception if you describe more. It means these are all RULES. 6) One bad experience should not make others feel that you have to pass the whinge to everybody by putting all kind of warnings. Unless you had few bad exp or something you can't tolerate even once DO NOT PUT UNNECESSARY WARNINGS. 7) When members don't want to go ahead. There is no need for them to share the reason. Some members feel it is unfair not to give the reason but they also don't want to tell the real reason. If you say a lot in your profile don't be surprised they pick up something for a fake excuse. 8) If your profile is getting bigger consider dividing it in two parts..the second part can be template for your first message exchange. We don't like these kinds of profile much. 1) Where PPL will say looking for like minded person etc..where as there is nothing enough to say what is in their mind?? 2) Where PPL say looking for same..PPL are not clones..we prefer PPL to say, what they are looking for and what they are, separately even if they plan to write similar statements. 3) Where PPL think fairness means forcing others to make same choice for e,g if I show my pic you too have to show. No you tell your choice and let other make their choice. We do agree some choices have to be linked..but not all by default. 4) Where PPL use too many filler words ( words that will be anyway understood and apply to most serious real members) - What purpose these words serves?? - for e,g intelligent, educated, honest, hot, not pushy, quality not quantity, We don't sleep with everyone blah blah.. If something is really important to say.. use objective terminology for e,g quality is imp for everyone...but if it is more imp for you then define what you precisely mean by it...define by giving some examples...of what is good quality for you and what is bad quality for you...merely saying I am after quality..has little meaning...what makes you think others are not looking for quality. If others have not said anything about quality that doesn't mean they are not after quality..it can mean some quality is anyway understood. Assuming others are settling for less means you have not understood how to treat PPL at equal terms.
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
It's detailed yet not too longThe only thing that makes me roll my eyes is the Sydney Uni warning. It's not only unnecessary in terms of the law and the TOU of the website, it's also a bit of an urban myth. When was the last time anyone actually had details of their profile USED by Sydney Uni or any such institution?
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RHP User
13 years ago
1. Should have a fat guy on the main pic. Then everyone knows he doesn't love himself too much.2. No one under 26 can spell that well. If you were 26 I would say 27. The errors that ARE there make you look like you faked it to seem hip and out of my league.3. You didn't clap your hands. Everyone KNOWS if you sexy and ya no it clap Ur hands.4. That warning to Sydney University wasn't comprehensive enough. I can see at least three loopholes to exploit your personal information for an assignment which I can then sell to Today Tonight. Make it longer before everyone knows you're on here. Everyone.5. There is no cock shot. I don't care if its in your private pictures, I can't circulate it around my department's office computers via email. That makes me stabby.6. You live too far away! There isn't a snowflake's chance in hell that I will come to see you no matter how much you beg me.7. You saaaaay you want a mmf, but you don't have "Man" in your "looking for" heading. This makes me confused. Do you or do you not want to have sex with me? I've sent this question twice daily to you for the last two weeks. Have you got them yet? Check if you got them yet.8. I'm homeless and using the computers at centrelink.. Can I stay at yours?RA
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RHP User
13 years ago
Perfect profileIf only others put the time and effort into their profiles as you have.
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DonnaBrett
13 years ago
Very good point Sarah!! Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' It's detailed yet not too longThe only thing that makes me roll my eyes is the Sydney Uni warning. It's not only unnecessary in terms of the law and the TOU of the website, it's also a bit of an urban myth. When was the last time anyone actually had details of their profile USED by Sydney Uni or any such institution?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks alot for all your constructive criticism, oh & 1 not so constructive (randomagent)... I am not sure about the law of this site but the sydney uni thing sounded fair. Rupamohen could you specify what you meant by all that? S&s Xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
You've been very clear in what you guys are after. You may not get as many hits on your profile due to the male main pic as let's face it the majority of peeps on here are after preferably and mainly female play, ( NOT ALL I know just saying majority..)You will get however I'm sure a few grateful females from a couple going "Phew..he isn't half bad...ok your more like 3/4s..ok ok...your hawt!!" as it can be a guessing game to couples as to how a man from the profiles looks like....ie: their hidden away in PGs..wonders why, actually I don't I know why. Whilst it may seem like less hits you are recieving maybe you are actually getting the kind of couples you are after OR rather are actually prepared to see what the BOTH of you look like if MFMF couples play is part of what you seek. Good luck
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was wondering what you meant by kinky. Some people could be put off if they think you are into BDSM. Otherwise I think Sarah is right about the uni warning.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey guys, I'll just say one thing - have a look at our profile then you'll realize that you have nothing to worry about. Take it easy - have a good year. Goldiefun
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RHP User
13 years ago
The classy thing would have been, not to point it out. RA
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi (mistresstud) well kinky for most is commonly defined as a form of unconventional sexual interests. im pretty sure being on rhp & being interested in mfmf & ff style situation would fairly label us as kinky. Although you are right about the possibility of its being misconstrude. What suggestions do you have on clarifying it? S&s X
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rupamohan
13 years ago
We just shared our exp with what we like or dislike in a profile. If you found anything interesting in what I wrote but it is not clear.. point it out and I will try to explain our comments. If nothing applies to you.. just ignore our comments....THAT SIMPLE!!! ENJOY!!! rupa(f)
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FunnWunn
13 years ago
Lots of positives on checking out your profile. Like several others who have already replied, I actually read through profiles. What you've said leaves me in no doubt over your wants, boundaries and so on. Info like that should keep away some of the wasters - unfortunately human behaviour is what it is, so you won't filter them out. But for those of us who are real, it has us in no doubt. Your contacts from the real ones are likely to include genuine approaches/offers of friendship+ or genuine comments of support. If I write to someone knowing I'm outside their search parameters, I say so in my intro, making it clear that I know that and then get on with why I'm writing - whether it's to compliment tham on their profile or whatever. Sometimes it leads to a bit of friendly to and fro messaging or nothing further - just part of keeping things fun. As for your choice of public pics - excellent - sensual, sexy and enough to give a solid impression - also techically of a good standard. As for so-called 'self-marketing' - well, what's a profile for? In my opinion - a great job. Have a great time.
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rc_80
13 years ago
From our experience, the longer our profile gets, the more genuine the people are!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Rockercouple80, Your profile by far is the best we have ever seen, we are definately impressed by your detail & humour. Both your personality & class seeps through it! s&s x
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rc_80
13 years ago
Class?? CLASS?!?!? s&s, we have no class, and it costs us a fucking shit load to always look this cheap. MrsR says forget about the kind words, just send her those abs.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You two are funny... He has alot more to offer then abs. ;0) s&s x
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rc_80
13 years ago
We are offering a "profile rewrite" service for anyone interested. We can guarantee you'll get instantly more messages (even if we have to write those emails ourselves) and a much higher caliber of swinger (even if we have to be the only applicants!). Cost? 3 x naughty photo SMS's to our phone. Our number is hidden in our profile... Chilli. Thanks for the fantastic review of us. It is very easy to be as cool as we are with the assets we have. Over sized brains, perfect genetalia, and a vast collection of liquid courage. Three essential ingredients. Will swap brains for abs though. One owner. Hardly used.
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ExcitableCouple
13 years ago
Randomagent..... U ROCK... Loved ur first msg.... funny!
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
I love irony. And sarcasm is irony, yes? RA - I was about to say you're in the wrong state, then I realised you're not :o MS(the female half) Quoting 'RandomAgent' 1. Should have a fat guy on the main pic. Then everyone knows he doesn't love himself too much.2. No one under 26 can spell that well. If you were 26 I would say 27. The errors that ARE there make you look like you faked it to seem hip and out of my league.3. You didn't clap your hands. Everyone KNOWS if you sexy and ya no it clap Ur hands.4. That warning to Sydney University wasn't comprehensive enough. I can see at least three loopholes to exploit your personal information for an assignment which I can then sell to Today Tonight. Make it longer before everyone knows you're on here. Everyone.5. There is no cock shot. I don't care if its in your private pictures, I can't circulate it around my department's office computers via email. That makes me stabby.6. You live too far away! There isn't a snowflake's chance in hell that I will come to see you no matter how much you beg me.7. You saaaaay you want a mmf, but you don't have "Man" in your "looking for" heading. This makes me confused. Do you or do you not want to have sex with me? I've sent this question twice daily to you for the last two weeks. Have you got them yet? Check if you got them yet.8. I'm homeless and using the computers at centrelink.. Can I stay at yours?RA
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RHP User
13 years ago
We try and use our profile to convey our personalities as well as provide a basic "who we are" type thing that extends beyond the physical and sexual. You guys sound fun and all but I guess it still lacks info about who you are as people to make you stand out from the crowd (not to suggest you're unattractive.. Far from it!) I agree that it's probably a good idea to make your main photo either the girl or both of you :)
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Sybaritical
13 years ago
Hey Guys, We love that you two have put a considerable amount of time and effort into your profile and find it undeniably sexy. For us chemistry and attraction, is as much about mental engagement as it is about the physical! So don't change a thing... except perhaps to meet us for a drink ;)Sincerely, A&B
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Guys, We think your profile is great. In our opinion, profiles should be upfront and honest about everything straight off the bat like how you like to play (ie as a couple or open relationship etc) and what you are looking for so there are no nasty surprises later! People can see by your photos that you are both hot so you probably dont need to go into too much detail about your appearances. Have fun SandS xx
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