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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  We’re the 5%. One my husbands major gripes.

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  SpicyKale

  3 years ago

  Meh 🤷🏻‍♂️ Just helps with the filtering!

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  2EssesExploring

  3 years ago

  I actually had to look to see what was showing and what was in pg. Oops it seems we are one of the culprits! We have tried several angles with photos and what we have found is the greater the number and the more revealing we show the less genuine contacts we make and definitely the less match worthy contacts. Another thing is people are different with how much they enjoy being photographed. From a kid I’ve hated posing for photos and the only photos I even like of myself are ones taken without my knowledge when I’m enjoying my kids (not very rhp worthy) Mrs S on the other hand doesn’t mind the g rated selfie but again these days there’s always a couple of kids climbing over her. Although surprisingly open to erotic play she does feel very self conscious about her “sexiness” so posing for sexy pics isn’t something she overly enjoys. Some people love taking photos of themselves at any opportunity and that’s ok too. I’d counter with: Why are 99.9999999999% of the profiles with stunning photos of stunning bodies followed up with the most lacklustre profile prose? I mean you should know with us that our tongues will be wagging overtime and all you need do is place a sexual organ near them and you’ll have your own organic Rabbit 😂. If we were to judge the 99.99999% we might think that once we are over the awe of how physically attractive they are our arousal may be dampened by the ensuing star fish performance 😂 Haha this is all tongue in cheek by the way but would much rather tongue in…..

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  From what I have learnt in sites is that the majority of woman predominately are the dominate partner with decision making even if they choose not to admit it , and lets face it we are pedantic specimens

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  teamaj2

  3 years ago

  We all ( including ourselves ) like to see photos of potential playmates . I think people put up a lot more photos of the female as maybe they feel she is the more attractive of the pair ? Attraction is important. Sadly , for both of us . The camera is not our friend . I 100% agree with 2esses we detest being photographed. Whether it’s for work , with family or for online . In over 15 years we have perhaps 4 photos of us together that I can personally tolerate looking at . We have been told , we look so much better in person . For that I’m grateful . Going to events worked in our favour . I have suggested countless times to Mr J we take pictures of us together for the profile and for PG. My request usually gets the response - ‘we will just end up deleting them anyway !’ Probably true , I’m my own worst critic . I think it’s fabulous a couple posting pictures of themselves together . Helps add credibility to their profile . Ax

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  funtimescouple1

  3 years ago

  The better half! We do change between ones of us and ones of just her.

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  Freaky_Fun

  3 years ago

  Because women are generally the drawcard unless of course the male half resembles Chris Hemsworth. I like reasonably fit ish men so if there are no photos or a half an obscured face pic then l assume they're not for me and use it as a filtering tool. We have clear photos of both of us together on my couples profile. I loathe photos too but with phones these days there's no reason why photos look like they've been taken with a potato.

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  Sawadee

  3 years ago

  Simple.. most of us do not particularly like photos of ourselves. A everyday woman will always look alot better in photographs than a everyday man. If we relied on the male half of a couple to get attention there wouldnt be too much happening at all. Plus ' its well known that men are the more visual creatures than women ' where women deservingly lke the attention... isnt that the way nature planned it anyway ?

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  freshers

  3 years ago

  Attraction is important for us. The problem that I have is that when we ask for the PG and it has no pics of their man . I show my lady the profile and she is not interested despite a well written blurb and lovely pics of the lady. I then have to resort to either begging for a photo of the guy or just moving on. It makes it harder work to meet.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  I guess we're the 5%... we assume a lack of pics of the male means he's got a dad bod of the beer loving variety. Maybe it's shallow but we look for somewhat matching physique to ourselves, so an absent player must be off-season and will be sadly a pass.

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  Kokoflamingo

  3 years ago

  I have had a couples profile on here and we had photos up of both of us. Its a dating site, not " guess what we look like". I skip past profiles with no photos, its about initial atraction, so no photos, no interest.

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  Gen82

  3 years ago

  Agreed. But also…the woman is always hotter…just sayin 🤣

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  My partner has a rule. "If you have to ask for pictures of the guy there is usually a reason why". She passes on ALL couples profiles with no pics of the guy. I sometimes respond and her rule generally holds true.

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  funandliberated

  3 years ago

  Yes it should be the couple, we have couple shots. Have to admit the lady is way better looking but we are two of us

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