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Quiet achievers
December 28 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Spur me on... I tend to match the hatch... If you are silent, I'll be quiet... If you're a screamer, I'll howl at the moon with you... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've experienced it too, one man just said he was concentrating on his enjoyment and simply listening to me. It is soooo much.more of a turn on when a man is as vocal as you though xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Guys say they dislike the potato sack.... but women say so many guys ARE the potato sack. I don't get it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have to fake being vocal ....Why? Because women think they are better ,than they really are.(and so do men) Only a few women have worked me up to a state of arousal where i am singing like Jimmy Barnes !
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RHP User
11 years ago
No I'm not saying men are potato sacks :) most (in my limited experience) are quite the opposite in the pleasuring stakes and leave me breathless and gasping :) they just do it quietly, with most times not a moan or gasp to be heard from them. Is it a left over from having to be quiet during teenage masturbating? Or is it just a guy thing? Curiouser and curiouser ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree RR, most guys are definitely on the quiet side. Gives me a complex! Lol. Sometimes I wonder if they are actually enjoying what they are doing??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Scream the place down like a porn star??? Cos to be honest they kinda sound like they're having teeth removed.... Not all women are vocal, just like not all men are. Stop analysing it, and start losing yourself in the sensations you're experiencing. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
But it's weird when a guy is so silent.... You can't tell if they are enjoying it or not. For me the sex is not as exciting when they are silent. It's the groans and moans that make me really hot and turned on. Silent ninjas are so 80's 👎
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RHP User
11 years ago
His raging mongrel thrusting into you is not confirmation enough?? His baby batter erupting like a volcano all over the place means he hates it?? I do see your point though meeka in that it's nice to see their faces all screwed up in ecstasy, their moans confirming that YOU are driving them to new heights of sexual pleasure. Much the same as a man enjoys hearing a woman's breathing deepen, her hands frantically trying to grasp his body as he assertively takes her from behind. But.....and yes thie following is my comical look at it.... I also think that phrases like :- "Gag on it you bitch" "Take it all you dirty slut" "Who's your daddy?" "Cum with me baby" "Wow, your sister never does that!!" Are all so.....underrated as a good confirmation that he's loving it :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think women are noisier than men, but I think it has something to do with being penitrated, I know my own noises kind of match his movements. I've noticed a man's sounds are just kind of softer, more heavy breath until he cums, then he tends emit a few primal sounds....oh god I love those sounds...or that heavy whisper in your ear that he's going to get there...oh god I love that whisper in my ear.... I did have a lover years ago who made no sound at all, complete silence, when he threw his punch he rolled his head and that was the only indication he got there, it was a bit hard to get used to. I like a little noise from both of us, it's instantaneous feedback. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sleeping six feet away while discovering the delights of masturbation have probably left me reluctant to 'howl at the moon' but its not like I'm a ninja either. Plus I'm naturally a quiet, shy, retiring type. Just ask the people who have meet me.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
How else are we supposed to know we're doing a good job and hitting the spot? How do we know it's enjoyable for him? I don't want a guy to fake it for me (shudder if this has ever happened!!) BUT it's nice to hear those "I'm gonna cum"'s quite gasps, soft moans and the occassional guttural grians of satisfaction and release.....just sayin'.
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Missb4u
11 years ago
What Indagine and Meeka said. Had this guy once that had the best groan I have ever heard god it was so deep and guttural was a total turn on! 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Lmao but it's been a loooong time since I've said "wow!! Your brother never does that!" 🎱(Eightball) corner pocket!! Lol 😈
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am in total agreeance with you meeka. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some times you make me laugh and other times your a absolute pain in the arse.. But today' you made me laugh with your comical thoughts.... haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all know women are the great communicators here, and are very adept at communication, letting us guys know about their feelings and so forth. Not a surprise that the same goes for being vocal in the bedroom (understand not everyone is the same but in general). I was always quiet and still can be, but have learned to communicate in bed. Be it through dirty talk or moans or grunts be it voluntary or involuntary! I would even go as far as to say it is a little rude to be too quiet. Hate talking to people who don't acknowledge or offer a little expression that they are following or understand you at least. Why not the same for sex, isn't it communication at a much more intimate level? Not saying we all have to be screamers but letting your partner know how much you are enjoying it with a bit of vocal communication, is appreciated and should be part of it Just me and my thoughts. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lol I'm glad to be your Haemmoroid :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't matter how loud or silent anyone is so long as the sounds of joy/pleasure are honest to themselves
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
to do with your own personality. There is no 'expected' primeval sounds from either men or women - it's just your own nature as to how you react. In my own life I am just extremely quiet - when I was married and at home with the family, quite often they would have to look around the house to see if I was home. I'm so quiet I can sneak up on mice !!! I don't make much in the way of sound during sex either, but I usually do manage to belt out a few tunes when I ready to cum. Just the way it is. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm not a ninja, nor am I a screamer. I let my partner know theyre getting me there with mostly subtle sounds or body language, although I'm partial to seeing the reaction to me saying "oh fuck, I'm gonna cum" "mmmm just like that"
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RHP User
11 years ago
This one time at bandcamp... going down on a guy....not a sound from him.....not even really any heavy breathing!....no strained look on his face......I imagine he would have looked more excited sitting there watching the grass grow!! After a couple of minutes I'm just about to give up and he cums in my mouth , still without a sound...but then proclaims it was the best orgasm he ever had!!During sex its not that big a deal if they are quite as ill do enough moaning and whimpering for both of us , although I do love to hear a guy tell me when he is going to cum, that will often tip me over the edge.....but when going down on a guy , I really cant stand the silence!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm pretty loud but I still like to hear something from the guy. I love the feedback while I'm giving him head eg "that feels good". During sex I want to hear at least a moan or something from the guy. It's a huge turn on. My x husband never moaned or grunted, he was silent the whole time. But as someone said, it should be whatever comes natural to the person, not moaning for the sake of moaning. I feel fake if I say the persons name during sex. I'm a moaner, not much of a talker. Although if it comes natural then I'll say whatever comes to mind, but that doesn't happen often (I'm too busy orgasming). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I'm glad that I wasn't the only lady that is curious :) thanks for your input everyone. Let the silence reign ;) and my the the lips, tongues & hands of the quiet achievers continue to wander & tease the gasping & moaning out of we screamers out there ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is nothing guaranteed to get me off quicker the a guy calling out my name when we're in the heat of it... love it :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its because we watch and listen to the woman moan and we want her to continue to enjoy herself so we're focusing on the same stroke the same pace the same depth and you forget you're having sex for both, so yes there's too much focus. I had an ex complain about that and suggested i be blindfolded both for receiving oral from her and also after for sex. As soon as I was blindfolded I could be heard out in the corridor, all my senses heightened. So men just need to remember to enjoy the moment too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't the numbers put you off a little though?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are both pretty vocal & as we both get off as much on the pleasure we give as that which we receive we both agree that feeling the pleasure you're giving someone is awesome but hearing the sounds of those pleasures are such a huge turn on too. I must say though that the knowing looks from the neighbours when you venture outside after Mrs fun & I have had a pleasure session where she's been extremely vocal have us thinking that maybe a ball gag has it's place in our relationship occasionally.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love being vocal if the woman is vocal, sometimes I get bad and start saying dirty things while we are in the middle of it, the louder she moans and groans the harder and dirty I talk. I think it's a real massive turn on when a woman screams and moans in pleasure, get me pumped and throbbing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' How else are we supposed to know we're doing a good job and hitting the spot? How do we know it's enjoyable for him? I don't want a guy to fake it for me (shudder if this has ever happened!!) BUT it's nice to hear those "I'm gonna cum"'s quite gasps, soft moans and the occassional guttural grians of satisfaction and release.....just sayin'. With me you would know bc you would have me jumping out of my skin if you are hitting the right spot. I am not a howl at the moon guy but I am quite vocal and very active. I don't know any other way, if it feels good then it feels good. Enjoy it to the fullest right?
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RHP User
11 years ago
You may find the silence is not to add to the amusement of the neighbors? Sure you can both be loud and confirm your sexual antics beyond doubt...Some people like to be private in their sexual endeavors and some like everyone in the vicinity to know they are being fucked. Trouble is, the 'Quiet Ones' may not be considered as you're doing the "vocal between the sheets" thing and they may not agree because they are shy or there's just too much goddamn noise.
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madferrret
11 years ago
just how hot she is , how good you feel ,and what hot sexy bitch she can be when she does that thing.... look into her eyes and share the moment ..............it doesn't all have to be serious either, if you fall of the bed like a helicopter in trouble smiles can be contagious ...x
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madferrret
11 years ago
Quoting 'IllBloUrFnMinds' is because the guy is busy chanting a mantra in his head "Don't cum yet, don't cum yet, don't cum yet, please don't cum yet, don't cum yet....." speak for yourself bro!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
We're not overly loud when we engage, and to be honest, don't find it alluring at all to scream and carry on like an 18 yr old porn star trying to make it in the industry..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd have to say that especially during oral, it's kinda off putting when they guy makes no sound at all. Definitely a huge turn-on if he moans a little or something, just to let ya know you hit the right spots.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't speak for other males, but I know for me personally I can sometimes feel a bit self-conscious making lots of noise because I imagine that I sound really bloody stupid and if someone heard how I sound they would probably laugh. I'd consider myself on the "average" side of volume I guess - not totally quiet, but you won't have much trouble being louder than me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like talk with my partners I have. Been told to say nothing I personally love it. And when a woman says my name well there is nothing better
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
Sir stir ita lot... Those sex comments were so funny...:D worryingly though I think I've actually heard all of them :/ Sometimes it is much better if people just say nothing ... And I can imagine them saying whatever I want :) Xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
As long as he is either looking into my eyes or kissing me. But watching his face change as he is about to cum is the biggest turn on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like to make a bit of noise when I'm going for it but I'm by no means loud. I think it is like going to a concert to see your favourite band. I want to be able to a)see what's going on, b)feel what's going on and c) hear what's going on. Not that I pay for sex but I'm not the sort of person that would pay to go to a concert and not hear the band singing because I'm screaming the words out of tune at the top of my lungs. Same goes for sex- I want to be able to see, feel and hear what's going on. Or something like that
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MissSarahCurious
11 years ago
even if you're a quiet achiever, at least move a little so we know you aren't dead? xx Sarah
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RHP User
11 years ago
1980 to 2005 : * Be Quiet. Mum and Dad will hear you. * Be Quiet. Next door flat might hear you. * Be Quiet. Why do you have to make sounds and talk and make it dirty. * Be Quiet. You'll wake the children, AND, Why do you have to make sounds and talk and make it dirty.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i been told i have a very sexy hot RAAURRR when im getting there and when im there, I always seem to cum very hard with my full body contracting every muscle in a mixture of pleasure and pain cuz I like to intensify it like that.. ... :-) but i know i dont like to be too noisy unless she is.. however i do love to dirty talk n get her to talk dirty back and beg or ask for things.. etc.. not a fan of the no noise thing..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a partner who cries out my name when I am going down on her along with guttural groans and 'OMG', 'that feels so good' and I can't respond because I don't talk with my mouth full, although I hum....... She also goes 'Oh, oh, oh, oh' when we're fucking and bucks back like a wild thing. Another lady goes 'fuck, fuck oooooooh' quietly while she wrap her legs around my neck when she cums. Neither bothers me, I like both equally. Another partner used to be silent - one night she suddenly found her voice - after the aftershocks, we got a round of applause from next door(!) When I am moving inside someone I tell them 'oh, that feels so nice' 'oh that is too nice, I'm gonna cum' and I am told my general tremors, jerking etc is an indication I am having a good time. I feel silly making more noise than I naturally would. But I'm happy to tell the lady she is beautiful, sexy, can she feel how hard she has made me etc..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mmm don't growl,don't howl,my satisfaction is gained from the satisfaction the lady gets,yep old school guy me thinks,if she can enjoy the pleasure,without question regardless of any noise made she will know that im enjoying,body language means heaps more than noise,just my simplistic evaluation of ones personal self :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
L4Q... 😍😍😍😈😈😈 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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Smiles4Kisses
11 years ago
I might enjoy a sensual moment that has the ability to stop time itself.. I also enjoy giving a thorough deep hard pounding that will speed up time... With every stroke I love nothing more than voicing exactly the feelings that the gorgeous lady before me is creating within me.. Letting her know that the movements, the touches, the kisses, the shyness, and her means of complete control are unleashing the animal deep within and then when its time allowing that animalistic primate to come forth and control the situation with all of the growls, grunts and muscles to own the moment... Its evolution baby.. Smiles for all :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Someone did raise the thought of being penetrated earlier. Perhaps it has something t to with where and how the stimulation is received. I am bi and I can say that whether with a male or a female, if I am on the "receiving end" I am more vocal, and my experience has been that most blokes are. I am quieter if I'm doing the "giving" and also tend to be quite when I'm being blown... other forms of oral stimulation tend to make me more vocal though. I also remember a discussion with some friends some years back about this topic one drunken evening... he is definitely straight. She would often insert a finger at an opportune moment which he apparently really enjoys. They both said this is not something that would be done if they were in a camping ground or caravan park though.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Like to point out the blatant obvious. Each to their own, I don't really care how vocal Tara is, definitely helps me to know when she finally has one of her orgasms. It's not really a thing that worries me when drifting off to sleep, rather that than if she snored. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gotta love a bit of vocal... Maybe not screaming the rafters off though.. lol! It gets me going if the lady concerned is showing she's enjoying herself.. The other person has to have some sort of idea they're doing something right???? A tip, if she isn't moving/squealing, then try something else and keep trying until you get the desired result :D (P.S moans or wiggling is also considered a sign!!) Hahahahaha
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RHP User
11 years ago
A grunt, (not necessarily a comedic facial expression!) a groan or just something to let me know you enjoyed the experience. Good Lord I'm not asking you to fake it just show me you enjoyed it!!! ~ She_Shift
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Man2DesireU
11 years ago
to originalbadboy's "humble brag" ... .. i'm just too exhausted from the hours of pleasuring the woman... .. to make any noise... after all the hair brushing.. massaging... kissing.. touching... stimulating.. fondling... licking... thrusting... yep... just too knackered to moan out loud.. (just kidding... i scream like a wounded hyena)...
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RHP User
11 years ago
The ex made this comment to me so I became more vocal and I must admit that I enjoyed it a little bit more and she did too. Counter point is the neighbours above us, they are at it all the time and sounds like some ones leg getting cut off, a little is ok megaphones not ok. Sounds too try hard.
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madotara69
11 years ago
A little bit like don't talk when you are being spoken to, listen. Hardly get the chance to put a word in. Try to do most of that before and offer a few afterwards, seems to work out fine and dandy One thing blows the roof off the house, is when I sneak in the mention for any one of the hot guys on Taras list, usually the last and final words from my mouth, and Tara can talk with hers full then, not so clear but know what she means. Which has me tending to agree in less than words, however not lesser the dynamics with tone. Oh then there is the pleasure of just being with Tara when she is in her moments, more than happy to quietly excite it all, concentration has me in a different frame of mind. (no words for it anyway) Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
An ex used to make so much noise compared to me, I mean he'd moan and groan so loudly that I'm sure the neighbours could hear; Almost felt tempted to stuff my undies in his mouth but stopped as I figured it might just make him moan louder I love a good moaner 😍😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
@nat... 😄😄 Bofa used to try and cover my mouth when I came, to keep me quiet... 😛 and as I came she'd say "I know darling... You're coming..." 🚀🚀🚀😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 She probably thought the same as you nat about stuffing her knicker in my mouth... 😈😈😈 😘 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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