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Quick Reply #2

September 27 2013

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This is just a bit of venting on my part, so I will ask for forgiveness before I begin.Why do women insist on slamming me with Quick Reply #2??? (for those of you who don't know what it is, rush off right now, check your mailbox, and review). I am not the type who will send anyone...whether it be a woman or a couple...a message such as 'Hey u...I M hrny...wanna fk?' and likely never will...except maybe as a joke. I will usually take time to formulate my message, tailored to the person(s) to whom I am sending the message. Herein lies the issue:I realise that most women/couples may or may not be slammed with messages/flirts, but does that give them the right to be rude? I am NOT in a hurry for a reply, and in all honesty, complete silence is better than 'Quick Reply #2'. I don't care if it takes days/weeks to get back to me, but PLEASE don't treat me like a throwaway...as I am not. I deserve the same attention to detail I gave you.Yes, I realise my profile may be a bit confronting....but that was done for a reason...to confront! It was meant to get a reaction, either positive or negative, but I am looking for a reaction, not a 'quick reply' and 'fuck off...you're bothering me'...actually, if someone said 'fuck off...you're bothering me'...that would be a refreshing change! (bracing myself for a slew of replies saying just that).Ok kids, that's my rant! Anyone in the same boat as me is welcome to vent as well, or those who have a logical explanation for me, please enlighten me!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Offline is the most important thing for me. I just do not do the messages much at all.People just get over whelmed, and unless you make this a full time job as a woman, you will tend to do the quick reply.the reason most do not do much of a reply , is because some one that is not a match has sent a message to them.Once you reply then you engage with that person, and then it makes people think there is a chance.It opens the crack in the door, and then men put a hip and shoulder to that door of being polite and then women have to keep being nice as the guilt sets in.Women are conditioned to be polite. On here it gives women the chance to be direct and blunt and sometimes not so nice.I do understand how you feel, every one deserves respect.the problem is we are all strangers, passing ships , this is not who we are all the time.Rhp is just a diversion, people are objectified, we do it to others and ourselves

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    WOW!!! May I also add guys that a polite brush off is better than pursuing until you make nuisance of yourselves and cop the rough end of a spiky broom. Everyone is deserving of acknowledgement but RHP may not be the place to seek it. Footjobs you know you have a friend in me dear.....lol it's all a networking opportunity. Indy : Networking Guru Extraordinnaire

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Footjobs,   You state in your OP, that you purposely worded your profile to confront, to provoke a reaction. Yet you now complain that women have reacted after reading - so what do you actually want?   As for the Quick Reply #2, I consider that the most benign of the three template rejections. The other to imply they are either seeing someone or don't want to met anyone. I guess you would prefer them to lie?   You have to admit, you have cast your net to a very small school of fish; you are FIFO - some women don't want someone in that lifestyle and you have a foot fetish - again, not all women would be into that. Hell just be thankful you are getting a reply at all, it is better than most of us here do.   Mooka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Mooka I think you are spot on. The only thing I would add is that given you want to provoke a reaction and that many people either don't want a confrontation/provocation or don't think it's worth responding in kind when they are provoked, what did you expect?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks to you buddy I've just sent reply #2 to someone who is definitely not reply #2 material !! Couldn't you have just written it in you op ? Please forgive me fair maiden !! Hp xo 💌 Because she's not worth that !

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have never even sent reply #2...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But I just wanted you to understand the hurt and humiliation that the op must suffer on a daily basis... 👀 👀 Fuck !! I feel like I'm bailing the titanic with an eggcup here... I know ! I'll block her... Give her the old "treat em mean, keep em keen" Then she'll be overwhelmed with joy and relief when I turn up to the drinks night next week ! Hp xo 💌 Because there must be a way to salvage this situation...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't get bitter....get better. By getting pissed off, you're allowing the dark side into your life. Believe me, I know only too well how dark it is. But honestly mate, where does getting angry over someone else's choice get you?? I'd suggest nowhere fast. Instead of seeing the rejection, see it as effort. Which is the positive side to it in my view. A very warm soul once said to me in a message "you should try it sometime[seeing the positive] it's very refreshing you know" and she was right :)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    is confronting about it? Please explain some one for I am just a mere female........and whats a footjob?? My imagination is doing overtime here. ...and what is the winge about

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    petal,it's the Footy Season dontcha know

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    all those women are just way tooo embarrassed to confess that they have..ahem...size twelve booties....this way they get to save face...and you don't have to reject them on the basis of their big toe....or the sound of one foot tapping

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    yes Freya I only found out last week. I do like a great Anchoring yanno

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    BAHAHAHAHA........ I just hope one doesn't get too footloose :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    are they like Jimmy Choos

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's to the point. It's concise and says exactly what she means. What do you expect? (Herein lies the REAL issue ...)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    They're not being rude. You're actually getting a reply, which as stated above is more than a lot of men get.And as to you deserving as much attention to detail as you put in your message, ah, no sorry, it really doesn't work that way. If they're not interested, they're not interested, and they're not required to write a lengthy spiel about it just to match your level of detail. I don't really understand what it is you're expecting, just as I really don't understand why people on here think they are entitled to anything at all from complete strangers they have contacted; particularly when those strangers are obviously not interested in further contact. Yes, basic courtesy would be nice, but unfortunately you can't even expect that from everyone on here. And anyway, from your post it's obvious that you're expecting more than just basic courtesy from the people who are rejecting you, and I'm not sure why.If receiving Quick Reply #2 is going to bother you to this extent, I think you're probably not cut out for a site like this.

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    I dont know this jimmy you speak off

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Jimmy choooooooozzzzzz.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    well there you go! been on here a year, and didnt ever know there were those quick replies! could have saved me some RSI....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I also think its a fairly common fetish. We should know we have the shoe shopping fetishSo whey guys cant have the shoe fucking fetish. I would love to be married to a guy that likes to fuck shoes.I could go to the op shop, and say I am looking for a date for my hubby, whats new on the racks?I have been with a guy that had a foot fetish, if you think about it, your feet together, with stockings on and the instep of your feet, well they do look like parts of a woman. Guy love to rub their cock over long spiked thigh high boots. they like to lay down and have you run those boots up over their body. at least you say what you like, so there are no surpriseslike when your running to work dash for a pair of shoes, put them on as your running out the door.then there is that pregnant pause and the look of horror as you think, WTF is that In my shoe! And Jimmy Choo shoes are like the high end call girl of shoes

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ding26'well there you go! been on here a year, and didnt ever know there were those quick replies! could have saved me some RSI.... Templates come in handy for minimising RSI too.....

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    (shakes head) don't get me started on THAT one!!!! But yes Jimmy Choo closely followed by a beautiful pair of Vince Camuto's, Christian Louboutin and the ulitmate in a girls footwear fetish......Louis Vuitton's Oh Really! pump in blue baby goat leather..... You asked footjobs there's a taste of why you can't buy me any shoes. At $1,120/pair methinks I'd send you broke, now as for stockinged feet Lady Hussy and a man's crotch.....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You know you can save your own templates too right?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'laBoheme2' all those women are just way tooo embarrassed to confess that they have..ahem...size twelve booties....this way they get to save face...and you don't have to reject them on the basis of their big toe....or the sound of one foot tapping This is a classic response . . . . thank you leBoheme2

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