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November 13 2020

Does anyone else have an issue with people who don't post correct profiles or dont read/ignore profiles? 1, woman's profiles saying "woman couples" but then they say male/men only. 2, People not reading other people's profiles properly or ignoring them? Why cant people just be honest? It frustrates me no end when people arent honest. There are a few woman, who are not honest about just wanting a man or keeping the fact they are actually looking for a unicorn. A lot of women dont tell you they have a partner until you have been chatting for a while. I know this site is all about sex, pushing the boundaries, but there needs to be an element of safety and trust.

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FloozieandHim

4 years ago

It’s super frustrating to get messages from guys that clearly have just looked at the pictures of our profile and not bothered (or perhaps been able to?) read the profile itself! We are pretty clear about what we do and don’t want...

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RHP User

4 years ago

Yep very common. Just as bad as profiles with a bunch of ask me’s. My boundaries and what I seek gets ignored regularly.

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AnnieWhichway

4 years ago

I agree its frustrating but as long as our arseholes point to the ground, people will be wishy washy in their hopes and desires. We can be very specific with what we are chasing but often we see something outside the box and our juices prime. But l don't condone the premeditated lies that are designed to get people interested in them that otherwise wouldn't be. Like saying they are bi when they are straight as the lamp post outside their house.

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Tall74nHard9

4 years ago

A correct profile - what is that ? Profiles that simply have "ask me" all the way through only get the effort out of me that they put into theirs ie nothing. Same as a number of ladies profiles who find it difficult to fill in any information correctly, such as the age they are seeking as "18 - 18" - I mean, WTF ? There will always be lazy people around - and they will get what they deserve. Tall

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RHP User

4 years ago

I hate when people say they arent smokers but then clearly are when you meet!

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MsSuperFoxy

4 years ago

Nah. I just completely ignore them

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ozmelbcpl4cpl2

4 years ago

Fit as much in your profile as you can. In saying that we get critisized that it's got to much information. Cant win Dan be if you do damned if you don't. Some people have strange ways of doing things.

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ozmelbcpl4cpl2

4 years ago

Damned if you do damned if you don't..correction sorry peeps

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teamaj2

4 years ago

Why - After being on RHP for awhile now , we’ve grown to accept that is part of being on RHP. People will OFTEN say what they think you want to hear in messages . They will not be honest in their profiles , thinking what they say will attract people’s attention. There will ALWAYS be those that respond to profiles where they do not fit what the person or people seek . I’m unsure if that is due to not reading the profiles thoroughly or they are hopeful that people will change their mind on what they seek . Either way , it’s frustrating . We can’t do anything to change people , we can only change how we react to their behaviours. Block and move on , we find useful. Good luck . Ax

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CuriousOne2019

4 years ago

Just to complete the loop and a single men's angle too, yes I agree. I am bi curious , but nowhere does it say I seek men. A few a week seem to ignore this, but frustrating more than annoying

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The_Antichrist

4 years ago

Not really...I don’t give two rats fats fannies if they’re not filled out... I use it as a screening process....and I just say next..and off I go.... People are defeating themselves if they invest themselves into outcomes using only RHP as a means to meet people.....

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bianca_dd

4 years ago

Honesty huh? You do realise that you are posting on the internet? Totally unbridled access to every moron who can type in a URL. I have recently updated my profile which has eliminated many of the dipshits that would have previously messaged me but I still get them. I get genuine messages from genuine people which is great, however, I still get many messages from the brain dead fraternity that have failed to read or understand my profile or if they have, they have chosen to ignore what I actually said in it. The only way to avoid it is to stay off the net. I am lucky enough to have a male partner to whom I refer such dipshits and allow him to answer on my behalf.

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RuralBiCple

4 years ago

I am afraid we treat this site as a bit of a joke, those that we have engaged in offsite communication both males and couples end up playing silly buggers about meeting up for a casual drink or coffee and a chat so thus far has been a big waste of our time and I just occasionally post on the forums so I can block the self appointed forum police to drive them more nuts then they already are 😁😈

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