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Protection??

May 15 2013

Hello everyone. My husband and I are new to this site, and are looking at meeting a girl for our first (and possibly ongoing) FFM another couple to play with and a guy for ongoing MMF's (although we have done a MMF a few times with a close friend) I have a query reguarding using protection.. Just wondering how exactly you go about using a condom etc when having a 3som or 4som. Once you start having sex and the guy(s) is wearing one, if you then swap back to oral sex etc, do you take it off (as I am not really keen on sucking a cock that has a condom on it) and then put a new one on when we start having sex again? Or in most cases do you just do all the oral sex, foreplay etc without one, and then once you start having sex with one just don't go back to the other stuff? Seems like there would be alot of putting on, taking off when there is alot of swapping from oral sex to vaginal sex.. Also in the case of a FFM, if my husband was wearing one and wanted to do quick swapping between the girls, should he be putting a new one on before entering each girl? I mean the condom would protect him against her but if he then inserted himself into me with the same condom then I am at risk of contracting something (if she did have a STD) Sorry, this probably seems like a silly question, but I just can't seem think about how the best way to go about it, without the mood been ruined by continuously stopping to take off and put on condoms? With our friend, we have known him for a long time and we didn't see the need use protection (as irresponsible as it is)Anyway, if anyone out there would like to let me know what you have done in your experiences I would love to hear them.. Thanks, H

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RHP User

12 years ago

Each time you dip your dick in a new hole it must have a new condom on it. Otherwise you defeat the whole purpose. No quick swapping I am afraid.

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RHP User

12 years ago

It's talked about with the new playmate before hand . What your rules and limits are and then on the night it's just something that doesn't need to be talked about you just do it ! Yes you do go through a lot of condoms , as you always wear a new one with each entering into a new hole , so to speak !! Lol But it still won't help with all stds . If you suck a cock and he has a std and you get it in you throat and then suck another cock you pass it on , then that cock which could be your partner who you don't wear condoms with puts it in your vagina you then get it in your vagina . So in theory if you don't wear condoms for oral too you are not immune !! If you play in this scene it's just the reality of the experience !! I would be more concerned by the playmates who say to you you don't need to use them !! I would run a hundred miles at great speed !! Good luck But we are all adults so you just don't think about all that swapping and putting new condoms on . The fun you can have far out ways all the inconvience Xxx mrs cs

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justfforfun

12 years ago

Yes meeka is right there- Posted from rhpmobile

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ruby_blossum

12 years ago

condom application is fun !Learn how to incorporate into your play.I think you may find that any STD may be more of a mood killer.

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RHP User

12 years ago

What's with all the quick swapping? Maybe some Ritalin needed so you can maintain attention?

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Mischeviouslad

12 years ago

Quoting 'Meeka100' Each time you dip your dick in a new hole it must have a new condom on it. Otherwise you defeat the whole purpose. No quick swapping I am afraid. I occasionally wonder.... how people in the group setting manage... with all the fingers and tongues and cocks and vaginas.Stepping back to scrub down in hand sanitiser doesnt seem feasible.lolDG

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RHP User

12 years ago

Yes exactly. That is why people who are into group play need to get tested regularly. Personally I would welcome hand sanitizer and mouth wash at the clubs. Not everyone showers after every play session either. As a woman at swingers clubs its up to you to watch each new guy out a condom on... Well that is what I would do.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Out = put

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RHP User

12 years ago

And what about squirters? I have been squirted on a number Of times and I was only standing near by!!! That'll learn me. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ

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RHP User

12 years ago

Mr Otori and I don't use condoms with each other but when we swap partners, the condoms come out. And yes, new condom for each swap or you will be potentially passing stuff on to other partners (or your own partner). If you're worried about killing the mood, learn to put them on with your mouth. It's not too hard to do and it keeps it hard (wink wink). There is always a risk of infection in what we do, condoms don't work for everything, just the vast majority of things that you do with penis to orifice contact, so it's also important to get yourself tested regularly, which you can do at sexual health clinics (for free), or even your own GP.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'Meeka100' And what about squirters? I have been squirted on a number Of times and I was only standing near by!!! That'll learn me. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ LOL Clubs should supply disposable aprons for onlookers??Foxy

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'Meeka100'And what about squirters? I have been squirted on a number Of times and I was only standing near by!!! That'll learn me. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ Should have worn eye protection !! LOL !!

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RHP User

11 years ago

don't use protection as we know everything about each other and in our jobs we are tested any way (medical and defence). Anyway when we are in the situation of sex (oral or other) it is always safe! I had someone try and tell me once that oral without a condom is fine. Sorry but I won't risk passing anything on to Mr because someone wanted a bj without a raincoat. (lol)

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RHP User

11 years ago

You two are very rare then.....and mrs uses a dam

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RHP User

11 years ago

Our profiles specify our condom policy, if someone else's condom policy is not what you want. Just Move on. No more needs to be said,

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chevtrek

11 years ago

But the banks wont let me in. To get serious it is always better to be safe than sorry.

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