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Radio silence

May 04 2015

Is it common to experience radio silence when communicating with people on the site? Regardless of whether you've had an initial meet, played or are just working out if you want to take it to the next step. Even worse after you've met - I'd rather know if someone isn't into us so you can let go and move on rather than be left wondering if you stuffed it up somehow. Would love to hear if this is the norm and about other peoples experiences.

Comments

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    It happens all the time on this site, according to the Forums (read the one titled "cancellation") and my own recent experiences! Recently, I have been exchanging messages with a man for days, then haven't heard from him for days too. Another man sent me a message last night saying all those interested craps and then went disappeared after he saw my photos (as I had my pics kept in the private album last night). Therefore, radio silence is the norm in my experience and you know what, it is none of my business if people want to behave like a 3 years old child! :-) I would suggest that you forget about those unhappy experiences and move on OP, don't even think that you had stuffed up anything just because some people choose to stay silent and/or do not care or have the ability to communicate! :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    in this situation, and others like it, just say, "NEXT".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I confess if I don't want to see someone again or I am feeling a bit indifferent, as in I don't really care if I see them again or not, I just don't contact that afterwards. I leave it up to the other person. And if they take a few weeks to get back to me I don't bother as it usually means they are horny and can't find anyone else. NEXT!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Happened to me once recently after I dared to ask a guy why his preference was "safe sex: if required". Just ignore them and move on, there are lots of pathetic people out there. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Says everything ...it leaves no doubt...if there is no response within three days,you know..And if they come back months later you were obviously not a person or couple that rocked their world xxFreya

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Perhaps........ they're just.... busy. Don't be so needy and demanding

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm more talking about when you arrange a play date then you get nothing !! I get people will not be interested after opening PGs etc and that's cool, you can get lost with messaging on this site. It just bugs me when dates are suggested and plans don't get confirmed and you're left wondering if we book in the babysitter !! Or plans do get confirmed but flake out on the day of with stoopid reasons. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If they don't gwr back to you after a couple of days means they not interested and agree with meeka if they get back a month later you are their last resort... Dumb but true..best thing to so is of no reply to Ur message by end of the week.move along.. Keep ur options open - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Always ... If you don't hear from some one... Just get the hint... They're NOT interested. I learnt this from men. I thought they were the experts at this... But apparently women got it nailed too. 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    They were really into you but got hit by a bus and in a coma for several weeks. Getting out of hospital they have only one thing on their mind ÷ getting back in contact with you to tell you rocked their mind/world and would love to see you again. But low and behold, you cast them aside to wallow in depression while you move on in your shallow world.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ive had two ladies message and well then nothing, mind you perhaps I wasn't what they were looking for. I'm not looking myself so perhaps look at your profile - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Sure.... plans broken are frustrating plans..... and this has been covered multiple times in other topics. Best way around it is to ensure that the opportunity to meet you is.... unmissable - whatever that means to you. Additionally, make plans for YOU.... they... can tag in on them, that way if they flake, you still have plans. And finally..... contact them a few hours before the occasion.... phone call is best......and us a line like..... "Hey, something has come up and we might be 5 minutes late.... that ok with you?" Then.... let them fill the clear air.Their response..... will tell you everything you need to know about their commitment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't see an issue with your looks or profile. There loss I'd say.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    How the heck do you turn the radio on as mine seems broken.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    How long is radio silence? Do you expect daily messages? Twice a day? Every second day? How often before you start looking needy?