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February 22 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
like that don't even deserve an answer. Make it blatantly clear that this kind of message goes in the bin.And if you get a repeat just block.Save the polite refusal for a polite letter.I would lose the "just ask me" line and provide a bit more information, it won't get rid of the total morons but it may give others a bit more to go on. Rudeness doesn't bother me, says more about them than me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you a wanker/ tosser/moron/dickhead...box for them to tick when they opened their profile...\ alas there is not.. Welcome to RHP !!! What can one do ? ..not much - just keep politely refusing....blocking those who become abusive and soldier on.. You cant change peoples behaviors, only your own and your reactions...dont lower yourself to their level..no matter what His out there, your guy.....but sadly yep so are alot of toads...just wait till you get to my age !!!! Chin up
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RHP User
12 years ago
I cant help you it just that some guys only thing with ONE HEAD and this does not have a brain.....But we hope you get someone who does use his brain as you look like a very lovely lady...GT
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RHP User
12 years ago
That members are rude if they don't reply to ALL messages. Nonsense. Time is precious and limited. Be discerning, use time wisely and don't waste it on tossers. Ignore ignore ignore :)
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
This is where I use the word "Dumbarses" about guys who just dont get it, and hide behind the excuse of "its an adult site".... completely ignorant of the fact that women still have a list of personal likes, dislikes, and acceptable behaviours.And then, I receive a cranky response and some angry mail.So I say to you, Miss Natalieann..... dont let other peoples issues become your issues.If people dont meet YOUR standards of preference and acceptable behaviour .... and they dont take a polite "no thanks (etc)" for an answer and they need to be told further.... tell them.And if they still dont get it.... and in here, so many guys just dont (if the forum topics and replies are any indication)... just block them.There is never any excuse for such brittle-ego responses of abuse.You are worth more than to have to deal with dumbarses.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I replied to him that he needs to find his manners then I blocked him. It's that easy. 50z right, his problem not mine. All other messages I get are really polite and genuine.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Probably fill out your profile a bit more and be more specific about the type of guy/experiences you are seeking. Demand respect from people, you are worth nothing less. ;-)
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Shinasbabe I agree! Your list should also have Player Liar Arsehole Time waster Little dick syndrome I need ppl to fill my mind n if you can get past that hurdle n at least hold a conversation without telling me how you can fuck - because if you have intelligence don't worry about the sex part as it will come!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You guys made my day! Thanks!!! I will change my profile thank you for that tip! The blocking and ignoring is happening already. And I think If I am to be honest I just wanted a vent! Thank you a) for reading and b) for your feedback. Thank you all NA
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RHP User
12 years ago
These cretins probably have a beer in one hand, their dick in the other and are typing with their nose. Take absolutely no notice of them. As for what I and everyone else has posted so far thinks of them, see above. LOW DOGS... BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK
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RHP User
12 years ago
Believe me when I say...Its not always like that Natalieann. The Dickheads that are rude make the GOOD guys stand out!!!! Don't let those vile twits spoil it for you. The best advice I can give you is - ignore, ignore, ignore...don't waste your precious time on them.. Hummmm and they wonder why they get ignored...?? Focus on the ones who are attentive and respectful....The ones who actually know who to talk to a woman. Its true...There are some Amazing men here..I have meet a few. :-) Keep being pro-active. Chin up. Foxy PS: Great Advice Shinas.. :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
How come all the amazing men...................live East. ????..........................AARRGGGHHH
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just block them and delete the message straight up. Don't even entertain the scum.
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1playfulcpl
12 years ago
dnt waste ur time with them most men who tell u wat they can do usually cant do it anyway
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' How come all the amazing men...................live East. ????..........................AARRGGGHHH Because that's where all the amazing women live ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
that was from my mum, who told me to get of as I was fucking all her young lovers well shit how was I to know they had internet at the nursing home... anyway you have some nice looking friends there, so you must be doing ok with the ones that count the others well honey feel a little sorry for them , as your young and beautiful and can get it quicker than a pizza delivery where they sit with their bags filled up got to be hard for them
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blond_gypsy
12 years ago
Now see that's why you should be messaging me :) *cough*Seriously though, just ignore those types. At least they show you upfront how unattractive they are.
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RHP User
12 years ago
write them off as the wanker they are, and block them. people have no idea of just how much damage they can do, when they lash out with some nastiness.....no, i guess they do...for some its the only way they can cope..they hurl abuse when they are rejected, or toss sarcastic barbs around when they are jealous or envious....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just like the real world it's a Forrest out there and you got yo get through the thick of shrubs(pricks) to find the fruits beyond :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
There's AMAZING men everywhere across the country!! They are looking for 'US'...LOL Well just the other day I had this pretty awesome 'meet and greet' with a good man.....came out of nowhere, he did! :) Good things come to those who wait my sweetness..... :) FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
...cut back on the make-up just a tad. Love the look but some guys might get the wrong impression...it's like seeing full red lips, nice shoes or great boobies.Men can't help...loosing control of one brain at times.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... like Shinas I'm waiting for the good things to come. Patience is a virtue! Hi Natalieann :-) don't let the rude messages spoil your fun. Even us old chucks get them! Just turn the other cheek and block. KK xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I never once mention my penis in an email and I still don't get a reply...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi NatalieI really can't believe that guys would actually send messages like that. I wonder if they realise they would get a slap or a drink in their face if they actually said that to someone in real life. In this case, I agree with everyone here, just block. It is not even worth the time to send a reply to those kind of messages. I had a look through your profile and there is nothing there that suggests you would even entertain such messages. Come to think of it, I have never come across a profile yet that would find that kind of message welcome. You have quite a number of friend already, so build on that. I always believe in quality over quantity and so should you. It would help though if you filled out your profile a little more. Have a look at some profiles. They clearly spell out what they are looking for. Good luck and hope you have a better time on the site.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I disagree with that statement about losing control. Men are rational beings with reason and intellect. We know right from wrong, good behaviour from bad. Giving up that ability to reason makes people less than human. Getting drunk or being on drugs is no excuse for being churlish. I do however think that the photo is not doing any favours for Natalie. It give people the wrong idea, either you are into an alternative lifestyle or you are not serious. It still does not excuse bad behaviour though. Quoting 'DontLookDown' ...cut back on the make-up just a tad. Love the look but some guys might get the wrong impression...it's like seeing full red lips, nice shoes or great boobies.Men can't help...loosing control of one brain at times.
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RHP User
12 years ago
have a set message I send to women I am interested in that doesn't even mention sex, just asks them out for a band and maybe a dance, it gives them a chance to chat before we meet and get to know a bit about each other. I get about 1 reply per 6 messages most don't even bother to check my profile.... I only message women I think will be interested and have some of the same interests.... Miek
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RHP User
12 years ago
Amazing men live here and so do amazing women..... You two must Be looking in the wrong sandpit
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's astounding to me that you or anyone gets that kind of abuse... I'm not qualified to advise, but I can make a hesitant suggestion. If your profile was a little more about you, it might help. If it was clearer that you knew what you wanted (even if you don't), it might reduce (slightly) the truly random "pot-luckers". I suspect that some bottom-dwellers read "I'm not looking for a relationship" as "drive-in roots please". A little more depth might help? *Shrug* Men are assholes.- Posted from rhpmobile
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