hotfitcouple

hotfitcouple

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Put Some Effort In!

June 15 2019

Being a pretty open couple, happy to play with single guys, girls, couples and groups, it constantly amazes us how little effort guys actually put into their profiles. After a pretty good run of couple and FFM encounters, we decided that a MMF night would be fun. Our regular male friends were unable to meet us on our selected nights, so we set about the task of finding the right guy for an afternoon/night of unadulterated passion and adult fun. Well, what a sodding saga that's turned out to be. If we see the words "ask me" or "not sure" one more time, the iPad goes out the window. Maybe we've been lucky so far. The male friends we keep have contacted us and have been respectful, polite, and had profiles that have piqued our interest immediately. Great pics, loads of information, and details that aren't automatically generated (I admit I'm a sexual animal and can't get enough 🙄). And our personal favourite, the multiple flirt - "please message me, I'm keen", closely followed by, "I'm a guest". After searching through a dozen pages of males in our area seeking couples this afternoon, we seriously wonder what some of these guys think is going to get them invited into the holiest of holies - an existing marital relationship. Our latest message from a prospective male third encouraged us to contact him if we loved his profile - a page full of "ask me" with a dick pic. Seriously. Are you curious? Do you drink? Do you smoke? What is your poison? We have no idea, unless we "ask you". And we're sorry guys, but a dick is not an ideal profile pic. FFS we know you have one - you're a guy. At least you bothered to fill in that bit. So guys - represent, and do yourselves a favour! Fill in the blanks. Tell us what you like. Tell us what you want. Tell us what you're looking for! Show us something other than a half-baked hard-on, and put some sodding effort into your profiles. It literally takes 10 minutes, and your dick will thank you in the long run.

Comments

  • itsjustsex13

    itsjustsex13

    6 years ago

    Amen

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    🙏 That auto gen sexual animal line is the worst. Lame and creepy .

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Wouldn't that be a good screening tool to use? It is not just men either. I would dislike it if this forum turned into another man bashing forum. There are some great well written profiles out there (male and female) who are and continue to be successful. I know a few couples who met via RHP and got married. So this site does work. Ms Foxy

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    6 years ago

    I’m actually thankful for those profiles tbh.... They weed themselves out of the running...what’s not to like about screening process that takes fuck all effort??

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    😳🙈🙊 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hotfitcouple I agree 100% I receive numerous messages a day from guys with no info or pics on their profile I’m pretty new to RHP & I’d like your opinion.... we all know there’s a few fake profiles on this site & others My question to you & others, if there’s a couple/few profiles with nearly ‘word for word’ descriptions, should I presume it’s the same person/group/friends ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Same with couples. One guy had taken a photo of his wife in a very untidy kitchen. Some have no photos at all. Not sure about women as I dont search for them but Im sure its not just guys. If the profile screams of no effort.....next.

  • Albury_wodonga

    Albury_wodonga

    6 years ago

    Nothing worse than opening Kik messages from them with a bunch of dick pics 🤪 they are ugly, we don't need to see 😂 unless we ask.. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I agree. Shit profile weed out the shit people. Personally. It is nice to see some titts. But I don't go for any one with out a profile pic.

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    6 years ago

    I must say. Those profiles are a absolutely awesome. Without them undesirable guys like me would not have any chance not so ever... But in the other hand op. I can understand your frustration... is not hard to put a bit of effort into.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Dick pics (really ? As your main photo ? Massive turn off that profile), no effort, incomplete profiles - I’ll fill the rest in later, it’s not a tax return ........, messages from men who don’t meet your age criteria ..... the list goes on - and then they whine they have no luck ...... rant off

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    On a site such as this how everyone seems so surprised and put out that there is such diversity.celebrate it and stop fucking whining.Your responsible for your own experiences.

  • hotfitcouple

    hotfitcouple

    5 years ago

    Each to their own. I appreciate your opinion usebi, as I have appreciated some of the other comments on here which had an opinion different to ours. I understand better now that some people love profiles like yours - single male guest accounts with no pics - which allow them to instantly weed out people they can't be bothered to interact with. I'm certainly not saying that profiles like yours never get contacted, simply that with a bit more effort the contacts may be more frequent. It's not a whine, it's a forum - the very definition of which allows people to discuss topics in a civilised matter. You know, an adult conversation. So no, we're not surprised, and we are celebrating the fact we don't need to contact people that don't float our boat - the same as you and everyone else on here. I wish you every success with your search sir.

  • abab1

    abab1

    5 years ago

    We ran parties for a few years, we found it harder to find good single guys than single bi girls. As one of the things we were looking for was the ability to communicate with others at a party, some single guy profiles we ruled out immediately, others gave super short responses. We were offering a party rarely got a decent response. On the other hand we found some awesome ones!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    It was a general statement.my account is the way it is for my reasons, rhp is much bigger than the forums and the action is in the profiles,I'm cool with people who rule out profiles with no pics or men under 6ft or women who are size * or whatever, they do themselves a disservice but hey thats there right. To date on this site and others some of my most memorable meets have come from profiles with no pics and no that doesn't mean I'll fuck a hole in the fence I still have my preferences but my pool is way bigger and for a guy that counts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Seems some are awake to it - I’ve noticed a couple of guys have cut and paste my profile 🙄🙄🙄🤣🤣🤣

  • hotfitcouple

    hotfitcouple

    5 years ago

    I can see why. Not that we condone such tomfoolery, but yours is the kind of profile that floats our boat, and if we were in the Sunshine Coast area, we would have met before now! Great pics, and a blurb that you have obviously spent a lot of time on. This says to us that you're serious about meeting awesome couples like us 😬 We wish you the best of luck in your endeavours 👍 hotfit xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Quite frankly I've found the vast majority of profiles, men/women/couples/groups etc simply don't bother reading profiles or messages. They're simply in it for pic viewing. I recently travelled to Brisbane and sent out a plethora of messages, all detailed, all lengthy outlining who I was and what I was looking for and how long I was there for. The amount of replies I got saying they hadn't bothered to read my message or profile, but just went straight for the pic access was staggering. When people can't bother to read what you write, it's kind of glaringly obvious why "single guys" stop writing. I've also found quite a lot of women and couples profiles aren't filled in, not just "single guys"....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Supersexy/flamingo Will have best advice on this issue/ dilemma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I can only repeat what others have said...the profiles with zero effort help to weed out the time wasters. If someone messages you...lets have a look...ask me, ask me, ask me......nope. And hey, youre a bit supersexy yourself Put some effort in.....write a bit about yourself and dont expect a lottery win out of a dud ticket .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    This should be made a sticky and applicable for everyone. Men, Women, Couples are all guilty as charged.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Footlong's profile is an example of partial laziness IMO Whenever I see 'people have found me attractive.....' templates, come on guys, it's not rocket science. If you can't even be bothered telling us a bit about yourself and/or what you're looking for, we just scroll on to the next

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    That last sentence in the comment wasnt directed at you.....just to clear that up.

  • badboyhere

    badboyhere

    5 years ago

    I wonder if this was factored before you posted.....I searched for “men” in the Whitsundays up to 50kms away from where you live. 76 profiles appeared and there was 19 with pics and one cross dresser. See that there are not too many guys offering up too much detail on themselves where you live. I dropped the search down to 25kms and 7 profiles appeared and only two had pics. Is locality a factor? I am sure that if you were in South east qld you would have had a great night as there are thousands of male profiles that would have “ticked the boxes”. Perhaps this was more of the issue.

  • sweetpussy4u

    sweetpussy4u

    5 years ago

    We feel your frustration the amount that won’t actually say what there into or like doing or if you ask if there bi they give you a non answer like maybe depends etc.