M49
Real people?
August 28 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
this out, but everybody here, is a bot mate, you didn't know this. Cheers Felonius Bot
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi I suppose it all depends how fussy some people are I've sent you a couple of messages and I'm real but obviously not what your looking for so maybe you could give a few real people a couple of pointers on the flip side of what men are looking for on here exactly
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yep but like all things it depends if there is attraction or not I do not worry if a guy is married, I am not the moral police and its up to him what he does.
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Well given bettyboop's reply I'd check my messages before posting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Loved photo 3, wtf ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
..your wife was on your profile... otherwise, ur just another single guy saying anything and everything to get a free root.. MrsJJ...
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Mr_MrsJones
12 years ago
We check out the odd single guy and have even been known to play with some. However this probably happens 3 - 4 times per year and more often than not will be with someone we have met at a club. For us this works. The guy is there when we want him, he exists, we can see what he looks like, to be IN a club he has to have a certain level of respect and decency and we know he is actually going to turn up. I will be honest. If I was looking at profiles even though your pics are hot I would probably pass you by. Why? because you are looking for a single female. There is a difference between looking for a FB and taking a couple as a second option and actively seeking out an experience with a couple. The other reason we keep away from single guy's profiles is because we can't make promises about timing or even meeting up more than once or twice every now and then. It isn't fair on them for us to expect them to hang about at our convenience. So to avoid frustration we just don't go there. I am not sure that this helps but I thought I would put my two cents in.Mrs Jones
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RHP User
12 years ago
might be your fantasy....but its certainly not ours....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why don't I get any action....maybe perhaps you're the wrong religion, maybe, maybe, maybe. Maybe they're just not that into you either?? So many possibilities, but to help you deal with this anxiety, general rule of thumb. If you approach someone, and they don't reply, not your problem to worry about, simply block their arse as let's face it, they're clearly not worth your time or effort are they??
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RHP User
12 years ago
single females here are hard to to actually meet up. A lot of them have all these criterias that are almost impossible to meet. They don't know what they want. You have to either be a perfect 10 or be very lucky to get to meet them. Meeting couples are much easier, they are so much more genuine and fun. I suggest you play as a couple and I'm sure you'll be meeting people week in and week out!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you'll have better luck if your wife is the one that is looking. From my experience and observation, it doesn't take much for women and another women to meet up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi Dieselnoi!I think your statement is an unfair sweeping generalization of the females here on RHP. When I was still playing, my profile was very clear on what I wanted and what I did not want. It goes without saying that there are more men here than women. So we cannot reply to all the e-mails and flirts or else it would be a full time job. Though I try! ;)When I was single and free, I would meet at least a dozen guys in a month to see what's out there though it is not necessary that there is action in the bedroom each time. Some guys have become my friends if only I can mention all of them. The guy I am with currently, whom I adore, I met here in RHP. Who would have thought?So I think you guys should be your best self, be patient and most likely your perfect match will 'cum'. Peace!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes we are out here but its a girls call who she decides to meet up with , I was brave enough to meet one guy and he was a real creep, followed me home and the Police were involved . and just today received a flirt from a guy , I declined using a proforma flirt saying not interested as the guy was not my type , I received a message full of abuse - really over the top , I have reported him to RHP and expect action to be taken . Guys have to understand us Girls have the right to say no , there seems to be an expectation that if you post on RHP , your going to go all the way on the first meeting . Sadly Guys still cant take NO for an answer . This is despite my Profile saying no more guys , I think a lot of guys just dont read the profile - getting tied of it
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
What cums around goes around.
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jensta
12 years ago
You have Validations on your Profile So you Posting this makes No sense ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'singleagain001' Yes we are out here but its a girls call who she decides to meet up with , I was brave enough to meet one guy and he was a real creep, followed me home and the Police were involved . and just today received a flirt from a guy , I declined using a proforma flirt saying not interested as the guy was not my type , I received a message full of abuse - really over the top , I have reported him to RHP and expect action to be taken . Guys have to understand us Girls have the right to say no , there seems to be an expectation that if you post on RHP , your going to go all the way on the first meeting . Sadly Guys still cant take NO for an answer . This is despite my Profile saying no more guys , I think a lot of guys just dont read the profile - getting tied of it I totally agree with you singleagain001. I'm currently involved which is on my profile. A guy sends me 3 emails which I would have said a polite no to when I get to it, then he sends me a message stating,"Clearly have an ego and are vain ...forget i wasted my energy messaging"Clearly he took the time, energy and effort to remember to send a message. I just chuckled and still sent him a polite message back. Cheers!
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RHP User
12 years ago
well said Ibettyboop
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wife allows him to play on here all by himself ..... Oh really ? Even with the change of pic' can only see a guy (single ) trying anything to get a easy root.. Must think all us women are as silly as the pretend wife... lol...
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
We've met him and his wife for coffee. It's pretty easy to work out which is their couples profile. They are friendly, real people, more openminded than many here. People shouldn't jump to conclusions.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have expectations of finding willing participants...
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
12 years ago
Look id say at least 1 in 3 messages i get are from married or already commited guys that are lying i have a great way to see the real home profile as well. My profile states be honest no bullshit please... and i also states i dont play with couples... sorry but that is a lie if i know them personally and know there is full trust and they are usually the ones having the most fun and alot more encounters with others.... Have you ever been up to Cis in Brisbane they have singles night were couples can go together but once in the door they act and behave single always alot of fun and alot of single girls go as a safe place to meet new friends where ever that takes you. Either a room with a closed door or in the open area flying on a swing..but seriously, id love to take you or both there you look like a lot of fun ....:-) Why Not Hey.... its not a bad motto to live by
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me, as long as they fit my criteria, it all comes down to attraction and the power of seduction.
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RHP User
12 years ago
This again?.........yawn
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can see hoynsexxy's point he is being open and honest about his situation He clearly states it in his profile and even offers to for female / couple to make contact (phone or in person) with his wife to prove he has her permission To be honest, us guys are dime a million, besides there seems to be profiles out there that are guys posing as other relationships (couples or even girls - why ???) We are not everyone's cup of coffee even though we are a guy and thst is what they are looking for As said above, seeing as you have a stunning wife (i have looked her profile too) I would be meeting on a fmf basis and with the right girl have some extra fun with her Surely this isn't too hard to find as your wife is sensational Anyways, back to one in a million land for me Play safe Play fair Have fun PS singleagain - pls dont let one creep ruin it for all the rest that would be honoured to possibly spend some quality time with you PPS Redhotpiemd - on behalf of all mankind I would like to apologise for the idiot that was rude to you, there are many others (myself included) out there who have manners. I for one would accept rejection politely and appreciate that you atleast had the decency to take the time and effort to let me know whilst being graceful - I don't like rude people full stop !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi, Mrs E here.We are happily married with an open relationship. So yes we know everything and allow each other to have separate playmates... not lie about it.Why is it so difficult to find a female who is either single or in a relationship to enjoy NSA regular sex with a married man who has no agenda simply other than for one on one regular sex, one time encounters? I have even offered to meet first, just us females or even just chat... Full partner swaps is also proving to be impossible also. Help??
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why would I want a married man? It confuses me why some people have such a hard time understanding this. Lots of women want more than just sex, they want to go out and have fun and do other things. Lots of women also recognise the risk involved.... If they continue to see a married guy there is a risk that feelings might develop and then they wil be left disappointed if they want more and why would you willingly put yourself in that position? Some women like sleepovers and some spontenaity which is harder to find with married guys. So please tell me, why would I want a married man? Besides, I have one already. Lol. ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
You will find some women that are into the blow and Go and are mainly interested in one off encounters and ONS which is good if that is what you are looking for. If you want an ongoing arrangement with a woman, it is unlikely that you will find one online. You have to go out there and attend meet & greets and go to swinger events, etc and meet people face to face. for Mrs, I am sure you have men lining up. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are already married. lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, I agree. I have been to one and intend on going to more to meet more people.We have a unique marriage, I do see your point of view and being a woman I understand the emotional factor in play. However I know there are potential candidates that would suit us and them. Thanks Meeka for your opinion... xx
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
Has your wife really given you permission to play around without her ? We have had many MANY guys use the same excuse, when it has emerged that a couple, we have been chatting with, has ended up just being the male half, and when caught out he has stated that he has his wifes permission to play without her .... its a well known trick that has caught many a genuine couple out .....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am single..... But sort of have a married part time boyfriend. :P
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
This damn topic again?? Another cheating husband...... Sorry! Slip of the tongue, we mean married man playing with permission. Not interested now and never would play with a married person without their partner THERE. You blokes give the decent single blokes a really bad name and are just laughable with your "wow is me" routines. - Posted from rhpmobile
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
* woe NOT wow - Posted from rhpmobile
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
What's happened to your profile? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' might be your fantasy....but its certainly not ours.... Love it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' This damn topic again?? Another cheating husband...... Sorry! Slip of the tongue, we mean married man playing with permission. Not interested now and never would play with a married person without their partner THERE. You blokes give the decent single blokes a really bad name and are just laughable with your "wow is me" routines. - Posted from rhpmobile There are couples here that are genuinely open, why should they be labelled as cheaters when they have their partners consent? It's unfair to judge someone based on the actions of others, it's this sort of attitude which leads men to lying about their marital status, at least if it's out in their profile you have a choice whether to contact them or head onto the next profile.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' This damn topic again?? This topic is two years old.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The forum that is, I guess the topic itself goes waaaay back. Now there's a thought: When and how did the concept of cheating come about? When we were first expected to be monogamous? When the institution of marriage came along? Or maybe when the "forsaking all others" vows were introduced? Did Neanderthals emotionally cheat? So many questions! I think it's time to lay off the whiskey for the night...
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Pink_Lotus' The forum that is, I guess the topic itself goes waaaay back. Now there's a thought: When and how did the concept of cheating come about? When we were first expected to be monogamous? When the institution of marriage came along? Or maybe when the "forsaking all others" vows were introduced? Did Neanderthals emotionally cheat? So many questions! I think it's time to lay off the whiskey for the night... Can be found, by watching the extremely accurate animated documentary The Croods Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
But, it seems, they cheated on their species as Caucasians and Asians have some Neanderthal DNA.
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
Harsh?? Seriously?? Not harsh at all........ Our opinion put simply and succinctly. We don't all have to agree with or like others opinions or, for that matter, their lifestyle choices. Judging is part of the he human condition and everybody does it, it is only the degree of judgement that varies.
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