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July 20 2013

Hey all,   Can I get your tips on when you know your being played.   What activates your bullshit alarm ?     Cheers   Bella

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When his words and his actions are not congruent.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm afraid a lot of people bullshit. I tend to ask a lot of questions over a reasonable period of time. Eventually bullshitters trip themselves up - you just have to trust your instincts when they do. I failed to hear the clues recently, or more so I heard them but chose to ignore them until the lies became bleedingly obvious. I felt a bit foolish then, but glad I acted to end the friendship when the truth came out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    On how good a player they are!! Sometimes you just can't pick em ;p I've been played a hell of a lot so I generally just assume they are all players until they can prove otherwise I know hardly fair on the good guys .... If there are any out there ;)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    Hi I think Karynb hits the nail on the head. Also your inbuilt radar should be listened to. To Jay Jay, if you don't expect the best you won't get the best. Yes there are plenty of good guys, perhaps you attract the players because you expect players.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sincere question. ...Avoiding people who are insincere and bullshitters? Just chat first. Make sure your profile is a bit specific about what you want. If people are cool about me not having naughty pics, good to chat they're usually ok. In a couple if I don't hear from the woman at all I ask to hear from her... Lots disappear there and then. If he won't meet on a weekend then I think he's married. Most of the guys (and girls) on here are seeing other people... That's to be expected. If you want an exclusive relationship you need to ask outright for one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    i start asking myself questions when they say they cant host you at there place ,,,,,,,,,,,xxxxxxxx catherine

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But I know that if it's not working for me then NEXT. And that is so much easier to do in a group.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just be yourself and whatever is meant to be will follow.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You sound so much like a very good friend of mine. He would always say he would not do one on ones and always preferred groups and I think he was always well known for his ............ NEXT!! Groups are safe, but I guess I persisted and chased him and chased him and I eventually snuck under his radar without him realising.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hold off the sex. It's that easy. Watch the player play harder.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    ...the problem there, is that you're then engaging in game playing yourself, and it's a game that will only ever escalate. Better to turn the spotlight on the situation, or eject yourself from it. DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I had been played for a cpl of years , being blinded by emotions and failing to see the signes or lies was my fault , but ppl the best players r the ones u trust the most and once a player always a played regardless if fiscal or emotional !!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It looks like a duck and sounds like a duck then generally it is a ..........   DG sums it up pretty well, if its a duck press the ejector button, no use playing a player!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you'll know. If you don't know your partner you won't know. If it comes to that and you found out your partner is a player then you didn't know your partner.Experience is what you get after you need it. Sad but true.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    From talking to women who have encountered a player, once a dinner has been paid for. Or the game nears the price of a Hooker, the player will show signs of annoyance or frustration, losing their cool as the goal should be in sight by rights.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Cannot host but would love to put my cat woman suit on in your coach enjoyed your penis in my mouth Cryssy hugs Cryssy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Junetranslender' Cannot host but would love to put my cat woman suit on in your coach enjoyed your penis in my mouth Cryssy hugs Cryssy xxx