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Queening rimming question

July 08 2013

I am not into full on anal penetration but love licking there.... problem is that when I tell this to somebody I just meet, she is off... my question is... is it so much heated by women to be licked there and for me to give up on this fantasy or shall I just keep looking??

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    i didnt think it was THAT taboo....or is that just me....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Perhaps it's not such a great conversation opener ! Women often need to build some trust with a potential sex partner , work your way up to it , rather than introduce it too early just to fulfill your own fantasy.

  • GunnaBHot

    GunnaBHot

    11 years ago

    Agree with CuriousRedHead - may not be a great opening line! lol   However Mrs G absolutely loves it and its a great prelude to anal!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I just thought it was a normal part of any sexual experienceMy body is made to be licked, so lick it

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    Agree thats maybe its not the right thing to come out with on the first encounter but in saying that you need to open up some honest communication with your partner at some point to talk about it as I don't think its THAT taboo. From what I have seen discussed previously on the forums I reckon its about 50/50 for the women for and against enjoying rimming. Definitely is a no go for some while others love it.

  • Splicey

    Splicey

    11 years ago

    Alcohol makes tossing salad (for either party) a possibility when sober they wouldn't dare. MrsSplicey

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't have to ask and risk the chance of rejection, you'll find out once you get things going in the bedroom. From experience if a woman keeps themselves nice and clean down there (waxed etc) than it's probable she would at least like to be rimmed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Imagine meeting a woman for the first time, she orders a latte, you order a mocha in a cosy little coffee shop. You exchange pleasantries, and then she all of a sudden she says in front of the other 8 people present "I wanna lube my fist, forearm up and penetrate your arse!! Any questions?" Now, you may or may not get wood at the thought of that, I don't know what you're into. The point is, it's not really that appealing to be seen as just an object for your, or hers in my example, sexual gratification straight off the bat is it?? There's nothing wrong with your fantasy, kink, as I'm sure there are many people that love having their arse licked.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you could add more to your profile,you are, as a guest,waiting for women to contact you.I think it's not so much what you say,it's how and when you say it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I certainly would have took off like a shot if someone had said that to me a year ago. Almost gave my poor lover a black eye when I first felt his tongue there lol But he has totally and utterly converted me. Now I love a good rimming :) It definitely helps to form some respect and trust between the two of you first before the approach. All the best OP :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Fingers and a bit of penetration but using your mouth no!!! I couldn't let some one kiss me after going there! Maybe I'm just a little vanilla there. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Im with you... couldnt agree more...Quote: Fingers and a bit of penetration but using your mouth no!!! I couldn't let some one kiss me after going there! Maybe I'm just a little vanilla there. Jay.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I did the ''slow'' thing... play first and play again and third time lick there... she was heart broken as it was not her thing end of story (with her) so decided to be up front... then I can't play not even once hahahahah looks like can't win I will be up front and keep looking hahahah thakx again to all the input

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    I saw some comments and its hard to believe there are prudes still on a sex web site or is it some women don't clean themselves. Next thing you will hear is that doing anal sex will leave shit on your dick.   Some people are so naïve LMAO   Oh but do agree work up to it don't start with it.

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'chevtrek' I saw some comments and its hard to believe there are prudes still on a sex web site or is it some women don't clean themselves. Next thing you will hear is that doing anal sex will leave shit on your dick.   Some people are so naïve LMAO   Oh but do agree work up to it don't start with it. Its got nothing to do with being a prude or being naive. Its just one of those things that people either like or don't like. Like anything in life that is their choice and to be respected !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Gee we all can't as worldly as you. You know what, I have spoken to women who haven't realised that they should have an enema before anal play. Or hell..... sometimes even with the enema you can have little accidents. You are the one that sounds a bit naive. All I can say is I hope you give yourself a thoroughly good enema before going to the shops Chev, just in case you meet someone that would like to shove something up your butt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Gee we all can't as worldly as you. You know what, I have spoken to women who haven't realised that they should have an enema before anal play. Or hell..... sometimes even with the enema you can have little accidents. You are the one that sounds a bit naive. All I can say is I hope you give yourself a thoroughly good enema before going to the shops Chev, just in case you meet someone that would like to shove something up your butt. like the toe of a shoe???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Gee we all can't as worldly as you. You know what, I have spoken to women who haven't realised that they should have an enema before anal play. Or hell..... sometimes even with the enema you can have little accidents. You are the one that sounds a bit naive. All I can say is I hope you give yourself a thoroughly good enema before going to the shops Chev, just in case you meet someone that would like to shove something up your butt. His playmate is plastic and inflatable - he can just give her a wipe down with a chux afterwards...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I wonder if Mr 'been everywhere done everything' has made the trek to enema his own butt for the younguns who have rimmed/PENETRATED him ... or maybe he's a prude Just remember, not everything, nor ANYONE is everyone's cup of tea. One person's "up the bum" maybe the next person's "I won't show my ankles under my petticoats". Work out where each person's limits at that moment are, and play with those. Have fun.