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Profiles..truth or lies?
December 15 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just ignore the templates I say. Even if they're not fakes, it shows how much effort they're willing to put and it sounds that's not good enough for you. Same goes for me..As for replying: Some do and some don't. That's the nature of this site.I always reply and say so in my profile..But may I say that this part in your profile: if a person takes the time to write at least have the decency to reply or why should one pay to subscribe to message if theres no use?? And live true to your profiles!!.Would get you a "no", as I find it rather negative. There are a lot of real women her that ARE respectful and honest and they don't deserve to be yelled at....Just my 2 cts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for your input mesmerised but that is a question on my profile saying that why pay to message if courtesy to reply aint there! Its out of frustration and I only added that today. A lot of women say..I don't reply to flirts so you upgrade and message but nothing! Thats lies right there..plenty of examples so you must be the exception! Like I said I used to be on here and it seems so different now..wrong decision to return I think..gone is the truth..its all about commercialism now..for advertising etc re- fake profiles! Thanks again for your input :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Regardless if you like the reply or not, she will
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can only speak for myself but I put total honesty out there. My bugbear is that people dont actually read my profile. It is also damned hard to reply back the same day when notifications of a message take so long to come through to my emails. I dont live on this site, I lead a busy life. Im a payed member myself but I can take days to reply to a message. Dont take it personally. I cant chat with everyone that messages me either , its just not possible to keep up with the messages - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I reckon I've responded to the same question dozens of times in the years I've been around the forums. Being a member here doesn't entitle you to anything from other members. I have a list of things I'd like to be 'entitled' to - as an example, I'd like to guarantee that because I've paid for membership I'll only ever get messages from men who've actually read my profile and meet my criteria. But I'm afraid it doesn't work that way. As a member, guest or paying, I reserve the right to respond to messages if and when I want to. If - by your rules - I have to respond to everyone who messages me, then I'd be ridiculously busy writing back to every wanker whose idea of an approach is to say "hey babe, nice tits, I wanna lick your pussy". I actually have an auto-reply set up, which means everyone who messages me does get a reply. Which leads to endless complaints about not getting a personal response. Seriously, people always find something to whinge about. Just present the best of yourself and accept that whoever wants to respond will respond. And stop whinging, it's very unattractive!
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RHP User
11 years ago
a genuine fake
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lies, fakes, dickheads, and the like make the world go round. Enjoy it for what it is, and simply be the truth you wish to express. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'AuntyEdna77' a genuine fake My validation claims I am unreal.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised'My validation claims I am unreal.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I appreciate everyone has the right to reply, I was just pointing out that if you meet the specifics of a certain profile(and reply non-crudely, which isn't me anyhow cause I read profiles!) isn't it corteous to recieve a reply especially when the profile states message me and I will reply(and no I'm talking giving time ie a week plus not an hour as I stated some people are time poor/swamped) I'm true in my profile and thats my true aim of this question, asking about being true to their written words and not what other guys do ie being crude! Thanks for your input in any case though :-) And thankyou to the others too..at least one thing hasn't changed on here..theres still the larrakins lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I didn't see that as whinging.. Did anyone else?? Lol
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inspirit
11 years ago
to stage 2. It's not rocket science.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I mean, there. Out THERE. It's a bit like wading through primordial soup, but those who don't wade, don't find.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I don't want to read bullshit so there's no bullshit in mine, but if anyone wants to know anything else that I haven't covered in my profile just ask me..... 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'cwhereitgoes' Regardless if you like the reply or not, she will Huh? Cwhere, your responses seem catty lately. All ok?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Halcyon_days' I reckon I've responded to the same question dozens of times in the years I've been around the forums. In a previous thread about this subject I said I might write a long answer to this question and save it on my laptop, so I can copy and paste it once a fortnight when another almost identical pops up..And OP, whether you responded to something or not in your profile, my tip is to only put positive things in it. Complaints turn me right off, and I think many women here feel the same way. Whinging is not a character trait of someone I'm hoping to meet.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That goes for female and couples profiles too. .You have "Single guys will be blocked!!!" or "No fakes, crazies or timewasters!" in your profile?I won't read further. .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wrong profile Mesmerised..you sure you looked at the right profile? Lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
sorry but that's just how it is! you won't get a reply for either or a multiple of reasons below: 1) you're not attractive enough for them 2) the person you messaged does lead a busy life and doesn't just live of this site - they may intend to reply but maybe in a month's time 3) they're still going through thousands upon thousands of emails and yours is probably on #999 4) your profile doesn't say much? 5) do you "talk" too much when you email them ie selling yourself? 6) read number 1 again ;) oh and 7) do you e-bash them with negative remarks if they don't reply to you as SOON as YOU want them to? cos thats annoying & you'll be shortly chucked into my blocked list ;) mrperth, i myself tried to make it a point that i reply to each and every one who messages me even if it's a personalised "no, i don't want to fuck you" lol but most of the time, it's just impossible!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'perthman1975' Wrong profile Mesmerised..you sure you looked at the right profile? Lol Quoting 'Mesmerised' That goes for female and couples profiles too. .You have "Single guys will be blocked!!!" or "No fakes, crazies or timewasters!" in your profile?I won't read further. . I think you missed the line at the top?.If you referred to my post above it, yes I must say I think you are complaining and whinging in my opinion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Still think u got the wrong profile..no where do I say that in my profile! And I took your advice and removed the part you disliked mesmerised, as I only had added that a short time ago Anyways the point was missed mostly about fakes and lies in my question and the truth Good luck all!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Plenty of everything on this site thats forsure !! But hey the ladies that dont reply well either dont waste your time ? Or treat it as a challenge to get there attention from the overload of messages and pick you!!! I use my profile to filter two things firstly the woman i want and the woman i dont want !! Truth in profiles pfffttt??? Who knows !! But personally my own profile take away the adventure!! Take away a bit of comedy !! The moral and truth of it never changes , so profiles can be anything you like as long as the moral of your own story is true thats all that counts, personally i would much rather have one beautiful woman inside and out than 20 i dont feel for. Quality is worth the wait.;-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
With regard to honesty: I think I'm pretty honest in my profile, to the point about what I want. With regard to replying to messages: whether I reply depends on a number of factors: - Do they sit within my "looking for" criteria?- Are they attractive to me? Do they have pictures (not cock shots cos I can't see them anyway)?- Do I think they've bothered to read my profile?- Is the message nice, not disrespectful or graphically sexual?- Do I have time to address the message or do I need to think about my reply? It's not rude to not reply to some messages, especially when they are from a 50 odd year old penis asking if I'm into *insert disgusting, degrading sex act here*. I also find that when people ask me to "be respectful and reply", I get this "fuck you, I do what I want" Eric Cartman attitude going and they get deleted.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It might be a shock to the system OP but some people don't see this site as anything serious at all. Many first time users are here just to have a look see and don't put any effort into the profile. When I first arrived here I did as little as possible in regards to my profile. I just wanted to see what the site was like. So the fact is that over 90% of the users here are just casual users, they invest very little time here. many are also concerned about their privacy so limit the amount of information they put in their profile. As for replies. You can see if someone has read your message or not. If they read and then don't reply is that not a reply in its self. Or do you need a pat on the back every time you send a message. In short members here are under no obligation to provide any information that they do not wish to provide, nor are they forced to tell the truth, and why should they be. The whole point of sites like this is too have fun and if you start with rules and obligations you will quickly take the fun out of the equation. You sound frustrated OP and no you are not wasting your time. But that said you will need to take time and have some patience. So take it all with a pinch of salt, don't put your expectations to high, don't let rejection get you down, and before you know it you will be so busy you wont know which way to turn.
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RHP User
11 years ago
gr8 post
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't think we missed the point :) I think we are ... or at least I am ... saying that life is full of different people. Go to a pub - you'll find fakes and liars. And at work. In your family. All around. And you'll find great people and cheaters and Good Samaritans and leaders and followers and so on. RHP is no different than anywhere else you meet people. You have to have your wits about you, have some patience, use good judgment and remember that you get back what you put in. Focussing on the people who are on this site that DON'T meet your expectations is just a waste of your valuable time. That's why it sounds like whining - because it's energy spent on the negative instead of the positive. With the many, many profiles on here we all need to quickly filter for what grabs our attention and what turns us off. Negativity is always a turn off, whether in profiles or here on the forums. There are a LOT of great people on here. Some hang out on the forums, many don't. Like Blindman said ... time and patience.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think it can be a little over whelming trying to decide what to put on your profile. I remember when I first joined I did have a whole lot of "ask me" as I wasn't sure how much detail to give. So if they don't have a lot of detail on their profile I try give them the benefit of the doubt and rather decide if they are worth pursuing from their initial message.
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