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Profile or not profile what is your question?

March 17 2019

Hello folks and good evening, I am fairly new to this website and I have already changed my profile few times, make some adjustments and upload more pictures to reflect as best as possible the kind of person I am. I have also read the forum to find some tips and thoughts about this particular situation. It is actually very hard to write a good profile and I believe it takes time to find the right tone and it will not work for everybody so it is down to a question of personal preference. From the writer and from the reader perspective. I can taylor my resume to fit a particular job search but I can't taylor my profile for every women who might be keen to look at it so I am going to ask you two things. First question is: Am I taking the right approach here by revealing accurate facts about myself (without revealing too much of course) or should I keep short and simple and play on the curiosity some women may have? Basically am I doing too much or not? Second question is: What about nude pics?I know, this is a dating website ... so, yes, appearance is probably one the most important thing for a lot of people here.However, it is obvious not everybody is designed upon a Greek God and some of us are a bit chubby but either way I do believe it is not good to reveal the whole package. At least at first, then I think after the first approach and IF there is a connection and the other person want to see more he/she can have access to the private pics and that's actually work both way in my opinion but I might be totally wrong on that so please enlight me and don't mock me. Finally any other advice you think might be helpfull with my profile will be appreciated. Thank you all

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RHP User

6 years ago

I liked your profile and enjoyed reading it.It is long however I believe that once women start reading it, they will keep reading to the end.In my opinion, you don't need to change it.Your photos are good too.Keep any nude ones in your private gallery and reveal them only to those special people whom you are seriously thinking of meeting face to face.Best wishes to you!

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RHP User

6 years ago

Profiles are hard to write. They are also something you can refine and fine tune along the way. With regards too length of profile - too short and nit enough information is given to allow potential interested parties to vibe able to grin an insight into you. Too long and you run the risk of them getting overwhelmed and skimming through or clicking the back button. Additional information can always be given in private messages. With regards to pics - ask yourself - do you feel good in them. Do they portray you in a confident manner? Consider the message you portray by your facial expression, is it welcoming, is it friendly. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes - you don’t have to be a Greek Adonis to join this site so any confidence people pick up from you will again be portrayed by displaying the right pics.. consider angle, what you are wearing, facial expression, what’s in the background etc.. the public pics are only a glimpse into you, a little tease if you like. Further pics can be in your pg and shared with the right interested parties or shared via other messaging platforms. Getting the right mix for your profile is hard. As you change your profile needs to change so it gives the most current up to date reflection of who you are. Points for completing the profile! So many profiles are incomplete! So it shows a genuineness in being here. And we all seek different things from profiles. Just ensure your profile is a reflection of you and you are off to a good start.

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teamaj2

6 years ago

Nicholas , congratulations on your profile . I throughly enjoyed reading it . It was warm , funny , definitely informative and most of all engaging . It was long but I felt it was perfect as it is . Your pictures were also great . I agree with your line of thinking . You can have nudes in your PG if you feel they are warranted. They can be sent to those wanting to ‘see a little more Nicholas ‘! Wishing you good luck in your search for fun , connection and a partner in crime . I don’t think you need our vote of confidence . Someone as genuine , open , honest , humourous , intelligent , with a healthy outlook on life and your sexual activities is bound for succes.

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House_of_Fun

6 years ago

Your profile is exactly the kind of profile I am attracted to personally, keep up the great work.

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NicolasJ

6 years ago

Thank you very much for all the feedbacks, I really appreciate it and I can feel you've all been honest. To be fair I wasn't expecting such a warm welcome and your comments help me a lot to clarify my state of mind toward this website. I will follow your advice and guidance and if I need to change my profile from now on it will be only to adjust few things but as you say I think it is good as it is now. Thank you all again XoXoXo

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