M43
Really dumb
July 17 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
Especially as there are sites out there that cater specifically to their special needs Why put all that time and effort in for what can only turn out to be a negative outcome ? This morning I was asked to met with a guy tonight after much chitchat but I couldn't as I'm going away early tomorrow, so I politely declined but rain checked, only to be told that I must be a guy. How does that work ? You cant win
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RHP User
10 years ago
For the same reason men that don't meet any of my requirements message me, saying they're exactly what I'm looking for. They think they are so awesome that I will forget all my preferences instantly when seeing their cock shot.
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RHP User
10 years ago
are probably women pretending to be gay men:-) xQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
On your Profile , you say you're Open for Anything and you're into MMF(Bi) . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
in straight guys wanting to try sucking another mans cock and trying anal sex also so maybe they figure they can lure anyone that may be a little curious about it even if they claim they are straight.
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RHP User
10 years ago
how many have actually been swayed
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's an entire fetish among the gay boys.... Who can turn the straight guy. I am sure there are entire websites devoted to turning straight guys and a probably a whole porn genre about it too. Ahem.... So I imagine. :P Besides half of you "straight" guys don't care if it is a man or woman blowing you. We know the truth! ;-)
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
You are probably not the only guy who gets other guys checking you out and then maybe 'trying their luck' with a message. For some reason, I get a fair few guys checking out my profile too, but I made it clear in my profile that I'm definitely NOT INTERESTED. Maybe some of the guys reckon that a percentage of the listed straight guys might be bi-curious, and just try their hand. As for Meeka's cheeky comment - I know you're just pulling our leg, but if a guy came across to try and offer a blow, I'd break him in half ! (Aunty Jack style hehe). Tall
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' It's an entire fetish among the gay boys.... Who can turn the straight guy. I am sure there are entire websites devoted to turning straight guys and a probably a whole porn genre about it too. Ahem.... So I imagine. :P Besides half of you "straight" guys don't care if it is a man or woman blowing you. We know the truth! ;-) Apparently is a big turn on for gay guys to score with straight guy for the same weird logic as straight guys want to bed a lesbian who is only into women
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gazpacho
10 years ago
I just checked your profile. I think it's the suit. There's a whole "suit" fetish thing going on in the man to man sex world. I'm sure nobody intends to offend you, but being submissive to a dominant straight man in a suit... It's a thing. Oh.... And the stiffie in underwear.... Matter of fact, you're just a stylish guy. You should be prepared to get used to people hitting on you. Hugs Gazpacho Lmfao Meeks. You crack me up with your turn the straight guy gay bus porn.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The amount of "couples" who are looking for a guy which turns out to be just the guy and the missus has no idea :s is pretty high, really Meeka? There's no way I'd turn, it's when I reply saying no thank you but you know I'm straight right? And then they reply with "but I'll swallow your cum". Well that just makes it fine :p Trust me I only want a naughty lady blowing this flute ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm a gay magnet what can I say ;) flattering of course, it explains why I get chatted up on the trains so much after work :) might have to start wearing spandex, or is that going to make things worse?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Over time I've been messaged by dozens of straight guys, who in their first message stated they're really bi (especially when my profile said I had a male friend who might like to join). These days when I see a man's orientation listed as straight, I don't actually believe it until he assures me. (And them I'm disappointed lol.)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Now that is classic Gazpacho. I totally believe all those guys were straight to begin with. TOTS!
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JessicaRabbit
10 years ago
Do you realise you have MMF bi listed on your profile? That means you want to diddle another man's fiddle during a threesome... Given that i'm looking for bi guys too, it amazes me (in a good way!) how many 'straight' men aren't what their profile would have you believe. They just don't want 'weirdos' chasing them or bi-phobes so don't disclose on their profile. Another answer? Because they can! Jess xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
lmfao just quietly
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think experimental is the word we all all looking for , am I right ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
You never never know until your asked, and your profile does state MMF so whats a bi guy to do?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Over time I've been messaged by dozens of straight guys, who in their first message stated they're really bi (especially when my profile said I had a male friend who might like to join). These days when I see a man's orientation listed as straight, I don't actually believe it until he assures me. (And them I'm disappointed lol.) Due to my profile I also get messages from quite a few guys who have themselves listed as straight but tell me in their message that they are happy to engage with men, or wanting to experiment / curious about it. And as a couple people have mentioned, you have MMF (bi) listed as one of your interests which indicates that you are willing to play with another man. So if you're not, you should remove that from your list and just stick to straight MFM.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not any more does it say that! Most don't even read or none picked up on it
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RHP User
10 years ago
Anyone looking for a yummy bi guy would notice the MMF (bi)
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's etc (et cetera) not ect.......
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scubaboy69
10 years ago
So, why was it there?
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RHP User
10 years ago
to cause you such irritation? My thoughts are, its a message, don't read it if it annoys you so. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im with you.. It's wasting my time and theirs.. There was a time when I thought it polite to return their message but i got over that and now dont read anything from guys at all.. Im still cautious with some couples also, specially when some of the questions get out of whack. This includes some female profiles too. There are still a few ladies here I suspect could be males, specially when their list their attention is aimed at bi males. I know it takes all kinds, but segregating straight males just because the're not bi doesnt make sense. In a friendly world we're all equal, but when batting for the other side , theres a definate line in the sand if your not that way inclined..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Take it as a huge compliment, the guys think you are hot. I get a lot of men complaining that they only get a handful of views a month, so take it with a pinch of salt and accept you have lots of cyberspace admirers. I have had messages from some lovely (and hot) couples, even though my profile states one on one, and Im flattered.
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RHP User
10 years ago
1st world problems, I feel for ya babe!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I struggle to get women look at my profileI have had a few guys look at my profile but never message me.I might look at a guys profile that has posted in the forums, just to get an idea of who he is.but id just take it with a grain of salt if the guys do message me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Welcome VelvetNoirIt's good to see a fresh poster in the forums. I like your profile by the way very descriptive to what you are looking for nice read.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not laughing at you, more with you !! I had expirimental down on my profile for the first 8 month's and couldn't understand the male attractions, until a female friend pointed it out to me ☺ my meaning of experimental was totally different to the one taken. And yes I can still laugh about it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51'You crack me up with your turn the straight guy gay bus porn. That stuff is just hilarious!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who cares! Girls and cpls get messages and flirts every day from guys who do not fit the profile requests. We really dont think its fair to start labelling people as 'really dumb', particularly because you had bi mmf on your profile and you get a few messages from guys. - Posted from rhpmobile
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ruby_blossum
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just don't like the rude response I get back and for so e reason no assume since they say things like I'll swallow your cum that just instantly changes my mind. There's a fetish for all this??? It would explain a few advances from guys recently.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just don't like the rude response I get back and for some reason and assume since they say things like I'll swallow your cum that just instantly changes my mind. There's a fetish for all this??? It would explain a few advances from guys recently.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I notice a lot of married guys do this too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Simplelife123' I notice a lot of married guys do this too. Who cares. You talk like there is something wrong with being bi or gay, like its a perversion, and you seem to have tickets babe!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Read profiles people and message those with like interests - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
They're emailing most people in here. It's the scattergun method. Most guys do the same towards women!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Two all beef fatties, special creme sauce, let us tickle your gherkin, all on a sesame street bus.
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tamworthguy46
10 years ago
Messages like that don't really worry me, except when they come from the really old paedophile types..... either your interested or your not, at least your getting noticed, you should be flattered I recon !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'andyinoz' Not laughing at you, more with you !! I had expirimental down on my profile for the first 8 month's and couldn't understand the male attractions, until a female friend pointed it out to me ☺ my meaning of experimental was totally different to the one taken. And yes I can still laugh about it - Posted from rhpmobile I have my gloves on and would love to experiment on you
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RHP User
10 years ago
well... the biguys picked up on it... hp xobecause you're worth it...
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Missb4u
10 years ago
When I saw the title I thought finally a list that is useful....😳😀😇 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm 100% straight and even had 'Girls only please' on my profile for a while, and still got requests like that! Just ignore them!
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muncherman
10 years ago
You are not the only one inconvenienced.I am bisexual and have been for as long as I remember. About 30% of the messages I receive are from so called "STRAIGHT" guys wanting to know when I am available. Even if they fit my likings I knock them back as I don't like dishonesty. Maybe other people think you lie about your sexuality too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally we don't like some of the attitudes that still exist in 2014. They flood women and couples with messages and flirts and complain if they themselves receive a message from a guy. Grow up! So far on this tread, bi and gay guys have been referenced to 'those people' and even 'pedeophile types' - seriously appalling behaviour. If you get a message from a guy, delete and block - easy! Why come on the forums to big note yourself about it? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'muncherman' You are not the only one inconvenienced.I am bisexual and have been for as long as I remember. About 30% of the messages I receive are from so called "STRAIGHT" guys wanting to know when I am available. Even if they fit my likings I knock them back as I don't like dishonesty. Maybe other people think you lie about your sexuality too. Im getting dozens of men messaging me every day that do not fit my requests. Why is the starter of this thread so offended by it? What is the real motive of this thread I wonder?
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RHP User
10 years ago
So many of these posts end up with the poster being vilified. Anyone can ask about absolutely anything on here, that is why they are called forums, open to discussion. Keep this up, and people will stop posting questions.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Koko... that is the way all the questions go usually. Someone ask a question / wants to have a whinge......... and then you get all the fellow whingers to join in.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Tigeroo' I'm 100% straight and even had 'Girls only please' on my profile for a while, and still got requests like that! Just ignore them! Oh but Tigeroo..........didn't you recently suggest that women were rude for not replying to all messages?? Same thing! You have to reply to all of those men nicely please.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Young and married , you are spot on , I get heaps from other guys , but really bi only turns me on with a couple or tv/s as I need the femininity aspect , everyone's different , no need to get on here all homophobic , it's a sex site .Get over yourself first dude then get over it!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know, I know.. ...still a relative newbie here
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RHP User
10 years ago
What you had to say was true.. Forums are about topics, topics lead to people seeing differences. If it doesn't suit what some think, they vilify or say you're whinging.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think there is no harm in trying you can only be told no - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've told this one before about a guy on either here or a different sex site.... He sends me a message asking would I let him suck my dick while I watched porn on the couch?? "Nahh sorry dude I don't go that way :)" I replied.... He offers me money so I ask "how much?" "Name your price" he says. Now.....being the entrepreneur that I am I started thinking about my price.... Turns out I needed $10,000 to complete my pilot training.... So I sends him back my reply of "ok let's do it....$10,000" No reply; so I waited 2 weeks and sent HIM a message that simply read "are you there??? I'm horny!!" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
OP.. I just went and checked your profile.. as you will see... and.. yep.. I have been around a bit mate.. and I am confident in stating that one day.. if it in fact has not already happened.. you will get curious.. That is not a problem mate.. but, in ALL things dealing with humans.. there are indicators.. YOURS are on tiger 4 things in particular stood out like dogs balls.. and put into Context with your "Sexual" and "Fetish" interests..... Well..*grins*.. I can see why these fellas are contacting and hitting on you :) Mate.. if you EVER get a chance to go see Alan Pease do his "Body Language" seminars.. you will begin to understand the meaning of "Indicators". Not looking for ONE action.. but, grouping a number together, becomes.. instead of a little dim light or beacon... but a direct path of unwavering awareness of a persons underlying characteristics...
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RHP User
10 years ago
First who said anything about homophobic? I never at any stage related my post to that, It does say I have nothing against anything, it's just not for me, so before you start making claims like that read it properly. Second I did say I was flattered. Who said I was offended? I asked the question why I would be contacted? At least a few of you on here gave me some answers which I do appreciate and thank you. What I don't like it people who assume things about people when you don't even know them, everyone's different and what I love about people is who they are. What I don't like is I give a polite sorry not for me and I get a rude reply. I guess we all get them and we all have different opinions and that's what forums are.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sir_stir that comment just made my morning. Haha..
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madotara69
10 years ago
Stir, one way to get the golden wings. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Considering some of the requests we have gotten from supposedly straight guys (can I suck your cock while you sniff your wife's underwear for example) they do it because they think (and they are probably correct) that people on here are less than truthful about their sexuality. Shocking, isn't it....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had a really good look at your profile Mr.Simple and here are a few things that might lead a bi or gay guy to think that you may be intetested in them....You say that you're quite liberal and open about sex....that you are open to ideas....you list mmf,...ffm.bi....sex parties... group sex....anal sex giving...you don't actually say on your profile that you aren't interested in men..So perhaps this is why you are getting these messages....but I also think regardless of what you say,you will still get messages from' men....because some people believe in statistics, if I send out a hundred messages I will probably get a response from ten people xQ....PS as to the rudeness,happens to women here all the time.xQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Today my profile has been viewed by 8 guys 2 women and one couple.Never had a message from anyone since Ive been on this site.Did get 2 flirts from a 22yr old woman last week.Half the guys looking claim to be straight.Rummages through the walk in looking for a suit hahah Hmmm might don the wet suit and update the profile.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who is the 'really dumb' in this scenario? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Interesting topic. A person I know did not 'walk the talk' - acts one way in real life but his fantasy is his dream. Likes to talk about it online but in reality runs a million miles. Experimental might be the thought but not reality for some. Mx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agree with your statistics there! Some believe in quantity not quality! Getting the profile right is important because many do not read the whole picture at all
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' You are probably not the only guy who gets other guys checking you out and then maybe 'trying their luck' with a message. For some reason, I get a fair few guys checking out my profile too, but I made it clear in my profile that I'm definitely NOT INTERESTED. Maybe some of the guys reckon that a percentage of the listed straight guys might be bi-curious, and just try their hand. As for Meeka's cheeky comment - I know you're just pulling our leg, but if a guy came across to try and offer a blow, I'd break him in half ! (Aunty Jack style hehe). Tall My first welcoming message on RHP was from a tranny saying things I won't repeat here. While it may have met half my requirements, (please don't respond by asking which half) it wasn't quite was I was looking for, and I don't even have a picture up. I make it quite clear on my profile I'm only interested in women (like the 100% kind) but I get more profile views from men than women. No judgements from me, but I already have a dick, I don't need another one.
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RHP User
10 years ago
but Meh its like the wimin folk say earlier, they get barraged by trashy guys like myself trying their luck so fairs fair. I do know of one friend here who gets hundreds of flirts a day at time - then the messages that she doesn't even get time to read. Maybe its like some sort of clandestine breaking down the barriers type thing, chiseling away at my fragile hetrosexual shell, I mean years ago I used to think swinger types, Anal, gang bangs, DP etc etc were for demented sickos....... and now I is one
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Tigeroo' I'm 100% straight and even had 'Girls only please' on my profile for a while, and still got requests like that! Just ignore them! Oh but Tigeroo..........didn't you recently suggest that women were rude for not replying to all messages?? Same thing! You have to reply to all of those men nicely please. Nooooo, not quite meeka...there is a difference. The people I message, I fit the seeking criteria of. If a girl is looking for a male, 20-35, from melbourne, keeps in shape, has stamina, respect and a bit of wit, then I send a message because I believe I am that male. Nowhere on my profile does it say I am looking for, or are interesting in, or curious about, men. So, there is a difference indeed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We request couples and singles and we get a mountain of guys messaging, straight and bi, but who cares - we certainly dont. Its all part of the fun. Attitude goes a ling way - positive is always best, rather than being negative about it all lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Tigeroo, I don't know. Was that really what you said earlier? So, I have on my profile that I am on a break, please don't message me....yet I still get men emailing me. I am happy to respond to messages about forum topics or if it is someone I am friendly with via this forum but as for the rest I can completely ignore them can I? Whoop. I think I will from now on, instead of trying to be polite and reply to everyone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So the first sentence of my profile reads. DON'T WASTE YOUR MESSAGE, I AM ON A BREAK RIGHT NOW AND NOT MEETING ANY NEW PEOPLE So again I just replied to a guy who says he was just reading my profile and likes what he sees. When am I free to catch up? What the fuck is wrong with these guys? Is my profile not clear?? Anyone? Giving me the whoops. lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Aaron106'My first welcoming message on RHP was from a tranny saying things I won't repeat here. While it may have met half my requirements, (please don't respond by asking which half) Trannies aren't 'it's. Just no. Quoting 'Meeka100' So the first sentence of my profile reads. DON'T WASTE YOUR MESSAGE, I AM ON A BREAK RIGHT NOW AND NOT MEETING ANY NEW PEOPLE So again I just replied to a guy who says he was just reading my profile and likes what he sees. When am I free to catch up? It made no difference that I added to my profile I'm not available until August. I wrote back to one guy who said he figured I just meant it as a guideline. What the...?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' So the first sentence of my profile reads. DON'T WASTE YOUR MESSAGE, I AM ON A BREAK RIGHT NOW AND NOT MEETING ANY NEW PEOPLE So again I just replied to a guy who says he was just reading my profile and likes what he sees. When am I free to catch up? What the fuck is wrong with these guys? Is my profile not clear?? Anyone? Giving me the whoops. lol but there is such ambiguity, I mean, they might not be "new" to RHP - and maybe you just meant those people in the list as "new members just joined", well, they're clearly not one of them - so of course you'd want to meet them logic ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I make no judgements on people that choose to be (or not) that way. I am genuinely sorry if saying "it" offends you, but I don't know whether to refer to them as being male or female or........something else (I'm confused). I was just being sarcastic anyway.
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