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Profile help

June 04 2015

Hi, I was wondering if someone could pleas help me, I'm not getting many views, and the one I do get are not interested, is there something I can do to my profile to help with this? Any help is much appreciated - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    the profile you create must appeal to you.... So... Being the techno guy that you are you'll probably think "but it's honest and that appeals to me" But if you read your profile as if you were critiquing someone else; what advice would you give?? What is it you'd like to see in a profile that attracts you?? Humour?? Intellect?? Thoughtfulness?? If you answer yes to these questions or even just one or two....then you need to reword your profile that SHOWS all of these things and not tells someone.... Words are all too often used to paint the picture for the reader instead of using the words to demonstrate the picture and allowing the picture to be seen on its own merit. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It makes a difference. I would work on some Of your pictures as some aren't as flattering as they could be. Get rid of the toilet shot for a start. Otherwise, you have a very very young face which may put you out of contention with "some" of the older women on here if that is who you are going for. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    First thing to know is that lack of interest in your profile is not a reflection on you. For every woman on RHP there are over half a dozen men. What you describe is the same experience as most of the men that join. I would like to say that there is a perfect profile. I do not believe that there is. We are all after something a little different, with time someone will happen upon your profile, and you will be just what they are looking for. You can not cater for all. I have read your profile and to me it gives conflicting wants. You want a friend with benefits (FWB), but looking for someone to see where it goes. You should pick which you want. if a lady is looking for a FWB and then sees "where it goes" that will put her off, and also the other way around. Avoid detailing conflicting needs, or give reason. The profile is not set in stone. Move some of the photos into the private galls, no need to give them all in one go, give reason to ask for more. Every so often cycle your images. Someone that today looks at your profile may not be interested, they remember your picture and will skip you next time. Changing the picture will prompt them to look again. You never know, they may be in a different mood and that day you are just what they are after. Dont be afraid to experiment with your profile. Every so often rewrite or modify to suit your moods and wants. To find what you want is the same in here as in real life. Don't be in a rush, Don't lie, and always show respect for that is the one thing that is in short supply and high demand. Don't rush. Not every contact will be what you want, making friends is just as important as finding a loverDon't lie. Lie's are thick on the ground here, it makes people very wary. Even an innocent white lie is to be avoided. You dont want to set of the hair trigger BS detector that we all get here. That and what the other posters have said. Don't give up and you will find what you are looking for. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    has got it - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    First of all, lose the "ample" tag as that is clearly not the case.Like Sir said, sell yourself! Tell us who you are and what you want out of life...I understand that at your age all you prolly want is a root, but lets pretend in order to get that you must first act like you are searching for your one and only(who is actually right there, waiting to know you want her)....put that kind of effort in and see what happens....

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Lose the bathroom shot. Put the shot with the green t-tshirt up, it shows your nice smile. You dont need so many face shots, one or two is enough. You need to show some grunt. Some macho. How about an tight undie shot with the outline of your.......you know.....showing. ( just feels a bit odd telling a young man to us your cock) Adds to the mystique. No bare cock shots though. Maybe a arse cheek shot if its looking up to scratch. Hey if you got it, show it to em.i say..... good luck. Annie.xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thanks everyone, I appreciate the contents and ideas :) - Posted from rhpmobile