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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I read your profile a couple of times.Only thing that really says about being wanting bi is" guys we only play together,all in fun,you must be be bi' and you list bi sexual in your info.some would read that as only being applicable to single guys not necessarily couples.Maybe you could add that you only play with bi people singles or couples but in saying thatthere is no guarantee that 'unsuitable' people will not contact you.It's all part of the screening process and much better to have too many contacts than none.Just ask most single guys on here.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I think it is pretty obvious that a full reading and comprehension of your profile cannot be taken for granted.Perhaps it is something to do with the functionality of the mobile app which makes browsing the pretty pictures and firing off flirts easy while navigating in and out of profile text is awkward ? I doubt that is the sole cause though - ask 100 and 1 will say yes appears to be the strategy of choice by many.In light of this the username, tagline and picture carry the burden in terms of projecting the right message. Not sure how to break it to you but I don't think a married bi couple looking for like minded couples is what would necessarily be considered "normal" ? Perhaps a name change to something like "BiCple4BiCple" would send a clearer signal ?Humans are largely visual creatures, an image can convey a lot of information both conscious and subconscious. A well set thoughtful and creative picture that projects the relevant message would produce a noticeable difference in the quality of responses I would think.

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  Sparetime01

  11 years ago

  We have been around here for 'years under a couple of different profiles and you soon learn that it doesnt make too much difference what you put in your profile you will still get messages from those who dont fit. If you read our profile now you will see we have moved on from specifics :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  ...*everybody* knows purple people eaters were one-eyed, one-horned....CheersJAB

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  him_and_me

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'JustAnotherBloke' ...*everybody* knows purple people eaters were one-eyed, one-horned....CheersJAB that's what started playing in my head too...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Nobody asks anyone to pinch your wife's ass when you take her to Rome, but someone will and its really not a big deal. You look like a bit of an uptight type and everyone will laugh at you if you go around asking all the Italian men not to admire your wife. Seriously, why would it bother you if someone sent you a flirt? Relax, people will find you much sexier ;)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Haha, Sailin_by, That is so true... I used to get so much "pinching" while I was living there... Not to mention the "unintentional" frottage while you are squeezed inside a crowded bus or train! Lol... It is part of the Italian male culture, but well-to-do attractive men (that is, those whose touch you'd welcome!) won't pinch ladies butts 'cause it is considered rude.... Anyway.... Yes most guys don't read profiles, they have a few prewritten messages that they fire out to as many women / couple as they can, it's like fishing, they put as many rods out there, hopefully someone will follow the lure... Probably women do so too, to some extent? You just have to skim the messages you receive and ignore the irrelevant, I used to reply to the "irrelevants", pointing out to them HOW irrelevant they were, but it is wasted time... L

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