Profile says one thing but then they want another

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  There are some really dodgy people on this site but some great ones as well. If someone tries to get you to do something you do not want to either by force or trying to convince you by sweet talking it is wrong and possibly criminal. Block them and report them. They are dogs. You have to be careful and trust your gut. If it does not feel right then it probably is not right. I wish you well and good luck in finding what you want.

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  And you will find that people will tell you things, that they think you want to hear, simply in the hope of increasing their chances of getting you into bed. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  No difference to real life. People will say anything to get what they want. It's just easier online to bullshit upfront. Just brings the need to update your skill set on-line bull shit detector. Different to the old days when the scams were face to face and you needed to read their body language. Now you have to read between the lines and unfortunately it can make us hard to approach by the genuine ones. Modern society

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  Tall74nHard9

  8 years ago

  Tales related previously for exactly the type of behaviour you have mentioned. Still goes on too, so you just have to be careful with how you proceed. Many of the ladies will be able to tell you of some type of experience with regards to what was expected, and what was received (or tried). Just always be wary (like in life generally) and see what pathways you can wander. Tall

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  Mischeviouslad

  8 years ago

  This could all be avoided if people took the time to screen others via messages and a phone call or two first. But it seems everyone is in such a rush to (expect) to get naked.... with someone they don't even know yet. Odd.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  To things on here but I will do them. It's about being with a stranger over someone who I trust. For me, choking I won't do with a stranger but will do with someone I trust or love. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  ...I think it's important to remember that here is no different to real life in many ways. People will lie to your face, sell a false image, talk themselves up and just be full of shit in both worlds. The managers of this site do mention that somewhere around the place. Unfortunately, someone forgot to post that notice outside every bar or nightclub you've ever walked into. However, people will also be as decent as they seem, sooo....

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Gotta say.....I'm a bit confused, you've a very forward profile without too many exclusions based on what you've written..... I haven't bothered looking at the whole interests, sexual components of it..... Perhaps a change in your approach as well may be needed to help weed out some of the less than desirable potential partners?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  inspirit

  8 years ago

  Im usually disapointed they're quite "vanilla" 😢 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  In your profile you haven't been specific on what type of person you want to meet. We are all here for sexual exploration. But is liking the person you have sex with somewhat important? I had a look at your profile as well and those are things that you like in bed is great, but I would discuss with the person. What about punctuality, respect and all those other day to day common courtesies in a person that you might take for granted? Give it some thought, because if you aren't specific, you're gonna have to weed through a lot of trash. Just a suggestion, it took me a few weeks to get my profile down and you can see how long it is, hahaha if they can get through that then maybe they might be worth it ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If I didn't read this thread, I'd have thought you just want any penis that can do the sexual positions that you stated and don't care to get to know them as a person that you can keep having fun times with? If that's what you project, that's what you're gonna get. Funny, I used to be called Ride2Nite (similar to your handle) until I got hooked onto forums when I wanted more mental stimulation lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  No means no right ?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Swell I thankyou for your constrictive criticism I really do appreciate Te it I'll take E On

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  On_Safari

  8 years ago

  Let's be brutally honest, I haven't read your profile but sure as shit your username just screams "COME ONE CUM ALL I'M UP FOR GRABS AND WILL DO ANYONE WHO WANTS A QUICK FUCK!" 😳 you reap what you sow. Having said that you'll still have to sort through the rabble to get to people worth giving the time. As for being asked to do something you wouldn't/shouldn't/don't want to. No means no and your safety is paramount. Here's a story: I was chatting with a guy for nearly a year before we met, our interaction had been great, conversations ranged widely mostly non-sexual. He was not on a sex site. I was in Brisbane for the very first M&G I ever hosted....we organised to have a coffee. I was so certain of myself and that all was ok with this man I'd been talking to for a year I invited him to have coffee where I was staying at a friends place. He came, he brought coffee, he said "You can enjoy it .....or not." Let's just say I didn't fight or scream and couldn't lock the door fast enough after he'd gone. People here who know me know I'm not stupid and would never place myself in danger but I broke my own rules and you NEVER REALLY KNOW ANYONE even after extensive interaction. I learned the hard way. How do you learn? ~ On Safari

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  On_Safari

  8 years ago

  Shoot me for sucking at bingo speak

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'Summer_in_Sydney' It's one reason I'll always meet in public first to discuss expectations and boundaries, and why I hardly ever have sex on the first night. same here

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I'm always trying to get them to do more, take risks, they're usually playing catch up 😉 the only annoyance for me has been guys claiming they're up for threesome action with another guy but find them to be all talk. But I probably find the reverse, I'm pretty full on, like public sex etc have decided not to go ahead with meets because of different interests though. Example is if the guy is a sub, that's a no from me. I like my guys dominant. op can I ask what specifically did they want you to do? Anal is something that is a sneaky undiscussed thing that a lot of guys want, but quite often don't discuss in advance, at least the inexperienced, best to tell us guys, so we can prepare for incoming 😊

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Once had a guy lined up, communications all good, arranged a day, showered, juggling life stuff, about to leave to drive to his place, message came in saying I had to wear lingerie, he'd provide the wine. Okay so it's just lingerie but I hate wearing lingerie, don't like how tight and restrictive, and fussy, it is. Give me a loose bikini or loose lace panties anyday. Anyway, regardless of what his request was, you don't leave it until the last minute. End result, he canceled. It was a deal breaker for him. What a fuckin dick. He turned me down because I didn't wear what he told me to? Does he know or appreciate how many men would love the opportunity. I always look sexy in what I'm wearing 😀 so fuck you mate, you missed out big time. No-one tells me what to do. That I found a little disturbing actually, where I wouldn't have if he had it in his profile or had discussed it in advance. If it's a fetish, they need to reveal it much earlier. He probably had 'no time wasters' in his profile 😀

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