Proud to be a single male

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  Paradisepair

  11 years ago

  Respect is tantamount in any connection, so single guys are not second class citizens in our eyes but our standards are higher when we deal with them because a) there's a lot of you out there so we don't need to settle, and b) our MFM encounters are very much about getting my (mrsParadise)'s boxes ticked and there are traits I want in that playmate, or we're not going there. Funnily enough we've found single guys hard work, just the communication and commitment side, constructive feedback is taken as an insult when we go out of our way to explain that it's not (out of trying to make their next attempt at contacting a couple better) and when some are offered an opportunity to follow through they balk. But back to respect, it's there until it's lost through poor communication or lack of follow through and once a guys gets through all my high standards and gets to meet us in person it's the backbone of our experience, because I really want to like and respect anyone that gets that intimate with me. Shameless advertising, we're currently looking for a hot, hung and respectful single guy to hang with in the very near future...

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  inspirit

  11 years ago

  Just Whores. Welcome to the sandpit.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  ....that you should just be proud to be 'you'. Sure, I'm a single guy, but I'm not proud because I'm single, or a guy, or a single guy. I'm proud because I'm ME. And if someone wants to give me grief..... that's their issue. And I don't make other people's issue, my issue. There's always another person who I DO rock the shit out if right to the centre of their world. Next!!!!! :-) DG (because IM frikken worth it). - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You've got a bit of spunk going on today. Was it something you ate? OP, I think you may be talking to the wrong people.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I see you're in Perth. From what I can gather, you have a lot of competition. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  if you is so successful IRL,then why are you here

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  The only person that degrades me on here is me. Everybody else loves me. And proud to be a single male??? I'm just proud to be a funlover

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Perhaps it's because you're in the wake of others??? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Yay for you!! And yes, yes it's terrible! Oh well, what are you going to do about it?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  RHP is no different to real life. Some will argue it's not..... But..... There are rude people everywhere, all that RHP does, is give them a vehicle to do so without fear of reprisal. Just as..... It also provides a vehicle for sleaze bags to do what sleaze bags do. All that matters in The big scheme of things is how much weight you give to a perfect strangers opinion that you probably wouldn't otherwise give a toss about. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Thanks Paradise Pair, I guess it's parallel to their integrity as people in general and as to why some are single. Guys or girls. Mischeviouslad.. well said! Paint me.. I think just the wrong people so far. Freya.. In real life, it's not that simple to meet a kinky couple in public. Is it? It's not like people walk around with 3some signs on their head. Nice to see some people get it.. If I've pushed your buttons, good for you. Thanks guys for the perspective.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  it just has to be said lover....you are a guest....you can only send flirts..that is like snowballs in hell....it doesn't matter how gorgeous you are nobody can see you...lying back and waiting just isn't going to work.....your profileneeds a bit more work too,otherwise you are the invisible man.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Freya77' it just has to be said lover....you are a guest....you can only send flirts..that is like snowballs in hell....it doesn't matter how gorgeous you are nobody can see you...lying back and waiting just isn't going to work.....your profileneeds a bit more work too,otherwise you are the invisible man.I agree there with Freya, you need to pay up if you're a guy. Us women get a lot of flirts, it's hard to keep up. I don't bother to read my flirts unless I'm bored. Flirts are a waste of time, especially if the profile says bugger all about the person. Get out there and start messaging, you might have more luck. :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Although you haven't actually clarified what you mean by being treated as a second class citizen, I'm going to assume that you mean you're not getting any attention. But as Freya pointed out, you're a guest and you can't message anyone, which for a single guy is pretty much guaranteed no action and being ignored. Particularly considering where you live - I'm totally jealous of the Perth ladies because they seem very spoilt for choice over there. Yes you have a nice torso but for the ladies in the bigger cities, nice torsos are a dime a dozen on here. And most just ignore flirts, partly because many themselves are guests and they can't message you, so what's the point? And before you say well that's not fair, no it's certainly not, but that's the way it is on here when men outnumber women by the amount that they do. If you want more action you're going to have to pay up and improve your profile. But then again, if the ladies love you in real life why would you need to bother?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Thanks everyone for the constructive feed back. I'm going to test Stir_it_alots theory about no difference with RHP or the real world and look for something kinkier in the flesh. Lots of love and fun ;) Cya all!!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Another one bites the dust

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  cleopatrababe

  11 years ago

  im not interested in looking at flirts dime a dozen ,, send a message then maybe interest will peak good luck

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  DynamicCouple36

  11 years ago

  We have a profile on this site, and another, and have received a large number of messages from both "single" males and "couples". Generally the "single" males have been polite, upfront and honest with us regarding what exactly it is that they "want" or "expect", even though we have made it very clear that we are not looking for a "single" male. That said many of the "couples" with whom we have "corresponded" have become unpleasant when we have turned down their advances and the reason, we have found, is that they were not "couples" after all but instead "single" men. We used to go to a club called Attunga fairly often. In fact at one stage we would go every Saturday. They used to let in around 7 "single" guys on those Saturdays that "single" guys were allowed in, and generally they behaved themselves. The club went through renovations and a change of ownership in July after which we returned one Saturday, to find upwards of 40 "single" males and around 4 couples. It was most unpleasant as I [Leslie] was followed to and into the toilets a few times by some "single" guys. We were harassed and propositioned and at one stage they tried to kick down the doors to the private "room" that Jason and I were playing in. On another occasion they tried to climb up and over the partition and into the room. Due to that if and when we go, which is now rarely, it will only be on couples nights, but to be honest we have now not played for several months. Its not that "single" guys are 2nd class citizens, or that anyone want to treat them as such. Perhaps its just because there are so many "single" guys out there - that there are just so many wanting in on a piece of the action. You probably are wondering why I type "single guys" and not single guys ? It's because so many "single" guys, that have approached us, have not ended up being single, but rather married and or attached and doing all of this behind the backs of their wives or girlfriends. Not all guys are bad and pushy. There are some really nice guys out there. Its just that the bad apples, those pushy and rude ones, give the good ones a bad name as people tend to then tar everyone with the same brush. In the chat rooms, both on here and another site, the standard "opening lines" when receiving a "whisper" from a guy seem to always be along the lines of "Hello How R U ? Sexy pics. R U horni? Wanna Fuck. Mind if I wank whilst looking at your pix? Wanna sit on my face ........ " Now if one is receiving dozens if not more, of messages like this daily, surely one gets a little bit fed up with it all, and so if and when a decent guy makes contact, one is always on the "defensive" expecting the worst? Perhaps these sites just bring out the worst in some people ? This morning I received a message, from the guy of a "couple" who in essence told me that he was going to beat the shit out of me.... amongst other things. All of this because I had asked him to verify his "couple" profile - and he had refused and I had then gone on to tell him that both he, and his "partner" were really not our types .....So he has now been added to the "block" list. So to the original poster. Dont give up. Just be polite and respectful and not too pushy. Understand that the "single" men in here , far outnumber everyone else and that many of them are very pushy, and that because of the bad apples, the good guys get labelled the same.... and that's such a pity as there are some really great guys out there and on this site.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Having just jumped into the singles pit. I see where your comin from. Maybe this is karma. - Posted from rhpmobile

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